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I need to find my purpose. What should I do?

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Question - (24 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2009)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I know i am going to sound delusional, but ever since i was little i have felt like i've got something special, like i was destined to succeed. And I really feel frustrated as i don't know what this is yet!

I attained straight A's at school, even though i didn't turn up to a lot of classes and didn't try very hard. But i hated the education system. I just feel like i need to break free from my life and find myself.

I don't even know how to write in words the strange mixture of emotions i am feeling. Can anyone help?

I need a purpose, i want a soulmate, i desire to experience crazy things. Am i making any sense?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

I understand what you mean, and for a point in my life I thought the correct path was that of straight A's and a well paying job. I wanted a soul mate as well. I also thought the education system sucked. So basically I was just like you...I felt destined for greatness.

On the other hand I felt wanting more out of life and I decided that this was not everything life had to offer me. I was right. I took chances and did things that were spontaneous. I liked somethings and I hated others...but I never regretted anything I did. I was able to find something I LOVED doing, and a special someone even though it didn't last long. But I knew how it felt, so I intend to find it again. You are in control of your life, so make it happen.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

I think we all feel this way. I think alot of people have a lot to offer and are not put in situations or given opportunities to show there abilities and left feeling alot like you do. The opposit of that is also true. Asshole dipshits who only care about there own happiness are put in situations and given opportunities that they neither deserve or care about. I think as long as you be a morally good person that life will be good to you even if its not in the ways you want it to be.

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