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female
age
30-35,
*uckylala
writes:I am 17 and a girl.I have a huge crush on my female gym teacher. I just began liking her a few months ago.I wont see her for 2 months about.She is all I can think about.She is probably 35ish...I dont know if she is a lesbian.I dream of her so much.Why do I feel like this? I know it will never happen. How can I stop liking her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): You can't stop liking her. You have a crush on her, you admire her and want to spend time with her. You like her and there's nothing wrong with that. It dosen't matter if she's a woman or a man, you can't help who you like, and it dosen't mean your a lesbian, gay or strange.
However, she is your teacher. She is not able to have a relationship with you. Do not do anything about this crush, this is your own private secret, not something to be discussed.
There is nothing you can do, it will fade in time once you find somebody else to like, or it wont and you will have to learn to deal with the pain and the heartache it brings on your own. Try taking up a hobby, writing poetry, spending more time with your friends, anything to distract you from your feelings and give you more interests in life. Hugs, it'll be ok, take care of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): just get over that fantasy and puppy love of yours. gradually it's going to fade.
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