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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I just recently been reunited. He was in basic training and has just recently finished in which I moved across the country to be with him. Since we've been back together our sex life sucks. I'm not sure whats wrong but I know he masturbates almost every night before coming up to bed with me. Since being back with each other we've had sex once and we've been back together over a month now. I feel like there is something wrong with me that I am not fulfilling what he needs or wants. I would like any suggestions or help getting my boyfriend to pay attention to me again instead of his hand. Any help would be great.
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reader, happytobe  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Maybe in basic training he became so accustomed to that it's like a habit. Really and this may not be very helpful and kind of obvious, but maybe you should just talk to him. Or even you could go out and by some sexy lingerie, suit up and set a sexy atmosphere. He will love this gesture, ask him if there are any new sex positions or role palying he'd like to try. Be adventurous. And good luck!
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