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writes:basically, i have been involved with this girl for 2 years we've dated twice and the first time other people put an end to it and then we got together again about 5 months ago, and about 2 weeks ago she broke up with me because i lied to her but not to hurt her to protect her, everyone i've spoken to seem to think its not a big deal, but now she's thrown it all away, she used to tell me how much she loved me and she wanted us to get engaged and basically she planned her whole future around me. it was perfect, she became part of the family and everything. but now nothing, doesn't want to speak to me or anything, even though last week she said to me we should meet up for her birthday on the 1st of august, which we had planned for ages, but now doesn't want that. basically i want her back as have loved her for 2 years now, any tips on this?also the thing is the first time we got together she got together with my best mate to get to know me (so she used him) and then for the past two years they've hated each other and now they've started talking and meeting and like she says its nothing to do with me but like apparently she still loves me, but the guy feels that i stole her away from him when she was the one who chose to and now he's told her that i made them break up and everything, when he was the one who cheated on her and ended it with her. i'm majorly confused and would like some advice...i'm losing sleep and everything over this and just would like some help and guidance,cheers,
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reader, alltheanswers  +, writes (24 July 2009):
wait... so you went out with ur mates ex gf after they broke up cause he cheated on her?
My friends and i used to have a ball that we would play with at school. And we threw it around between us and we all had fun with it. But it got dirty being used so much between everyone. So when I wanted to play ball at home, i decided to get a new ball that none of my friends played with and I kept it at home. Me and my ball lived happily ever after.
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