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*iljohn2345
writes:i need help, i have been with my girlfriend for around three years now and she still wont let me see her body, she wont take her top off when we have sex and she wont even get changed around me.i have tryed soo many times to tell her she has a nice body and once before i have got her to allow me to kiss from her neck to her stomache but since that she wont. she also wont let me put my hand on her stomache when we are going to sleep, she keeps saying shes fat and shes got a horrable body. please help me i dont know what else i can do Reply to this Question
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reader, liljohn2345 +, writes (25 July 2009):
liljohn2345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim not feeling bad as such and i wouldnt say angry or anything but it hurts. at the current oment i feel as though there is something going on that she dosent want me to know about. she is coming to mine tommorrow for a few nights so any more advice before she gets here would be in thanks, also thanks to those who have aready answered me,
i feel like there is no were else i can turn for help anymore i have tryed in past to talk to her and ill tr again tommorrow night.
thanks again people
liljohn
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): give her a complement every so often. ask her why she feels like she has a horrible body and tell her that no matter what you will always love her.
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 i was like this when i first got together with my boyfriend, then one night we were going to bed and i got changed away from him and he got really upset. he told me he feels like i don't trust him, and it makes him upset that i don't feel comfortable around him. since that night i grew more and more comfortable with him and now its not a problem at all. have you told her how you feel about it? girls always have complexes about our bodies, there will always be at least one thing we feel self conscious about, but 3 years seems like a long time..i can imagine you must be feeling pretty bad about it. good luck
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