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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Can a really straight guy be in love with me? I am a very discrete gay guy...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Can a str8 friend be really in love with his gay friend through their deep friendship? He say's he love me but I doubt it to be true. We have one of the greatest fight last night because we are arguing why I can't believe him saying that he loves me. I can feel it somehow but I ... (85 words

Quick.. how can I make my boyfriend stay (instead of staying at a friends house) so we can try to get pregnant like we want to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - quick my boyfriend wants 2 go stay a couple nights w/his friends but im ovulating n we've been tryin 2 get prego 4 awhile soo im tryin 2 figure out how 2 make him stay home without makin him feel guilty and without him thinkn tht im mad abt it or tht im doin it on purpose ... (63 words

Anyone else got really close to a married man while chatting online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - i recently got too close to a married man i was chatting to online . We fell for each other without ever meeting i no longer chat with him it is over and i miss him. What I want to know is anyone else out there that and how has it affected you.has experienced the same... (76 words

Should I trust him again after he vanished with no apparent reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - me and a guy ive knew have just started "talking" but like a year ago we used to talk then and he must of just totally forgot, but yeah i went with the flow. last time we talked he blocked and deleted me with no reason what soever i tried calling and blank. now we have st... (124 words

Trust - how do I banish the "what if?" thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - okay... so I have made a decision to stop dwelling on the things that have happened and really give this a fair shot....getting the trust back I mean. So long as he gives me no more reason to doubt him I am believeing that it was a mistake... and I hope he has learned his ... (216 words

Is erectile disfunction a growing problem?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

21 June 2008 (? age - Until fairly recently, you did not hear as much about men with erectile dysfunction. Can it be that it was just kept quiet? Today it is a common complaint. You often did hear men complaining that they did not have satisfactory sexual relationships, blaming the wives for lacking ... (89 words

If everything is going apparently fine in the relationship, why would a boy ignore the person for a week and counting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - The psychology of men.. I swear that its impossible to understand? Thats why i need all you lovely agony uncles out there to please tell me your opinions on the following, and explain the what's, how's and the why's! Ok well here we go! Firstly, what really captivates you? What... (191 words

Speed dating. I have two days to prepare - so tell me how I can make a woman want to make love to me in 6 minutes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age - Hey guys and gals. I'm single recently divorced and looking at new dating options…ways to meet others. And there's a lot of new ways that involve internet dating...too many to mention. But I was looking at this new thing called speed dating (new for me, anyway). I got ... (270 words

I know he's right for me BUT I always find flaws and worry too much. I'm even starting to doubt my love for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I overanalyze everything and my new topic of overanalyzing is my bf. Im starting to doubt my love thinking, what if i dont love him? Is this a fear and how do I stop this fear down? Before this, I was SO HAPPY and still am but now when i meet him im analyzing him,oh hes not ... (207 words

I always end up with a wrong partner, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Way is it that everytime i think i found the right guy.I allways end up with the wrong one,the partner i have cheated on me so many times and i will like to know what am i doing wrong.... (39 words

Did she actually like me or what? She seemed so normal and cool before I asked her out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I was friends with this girl for over a year. One of my close friends told me that she wanted to hook up with me, so i decided to ask her on a date. I did, and she didn't give me an answer but was really nervous. She then told me later that she wanted to be my girl... (285 words

New girl is trying to split me and my friend up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi Guys, I'm not being bullied, but my best friend has made friends with this girl in our class, and I like her, and we've been going as a little treesome these past few weeks, it just she seems to think it's funny to get my friend to run off with her, at break, and make ... (302 words

Is there anyway I can stop thinking like this, I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've just started going out this guy i really like and we get on well with each other. we both have the same interests and enjoy each others company. the problem is, when things start going very well i start to push him away as i can feel my self getting closer to him. so f... (178 words

I'm 19 and I'm starting to feel I'm missing out on sex and relationships

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - A bunch of my friends are all having sex. I'm the only one from my original group of friends that can't get laid. I don't think i'm ever going to find a girl. What age do people usually have the most sex at? I'm 19 and starting to feel like I'm going to miss out on that ... (91 words

I think I'm in love with my History Teacher

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay soo i dont know whats wrong with me. but i think i am in love with my history teacher. i just graduated middle school. and i miss him sooo much. I use to act so mean to him. and avoid him. but deep down i cantstop thinking of him. i dream about him every night. i fe... (145 words

How can I make myself taller?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Is there anyway i can make myself grow??? I'm 17 and i wanna be a bit taller because of my girlfriend i naturally want to be taller not by wearing thick shoes etc. Is there anyway this is possible? I here pull ups help... (53 words

My relationship is completely wonderful except...there are location differences! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F - My relationship is completely wonderful. Everything is totally right between us, and we are filled with love for each other. It would be perfect except for this one REALLY BIG THING. Location. How the hell do you figure this stuff out? I met my man here on the West Coast (... (413 words

Wll she be interested if I talked to her about my ex??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - im talking to a girl whos a lil younger.. she knows my ex-gf whos really popular... do u think it'll make her more interested if i talked to her about my ex... but i like this new girl.. or dont bring her up at all ...... (46 words

I want to get her attention. How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - i hang out with a group of friends.. and im intrested in this one girl.. we always joke around and i know she thinks im cute.. what can i do to make her want me??? i really want to get her attention..... (42 words

Negative pregnancy tests, but odd symptoms. Ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, around 4/5 weeks ago i had unprotected sex and i am now 2 weeks and 2 days late for my period. This is pretty strange as i have had regular periods since the age of 13. Ive noticed changes, like, all of a sudden i've got loads of spots and a rash on my chest, am always ... (109 words

My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

21 June 2008 (? age 36-40 - My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the first time anyone has seen her f... (135 words

Our divorce is nasty and he won't talk to me..how can I get him to communicate?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age - I am in the process of getting divorced and my husband sees his son alternate weekends. When he comes he will ring on his phone to tell my son to be ready and if I come to the door to answer he will not look at my face. On drop off he will drop at the gate and then walk off so ... (250 words

Is he lying to me, when he says, he really doesn't know what he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3.5 years, and live together now with 2 cats. he recently broke up with me. He says he wants space, but doesn't know if he wants things to work out because he thinks they can't. I want him to try one last time, and see everything we ... (97 words

When is it worth trying again after the relationship has ended?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - When (if ever) is it worth trying again after a relationship has ended? I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years about a year ago, when I found out he cheated on me. Our relationship had been rocky for a while, and in retrospect, I'm not sure either of us had... (595 words

We've broke up twice! Should give my ex another chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i was with my bf for 6months then we both decided we needed a break from each other but we still stayed friends (with benefits. This continued for about 3months and then he suggested we got back together properly so we did. Four months on and he has dumped me again. His best ... (121 words

Am I bi curious or bi sexual and am I in love with a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey I dont know whether i am bi curious or bi sexual ? i am a 14 year old girl and think thast certain girls are pretty. When i was 13 i went to a co-ed ( GIRLS AND BOYS) highschool. I knew one girl there who was lezbian and was extremely attractive. i but i was a year 10 and s... (207 words

Anyone know about blood pressure? Apparently mine is high!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Really gutted because i stopped smoking 6 weeks ago, cut down the booze a bit, got a dog a couple of months ago so get a bit more exercise, and came out a stressful relationship about a month ago. yet i went for a new patient health check at the new surgery yesterday, and it ... (117 words

What my man doesn't know won't hurt him or am I walking in quick sand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I got a bf, i do love him very much but we stay away from each other and only get to see once in two weeks when he comes home. Now this guy around my area is proposing me. He seems good and loving and wouldn't do things to force me in anyway. He has given me a lot of time ... (177 words

Is it unreasonable to ask him to wait 6 months for me knowing that it will decrease his chances of getting a good job placement?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi guys, My boyfriend and I started going out knowing full well that he wants to move to the other side of the country at the end of the year. He has been studying for 5 years for his degree and wants to move to a country town to start his career (his profession invol... (226 words

Was this guy just being friendly or do his actions mean he feels something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone just like a few opionions to my question. If you were out in a group and a guy was holding your hand(and not doing it with anyone else) do you think it means he has feelings for you. Also he kept hugging and giving me kisses on the forehead and cheek. What do you ... (81 words

Should I do something about my marriage problems or should I pray my way through these red flags?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - Should I pray my way through "red flags" that reveal a selfish and controlling personality in my husband or am I being a blind fool to keep trying to find a way to respect him when he blatantly disregards the feelings of me and my children? In the midst of some recent conflict ... (151 words

My girlfriend became friends with my best friend and now he is hitting on her!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - So, my girlfriend and I have been dating for four years. I am 22 and she is almost 23. Our relationship started out as a long distance relationship (me in MD and her in NY). I met her at my brothers wedding, as she is my sister in laws cousin. Things had not always been great ... (659 words

After I met him in person he changed and I am so heart broken... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - To dear cupid, i am having a conflict. i have found my bright sunshine. he make me happy all of the time. i love his personalities. we actually have alot in common.so we chatted through messages for about 2 months already and we've decided to meet with each other today 21.0... (267 words

Why is it men run when things get serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi. need some someones perspective on this please. i'm left feeling very down and confused. Why is it that men run when things get serious? and this guy is 40! I been online dating for a while now as i don't get much time to myself and my friends do'nt go out that often as... (534 words

If I look at another guy's penis out of curiosity, does it mean I am gay?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - iam 16 years old, sometimes i have some curiousity to look at other's guy's penis !but i am not gay i wondered if is it mean that i am gay or someting ?and if is it a normal thing ?plz helpe me guys and thanks ... (47 words

I like this guy from school and I'm not seeing him through summer... what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey, this is confusing me "slightly"!! Please take time to read this to understand!! Well i've liked this lad in my class for ages n ages now n he used to stare at me a lot and i mean a lot. There was lots of eye contact, some other signs and just the way people spoke about him ... (904 words

Online guy won't give me his number, why not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi ! I have been chatting with a Guy from February 2008 onwards, Initially he was trying to chat with me about sex... but I changed his views/ideas completely and I told him that I am only interested in a real good guy... who will be able to give me the real Love and should ... (310 words

We were stupid and the condom came off....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi, i had sex my bf last week saturday 12/06 and we have used condom.but for some reason we stopped using it so he put his pennis inside me for abut three second. is der any chance of me getting pregnant.my last period was on the 3rd june. plz help... (50 words

My married lover won't leave her husband....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I am in a love with a married woman. I know that she loves me too. She stays with her husband. Both stay together. They had some problems in their relationship in which I came in between and we started loving each other. I know her very well. She is not a kind of girl who ... (200 words

I think he's coming round and wants to do stuff, what do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

21 June 2008 (? age 26-29 - i met this boy called dillon 2day and he seems ded nice but he came my house while i got a drink we went up to the water dispencer in my room coz it ice cold anywayyzz we ended up play fighting messin about he through me on the bed and sed nothin got on top of me all we did waz ... (120 words

Is it because of excessively watching porn videos that I have difficulty in maintaining an erection?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - who thinks that the porn industry wrecks men's sex lives? who thinks porn and to much sexual images causes damage in erections? the reason im asking this question is because for many years i used to masterbate to porn ( 11 years to be exact) before i lost my virginity when ive... (252 words

How do I figure out who is the father of my baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - my last period was on the 15th may ithink ,i just found out im pregnant bout 4 to 5 weeks gone and baby due around feb 22 2009 ,but on the 8th june i started sleeping behind my bf back ,im not sure who the father would be ,i dunt no if i was pregnant at the time sleepin with my ... (74 words

How can I tell if he's lying or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - ive just started talking to this guy, he tells me that he has already gone off 2 other guys that he's known for months and is hooked on me. he's constantly busy with work its like a week job and only gets around 3 hours to talk. so yeah we talked for a while now and ... (126 words

Can a relationship with a much older guy work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have a very deep attraction towards a boy. and i feel he too have an attraction for me. but i am 14 and he may be 24-26.is this relation possible?... (31 words

My female friend asked me out, but I'm not gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i think my best mate (whose also a girl) fancies me, shes asked me out but i dont feel the same way, and im not gay. help!... (27 words

Is this acid reflex or something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok I have a health question. I have been diagnosed with acid reflex. I got diagnosed with it in September of 2006 so almost two years ago. I had a colonoscopy and an endoscopy. I didn’t have any ulcers but I did have a polyp which is what they said caused the bleeding but the ... (523 words

What if he has a girlfriend? Should I step back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi! I like a guy. He doesn't talk a lot about past or current relationships and stuff like that so, I don't know if he has a girlfriend or if he likes someone. I'm trying to find out about that. But if he does have a girlfriend, should I step back and forget about him? Shoul... (121 words

I realize now that he never loved or even liked me, I've been so betrayed and hated by a man that I thought was "the one." How could this happen??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I don't know what could've happened to me to make me fall so stupidly and blindly in love with someone that never cared for me from the beginning. I've been in a very emotionally abusive and complex relationship for 2 years and it has recently ended about 2 weeks ago. I caught... (268 words

My best friend is a priest and fell in love with a woman. What should I advise him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have a friend. he is a priest.he fell in love with a woman. he is facing in a very crucial decicion-making of wether to give up his career and disregard his vows as a priest in order to be with that girl for good or to just forget her.what can i do as a friend?i dont want his ... (79 words

Small bumps on my vaginal area, I'm afraid to go to the doctor!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - yes i have small bumps on my vaginal area at the end where the hair stop befor it enters to your clit...im afraid to go to the doctor to me they look like skin tags...can some help n tell me what u guys think they are please!!!!... (47 words

Did she lose her virginity or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - okay i have this best friend and she dosen't know if she really lost her virginity or not because she said they were in the bathroom she was sitting on the bathroom counter top and he asked her if she wan't to feel what it would be like when she would really lose her virginity ... (184 words

The condom broke and I got my period the very next day, any chances of pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were having sex when the condom broke, Now I got my period the very next day and had a normal period except for the odd fact that I had severly bad cramps for two days. Is it possible I could be pregnant? I don't feel like it, Except lately iv'e been eat... (87 words

Shouldn't he be having a bit of variety (watching porn) as to not become bored with me? Should I encourage him to fantasize about other girls...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is this too "good" to be true? I feel like something's wrong with it! Either my bf is a liar or seriously commited. The other day we were talking about sex and stuff. I asked him if he ever wanted to go to a strip club. He said he didn't, that it was a waste of money, but he... (535 words

Do I have any rights with regard to her selling the ring before divorce?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 51-59 - My wife has sold her engagement ring and has left the state, she even had a change of address 3 weeks ago, then, this week I filed for divorce. Do I have any rights with regard to her selling the ring before divorce? ... (44 words

I'm unable to treat my husband nice after he cheated on me. Any advice on what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am unable to treat my husband nice after he has cheated on me. For example when he asks me to massage his shoulder I say a BIG NO. Such things make our life difficult to live together. Any advice? Please help.... (44 words

What should I do, stay with my boyfriend? Or get back together with my ex and get an abortion?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old, I meet my boyfriend in collage who i've been dateing for 5 months, and i'm between 4-5 months pregneat with his baby. I jumped into this relationship too quick, and i just got out of one with my ex, who i was dateing for 4-5 years. Anyway, the point is, i ju... (179 words

I'm just curious about the 'Friends with Benefits' thing while in relationships,

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - A guy asked me if i wanted to be friends with benefits with him, and i never done it before, the only thing that worries me is that one of us could end up feeling more than just friend with one or other and we are both in a relationship, he's not happy in the affectio... (79 words

Why has his mum added me to her facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

21 June 2008 (F - I'm 19 and there's this guy who I went to high school with who added me to his facebook as a friend. A while after that his mum added me to her facebook which I thought was really weird! She hasn't messaged me or anything saying why. I looked at her facebook and she hasn't a... (77 words

I'm not sure if this is the relationship for me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for over a year now. We have even moved in with eachother because we were so much in love. Recently I have been questioning the relationship because of her irresponsible use of medication when trying to cope with stress. I want to be there for ... (114 words

I fantasize and daydream about this TV guy which isn't fair on my boyfriend. How do I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi! There is a guy on TV that I can not stop thinking about. He is so breathtakingly beautiful that it makes me loose my breathe every time I see him (yes I know it sounds silly but that is how it feels) But I think / daydream about him all the time. Just thinking abotu h... (329 words

I don't know if I should give her the chance to explain or just write her off. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I recently broke my ankle, which required immediate surgery and had to spend a couple of days at my "best friend's" house until my mother got here from out of town to help me out. While I was in the hospital my friend had claimed that she had told my mother she didn't need ... (539 words

I have no desire to cheat or be unfaithful, but how do I rid myself of these emotions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am married to a really nice guy. All in all our relationship is ok but I guess we have our ups and downs like everyone else. Recently I started working with a guy who I find myself being very attracted to so many levels; physical, mental and emotional. I find myself look... (220 words

Is that a decent size for a kid my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am 15 years old with a 6 and a half - last measured about 6 months ago - and was wondering if thats a decent size for a kid my age. I am told its nice, but want to hear it from many other people. What do you guys think?... (53 words

I am having trouble reaching an orgasm with my boyfriend. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am having trouble having an orgasm with my b/f. It's so annoying because if i watch males stripping on videos, I can orgasm instantly thru masturbation very easily (5 minutes). He even went down on me and though it felt amazing and him touching it felt good too, I just can'... (219 words

How can I get over the guy who crushed my spirit and tell this new guy to back off without hurting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - There's this guy that I am totally in love with. We dated for just over a year and, to make a long story short, he decided he didn't want to be with me anymore and had his mom call the cops on me saying I threatened him. This happened almost a month ago, and everything that... (153 words

I just ignore her 'cause I cant take the pain. I don't know what to do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm in love with this girl at school. Been about 8 months. I really thought that she loved me too. We used to talk a lot and show signs that we like each other. As months went by, she began focusing on other guys. She talks less to me and dont even respond to letters that i wr... (123 words

I kinda feel envious of him for having a social life, when I don't. Can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok, how do I stop resenting my b/f? I've not been completely trustworthy (I haven't cheated but I lied). That, and the fact that he's quite a jealous guy, had him put some rules for me. Firstly, not going out alone with other guys (even if there are girls on the group). Also... (340 words

It feels right to me, but I don't want to ruin anything by "rushing" things. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I recently met a guy that I'm really into. Actually, it's hard for me to believe, but it's only been a week since our first date (seems like I've known him so much longer). We hit it off so well that we've seen eachother nearly every day since. And on days that we coul... (142 words

Does anyone know what being a prostitute is really like? And is it dangerous?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm 20 and i have a house, which i'm renting, but i recently lost my job and i owe rent. I also owe money for other things. Someone i know has said they can get me a job as a prostitute, i don't know if i can do it, or if i'm that desparate. Does anyone know what it's really ... (65 words

When will this get easier after his cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Ok question to those cheated on. When will this get easier. Done the shouting, the soul searching, the anger, the bitterness, the forgiveness etc. Still love him despite everything and he is the one who is trying really hard after a silly one off mistake but just when I think ... (236 words

Does this confession about his past mean my boyfriend is GAY?!?

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21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while and recently he just confessed something to me that hes never told anybody. When he was younger he had a gay friend (he didnt know he was gay). One night when he stayed the night at his friends house he woke up to his friend ... (288 words

Not hearing from him is wrecking my head!

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21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well i dunno where to begin really, iv been kinda seeing this guy n really gettin close to him and have spent alot of time with him just lately,.. Being all cuddled up on the sofa watchin a film, walking down the road hand in hand and all that jazz, but just lately he's been ... (186 words

Paranoid teen seeks help to trust boyfriend...

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21 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - how can i trust my 22 year old bf when i am not around him i know i can kinda trust him but i am not sure he has told me he loves me and want to marry me and buys me gifts none stop offering to pay for everything i am fine with that but he lives an hour away and he constantly ... (85 words

How do I get my boyfriend to want to try more freaky stuff?

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21 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a guy that I met when I was pergnate its been a year now and my sex drive is back.I to bring this girl I like home and do a three way.he will not do it but he will go to a strip club with me.I love group sex with couples too.I will try any thing once ... (74 words

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