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Thinking about boyfriend's bestfriend while masterbating.

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Question - (24 July 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it really ok if I masturbate while thinking about my boyfriends best friend?? I kinda feel bad about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

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Thank you all for posting so quickly. I think you're all right... I just needed to hear it. So I guess I will continue to enjoy myself =)

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (24 July 2009):

There's no problem here! Enjoy yourself, and let you mind play whatever erotic script turns your crank! Your fantasys are going to morph over time and involve different players! These are your private films to play in your head!

There is ZERO reason to feel bad about this! Enjoy yourself!

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (24 July 2009):

Libra1963 agony auntIs there a problem in your relationship? Why are you not thinking of your boyfriend.

Maybe something is lacking in your sexual relationship. Maybe try doing something different with him in a different setting.

I feel when your mind starts wondering your heart does too.

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A male reader, Burns231 United States +, writes (24 July 2009):

What happens in your mind is your business. As cgrlygo said - dont call his name out at the wrong time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

why should you feel bad. As women we are taught to be descrite.. and blah blah blah blah... who should you masterbate too?? someone ugly? its only fantasy.. not reality and unless you call out his name at the wrong time... i think your good to go..

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A male reader, JSBach United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2009):

Whatever goes on inside your head is your own business. Do you think that your boyfriend thinks only of you when he masturbates? Most of us have pretty wild fantasies when we masturbate, but you shouldn't tell your boyfriend about it. I know honesty is the best policy most of the time, but this will only hurt him.

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A female reader, tnasty United States +, writes (24 July 2009):

its just a fantasy men do it all the time why cant we go for it just dont do the best friend lol

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