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writes:I've known him for like an year now and we have been talking a couple of times and i found out that we've got similar tastes and everything. He's nice and the kind of guy i would love to date but I've heard that the best way to start of the relationship is to get the guy to sleep with you.. so how can i do that (except taking off my clothes ar asking him straightly xd ) ? But i dont think i will want to like a having a strong relationship or whatever with him ... i just would like to sleep with him and see what comes up really ... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): Who told you sleeping with a guy was the best way to start a relationship???? Whoever that was they were probably having a joke with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): If you want a relationship (as opposed to a one-night stand), then sex is a really terrible way to start.
With due respect to Fiona, some men actually do have a conscience. Some men will actually worry about whether "just sex" will mess you up; some men actually want to have feelings for the person they shag. Hell, some men even have enough of a conscience to be unable to perform if the circumstances aren't right.
If you want 'just sex', fine -- make it clear to him up front that it's a one-time, you want an itch scratched thing, and you're not a starry-eyed virgin with illusions that a roll in the hay will lead to marriage.
Otherwise, why not try the conventional approach -- date him for a while and see where it goes?
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Errr guys don't need much encouragement, it's normally guys who wonder how to get girls to sleep with them haha. You are not going to get a guy who says it's too soon, so whatever you do, it will work.
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