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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get passed this without forgetting him altogether?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have found myself in an odd situation and I don't know how it happened. So, to begin, I just graduated high school about 2 weeks ago. At the beginning of my senior year I met a male teacher who was very kind and helpful to me. Now, I know at this point you're thinking,... (295 words)

Please help! Our fights are taking a toll on my self-esteem & self worth.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need as much feedback as possible. I've seen on here many times guys posting questions on how to get over their g/f's sexual past. I'm a female and I've been with my daughter's father for 4 yrs. In the beginning of our relationship I told him way too much, which later on... (381 words)

He's broken up with me, but I don't want us to be over.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I got in a bad fight it ended physically by my older brother going after him and beating him up in front of his friends. He pressed charges and said he never wants to see me again and has no feelings for me. He came over two days later and took movies but left... (208 words)

Meeting this guy just reminded me of how good I could feel. I really miss feeling loved.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a month. He is depressed a lot and isn't at all affectionate (sp?), but I love being all cuddly and kissy. Sometimes I will ask him to kiss me and he says "no" or he "feels like i'm forcing him to". Also, he hates his job ... (200 words)

Younger man vs. older man, what shall I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man 10 years younger than me. Now a man that is 40, 5 years older than me wants to date me. He is a very reputable and kind person but cannot offer me much, as he is getting out of a divorce now and is very hurt by it. The younger guy gives me time and ... (112 words)

Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?... (33 words)

Should I believe him when he tells me he's not dating his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend use to be in a relationship with this girl from him home country. She talks to him all the time, even when i tell him it bothers me that they still talk. He told me before he use to be in love with this girl, and that they did EVERYTHING together. I have been aski... (157 words)

What do I get my French Teacher for a year end present?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a teenager in my last year at high school. In the first three years for french i had this amazing french teacher who really inspired me into learning. She was probably my fave teacher as she always let me off if i didn't have my homework or missed deadlines etc.I was prob... (212 words)

Is it normal to be THIS jealous?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with the man of my dreams!! He does have a past for watching porn, and we have discussed it and he is trying his best to stop, and i'm so very proud of the efforts he has made to stop. I went though the porn problem with my ex, as he was truly addicted and when he broke up ... (321 words)

My teacher and I got on well until he overheard my conversation with a friend! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 16 and here is my situation. I used to have a crush on my teacher like all teenagers, and i got over him over time :) Me and my teacher used to get along really well and he always used to say hi in the corridors and always make eye contact with a smile. But the other d... (168 words)

I'm Heartbroken..I'm not pregnant and I want that baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, first of all, I realize that what I am saying will not be taken so well by a lot of people. What I'm saying is just my honest emotions, so I can't really control how I feel, instead of writing me hate mail, please just help, I really need it. First of all, I'm 20, I r... (436 words)

Is he a player or is he just not the guy for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, well i met this guy a while ago and we've just started going out,he's 18 and im 13 and we live quite far apart from each other,he treats me really well and everything, but sometimes he tells me that girls at his college come on to him sit on his lap n kiss n that. A... (102 words)

I want to meet an online friend who lives in Italy... should I make him come to the UK first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have met a man on line - we've been talking since February and would like to meet. He is in Rome, Italy and I am in Hertfordshire, UK. We've spoken over the phone and I've checked him out (I wasn't meaning to be devious but I had to do it for safety reasons I felt ..) ... (370 words)

How long is too long when it comes to a break in the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend bin on a brake for the past 5 month. The reason why we on a brake is because of my mood swings. I be depress a lot. And we be fighting a lot. Now I got better and changed. And he likes the new me. Wen we were together I felt like he dint appreciate me ... (172 words)

Does he want to be with me, even though he said he doesn't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age - I met my ex-boy friend 12 years ago when he was going through his first divorce and so was I. He had three young children with custody of them and I had three also. We went out a few times and then went our separate ways. When we stop seeing each other he met someone and ... (563 words)

Still in love with my ex after eleven years of marriage!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for eleven years but i cannot stop thinking of my ex. i love the man i am married to, but at times he makes me think so much of my ex. i speak with my ex and i found out he is still dying to have me and the unfortunate thing is that since we broke up, he has ... (108 words)

Will my Internet 'boyfriend' change his mind once we meet in person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please comments, advise, help. What should I do? I have been talking to this guy online for about 3 months, we say we like each other and that we are deeply in love. We wanted to meet and we had set up to meet in December but I was able to get the money before so we have bee... (231 words)

My boyfriend thinks badly of me... how do I make things right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have a good relationship till recently. theres a few things from my past that bother him. he feels as though im a slut. there were only two guys i had done things with, i never slept with anyone until him. i love him so much but i wish he could get over my ... (92 words)

What's a good way to talk to her and what should I say to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So tomorrow I'm going to try to talk to the girl of my dreams... the only problem is I don't know what to say. Also she kinda dosn't like me because I put alot of pressure on her eariler in the year and she really didn't like that. However I havn't talked to her in a while an... (116 words)

I was stood up in my first date... how should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Guys. I generally don't bother myself with boys but yesterday this boy aked me to the cinema and I said i'd go. So, missing my ballet lesson and a rounders tournement, showed up no more than 3 minutes late. He didn't turn up. I don't know what to say, because I'm seei... (202 words)

I found pictures of my boyfriend and his ex on his phone... can I believe nothing has happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, i found pictures of my boyfriend and his ex gf on his phone and messages from her. he has a son to her so i understand they need contact with eachother. he says nothing has happened between them but i dont know what to believe, can you help me??... (50 words)

I can't take it anymore, my ex won't stop calling and it's messing with my head!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I took everyone's advice on here and stopped calling my EX. He moved across country and didn't want to be with me--Fine. I'm learning to accept it. Now comes the fun part---he won't stop calling me. He called me on Saturday, twice on Sunday, Monday, emailed me on Tu... (250 words)

To trust or not to trust..... when someone lies to you is it always a red flag or can it be a 1 time genuine mistake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright.... this post is simular to another one I have.... but I need to know how to go about regaining trust. I am in a relationship with a wonderful man but lately we hit a bumb and I can't seem to get over it. Here is the backstory.... Not long ago I found out he was c... (1352 words)

What could this "bloating" in my lower left abdomen means?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (M) - dear cupid i seem to have a problem, my lower right abdomen seems to have less fat and be in then my left lower abdomen, which looks kinda bloated. i would like to know what causes this? also its not hernia please help ... (51 words)

I feel trapped where I live but I don't want to leave my boyfriend who I love... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately I've been feeling as though I made the wrong decision as to what diretion to take with my life. I've been dating my boyfriend for over three years, and its because I love him very much that I chose to stay close to home. We both moved about 30 minutes away from home to ... (334 words)

My future mother-in-law sent 60 invitations and made arrangements for a formal dinner for the wedding but we have no money!??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am eighteen, have no parents and share a flat with two other girls. I am getting married at the end of the year to an only son whose parents, naturally worship him. His mother thinks I am going to turn him against her, which is the last thing I want to do as I know what it is ... (240 words)

Is it possible for a 22 y/o 6'3" gorgeous Italian boy to be interested in a 38 y/o cauc. guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a bi-sexual guy. I am 38 y/o today. I met a 22 y/o guy several month's ago. He was a student of mine, he no longer is but he has kept in-touch with me. Even more recently, we seem to be spending a fair amount of time together and we are constantly text messaging each other ... (279 words)

Should I send this email to my boyfriends friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I recently found out that my 27 year old boyfriend's (J) 45 year old female friend (R) occasionally records erotic videos of herself and posts them up on the internet. Not only that, but my boyfriend was involved in recording some of them (just recording, not ... (308 words)

Help!! What would you do? I am REALLY confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused right now, basically i started going out with my boyfriend when i was 14 and for the first 3 years our relationship was amazing, really really good, we did everything together and we were so perfect and over the last year things have started to go wrong, j... (552 words)

Am I reacting to my past in my current relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been sexually molested a lot by an uncle from the age of 9-11 (can't really remember how old I was, but it was at least twice a month for about a period of 2-3 years. At the time when it first happened, I was very shocked and scared and didn't tell anyone, and then it ... (301 words)

Do straight men enjoy watching other men masturbate? Is that right?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1385 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend just told me that he liked to watch other men masturbate, is that right? I've caught him watching porn on TV with just a man masturbating..do straight men enjoy this?... (32 words)

Concerned about first time anal sex with girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend wants me to give her anal sex and I am hessitant to because I have heard that the bum is tighter than the vagina and I know this is going to sound a bit weird but I do not know what is inside the female bum e.g. the texture (apart from the poo lol) is it bumpy or ... (144 words)

What do boys look for in a 14 year old girl, aside from sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 an i have never had a boy friend. my best friend was the first 1 in our year 2 loose her virginity she was only 13, nearly 14. she isnt a slut or anything just fort she had found the perfect guy but he dumped her a week after this was terrible for her but of course now ... (106 words)

I think I was raped by the man I'm in love with... at 18.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I feel kinda scared and wierd asking this question but I'm so confused and I need help. Today after I got home from picking up my boyfriend from work, we ate breakfast and he was watching the highlights from the celtics vs lakers games. Normally when we have sex ... (527 words)

How to tell the difference between a player and someone with genuine feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you tell a difference between a player and someone with real genuine feelings. Any signs to watch out for? I was kinda seeing this guy for about a couple of months and he treated me well, but then i found out how he was only using me for sex. So, any signs to look fo... (60 words)

Can a relationship ever work out if you've split a couple of times before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone - can a relationship ever work out if you've split a couple of times before? I had been with my partner for 4 years when I ended the relationship. Although we didn't live together, I felt that we were at different points in our lives etc. We split in Februar... (407 words)

Wrist injury. Anyone had one and can advise me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Grrrrrr not a relationship question, but i wonder if anyone can help. I punched someone in self defence about 5 or 6 weeks ago. Wish i hadn't now because its done me no good!Woke the next day with a painful wrist. Thought its probably a sprain so ignored it. Carried on as norma... (193 words)

I love him but don't know how to get him to tell me how he really feels!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been in love with this guy for about 7 yrs. i am 16 now and he is 18 just recently he had a daughter I dont think him and the mother are still together. i tell him how i am in love with him how i been in love with him how i always will and its like he tells me he likes me ... (218 words)

Did I blow it by texting his ex-wife? Advice needed!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have put this on another site but the replies were useless Apart from one and I thought id post it here to get some genuine replies! I met this guy online about 8 weeks ago... and everything was going fine... i have met his children and we have been going out on days out ... (296 words)

I get no pleasure from vaginal sex, any advice please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey....well i don't really do things like this but i feel its my only last option!!!! i lost my virginity last year,obv it wasn't that nice and i got no pleasure but iv'e been having sex regualary since,my problem is that i get no pleasure whatsoever,i find the slight finge... (125 words)

What makes a perfect dad?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi me and my wife are having a child in October. Can anyone tell me what a dads role is? What makes a perfect dad? ... (27 words)

I want to know what you think of this lad. Have you got the same idea as I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK i just want to know what you think of this lad have you got the same idea as me? Basically i started liking this lad about 6 months ago and its slowly grown and grown. Over these 6th months he's showed lots of signs of liking me. It was mostly deep eye contact and a lot of s... (537 words)

I feel differently with her than anyone else I've ever been with, and it's scaring me! Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey folks so here are my questions. I´ve been dating this girl for about 2 months. Things are swell, we talk alot, the sex is great, etc... first thing, a minor issue: though I´ve been in many long relationships, I forgot how this works- the more time we... (320 words)

How do other couples work through a long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - As I sit here typing this, I think of how ironic it is that my boyfriend and I, 25 km from each other, would have to endure a long distance relationship. However, yesterday I was informed of his plans to travel to the other side of the world for 5 months to further his ... (193 words)

My fling is now sending me naked pics of himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy who I had a fling with a few months ago has suddenly decided to get in contact with me in a hope to get with me again. Now he has sent me naked pictures of himself. I mean we only met once and he seemed really nice the non sleazy guy. We ended up going home together... (114 words)

I'm scared my boyfriend will hurt me if I tell him I cheated on him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm scared by bf will hurt me if I tell him I cheated on him. He knows something's wrong as he's pretty perceptive to my emotions and he keeps asking me what's wrong, I feel so guilty I have to tell him I slept with a guy from work. But he can get really violent when he's ... (169 words)

I want to talk to his parents to resolve this, but I'm afraid of the fight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf been through a lot and we love each other deeply. I always got along well with his families, and his parents always show a warm and friendly face to me, so I love and respect them with my whole heart because I thought they were nice people. However, my feeling has ... (329 words)

I don't want to stay in a marriage which has no trust at all... please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He has too much privacy. The image of him having sex with a woman is never fading. Its still in my mind. Whenever i think of the image, I just dont know how much I hate him and immediately changes my mood. He chats , keeps a secret lock code still after the fight we had when... (111 words)

Do I leave her to it and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - 3 months ago i broke up with my GF of 2 and half years because although i know its wrong to do so, i read her messages due to someone we both knows telling me that she has been txting some other guy and not just as friends, so i read these messages of "i want you so bad" an the ... (216 words)

Ladies, do you ever masturbate in the prone position?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am curious how many other females masturbate while laying on their stomach as compared to laying on their back or other ways. If you use your hands, do you use one hand or two and do you move your hands or do you keep your hands still while grinding/thrusting your pubic area ... (118 words)

I want to ask him to the cinema, good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ifancy a boy in my year and i never really talk to him much do you think he will go out with me if i ask him to the cinema... (30 words)

Straight out of a relationship and into a new one... are things moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Help, I'm so confused. I split up with my boyfriend of 3 years a couple of weeks ago because I wasn't in love with him anymore, but still cared about him as a best friend. I had also met someone else who I was really attracted to which just reinforced that I wasn't happy in ... (429 words)

Lately me and my husband argue constantly, I want to save my marriage but don't know where to begin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been married 7 yrs this yr with 1 child from my 1st marraige whos 11, and one from our marriage who's 6, just lately i don't know what's happened, we seem to argue constantly, we sit on opposite sides of the room, we spend no time together, and we don't ... (118 words)

Should I tell my divorcing friend that I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i need some help and i dont know who to turn to, so maybe y'all can help me. About 5 months ago i met the most incredible woman. We started talking and we just clicked. We both admitted we had feelings for each other but she is married. I told her that if something were to ever ... (175 words)

I am blaming my boyfriend for the loss of my best friend and it is getting in the way of our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of about 13 months have been having a bumpy few months. When we get to talking about some troublesome topics I can’t really say what I mean. I end up saying a lot of things I think in the moment, only to realize later it’s not my true opinion. I end u... (443 words)

He cheated and lied for two and a half year, and yet I slept with him again last weekend. Is there any point?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - talking to a man who cheated and lied to me for two n half years, someone I made the mistake of sleeping with again last weekend when I knew it was just sex to him. I am going to be in his city again tomorrow and asked him if he wanted to meet for lunch- he said he needed to ... (140 words)

My boyfriend had a gay relationship. I have prayed and I have been patient but he won't open up to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a woman in my 30's and I have been in a relationship for 4 years now. My boyfriend is 9 years younger than me which could have posed a problem but it hasn't. Anyway, a few years ago I was on my boyfriends computer do my school work and I noticed a gay website on his drop ... (522 words)

Tomorrow we celebrate our 8th year together and I dread the though he will propose again, as I am not ready and don't feel I can't trust him to the full.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It is my 8 year anniversary (of being with my partner - lets say Mr A) tomorrow, and I can't help but dread the thought that he will try to propose again, because I am not ready, and will have to tell him I'm not ready...again. I met him in uni and he basically befriended me w... (382 words)

Pregnancy and the Pill... am I worrying unnecessarily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i went on the pill recently, and had unprotected sex just three days after i had started on it, meaning i wouldnt have been protected by the pill. i carryed on taking my pill, and have just come off for my 7 day break. i am experiancing a period, and it if qiute a painfull one. ... (111 words)

Did he feel guilty or is he just not interested in her anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this may be a bit confusing but here it goes My fiancee and i have been dating for 10 and 1/2 months and we've hit this "rut" and we are always fighting ALOT and hes wanted to end it or a while but he wont and he says he cant because he loves me too much and there's... (107 words)

If a guy says he dumped his ex because SHE used him for sex, but he pressurises his new for sex, what does that tell you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

- If a guy tells you he hates "skanks" and "sluts", but he himself tries to sleep with every girl he goes out with on the first date, then how can he say that? If a guy says he dumped his ex gf because SHE used him for sex, but he puts pressure on his new gf for sex, does that ... (100 words)

He says he loves me but he isn't in love with me any more. Should I keep trying?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my partner for 5years. The last 6months ive had depression and i didnt no, but in that time i said nasty stuff to him that i didnt mean. Last weekend we broke up over the phone as we live with his parents in their garage and it was driving us crazy, but we ... (217 words)

I'm in love with my foster mother. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I find this hard to talk about, but i've got no where else to turn; i've finnaly plucked up the courage to ask someone about this, and I need a little advice. Basically, i'm just going to get straight to the point. I'm in love with my foster mother. It started when I w... (174 words)

I feel he loves me not my friend but she loves him and I don't want to lose either of them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my repeater in college and so does my friend, but i feel he loves me not her, i don't want to lose my friend or my love what can i do?... (33 words)

My ex has a new boyfriend. Should I congratulate her? Ignore her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

- My Ex of 3 months has a new b\f and i,m gutted but she hasn't told me yet. We email now and again and talk sometimes Shall i email her and congratulate her, acting all happy or do i say nothing. I have a feeling she thinks I will be devastated when she tells me ( i wil... (95 words)

Had unprotected sex, he pulled out but some semen dripped near... what are the chances of getting pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex yesterday with my boyfriend and he pulled out RIGHT before he came, none got inside me but some dripped near that region and now I'm worried. What are the chances of getting pregnant over something like that?... (41 words)

Long-distance confusion... I feel like I'm settling for being second-best, should I walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

18 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met this woman almost a year ago thru work. We live in diff countries. She came to visit here in the US and stayed for a week. Amazing sex, conversation, etc, we got along fantastic. She came to visit for 2 more weeks and another amazing visit. We fell in love and she ... (678 words)

Should I let go or should I hold on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with someone 3 years ago, the relationship went "open-ended" when he decided to pursue his career elsewhere. We agreed to remain friends although we seldomly contact each other since. He came back after a year and when I saw him, I realized I miss him so much and I still ... (187 words)

She's having an affair, and doesn't know who she loves more! I don't want to lose her, help!

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have recently found out that my girlfreind for the past 3 years is having an affair, with her boy best mate. I dunno what to do, she said she doesn't no who she loves more, him or me. I don't want to lose her but if i do it will be the end of my life. She is my world but i ... (70 words)

How do we get back at this guy? He lied to both of us about being separated!

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a really horrible situation, and really need advice as to how i can get back at this guy. I met a guy called Paul about a month ago and we ended up flirting. He was wearing a wedding ring and I brought it up and he said he was seperating from his wife and was wearing ... (427 words)

My boyfriend hinted I should go to the gym more often. I got really upset about this and even shed a few tears...

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so last night my boyfriend and I were relaxing in front of the t.v and having a chat, then he starting hinting that I should go gym more often.... My gut reaction was like Pfft! why? I used to go gym all the time for 6 months flat, but I recognised no change and stopped ... (158 words)

I don't know what to do, haven't had my period since April!

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im just wondering i havent had my perroid since april i dont tnink im pregant but is it possable that my boyfriend vestectomy dindt work and i get preganat i dont know what to do if any one can help write back... (45 words)

Is my Internet Lover having an affair?

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18 June 2008 (F)

- Right. Im in a long distance relationship. We only ever talk over msn. I really like him, hes a really nice guy and i met him over facebook. Yeah i know its risky, and hes 3 years older than me. But we get on really well. But Im really scared he'll find someone else, ... (158 words)

Is anyone else like this or am I obsessive?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - is anyone else like this or am I obsessive?? My boyfriend of nearly a year sometimes does a 2-10 shift - getting home about 9.45. I find that I have to have him come to bed with me at the same time (i.e. 11pm) otherwise I can't sleep anyway. I probably fall to sleep then wa... (204 words)

I told her I fought with depression in the past, now she does not want to see me anymore! Is she thinking about us or really ignoring me?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this girl for 2 months. At the moment we are in differnt cities about 1hr flight apart. A couple of weeks ago during a weekend visit to her, we were discussing our past experiences where I mentioned that a couple of years ago I had gone through... (388 words)

My friend told me I was ugly and we haven't talked since, what's going on?

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18 June 2008 (?) age - my friend just told me i was ugly! now i dont know what to do she just said it so randomly and shes my best friend. we were just walking home and she said it and then walked off. i think she was ditching me? we havent tlaked for 2 weeks whats going on with her?... (56 words)

How can I approach this older guy without looking silly?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya there is this guy at work who is older than me he looks about 30 im 18. I really like him. I've never really spoke to him before apart from the odd hi. I was wondering if you have any tips on how to speak to him without me looking stupid. Thanks x x... (67 words)

I have a very high sex drive and his is practically inexistent, I've never cheated on anyone before but I'm worried I might!...

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for a year and love him lots but recently I developed a crush on a guy at work. Recently things have developed with my crush, and he told me he liked me and wants to have sex with me. I told him I like him but I'm in a relationship, and there was a lot of ... (215 words)

My friend says she will tell everybody that I slept with a bunch of guys at school when I was on drugs!!

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18 June 2008 (?) age - My life feels limitless... more things flung at me from all directions.. i think it shte dope... my friend told me to try it now i cant stop help me please i hae tried to quit but my friend says she will tell everybody that i slept with a bucnh of guys at school when i was on ... (71 words)

I find myself panicking about being in a long-term relationship...

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I had our first anniversary about a week ago, and now we've been together for a year I find myself freaking out about being in a long-term relationship. I feel guilty every time he touches me and I can't look him in the eye. What's going on and how can I set things ... (57 words)

Should I distance myself from my friend who has cancer? I don't think I can handle this...

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18 June 2008 (?) age - okay so i have this friend who has cancer, and i love her deeply. i tlaked about this with my mother and i know that she only has about 1 year to live. now my grandma died about 3 years ago and i wasnt very close to her, but i got really depressed about it and i wasnt myse... (171 words)

How the heck are you supposed to insert this thing?

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18 June 2008 (?) age - i tried to put in a tampon and i followeds the instructions i made sure i was relaxed but it wouldnt go in! i am 14 and i dont know, do i have to try it again or what?? any tips?? thx xxxooo... (44 words)

My abusive ex has decided that he wants me back, since he found out I was dating again! Should I return to him after he kicked me and our son out??

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well i was in a relationship for about 4 years going on to 5 this year, we met when we were in high school i was a junior and he was a senior. we dated for about 5 motnhs when i came out preagnant. we decided to keep the baby and u know i thought he was going to b a good guy ... (278 words)

Two periods in a month, the second after losing my virginity. Is this normal?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i had my periods on 1may08 after 7 days i lost my verginity.then on 12may again i had periods.its been over a week that i am getting no periods??is this a normal issue?... (33 words)

He left me, but was a great father to our children, now he's thinking about starting over, should I give him a chance?

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18 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Hello I'm a 34 year old women. I've been with a guy for 13 years. We have struggled with money issues for as long as I can remember and we now have three beautiful children together (a 5yr old, a 3yr old and a 2yr old.) When my 2nd child was on the way he left me, and said... (181 words)

I'm the first guy he ever kissed but he does not accept his sexuality! Is it all worth it?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with a guy for 3 months now. I am gay and open, he is not. He is VERY straight and i'm the first guy he'd even kissed, let along slept with. He is 26 and i'm 23. He says that the way he feels at the moment he won't be telling anyone, he's very clear that he has no ... (134 words)

What hurts the most is that my parents bring my ex up in conversations and blame me for losing a potentially good husband, as most others think! Help me deal with this painful situation!

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18 June 2008 (F)

- I feel really inadequate to my ex bf who broke up with me. I cant seem to get over the feeling of him not wanting to be with me anymore. It doesn't help that he never gave me a real reason for breaking up with me, or that it was in a text message. I dont feel like I ever got ... (340 words)

Caught between my girlfriend and her mother

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am going out with my 52 year old girlfriend and I am 40. She has been divorced for two years. She is getting very uptight and emotional, because her mother is extremely hypocritical about our relaionship, She is not getting over her ex who was a complete lay a bout. She is ... (115 words)

Is this normal playing for a straight girl and her gay friend? I'm annoyed!

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My gf was a dancer in college. They toured a lot so partied in hotel rooms quite a bit. She has never elaborated on those parties one time in our five years. A few times she has mentioned how close she got with them and how the gay guys loved to flirt and play with the girls. ... (216 words)

I am so confused and upset, perhaps being a fool, can anybody please help me out here?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this girl for around two months and talked every day online or by text or in person. I wanted to be more than friends but she had a boyfriend and never wanted to lose her as a friend, so was happy to be friends. I found out last night that she is chea... (308 words)

He broke up with me 'coz of the age thing, said we should should wait. Should we?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 16 and i was dating a 22 yr old, and he broke up with me because he didn't want to get in trouble for the age. He wants to wait until i'm 17, but then he said he might not wait for me, and i shouldn't wait for it, but we can still be friends? What do i do??... (61 words)

Please help, I have a pimple the size of Texas!!

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have a pimple the size of texas, and the boy i like keeps telling me to buy pro active. It's really embarrasing and i dont have the money to afford pro active and to be honest i dont mind having a lot of pimples because that makes me, well me. He always wants... (90 words)

I'm really hoping there's another option I have completely overlooked, is there, or do I just stay unhappy?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is gonna be long. I have a lot of concepts to convey. First off, I have a severe anxiety disorder, stemming from events (not sexual) in my childhood. This leaves me extremely fearful, often to the point of panic attacks, when dealing with other people. Over the year... (794 words)

I'm starting to grow facial hair and I need shaving tips please.

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old. I am starting to grow facial hair. I'm wanted to start shaving it but I don't know how to. Can anyone give me tips or instructions on how to shave? Also I'm wondering if I should shave my pubic hair. Do girls like it shaved or not? Any help would be greatly ... (61 words)

I'm sixteen and I think I'm a sexual deviant!!

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen and I think I'm a sexual deviant. A masochist to be exact. When I masturbate, I like to pretend that reino nordin, a Finnish actor is a sexual deviant and he does all the things i imagine. I shouldn't be this way. I mean, when I look at him, he looks kinda of scary ... (94 words)

Does any other girl have the same symptom?

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18 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Does any girl have the same symptom when you get your period?Every time I wake up in the morning,my vulva is burning on the outside.It's not that uncomfortable, but it does hurt and it usually only last for about 10 minutes.The pain's not severe,but it feels like its inflam... (70 words)

Help! We're across the country from him, we're friends, but I want to tell him might mess that up!

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, So of course.. there is this guy i like.. we dated on and off for about a year... (mostly on if your wondering). and we broke up like five months ago.. i was dating another guy and he was dating another girl. well me and him remained friends and still are today.. and i ... (182 words)

How do you get over someone who's obviously not worth your time?

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18 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - How can I get over a guy who dumped me because he couldn't handle my past and mistreated me because of this? Because I lied about it, just because I didn't want to disclose it. He judged me hardly on it, and was mean when the subject came up. We were together for a long time, ... (173 words)

Do people really change?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it a good decision to go back to an ex? Do you think the same mistakes can be repeated? or Do people really change? I hope u can help me ... (33 words)

Can't decide if this is a bad idea - can you help me?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, when I was 14 years old I dated a guy for 8 months and not too much happened. We were very close, but one day he broke up with me because he said he had feelings for another girl. He still wanted to remain friends with me, or at least "take a break" from our ... (269 words)

He's away for the Summer, and I think he is cheating on me! What do I do?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend jj have been dating for a little over 6 months now. School is over, so he went to live with his dad in Baraboo. He said he would talk to me every night online. He told me a couldn't call. But his girlfriend last summer was able to call him. Then he promised ... (130 words)

I want to go forward, she doesn't - how can I go on without her?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I have a little problem, I have a friend who I have known for 5 years, she's incredible and everything and we're very close but she doesn't want to take our friendship into a relationship...I'm okay with this but I can't get her out of my head! I know nothing will ... (64 words)

How do I know when she's orgasmed?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Probably a stupid question, but I'm curious, how do you tell when a girl comes? I never know unless they flat out tell me. I figure they could be faking it, but a friend was saying a girl comes when she's wet, but I've gotten girls wet without hardly doing anything, so I'm... (59 words)

I don't understand the difference?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He LOVES me but is NOT IN LOVE with me. what does that mean? i'm confused.... (16 words)

We love each other, but Dad has banned me from seeing her, what should I do?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im in love with a girl and she loves me, but my dad has banned us from seeing each other. what should i do?... (24 words)

I've dug a hole for myself, what do I do now?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So I started dating this girl in December and over the course of a couple months I have led her to believe that I spent some time after high school travelling because I was extremely insecure about entering University as late as i did...I was 30..Now the relationship is getting ... (60 words)

Why do I feel this way about my teacher? And how do I stop liking her?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and a girl. I have a huge crush on my female gym teacher. I just began liking her a few months ago. I wont see her for 2 months about. She is all I can think about. She is probably 35ish... I dont know if she is a lesbian. I dream of her so much. Why do I feel... (87 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from my boyfriend! We're starting a break in four days, any advice on what to do or how to keep him?

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18 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - im getting mixed signals from my boyfriend, please help me! it may be a bit long but ok...we have been dating for 6 months having our minor daily fights like normal couples. i know he loves me very much and i love him very much. he has proven it by many things such as being ... (406 words)

How do guys tell a girl they fancy her over the phone?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this question is for all the guys..if u want to show a girl your interested how do u talk to her especially when the conversation is over the phone... (29 words)

What is wrong with this guy? any help?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I am kind of confuse with this guy i am dating, he does everything to please me, we have never fight, we have develop feelings for eachother, he is always trying to see how am I feeling ( because I have a little bit of bad health), he even told me that he cares a lot a... (209 words)

Is there anything wrong with this guy? Help!

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18 June 2008 (F)

I want my husband back...will his relationship with this other woman last?

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18 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband told me I broke his heart and now he is holding a grudge and won't forgive me. We have been married for 20 years and 16 months ago he told me he LOVED ME but wasn't IN LOVE WITH ME anymore. We ended up separating. Ten months after our separation he hooked up with ... (274 words)

How do I gain my girlfriends trust back?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my girlfriends trust in me has been shaken. She doesn't trust me much anymore for what i did. After I told her i wouldn't smoke pot or drink i did it anyway i mean it wasn't much but enough to get her madder then hell. It's a long distance relationship so I'm finding it ... (68 words)

Our friends are getting us together, I think we're both a little interested in each other, but I'm not sure how to show her. Help?

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18 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im 19 just graduated high school. this girl is 16 and in high school. shes heard about me in high school and my friends are hooking us up to hangout.. think shes a lil intrested as i am.. but im not sure how to show her.. i just got out of a long relationship.. i just need som... (64 words)