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Question - (4 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, *omance_boy18 writes:

hey everyone, im just here to tell how my life is and what i should do. i have low self esteem and i dont really believe in myself sometimes, ive been sexually abused when i was younger by 2 of my friends and i never told anyone, i never had any real friends and the kids i hungout with in school werent really friends, i was bullied in elementary school, i dont cut myself, i dont want to kill myself, and sometimes i cry at night wondering why all this is happening to me. it feels like a curse and its not over. all i want is a true friend, someone to listen and know the truth. i want to know, do you think i need help?

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A male reader, romance_boy18 Canada +, writes (12 June 2009):

romance_boy18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

romance_boy18 agony auntthank you for your answers. i vary much appreciate your help. this site will help alot plus i have a good idea why all of it happened to me... i read a book called the secret, and i found out why they happened. thank you again everyone

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

Stay strong man! I know you have had a hard life, but I hope you can stay strong. Keep doing the right thing and being a good person, and it will turn around for you man.

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A female reader, Dark_Storm United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2009):

Dark_Storm agony aunti think that maybe being able to talk confidently to someone about your past influences might aid your confidence in not only dealing with them but also current influences...it might alo help u gain confidence and begin to relate to people again.

you shuld never be ashamed or dishearteed by your life experiences they shape who you are and who you will become.

i had a similar thing happen myself and i did end up speaking to someone, and honistly ive never felt better, im now happily married with two kids and friends i couldnt replace...where as before i was in the same situation where i was confused annd couldnt see why it was all happening to me.

feel better :)

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntaw hun.

that's a real touching story.

we people on here are here to help people like you.

you've just gone through a bad patch and clearly shows you've not had true friends.

maybe that's why you have lack of confidence in yourself and low self esteem.

anyways if you do ever need to talk pop me a message :)

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