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writes:I have a new question . My wife has had sex with another guy while we are married. And thats ok with me because i have medical problems that prevent me from getting an erection .AND we both are in agreement about this arrangement so dont preach to me if you have a hangup about this. What i need to know is now that this guy has been havin sex with her he has started to be verbally abusive to her and its the fact that she just cant stop going there because she takes care of his daughter. I want to say something to him but my wife is afraid that he will tell her that he no longer needs her to care for his daughter. I want to go to his house and kick the shit out of him. She has told me not to say anything to him and it really bugs me that i cant stand up for my wifes feelings. HELP??????
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reader, alwaysreadyandwilling  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 Take my advise. Forget money. She can get her pleasure if she registers on a swingers site as a single woman seeking men or couples. They can book a hotel in hyde,have a one off,then she wont get this sort of abuse. You give your woman to him,and this is what he does? I would kick his teeth in. Forget money.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): Your instincts are right on the money -- regardless of whether it jeopardizes a bit of income. You need to stand up for your wife. Do what you need to do and let the chips fall where they may.
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (24 July 2009):
 I assume this guy is paying her for keeping his child. If she is working for this man then she needs to get another job. It would be the same on any job you work at, abuse is abuse.
Oh yeah, she should also find someone else to sleep with, not her boss.
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 you need to have a talk to her about this, its not ok! Your trying to do something for her so she can have a fulfilling sex life (which is pretty incredible) this is never what you intended.. how is your wife connected to his daughter? i think the best thing for her to do is to stop seeing him altogether, he can find someone else so take care of her. I have been verbally and emotionally abused and the effects are huge, she probably doesn't even realize. you need to step in here, you cant let it continue. tell your wife if she doesn't do something about it you will. good luck
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