Should I try to let him know how I feel?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi, i'm a gay student who has not, as of yet, "come out". I've been interested in loads of guys from school for a couple of years now. However, now that i've left school and am going to uni in September, i have really felt a deep affection for one in particular. I can't confirm he's gay, he's a "tough guy" i suppose, but then again the only sign of him being straight is his facebook preference! I suppose what i'm asking is, should i try to let him know how i feel or should we just be friends. in the 7 years i've known him, we hardly ever spoke, but now we chat regularly and over the last year at school, there have been ever-so-subtle signs of him being interested in me e.g. quick glances. to make it harder, i only ever chat to him on msn or facebook chat, and he's going to a different uni than me! all advice welcome

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