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writes:My boyfriend and I got in a bad fight it ended physically by my older brother going after him and beating him up in front of his friends. He pressed charges and said he never wants to see me again and has no feelings for me. He came over two days later and took movies but left essentials, razors and most of his clothes etc. Now a few days later he called me from a payphone saying when could he come get the rest of his stuff, and that we were done, and he wasn't having this conversation and hung up. I'm going away for the weekend and worried he'll come while I'm gone. But I don't want us to be over he's staying with a friend and sleeping on a couch, and on a drinking and drug binge. I want him to come back and I want to work things out. We broke up a couple weeks ago and he left for 5 days then came home. And we were really trying to work it out. We were fine before the fight and he snapped, and his friend - of course is a scum bag and telling him fuck her. What do I do?
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reader, wildman +, writes (19 June 2008):
 I would move on and package his stuff up for him before you leave. Sounds like a real mess from which only bad things will result. You can surely find someone to be with that will really care for you. good luck
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reader, Jack White  +, writes (19 June 2008):
Well, what caused the fight? My first reaction is to do your best to get over him. He doesn't seem to be acting mature, plus family situations will always be awkward after what happened, especially with charges pressed. You should not be dating anyone on drug binges anyway, thats bad news. You are young and there are a lot of fish in the sea. Find someone new and if you still have feelings for this guy in a couple months, then re-evaluate things.
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