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30-35,
*1z
writes:Hey there, Im in sort of a bind, but I'll get to the point. Me and a girl, who I will call "Jen", dated for almost a year. We broke up several months ago, although we still talk a every once in a while through text messaging. Lately, she has been texting me more, I think because more girls are hanging around me. Ive been told "Jen" still has feelings for me. There have been several chances I've had with "other" girls to take relationships to another level, if you know what I mean. But still being a virgin, I want it to be with the girl who I love more than anyone else. I believe its something really special. And wouldnt you know it, I love "Jen" and want her to be the one. Might I add, she is also still a virgin. Lately, me being a guy, theres just those strong emotional feelings about sex, and im afraid its gonna happen soon with the wrong girl. I want "Jen" to know that I still love her, but I want to know if she still feels the same way about me, you know, like if she wants to try to make our relationship work. Should I ask her about this and tell her how I feel? And that Im willing to wait for her? Or how should I go about doing this? Please Please help a lost teen...
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reader, notuh! +, writes (31 July 2009):
Here's advise from a girl,
I think you should talk to her face to face. Do NOT text her, email her, or call her. She will think it is lame and she will not think you are man enough to ask her face to face. Just go up to her in school and tell her you need to talk to her. Ask her if she wants to meet somewhere after school, like a park. (But dont go anywhere that seems like a date, like going out to dinner)When you are ready, take her hands, stare into her eyes, and tell her how you feel. Dont tell her you love her unless you really mean it. You will know when you love her, and when you do tell her, it will be a lot more meaningful.
Hope all works out for you, hun
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reader, 01z +, writes (25 July 2009):
01z is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks jamez. when it comes down to it I feel like I need to have the balls to just go ahead and tell her. I would also like some input from some women too...
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reader, Jamez  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 hey man, either get her alone and tell her you love her face to face or wright a real nice hand written letter. just dont do it using and electronic medium because girls just hate that and its so cheap.
there's no point waiting so just dive in and hopefully you wont wont to come up for air!
james
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