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*hadowre
writes:Ok, I have a little problem. I'm afraid to go out with guys. I dont really know why. Well I do think that guys use us!! For sex and that we mean nothing at all. Just a time filler. I guess I want to know, is it true? Because I'm tired of being afraid to date a person. People keep calling me a lesbian, and well...it does get annoying you know. Please help, Thanks.
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reader, shadowre +, writes (26 July 2009):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question well burns231, a do agree with you on the whole fact that girls do use boys aswell! everyone makes sense i suppose. i'll see what i can do lol. thanks
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reader, Burns231  +, writes (24 July 2009):
To be fair women use men too. Its true some men use women for sex while women (in all of my experiences) use men for money. But you cant let the few bad apples ruin everyone else. Just because some guys use women for that does not mean that all of them do. Just take it slow with whatever guy your interested in and if he is only looking for sex then he will just move on and find someone else becuase its taking "too long".
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): It depends on who you date. Some guys do use you just for sex. Others are deeply in love and can't bear to be without that girl but also want sex. Others still will wait for marriage before having sex and can only get married if they are in love. I know men from all three groups and I know men that have switched from belonging to one group to another after a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): If you won't sleep with any guy for at least a few months into the relationship, then you have very little chance of getting played for easy sex. THAT'S ALL IT TAKES! There's NOTHING more to it! I guarantee you that you already have all the common sense it will take to avoid being played 99% of the time. The only trick is that you have to apply it on the hot guys who sound convincing, not just the boring ugly guys.
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