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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he like me or not? He doesn't seem to make the effort unless I may have alcohol or something...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this boy asked me to prom. i've liked him for so long and it was so cute the way he asked me. it was in school with a dozen roses and a little crown. anyways ive liked him for so long and he just had a girlfriend and one night (a while ago) he tried to kiss me when we ... (300 words)

I got drunk and pregnant! Help help help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okai my friend invited me to her house party i said sure so that night i went.they were all drinking and my friend told me 2 take a lil so i did juz that little got me on it i got really but really drunk and the only thing i remember was a dude taking me 2 a room but he didnt ... (142 words)

Why do they ejaculate on my belly? Is this normal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am on the pill and recently started having sex. Even though I am supposed to be safe, the boys I've been with still pull out and ejaculate on my belly. My friend tells me all guys like to do this. Is this normal? Is it necessary at all?... (49 words)

How do I orgasm without a vibrator?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i give my self an orgasm with out sex toys all i have is a back vibator that i use as a vibrator... (25 words)

Umm, why is he being weird on myspace?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my name is stephanie.. so i comment this guy on myspace asking him if he wants to go see a movie or have lunch,or hey honey, how r u?(in a nice way)he doesn`t reply whenever i send him a comment just saying how r u? he replies why is this guy being weird??... (58 words)

Just found out my ex is going to be a dad, I'm gutted and regret that we ever broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with a guy for about 13 months about 3 years ago but i finished it, i was kinda pushed into it with everyone telling me i shud be single at my age (17) so i never really fell out of love and we have kissed a few times since but we always kept in touch. for the first ... (217 words)

My childhood sucks! Need advice, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im 13 and my childhood sucks!! but its not any1 persons fault.... its bout everyones fault mainly mine..... see i have a very large anger problem, a.d.d, and o.c.d.... i don't take any medication cuz they cost alot and i would have to be the one to pay since my mom is u... (156 words)

I'm being really flirty with everyone and I'm meeting up with any guy that comes my way. But deep inside I feel lonely, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, well im 15 years old. Basically i have just recently been dumped by this guy which i went out with for 6 months (which is really long for me). He was also like my best friend. The thing is now he wants to get back together. But by now i've more offers. Basically two other ... (178 words)

Help me, I am a loner in love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - please I really need an answer to this question. I am really in love with this girl that I used to go to school with before I graduated. The problem is that I am a pale loner and she is one of the most social girls I ever met. we would talk every once in a while but it was few. ... (130 words)

The problem with my bff is that I want to go out with him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i really love my best friend. he is so cute, he's sweet and i'd totally go out with him. except he doesn't like me back. he did once, but now he acts like i'm his sister. i don't know what i should say or feel. can anyone help me here?... (50 words)

Do you think my wanting a baby is a good idea?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 13 and really wnat to have a baby i know im young but i could handle it my sister had a baby at 16 and she is an amazing mom i wanted to know if you think this is a good idea or not?... (46 words)

Insecure girlfriend, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 3months now, but she keeps thinking that im going to cheat on her, she says she trusts me, but i cant go out without her getting worried, and she hates how she is and wants to change because she doesnt like it, and niether do i. but i cant ... (73 words)

Is he messing around with his old girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and have never really thought he would ever cheat on me, but the other night he forgot his cell phone when he went to work so I peeked. I found a text message to an old girlfriend that he had sent stating " I think we should celebrate ... (74 words)

I want to explore my body further but do not know if I am doing this right or not...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and this might be a stupid question. Recently i've been masturbating about 3 times a week. I always end in a sort of climax which lasts for about 10 seconds, but i'm not sure if this is an orgasm. No whitish fluid comes out of my vagina, but I am very wet?Is this an ... (97 words)

Had an affair, I'm trying to be a good husband, but I just don't want sex anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age - I'm a man of 60 and have been married for 37 years, but I have committed the ultimate betrayal to my wife, I had an affair for 7 years, my wife found out about it about 18/19 months ago and I ended it straight away,since then I have tried to be a more loving,caring husband,I ... (202 words)

Unhappy with my boyfriend, all he wants is sex. Your advice on how to dump him, or at least try and make this work without sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy, lets call him Sam, for 6 months now, and it was all going great. Until a couple of weeks ago when we lost our virginities together at only 15 (using protection). Before this the only sexual thing we did was kissing. Now all he talks about is sex, and... (240 words)

I keep comparing my new boyfriend with this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with this guy now for a month and a bit, me and him were really good friends before, really close for 2 years! And i really loved it, now i feel like its all ruined, being sexual with him doesnt make me as happy as when we wer friends, aand before ... (149 words)

Will he change his mind about being single and like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok hey!! basically theres this lad i like and me and some mates were sure he liked me to. he used to constantly stare at me, he seemed different with me in general but thing is numerous times he had mentioned he can't be doing with gf's and that he'll probably never get one. ... (477 words)

Do I take him back or keep my guard up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! my ex bf and I havent talked for 7 months and hes now contacting me again. He claims he changed and stuff. He was really bad and idk what to or believe anymore. He said he grew up and changed....my parents hate him for the way he previously treated me, My head is ... (87 words)

Please help, I've got a new boyfriend, don't really like him and am still in love with the ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with this guy and we finished i still talk to him loads but i have recently got a new boyfriend and dont really like him and still in love with the other lad but i dont no what to do please help?... (46 words)

I fancy somebody but I'm not sure how to find out if he is single!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I fancy somebody but are not sure if they are free, the trouble is that i am not sure how to find out if they are single without it getting back to him, as the company he works for is a gossip ground and i dont want to show myself up and find out he is not single and has ... (61 words)

I'm ugly and it gets me down....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

2 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so Im a 15 year old girl and I have major self-confidence issues. You see, Ive got an Ok body but my face is really ugly. I think its ugly and so do other people. Its my nose that makes me ugly - its too big and horrible and makes my other facial features look out of place. ... (190 words)

I've been seeing a married man but now when he wants to move in with me I get cold feet, what do you think I should do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been seeing a married man for eight years and now he tells me he wants to leave home and move in with me. problem is i dont want him to i know if he cheated on his wife with me for years i cant expect anything but the worse from him but at the same time he treats me like ... (98 words)

I am worried about my wife's threats towards my friend (she thinks we have an affair), should I tell my friend or wait and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age - My marriage has had its ups and downs for years, mainly,I admit,my fault,but we carried on. I have been with my wife(age 57)for 20 years,I am 61,we have one adult child. I met a woman of similar age,through work about a year ago, we built up a very friendly relationship. I... (357 words)

I've fallen in love with one of my best friends and it scares me to ask her out, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 16 and i really like this girl (16 also, a bit younger) and weve been friends for two years now and shes one of my best friends and i really want to ask her out but im scared of the answer, and my other friends tell me i should keep things the way they are, but i can ... (71 words)

Please tell me, should I stay with him for the kids or should I leave him, run away from his threats and abuses?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I dont know y he treats me like hell. He says that he loves me but I can never beliv him because in my opinion a man will never have sex with another woman while being married to a woman he loved so much( as he says so).He had sex with different women(Its a rumor).O... (240 words)

This girl wants me to come over, is that slutty?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I just recently started talking to this girl, we havnt hung out yet but she has already asked me to come over to her house, is that somewhat of a slutty thing to do? I really would like her to be my GF but it seems shes looking just for sex. Btw im 22 shes 20... (56 words)

His ex told me they'd kissed, and now I don't know what to do with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys so i been together with this guy for about 2 too 3 months now. Two weeks ago he hung out with his ex girlfreind for the first time , he was with his freinds also but still. i asked him if they hookedup he said no . I left the situation alone. I spoke to the girl ... (145 words)

My boyfriend is understanding, but my friends seem to keep pushing me to have sex with him. I'm not ready!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

- I've never really wanted to have a sexual relationship in any way - even kissing for long periods of time either seems boring or just plain gross. I much prefer to have an emotional relationship. However, I am very aware that this is practically impossible. I have a boyfr... (230 words)

My best friend doesn't like gay or bi people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - One of my best friends is a great friend, but she discriminates against gay and bi people. Our other friend says she might be bi and when my best friend found out,she says, "Eww,that's nasty. Let's not hang around her". Best friend knows, but still hangs around other frie... (88 words)

Any tips to keep my penis up during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - can you help with any tips on how I can get my penis up during sex... (16 words)

Weird bumps on my private parts. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I have these bumps on my private part.i have never had sex,so I couldn't have an STD.What's going on?... (20 words)

Can a relationship work without the physical spark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been through a marriage break up about 1.5yrs ago,I have met somebody else we get on great but sometimes I really do not want the physical side of things..can a relationship work without a spark..? We have been together 6mths.... (42 words)

Our relationship is progessing too quickly...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, I have a major problem here. My girlfriend and I are very close and recently our relationship has been accelerating at an unreasonable rate. I mean we haven't hardly dated that much and already she is interested in sexual activity (not intercourse, just oral and manual). I ... (139 words)

He's calling me again, but I'm not answering because of his past cheating! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex boyfriend 3 months ago and since i broke up with him, i still remember him every minute of the day...i cannot move on and i think i still love him.Wer on a different country now cause i work before abroad, we supposed to get married but i found out that ... (136 words)

I have total proof he is going out with someone else, but he still won't admit it to me! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I was going out with this boy for about a month but ended it because I didnt see him enough. I really miss him and he told me he misses me too, so we've decided to try again. However he is a player, and I know he is. I've seen messages from him to other people ta... (111 words)

My sister has become a spoilt brat, and I can't cope with her anymore!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I find my sister quite disturbing, arrogant and selfish, and I am not quite sure what I should do about it. I feel guilty for thinking bad things about her. It is making my life intolerable to the point that I do not want to be around her anymore. She just makes my hackles ... (749 words)

Period still going after a week. What's wrong with me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My period is still going.It's been more than a week and it's not supposed to be going now.What's wrong with me?... (21 words)

I don't want to just be some rebound trophy girlfriend, but I'm not sure he likes me as much as I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

- Hi, about two weeks ago I started going out with a guy my age. Things went pretty quickly from day 1, but we still haven't had sex due to us not ever really being alone together. This doesn't bother me. Anyway. He's not exactly popular with the ladies generally, and everyone... (255 words)

Very confused, what changed so fast for her? Does this guy sound controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Long story short. Went out with a girl for over a year. We broke up about 3 months ago because she thought she was putting more effort into us than I was. We talked and emailed after the breakup and went out a few times and seemed like we are getting back together. I hear ... (147 words)

I didn't tell the clinic the truth when I got the injection today. Will this do something to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... i got the injection today your suppose to get it when your on your period but i wasnt they asked me if id had sex since my period (i have) but i said no. she said she could give me it aslong as i hadnt had sex since my period. and she gave me it will th... (102 words)

She said she's not looking for a relationship at the moment, does this mean she's not interested or just waiting to see how it goes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M) - hey everyone hope you all well need a bit of help .I went on a date the other day and it went good both had a laff and that when we were talking the day after she said "that she didnt want to lead me on and that she not looking for a releationship at the mo,but at the mo... (113 words)

I'm worried about the way my girlfriend's vagina looks may have something to do with her past!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a rather strange question to ask here... I am curious about vagina... I have been with a variety of different women (sexually), and up until recently I have always encountered generally the same type(ish) vagina... Usually tighter, snug, not really loose lips etc. ... (151 words)

How do I dump my boyfriend? He's got a very troubled past and I know he's not bluffing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I dump my bf? I've tried many times before and he just says no. What am I supposed to say to that!? The one time he did actually accept it was over (I had threatened an injunction to ban him from the house) he got so upset he said he was going to kill himself so I just ... (86 words)

Do you think she may like me? I like her and thats why I held her hand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was at a party last week and i saw a girl that i see maybe every month and a half or more than that, i have known her for a year and a half. Every time i see her we always talk and really get on well. I was sat next to her later on in the night and i had an urge to hold her ... (237 words)

Can anybody PLEASE tell me what is wrong with my PRIVATES?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There's something wrong with my vagina. The lips are swollon and tender and my discharge is extremly think and pasty and there's unnatural ammounts of it. It's also white.. Not the slightest bit transparent. There is no smell. It's been like this for almost a year and a half. ... (240 words)

Snooped again, and found flirty messages yet again! Is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Several months ago I snooped in my boyfriend's cellphone and found text messages to some girl about wanting to kiss her as well as flirty responses from her. I confronted him and he said it was a joke and got mad at me for snooping. Just recently I snooped again and checked ... (130 words)

Joint family vacation turns into disaster! We have a total of 11 children between us, and I'd still like to work it out, but my pride is stopping me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused and don't know if I'm doing the right thing. I met a man three months ago whom I thought was my soulmate. Everything went so fast and we were in love after just a few weeks. We spent hours on the phone together and the more I learned of him the more I fell. He is ... (635 words)

Help me get over this arrogant guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel awful, recently at a party i got drunk and really humiliated myself in front of someone i care about alot. We were sort of in a relationship for a few weeks about a year and a half ago. We both wanted to end things but about a month after i missed him so much and wanted ... (207 words)

Gutted that we never got a chance, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. He is a year older than me and every time I think about him I have to smile. He is perfect. He is very attractive and has a really nice personality. He liked me but started going with another girl because we kind of stopped talking. We have started ... (85 words)

Should I sleep with my ex boyfriend of ten years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He was my best friend in primary school. We looked out for each other as we were both bullied, and we supported each other through our turbulent childhoods. He is two years older and he left for secondry school. I still remember running down the corridor to hold him. Ten years ... (164 words)

Every time we have an argument he makes it seem only he is right...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like some advice. i have been with my partner since i was 16 - am now 19. the thing is every time we have an argument he turns it around on him!! i have just got some bad news from the doctor - nothing too major but i called him at work and asked could he come with me t... (160 words)

There was a bit of teasing without a condom before the actual sex, is there a high chance of pregnancy, a low chance or none at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. I was ready and don't regret it. We were sensible and used a condom. I don't want my age mentioned, okay? That is not what my question is about. Before we actually had sex, he was teasing me a little by rubbing his peni... (99 words)

My husband is changed on 180 degrees, acting cold and odd towards me lately. As I mentioned this to him he said I'm making things up!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Looking for advice to become a stronger and wiser person. Here's my prob: I do believe that my husband of 1yr is cheating on me. Like any other couple, we have the ups and downs but things seem more of a down right now. He's been acting odd towards me, totally cha... (355 words)

We made up but the words "I can't see us getting anywhere" resound in my ears. What did he mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and i of 9 months recently had an argument over something petty. We eneded up with him breaking up with me and i got upset. Because of the fact we are 'best friends' anyway, it didnt affect our relationship. On the same phone call (I know he finished me by call) he ... (111 words)

Couldn't control our feelings, she's 12, could she become pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 14 year old boy having sex with a 12 year old girl. We know that we did something wrong at this age but could not control our feelings. We are neighbours and it all started with a kiss. Then we started looking each others private parts. Later started with masterbating ... (151 words)

Choosing between two girls, opposites of each other...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - To start off this question here is alittle background info. im 19 yrs old and i just finished my first year of college in canada and i am now staying with my parents.. i met this girl from my old high school and i started going out with her in the beginning of may. we hooke... (282 words)

I want to cum too, but I just can't. Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have had sex before and every times he cums, he tries to get me to as well but, i just cant, i dont know why? i want to as well to let him know i can but im afraid i cant. Can someone plesae tell me if anythings wrong or give me tips. thank you xxx ... (73 words)

My boyfriend of 7 months lied to me about his age . . .

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now. We have been completely in love. It is passionate and intimate and we have talked about long term and how we are what the other hoped to find. He has been divorced for 3 years, was married for about 16. I have met his ... (282 words)

I'm not sure how to treat him after he said 'At the moment, I just can't be bothered.' Thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well, a guy asked me to go out a couple of times, so we went on a few dates, but never got into anything serious, and it was all very innocent-nothing more than holding hands. I wasn't too sure whether I liked him or not, but I had a lot of things going on at that time,... (318 words)

I'm not attracted to either of the two guys who are after me. Is it right to not to choose either of them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Im sure this isn't the most important of the questions you will have seen!But I thought id ask anyway... Well im no longer in a relationship. My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago. The problem was i was to clingy,but im unsure if this was the real reason,... (120 words)

Wife's been keeping her mobile close and has mysterious messages on her facebook page!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ive been married for 2 years and dating for 8 years and my wife has been going on face book for about 3 months shes been acting weired since then she keeps her mobile close to her chest when before she hardly use to go out with it ,i started to get paranoid so went into her ... (147 words)

Why does my boyfriend want to cum on my face?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my boyfriend want to cum on my face? ... (10 words)

What would you read into her actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I split up with my girlfriend of two years four months ago, I moved out but was unable to remove my property from her house for a while. Last week I organised a day to go over and collect my stuff after I finish work which was not particularly convenient for me. I had been up ... (138 words)

My girlfriend is devastated because I revealed I had a crush on another girl! Now what I can I do to repair her trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's my situation. My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly three years. She's my best friend, I love her to death and want to spend the rest of my life with her. We've had a somewhat hard relationship, however, due to the fact that I've been away at school for the ... (431 words)

Want to dump my boyfriend without getting fired! He's my boss and he's married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to dump my boyfriend who is also my boss! and i,m worried i will lose my job. What should i do? He is a married man.... (28 words)

What's wrong with me? I want to argue with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a great relationship, my partner couldn't be better for me, he treats me great he's not over protective...I could go on forever about how fabulous he is. Now a little back ground, my last relationship was very abusive mentally, physically and sexually. He was also... (354 words)

We're going to meet in the summer as friends, but I'm afraid it will be a disaster!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi well this is kinda complicated, i've been speaking to this guy for just over 2 years and he recently told me he had feelings for me. we have never met and have been speaking everynight for the last two years the problem is i dont know how i feel about him. i do like him deep ... (155 words)

Have I done the right thing in letting her go? I wanted her to be free to enjoy her youth...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

2 June 2008 (M) - I have just broken up with my Girlfriend of 2 yrs. I dont make a habbit of this, but she was considerably younger than me... 8 yrs juniour. I have just turned 27 and she has just turned 19. She and I were not just lovers but best friends. We love each other so deeply, we ca... (381 words)

Sexless in New Jersey....

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2 June 2008 (M)

age - Dear Cupid I've never had sex and this is what one woman said to me, "I'll have sex with any other penis on the planet, except yours". And that's the attitude of every woman I've met. Your (mine) penis is not going in my vagina, ever. So all the abusive males, wife-beat... (116 words)

My wife doesn't know I have another child, but I'm sure knows about my cheating. She has MS and I don't want to cause her or the ex gf any more pain!

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 13 years, we have a 14yr old daughter and my wife has had Mutiple Sclrosis (MS) since 1996 and I had a 3 year affair with a woman that just ended and we have a daugther who turns 2yrs old soon. At the time of the affair, my wife and I were having serious, ... (194 words)

Sex with a co-worker tips, please no lectures.

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know what is the best and easiest way to get a co-worker into bed, skip any moral lecture. How do I do this without embarrasing myself or getting into trouble at work, how could I find out what he thinks of me, without directly asking... (49 words)

Is being emotionally submissive a problem?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I would like some help with something here, I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and I have noticed that even though I am the one to start things, she seems to be the dominant one (not sexually mind you) my question is does being emotionally submissive a problem?... (51 words)

My girlfriend does not like to talk about things when I'm concerned about something!

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some help here, I feel like my girlfriend doesn't like to talk, everytime I try to talk with her about something I'm concerned about, she always says "Why do we always gotta talk?" Can someone please help me!!... (40 words)

Is it okay for first cousins (both male) to have sex with each other?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - is it ok for 1st cousins (both male) to have sex with each other... (14 words)

When he loses control he smashes things and sometimes hurts me. I hate this, but how can I help him?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a very violent person, if we have an argument and he feels he's lost control of the situation he will resort to scaring me by smashing things and sometimes he'll hurt me. I hate him for it, but I do love him. I know everyone will tell me he's an asshole and I ... (70 words)

I've got a boyfriend but have now found myself attracted to another man! Why, and what can I do?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for a year now and for the first time I'm finding myslef attracted to other men. Well, one other man at least. There's a guy at work that I quite suddenly became attracted to recently, I can't stop thinking about him and fantasizing. Before I met my bf I ... (95 words)

Can anyone replace this emptiness?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - its been 3 days now and i have had no contact with my Ex at all, its been really hard not picking the phone up and trying to talk to her. Iam wondering what she is doing all the time, i totaly love this girl and it would be like wining the lottery to have her back. It frightens ... (160 words)

Female issues: guidance please?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been on the pill for over a year, but I've recently changed brands to one that is better for long term use (Gynera). I had a bit of a scare last week, when I was on the week-long "break": I was clear for over 3 days (my period started on the 4th), when it usually ... (185 words)

I've tried watching porn with him, but it seems to have backfired and not rekindled our sex life! What do I do from here?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my man for nearly two years now and in the beginning our sex life was fantastic, we couldn't get enough of each other. For the last 6 months he has been on antidepressants to deal with some old chilhood issues. However, we rarely have sex these days. I have ... (408 words)

His 'anger problem' escalated into a physical assault on me!

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend tried to kill me and I don't know what to do! We had stayed at a friends on Saturday night but I had went out for a little while, upon returning home on the Sunday my boyfriend started shouting and swearing at me for going out and leaving him! (I never go out ad ... (306 words)

He cheated on me twice and the idea he could do it again behind my back is constantly on my mind!

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend (met on the internet) cheated on me twice once was just a kiss but the second time was sex and he did it with his ex he says he loves me and i broke up with him but then we got back together but people (my family, frineds)keep telling me i shouldn't still be with ... (99 words)

I dream of my ex every night

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Can anyone help me with every night i go to sleep i dream of my ex. These dreams feel so real. They can vary to me kissing her, cuddling her to her with another man. We broke up 2 months ago, and we are expecting our first child, she says she no longer loves me. These dreams ... (91 words)

Bizarre love triangle: the boy that my friend fancies is flirting with me, and I like him too. What should I do?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well the thing is like this, i have a very good friend (sarah) who is obsessed with his best friend (Kyle). BUT. the other day we went out for dinner and Kyle was very VERY flirty with me. Now my problem is that i feel attracted to him and i really like him but i dont k... (118 words)

Was looking for a bi curious woman when I met her, which she agreed she was. Now she cannot stand me bringing up the subject, why?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age - My girl was very bi curious when we met and got very hot about the idea of being with another woman. I was looking for a woman like this when met her and she understood this. I would like to know why she led me on, because now when I bring it up she gets upset and doesn't want... (73 words)

Why is my ex wearing the necklace I got her, and of all the people she could have called to print out her paper, why did she call me?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a college student...I broke up with my ex girlfriend over 3 months ago near the start of the semester. In the beginning i tried my best to try to make things work between us and maybe try to get back together. But things didn't work out. The thing is, that I just can't ... (352 words)

I don't know if my child is my ex's or his best friend's. Should I tell my ex?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - two months ago me and my boyfriend split up i was really upset and felt so down so i decided to get completly drunk one saturday night after it and bumped into my boyfriends best mate he asked me to go back 2 his 4 a drink and i did one thing lead to another and we slept ... (85 words)

I become dry during sex, why and how can avoid this? (apart from lubricants, that I am sensitive to...)

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and sometimes become very dry in the vaginal area during sex, and my boyfriend stops beacuse he says it hurts,Im wondering if there is a way to fix this?? (p.s. i have tryed lubes and my vaginal area is too sensitive.)... (43 words)

Did he mean what he said by "someone else being better for me?"

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My basic question is an opinion one. Could you turn away someone after they told you that you're the only one they want to be with? And was he really doing me a favour? I have a complicated love life so I might as well start at the beginning. My first boyfriend, when we... (475 words)

I'm bicurious and I want to have sex with a friend!!

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm bicurious. I want to f__k my best friend. He's really hot! Could you guys give me tips on how to get him in bed with me? I should let you know that we both experimented with being gay a year ago, but I'm afraid he won't do it again. Help me.... (52 words)

I want to sleep with my sister in law!!

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to f**k my sisterinlaw, but I don't know how to proceed. It's just that she's so sexy!(and sweet) Everywhere she goes she wears a thin, low cut shirt of some time and no bra. I can see her nipples through her shirt. Her boobs are huge. I've felt this way for years but I ... (70 words)

I'm very tight 'down there' any way I could loosen up?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i havnt been with many guys and am very tight down there. Are ther any good ways to loosen up? say any particular stretches i could do?... (33 words)

How can I relight this fire? And how do I know if he's with another girl?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey okay so i have liked this guy for years, well i crushed on him for a coupl of years 2years ago. He has always been that one guy that i will always hav i thng for no matta what. At the start of this year i started to become friends with him and we got closer, we had a... (298 words)

I am working abroad to save for my kids who lately seem very little communicative. I feel so sad and helpless...

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid and to all who can read this, i am a singe of two mother who is working abroad for long time, i have to work for my kids and my kids only stay in my relatives back home. im always sending money for them especially for my daughter who is in school.last school vaca... (307 words)

Itchiness following masturbation, what could the reason be?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I masturbated. The next day I felt itchiness down there. The itchiness happened in the afternoon. What is this? Is this normal to have itchiness? What should I do? I'm embarassed to tell my parents about this. ... (39 words)

I have an erection every time I approach my girlfriend, is this embarassing?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ive gt the problem whereby everytime i try to get close with my girlfriend (im 17 nd she is 16) i feel i can't because little johnny pops up. what should i do this is realy annoying for me and embarassing ?????????????... (42 words)

I'm heartbroken and in pain...how can I overcome this?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my eleventh grade...I'm 16..but very sensitive..Broke up with my bf 1 month ago...many Misunderstandings broke us up...I wanna 4get whatever happened with me...When v were in a relationship we were tempted to do many things...N now after breakup these makes me feel gui... (82 words)

I put my hand down his pants. What should I do next?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for about two months now or so and i realize this is probably moving super fast but he and i were making out long before we were dating, something you should probably know we are both underage and not super interested in having sex... (232 words)

I denounced him so he was expelled for sexual harassment - but I will see him again in school next year! I'm scared!

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2 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I'm going to the 8th grade in 3 months.There's this boy that's gonna be in the 8th grade with me again.The problem is,he's a pervert.He touched me some ways that made me so sick and scared.I didn't do anything to him when he did it cause hardly anyone has ever gone out with... (109 words)

He isn't paying attention to me. Should I do it to him?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush and I talk on the phone daily.Every time that I call him he sounds busy so I ask him "are you busy?" and he replies "no" but then in less than a minute he says "I'll call you back in a minute" which turns out to be hours later.Every time that we talk I stay quiet ... (170 words)

I'm completely in love with HER!!

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2 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok ..... I have this friend and I'm totally completely in love with her ...and yes I meant her. I have never been bi before .....so it's kinda stragne.....she has a gf and she's moving to Texas this summer .....what do I do....let her go ....or try and win her heart ???... (55 words)

Please advise me about protection to avoid an unwanted pregnancy...

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay... i feel stupid asking this but i really want to know , my bf and i are thinking about having sex and my best friend just had sex with his girlfriend, with no condom and is in this.. predicament and i really dont want to be in the same boat my friend and his gf have... (142 words)

Why cant she get pregnant?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and i are trying to have a kid. We have had sex so many times so why wont she get pregnant?... (23 words)

Should I get a pregnancy test for my girlfriend as she is a bit worried?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 16 and I'm afraid. My girlfriend and I had sex, and We DID usea condom (and I'm pretty sure we put it on right, she put it on) and after about 10 minutes, I decided to check the condom and nothing wrong, but she noticed it was like whitish. But I wanted to stop c... (149 words)

Feel so attracted to my best friend, only recently I've realised she would be an absolutely perfect girlfriend!

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2 June 2008 (M)

- Hello, well basicly im starting to feel attracted to my best friend, only recently ive realised she would be an absolutely perfect girlfriend, i cant think of 1 fault, i know she liked me in the past do you think it might be worth a shot? We have a lovey dovey friendship and ... (72 words)

I broke a store's window out of anger, I'm feeling terrible. How can I deal with this?

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2 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I posted earlier about my anger issues. Well, the thing is I was infuriated with my boyfriend, at 5 am in the street, and anger controlled me and foolishly I broke a store's window. I punched the glass just because I was out of control. I feel seriously awful about this... (302 words)

How do I create an e-mail that sounds flirty?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Other than in person, this guy I am kinda seeing and I mainly communicate via e-mail because he doesn't like talking on the phone. Our e-mails used to be a lot more flirty but the last 2 or so were short and not flirty at all. I'd like to get it back to the flirty e-mails but ... (96 words)

For all the married people out there.... how in gods name do ye keep it going?

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2 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Ok...so what if your boyfriend acts cool. As in you'll see him when you see him. Does it mean he doesnt love you. After nearly 3 years together is it normal to be nearly devoid of affection and compliments?? Please tell coz i just dont know!! What keeps it going?? For all the ... (70 words)

Should I try to move on, or ask her to be my girlfriend again

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok I was dating this girl for bout a week or two. Plus she listens to alot of people and sometimes even does wat they say. Then there is this other guy that likes her but she said she would never date him okay ill get along with the story. Okay she found out i liked her so she ... (415 words)

He thinks I don't want to go out with him, how do I tell him that I do?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy. we've been really close and we're kinda like brother and sister but we still like each other.. a lot. we hang out a lot, usually sleep at each other's houses. we kiss in front of our friends too. but there's a problem.. he thinks i'd never go out with ... (103 words)

It hurt and I had to stop him, does this mean I'm still a vrigin?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and this guy have talking about sex for a while.. we're practically together. we were both virgins. but anyways i decided to let it go on.. he used protection and stuff and he fingered me good before.. and then he stuck his part in me and it hurt really bad, i don't even ... (129 words)

I've fallen completely in love with her, like nothing I've ever felt before. Problem is she has a boyfriend!

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl about a year ago. The problem is that I've fallen completely in love with her, like nothing I've ever felt before. She's in all my dreams, my thoughts, I can't get her out of my head. Here's my problem: I'm 18 years old and she's 23. She acts as if she's my ... (222 words)

Need advice on positions for making love with my girlfriend who has cerebral palsy.

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I am in a sexual relationship with my 52 year old girlfriend who has CP. This affects the left side and she cannot move her left arm very easily. We have made love a couple of times. I have fingered and had oral sex. I have also had intercouse, but find it a little ... (105 words)

How do I get over this humiliation of being bullied because of my tiny penis? And how do I make them stop?

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ok i need help, all my life i have hid my small penis, when fully erect it only measures 3 inches making it impossible to satisfy girls, i tried when i was younger but just got laughed at when they touched or saw my penis but now its got worse, i was playing for my local pub ... (166 words)

Need advice on what to write in a birthday card to someone who I like but rejected me a while ago....

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What to write in a birthday card for someone who I like but rejected me a while ago. Has to be special note mentioning her being happy etc. Help needed...... (30 words)

Does he like me? Can you tell me if I love him 'cause I don't know!

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, hi...well. I really like this boy, his names Brian, he's cute, funny, has beautiful eyes and is just wonderful. I wanna know if he likes me. In 6th grade we were in the same class but now in 7th grade were not (that sucks). He stares at me alot and one time when he was ... (592 words)

Should I go out with him when I get back home? He's been seeing someone else and said he might break up with her to go out with me....

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy, and he likes me, but right now he has a girlfriend. I'm in Hawai'i right now, and I've been gone almost a whole year. We were going to go out when I came back, but he also liked this other girl so he decided to go out wit her cuz she's there and its easier than ... (147 words)

I want to bring his birthday to him in his hospital room (he's got a private room). Anyone got any good ideas of how we can celebrate it?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend will be in hospital for his birthday, he is having an operation tomorrow and has been told he will be in hospital recovering til the following Monday - his birthday is on Friday. We had planned a big night out but obviously that's not going to happen now! I... (89 words)

Did he pop my cherry?....or was it because I was on my period!?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im on my period and me and my boy friend have already had sex before and i guess there was nothing wrong with having sex on your period...so we decided to have sex. And after words i had seen that i had a blood stain on my bed and so i figuerd it was just period b... (111 words)

I'm going through a divorce and feeling confused any advice?

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2 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am going through this divorce after 25 yrs of marraige we have both had an affair but I dont want our marraige to end he has moved out and we are still friends we have this wonderful 10 yr old daughter still at home who is doing pretty good considering what ... (182 words)

My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid!

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2 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A little background first. I am a 22 year old male dating a 20 year old single mother. He have known each other since High School and dated one for a short period of time. My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid. When asking about her day or any topic it seems ... (134 words)