A
female
age
30-35,
*elples
writes:My boyfriend visited me during my college classes. he Stays home as i go to class. i didn't want him to be bored so i gave him access to my computer. my curiosity gets the best of me, so i checked the history. i saw he went to this social network, on two pages of a girls i don't like-- i think good reasons. it upset me gravely but i didn't fight him about it. i talked to him about it. one of the girls pages he visited use to like him at the time his former girlfriend broke up with him. i was his best friend at the time. he didn't give her the chance. this girl is attractive and she usually gets all the guys she wants. he was the first to reject. she never really left him alone. one time she said she liked many guys at the same time, including him! anyways we went out, she was still after him, but he told me he stopped talking to her. i asked him why did he visit her page and he said it was2only read a conversation she was having with one of his friends. i believe him because we don't lie2each other. he has told me the truth before where it hurts. in my heart i know he's telling the truth yet it still bugs me.. help? this other girl has had a crush on him since we were just best friends. she even kissed him once out of no where! she goes to the same college as me. we see each other often and she never says hi even when i smiled. some time this week she talked to me just to ask about my boyfriend and his whereabouts. she asked where i live to visit him. i told her i didn't know. i asked him that day if he wanted to see her, he said not really. so when i asked him why was he on her page, he said she asked "why didn't you tell me you were in town?! we could have hanged out!" she had no intentions of bringing me along. his response "oh you didn't ask. i'm leaving tomorrow though." i would have liked if he said i'm here to be with my girlfriend. but his response didn't bother me as much as her lack of respect for us. what do i do with this girl?
View related questions:
best friend, broke up, crush Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, gummybear1011 +, writes (24 July 2009):
Its hard when you go to the same college, in my case I had a few classes with the girl. If you have any qualms about it. If you want to say something to her do it asap don't deliberate about it. You may be weeks down the road and feeling like " ugh she still pisses me off" nip it in the bud. Be polite and if you don't like each other you don't have to wave and say hi to her with a smile. This is a person who obviously has no regard for your relationship and your boyfriend should respect that you do not like her. Some girls like that can't stand the thought of a guy not being attracted to them and will do anything to assert their "attractiveness" you know you have a good thing with your boyfriend that is all that matters, let her stew in her whatever you want to call it.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): Dump them both and soon. good luck study hard ad be a great success.
Angela UK
...............................
|
