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If a guy says he dumped his ex because SHE used him for sex, but he pressurises his new for sex, what does that tell you?

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Question - (18 June 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2008)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

If a guy tells you he hates "skanks" and "sluts", but he himself tries to sleep with every girl he goes out with on the first date, then how can he say that? If a guy says he dumped his ex gf because SHE used him for sex, but he puts pressure on his new gf for sex, does that sound suss to you?

If a guy's friends say that he has casual sex/hooks up with randoms but then they deny saying that when he finds out what they said, what does that mean?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

dang! i hate those double standards. women are suppose to be equal with men but how come they can sleep around and women cant without being called a slut...? not saying that i would.

but those types of guys arent ones you would wish to get involved with. theres just heart-break in that future.

good luck tho!!

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (18 June 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntIt is called double standards.

They are amazing, you should try them once, can give you a whole new outlook on life.

Basically, it is one set of rules for him and one set of rules for women.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

It means he's a hypocrite and you should have a hard time believing anything he says. I hope you're not his new girlfriend.

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (18 June 2008):

deejuliet agony auntAll this says to me is that this is a man of low character. What he says and what he does are two differant things, and the way to judge a person is on what they DO. Stay away from this one. He is trouble and heartache just waiting to happen.

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A female reader, nettles United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2008):

nettles agony auntIt means hes a guy.

They all have double standards, they're allowed to sleep around and girls aren't.

Him denying it could mean that he doesn't want you to think of him like that.

Or it could be him trying to get in your pants.

You have to decide if you think he can remain faithful and if you can trust him before sleeping with him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

That sounds like the type of guy I would not want to know. Will never get involved with or ever consider having sex with.

His name and reputation is already running ahead of him.

Stay clear, do NOT become one of his statistics.

Good luck!

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