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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 Young lady,
As I have stated before(and as an adult website owner) that Pornagraphy in and of itself is neither benevolent or malevolent. It is how the consumer uses it that determines for them whether it is one or the other. Actually my membership has risen astronomically in the past few months with women joining my sites.
SO PORN ON IF YOU LIKE IT!
Nothing wrong with it at all.
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reader, shadowre  +, writes (4 August 2009):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question lol omg. animal farm!! what the hell you watching that for lol. its brill though
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reader, shadowre +, writes (4 August 2009):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnimal Farm!!?!! i will thanks. Its not people doing animals now is it? and again thank you every1 for your helpful advice
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reader, DLover  +, writes (3 August 2009):
No, it's not wrong for woman to watch porn, unless their partner strongly disagrees. It brings some new ideas, sometimes, even though a good part of it is bullshit.
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reader, shadowre +, writes (3 August 2009):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk omg at crackheadsgonewild, a porn collection!! Thats a bit much. Especially if your friends too have a collection. WTF
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): I assure you uh.. -crackheadsgonewild- I am not lyeing nor embarrassed. I think that sexual acts should be kept between two people. But thanks for generalizing every single person alive to the same exact brain proccess.
~Sy.
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reader, shadowre +, writes (3 August 2009):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYe i agree with you. You need porn to 'get off'. And ye all make good points! I actually recently found out two of my girl cousins watch porn and they were like me! Afraid to tell people incase they think little of them
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reader, crackheadsgonewild +, writes (3 August 2009):
Awwwww C'mon! You know the answer to this already. Everyone watches porn. I've been watching it since I was 12 (I'm 15 now). Anyone who tells you they don't watch it is either lying to you, or they would like to watch it but are too embarrassed. I have a porn collection. All my friends in school have porn collections. And I'm pretty sure my sister has one too, regardless if she admits it. Girls need to get off and they need porn to do it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): I only could consider it wrong if my partner truly hated it or disagreed with it. and if we all remember "SEX" used to be considered "dirty" I also recall that "ladies" never were supposed to enjoy sex that was only for the men to enjoy.
My point is its a matter of perspective. I don't feel its wrong for the most part. Do I want to watch a Snuff film .. no, why? because that promotes violence not two adults or many enjoying them selves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): "But if its normal to watch porn, why does every1 say its dirty and derogetory to women?"
Some porn is derogatory to women and some is not. It depends on what type of porn you watch. Some porn that my wife and I watch is not much different than what we do ourselves.
Everyone does not say that all porn is derogatory to women. Those who say it either say it for their own moral reasons or because they have their own agenda against it. I would bet that a lot of those who are so against it have never even watched it themselves.
Most women who are so against it are because it makes them feel inadequate or unattractive. Those who just don't like it are like that because of moral reasons or they just don't see any reason to watch it. There are both men and women who both watch pron and those who are against it and those who have no opinion, but just don't watch it themselves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): I still say it's dergatory, yet I told you it's common. I don't like it one but. There are those who it is and those who say it's not.
~Sy.
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reader, shadowre +, writes (2 August 2009):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, ye do make alot of sense. But if its normal to watch porn, why does every1 say its dirty and derogetory to women? I it there choice, Why so girls treat it like a taboo subject?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): Nothing wrong with that. Me and all my girlfriends watch a lot of porn and masturbate quite often. It's all normal. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): no its not and whoever says it is are talking rubbish.if men are very sexual,watch porn etc why not women?
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reader, shyree_6 +, writes (1 August 2009):
I'm just gonna come straight out with this.......I'm only 12 and I watch porn, well me and my friend watch porn when my parents are out at dinnernor a party...
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reader, shadowre +, writes (26 July 2009):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks lads. glad to see someone agrees with me for once lol
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (24 July 2009):
No problem at all! 100% normal to view erotic material! Enjoy yourself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): most people are not comfortable with women being very sexual... me on the other hand.. i only leave out barnyard animals and all illegal stuff... if it feels good...I check it out. being in touch with who you are makes you a very secure young lady.
good for you
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reader, Mugzie69 +, writes (24 July 2009):
 Wrong? This is a part of life. But I'm intrigued by what you say, namely--that everyone should be doing it...which implies that there may be something out of whack if they're not looking at it. Is that where you're at? Feel free to private message me on this if you want...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): "right" and "wrong" are variable to each invidual's point of veiw. As is "normal."
However, it is quite common for women to look at porn. Why would it be ok for men but not women?
~Sy.
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