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writes:Im 17 years of age, 18 in Decemeber and never had a girlfriend, not even kissed a girl. My problem started at around the end of Year 10 in high school, I started to like this girl in the year below me. I started to talk to her on MSN/Myspace etc and she was just so perfect, the girl I would dream about every night would be her. We hardly ever spoke in real life, hence why I didn't ask her on a date and that, we probably speak because we were both kind of shy and stuff and didn't know what to say to each other. Even though we didn't speak much in real life my feelings for her were getting bigger by the day, I couldn't stop thinking about her. I finally got it in my head that I should stop thinking about her because in reality we wasn't going to happen etc. Everytime I thought I was stopping to like her something else happened to make me think why I am doing this! One example was she asked for my number, I just couldn't get it in my head to stop liking her, she regularly used to say 'love you' and it felt strange.Here I am today, nearly 3 years on and still liking her and I can do nothing about it. Your probably thinking what the heck has this got to do with me not having a girlfriend?Well, I can't get rid of these strong feelings for her and just can't stop liking her, I couldn't imagine myself liking another girl. Like in college, a really fit girl would walk past me and friends and my friends would say like "So you wouldn't tap that?", I'm like noo, and its all because of these stupid pointless crappy feelings for her.Help?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): Dudes, I never see her any more tho, I haven't seen properly since I left school which was about 1 year ago, but I still like her..
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Just do it, its what i did in this exact situation pretty much, yeah i looked like a fool while doing it because i was so nervous the whole time, but she thought it was sort of cute so she didn't get turned off by it.
Just do it when you can get time alone with her and everything should go fine, i didn't have that much luck and had to do it in front of 3/4 of her friends which made me even more uncomfortable. Trust me you need the experience and if you don't do it you will end up regretting it, because at least you tried even if you get rejected and their will always be others.
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