Why does he want to hang out with me when he has a wife, a kid, and another on the way?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey everyone. i am a 17 year old girl and im having an issue. I like this guy named Tony who is 26 years old and he used to work as a security guard for my school. When he was working for my school i used to skip class andhang out with him and we would always talk all the time. we became really good friends. Last year he quit working at my school when i was 16 but we still kept in touch. He plays for a county football team and calls me every week to watch him play. of course i go because hes one of my good friends. when i show up he comes over to the sidelines and gives me a hug and a kiss. From day one of him playing on the team i have been there to cheer him on and haven't seen anyone else there for him like a girlfriend until last week. He came over to the sidelines and gave me a hug and a kiss and then some girl walked up to him and said "hey baby" it caught me off guard and he gave her a kiss. she sat right next to me and was talking to some other guy and i overheard her say "yeah im Tony's wife and we got one on the way". i was stunned. After the game i pulled Tony off to the side and he said "Thanks for showing up hun" and gave me a kiss. I just came right out and asked him who that girl was and he said "shes my wife" i said and is she pregnant and he said "yeah and we have a 2 year old daughter together to"... he walked away and i just left the game. He continuosly calls me and asks me to hang out. but im thinking why does he always ask me to hang out withhim and give me hugs and kissed but he has a wife. i am so confused but i really like him but im still in shock of what isaw and heard. so where does that leave me?

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