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female
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36-40,
*aslewis
writes:Ok so i recently met a guy that was friend with one of my bestfriends boyfriend and we hit it off from the start next thing you know we are making out. Then my girlfriend and i left that night. So he messaged me on facebook after we became friends saying he wants to connect with me again. We live in the same state and He just got a job (relocating) in Houston and he will be leaving soon. So we got together at his place this past tuesday. We had good conversation and i really like what i saw. So then we started making out and fondling each other and we were going to go all the way. And i said to him no i would rather not because of standards i have set for myself and i would rather not have a one night stand type deal...So we just kept kissing and flirting with each other til i left. So then the next day i messaged him on facebook saying i had a good time, and i hope to see you again soon and he didnt reply til like late at night saying he was busy packing and and how was my day.. The message wasnt as friendly as before i replied to him and he never replied back.....then i called, he didnt return my call.So ever since then he has been acting weird, i would message him and he wouldnt message back. I dont know what i did wrong .Hes in Houston at the moment for his job, but not permanently, he will be back this sunday.... Am i looking into it too far..Your advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, jj. +, writes (24 July 2009):
let him go ..sometimes the best medicene is to let them go and if they really want you the person ..he will come back,if not your better with out him ...learn from the
message he gave up...he only wants lust not love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): he's not worth your time. enough said
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reader, Nikki424  +, writes (24 July 2009):
Hi, well honestly you are going to get some men out there that are only after one thing and if they dont get what they want then they act like a little child and become different and stubborn. It may be hard to do but what i would suggest is that you stop messaging him and stop calling him, and if he gets in touch with you then you know that he is interested, but if you dont then you know you cant waste your time on someone like that, you deserve better then to be treated that way. So just give him a taste of his own medicine and see if he comes chasing after you because your showing that your not interested, the thing is with men is that they like a chase, if you act like your not bothered then it will get to him and he will come running back. But well done for sticking to your morals, you could of gone all the way with him, and he treats you like this still so at least you havnt given him anythin, he just probably didnt like being rejected. But dont get yourself down about it, just try leave it and see if he comes to you.Nikki.
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