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writes:im in need of a little help here. a little background for you, i dated this girl for nearly 4 years. she left me about two months ago to see other people and if we were meant to be together she says we will find our way back to each other. i love this girl and not having her in my life hurts so much. the question is what can i do to speed the process up and get her back. i dont have time to waste on other girls this one was the one for me. is there any thing i can do at all or am i shit out of luck on this one? also because she left me to see other people, aka go have sex with other men, should i just give up and let her go all together? i dont think any one in this world knows how much i miss her and how much i love her and how much i want her back in my life please some one help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): Forget about her. Go meet other women. SHE IS SCREWING OTHER MEN RIGHT NOW. And if she ever does get back with you, she'll expect you to have zero problem with that. Will you really not be bothered by that?
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (24 July 2009):
If you're hoping to win your ex back the first thing you should do is cut back all contact with her. Give her space. She sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.
She knows how you feel about her. If she felt the same why would she want to see others? She has decided to change her life. I know how hard it must be for you but you have to move forward with yours. Maybe down the road she'll realize she deserved a good guy like you and find her way back into your life. But you shouldn't put your life on hold hoping this may happen. You deserve someone who loves you the way you might love them. Good luck!
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reader, Nikki424  +, writes (24 July 2009):
Well, if this girl cared for you like you care for her, why would she want to go off with other men, it is very sad to hear that your upset, but you sound like a great guy, and you dont deserve to be treated like that, this girl obviously knows how much you love her and for her to hurt you in this way is wrong, did she even give you a reason why you split? What i would advise is that you sit her down and ask her all the questions you want answers to, ask her why she wants to be with other men, ask her if the 4 years you were together meant anythin, and also tell her to put herself in your shoes, ask her how she would feel if you left her to sleep around? Also if you did get back together would you really feel comfortable knowing she has slept with other men? I hope this helps, just keep your head up, you deserve a girl that respects you and your feelings.
Nikki
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