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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We broke up so he could attend college--but I'm not coping well as I love him very much! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in some serious need of help here guys. Please, ANY advice would be amazing cause i have no clue what to do anymore, and i get the feeling my friends are just saying what they think they should say.... Background: I am 19 years old and would have been dating my boyfriend... (812 words)

How do I help my moody gf with her problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi well theres this girl im sort of seeing (we've had an on/off thing now for over a year). But shes a very moody, stressy person. Shes had a lot going on with parents divorcing,failing at school a bit and having a lot of pressure on her to do well. I only want to try a... (189 words)

I can't let go of my ex now we are just friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, broke up with my boyfriend about 8 months ago, and I have constantly texted him I dont know why. Think I still want to feel close to him as he has moved away. I have wished him best for the future and have not tried to get him back, just wanted us to be friends and be able ... (196 words)

How can I be more confident at Uni?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is a general type of question about my relationships with my classmates in my grad. program at my university. We ahve to work in groups a lot and I feel like they don't value my opinion. As soon as I start saying something, it seems like one person jumps in and starts ... (112 words)

Should I take a risk and make a move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl i reallllly like her i think she might like me too but im not to sure if she likes me so i really dont know what to do. im afraid if i ask her out and she says no it may ruin our friendship i dont know what to do im falling for her and i dont know how to know ... (96 words)

Sexual Harrassment at work - how can I make it stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i recently started a new job which i love the man who was head of my department was selected to train me, after only a month he started to put his arm around me, and make sexuall remarks, this has now delveloped into him groping my bottom, and also today he did it when my ... (161 words)

Why is he being so stubborn? continued...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just posted something not too long ago and well i want to add to that..( why is he being so stubborn) Though him and I are going through a huge dillemma and ive been told to run away! Well for some reason I just cant do that. Its weird to me that were still in love after al... (316 words)

Dreams about the dad I disowned, what so they mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i havent seen my dad in lyk 3-5 years because i have disowned him and im happy and not bothered about it but l8ly i have been having dreams about him. What do you think it means?... (37 words)

Am I coming too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i split last yr from my partner of 18 yrs now have a new one who has made me feel wrong when we have sex as when i reach orgasm in stead of just a trickle i gush and squirt everywhere could you please tell me is this normal... (49 words)

I'm in love and it freaked him out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, One Of My Friends told the guy iv been meeting that im totally in love with him, im not sure why but i know its not out of jealousy, anyway the point is i think it freaked him out and he doesnt talk to me anymore, and i dont know if thats why or if its something ... (96 words)

My boyfriend dated someone else. I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend went out on a date with another girl. He says he was angry at me for asking him about cheating on me (someone said they saw him at a bar with another girl). I gave him another chance, but then heard that one of his friends thought there was potential between the ... (106 words)

The female orgasm - what is it?!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was reading a book called Seduce Me and it's pretty much just a book about different sex stories/fantasies. In a couple of them, it had said something about the girls coming, too. As far as I knew only guys could really come, so I'm kind of curious as to how girls would... ?... (54 words)

Lots of people are flirting, but I need ideas on how to get the guy I fancy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6043 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i took your advice + finished the lad but the guy i fancy for some reason whenever i start to get closer to him my 'ex' friends seem to get closer to him aswell + theres a lot of flirting going on , he tells me he loves me but im just scared there going to turn him against ... (94 words)

We have a 12 month old baby, and now I'm having another I can't afford

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello My husband and i have been together for at least 3 years now . we have an almost 12 month (IN A WEEK )old baby girl .here is my problem We had a good situation when i was working but i had to recently quit my job due to problems related to our baby health . she was... (224 words)

I'm 11, and all I can dream about is this boy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - am i sick in 'love' all i can dream about is this boy and takig him home throwing him in to bed striping off his and my clothes usin a comdom and havin sex with him!!!for like days in my dream hes the sweetist boy and he hardly noices me but he is wwith me in maths so thers a ... (67 words)

Could you tell me if I am pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was having fun with my boyfriend the other day, and we had intercourse trice.. He ejaculated outside the vagina on the stomach in the first time, we waited around 20 minutes before he got back in shape and we went at it again. i was wondering, would the sperm tht was ejected ... (82 words)

Should I give my husband a second chance after he cheated and had a child behind my back?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - March of this year was the worse month of my life. I found out my husband of 5 years, had cheated on me 3 years ago. During that affair they conceived a child. The child is now around 3 years old and I never knew anything about her. I received a letter in the mail stating tha... (404 words)

Should I be worried about pregnancy even though he used a condom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I foolishly had sex with my boyfriend at 15, should I be worried about my period? It's been 34 days since the start day of my last period, and 17 days since I lost my virginity. I have not had sex since. Is this a normal reaction of my body, and should I be worried about pr... (66 words)

How do I handle working with him after our brief fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

- Feeling a little blue right now and would really appreciate feedback from some of the great aunts on this site. A quick history. I had a bit of a fling with a guy a year ago. He had a girlfriend, did not tell me but I did not really ask either. He came on so strong to me, one ... (312 words)

Why do men have affairs when their wives are pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question for the men..strange as it may seem but i feel i need to ask.Why do men whose wives are pregnant want a fling?? I know this isnt the entire male population but this has happened to me several times that i have been propositioned to have an affair.I NEVER su... (116 words)

Will I ever get him out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,i feel really selfish and guilty writing this but i would just like some opinions and advice. A few years ago i used to work with this really great guy we had loads in common but because we worked together we never had a relationship.We both admitted having feelings... (183 words)

I have really bad BO! Why is that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that after i take a shower i still smell? All over my body! Feet, underarms, and vagina? i have really bad body order! why is that! i take like 3-4 showers a day! ... (39 words)

My boyfriend has lots of women friends and it's getting me down, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend a year I'm 23 and he's 24. He says he loves me everyday and we spend lots of time together. We do have arguments but mostly about silly things that we can laugh about soon after. I just worry so much about his past...before we got together he ... (530 words)

How best to have a threesome!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it better to have a threesome with two girls and a guy or two guys and a girl with your husband?... (22 words)

I've not heard from him since the prom, any advice?

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3 June 2008 (F) - I went to prom with my friend's older brother. It wasn't akward and we had a lot of fun. Before prom we hungout a lot. Since prom we haven't hungout and he owes me money for his ticket. I don't know what happened I think it has something to do with his crazy ex girl friend... (152 words)

I cheated on him but don't feel guilty, am I crazy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - First of all, I am a good girl. The girl most likely to succeed, least likely to ever do anything wrong. I have often been picked on by others for being so straight laced. The other night, however, I cheated on my boyfriend. I would say that I surprised myself, but real... (198 words)

We think she's pregnant and don't know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello.. We think my girlfriend is pregnant and were not sure what to do. We had sex just about a week after her last period finished, She is now 2 weeks late on her next period. She is getting weird stomache aches nearly all the time and her breasts are sore. She hasn't... (114 words)

Dilemma, this new man is lovely, but I'm worried he'll want me out of the way due to his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age - The new man in my life i think is lovely. However he is seperated, and his wife who lives in her own house has found out and it threatening him financially. This has led to a stomach churning time for me thinking that he will want me out of the way to ease things. I adore ... (166 words)

Falling in love with my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend but.. recently I feel I am falling in love with my best friend too (Hes MALE) Im not sure what to do. My boyfriend is all 'im in love with you' whereas Im not sure. I dont think im IN love. But I do love him if that makes sense?? I like him more that my best ... (150 words)

I might see him on Sunday, should I talk with him, his family, what? I like this lad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i like a lad, i am 16, e is one or two years older. my brother play for a football team, they are the blacks, that lad helps coach the reds. i know all of his family. once he went to one of my brothers football matches, i kept on pulling my skirt up and putting lip-gloss on, is ... (111 words)

Now he's in a relationship and I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

3 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, my situation is fairly complicated so please try to read it all and understand it. Well, me and this lad have been friends for about 18 months now and we get on really, really well. He used to text me every single day, sometimes until the early hours of the morning and he ... (193 words)

Long distance relationship woes, is he losing interest or am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 1/2 years. Although we go to school together, most of our time is spent in a long distance relationship. Over the past few months though I've noticed he doesn't seem as interested. He doesn't tell me he misses me, he says he's ... (135 words)

My ex led me on, and now he tells me that he was just teasing me! I'm very hurt...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all agony aunts I need some help in the current situation I'm in, my ex of almost a year who has a girlfriend (his ex) has now lead me on twice. The first time was back in feburary in which he almost kissed me and told me the old feelings have come back but didn't do ... (118 words)

We haven't been using protection, so why haven't I fallen pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im a 14 year old girl and need help. ive been having sex with a boy whos two years old than me and a few times we havent used protection but the thing is i never even got the 72 hours morning after pill an the other thing is how come i never fell pregnant been as though i... (69 words)

I know it's not just lust, but he is going out with another girl.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a guy a year older than me. Before anyone says am not in love its "lust" I am. I know I am. I never stopped thinking about him and he just makes me so happy and want to smile all the time any other time I am depressed and not happy at all. He told my friend he ... (107 words)

Foreplay but no sex with the lodger. I don't understand...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married lady aged 35 with 1 kid. We are of Indian origin living in one of the gulf countries to earn our bread. I am a house wife and my husband works in shifts. To support our rent we had a paying gust who was 50 years old. I liked him so much that we started talking ... (282 words)

Can I work out the date I conceived?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my last period start 2 march then i have no periods till now i check it its positive now i m pregnant and i want to know my concive date i had sex on 13 march 15,16,18 march i visit to doctor 21 may they tell me by ultersound my baby is 11 weeks 5 days any body knows my conc... (74 words)

How can I slow down my metabolism?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there a way i can slow down my metabolism? I know its a wierd question, but i am really skinny and trying to put on weight. The pigging out thing doesnt work. I know my stick figure would be a dream come true for some else but where i come from (central africa) the bigger ... (69 words)

Why is my boyfriend being so stubborn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, My name is Cellina. I am 19 years old and of course having problems with my BF. Ok, here it is... Ive known him for about 12 years, we grew up together, went to the same schools and so on. We had a crush on each other in the early years (elementary school). We're ... (946 words)

Help me out of this circle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really luv him lyk anything...but thatz not all...he is being 11 yrs elder to me..and am now 18.We met through net..chatted..been friends for long.... shared our pics and slowly got intimate...and fell for each other..We even decided to marry each other..he was once very ... (863 words)

He told me some awful things. Are all men like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ok I have a SERIOUS problem. I've been madly in love with my boyfriend over the past year or so and we are having a child together. I want to make an extremely long story short so here it goes...we've battled drugs, and sex together. We've overcome many things in the ... (477 words)

Do I have a problem with my direction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm a 15-year-old girl who is straight and who loves boys! My sister is a lesbian and she gave me some episodes of the L World to watch last week.I wasn't ok with that coz'i'm not a dyke!!!I watched the show and I loved it!!! Now when I go on Youtube,I watch a lot of l... (127 words)

Do you think he is really interested in me or should I be as worried as I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

- Hey, I dated this boy for a year, about a year ago, and I ended it because of lots of stress in my life due to exams, home issues etc at that time. We have however stayed on good terms throughout the year and a couple of weeks ago, he expressed interest in me again, and af... (223 words)

Do you think my BF still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a bf.We been together for 5 yrs.but this last yr our relationshp goes upside down.we never spend a lot of time together.He said I did mistake,but that is long time ago.He said he don't love anymore.But he always there for me when i need him. now he just left going on ... (164 words)

If I am pregnant, could he go to jail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this real great guy for awhile now, and im 17 and he's 23 and we are already planning on getting married when i turn 18. A few weeks ago we had unprotected sex and i am worried that i could possible be pregnant. I was wondering that if i am pregnant could he ... (106 words)

I took his socks, is it really selfish???

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband went snowboarding, my feet were very cold, and i stayed in the snow a little longer, than they got to a point that i couldnt feel them any longer so i decided to go put on some more socks on to see if that would help, i notified my husband who in turn was very ... (194 words)

I'mm not sure if she likes me -- how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 basicly there is the girl i like alot im not sure how she feels for me though i met her through myspace and we talk all the time on msn and text alot too ive only actualy met up with her once i am very shy so im not exactly good with girls s... (118 words)

Why would you put a picture and you and your ex on facebook?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

3 June 2008 (M)

- Hi all, Me and ex g\f broke up about 3 months ago. We keep in touch every few weeks, just to say 'hi' and catch up. She does not want reconciliation Anyway, i have just logged onto Facebook and she has just posted a picture of me and her on there. The picture was taken at ... (94 words)

What would be the obvious signs a girl liked you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi people, i just wanted to know the most obvious signs a 15 year old girl would show you if she liked you (im 16)... (25 words)

Should I meet up with him, even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need your help..this is really killing me! i feel for my friends and he knows how i feel i told him about 7months ago...after i told him i didnt keep in touch with him but he did with me mainly through text messages etc..then one day he calls me and after that i sta... (496 words)

Am I gay or Bisexual?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

3 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was at a party and got real drunk. I was barely able to walk, and my friend helped me into the bathroom to pee. He undid my pants, pulled out my penis and held it for me to urinate. I started to get an erection, and after I was done peeing, he stroked me until I ejaculated. I ... (189 words)

I have a real problem with trying to talk to him about things...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i always argue and the other night we had a blazing row, i said i didnt want to argue again and we've agreed to take some steps to try and prevent arguments.. anyway its made me think he doesnt love me like he used to (or he loves me like he'd love his siter or ... (261 words)

Confused about my ex and feel really blue...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was with my ex for nearly 4 years. in the last 6 months of our relationship he moved away to study for his job this was fine as we saw each other on weekends and as soon as i graduated we were gonna live together somewhere in between both towns. He then only started seeing ... (260 words)

Torn between two guys, don't want to hurt either of them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend of 4 years (i'm 22), but recently I met another guy, and we really hit it off. We would talk on the phone all night long, and recently I cheated on my boyfriend with him. I feel so low, believe me, I am not proud of what I did, but my feelings for this other ... (273 words)

If a guy wants to flirt, how would he do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - guys need ur help..if a guy wants to flirt, how would he flirt...theres this guy i like, he came up to me from the back and played with my ears(infront of everybody, if it makes a difference)...and then he played with my hair... i know i wrote about this before but i didnt get ... (102 words)

Save me please, does he love me and the kids? Can we ever be happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi My husband is the only news editor in his ofis. Its a daily news paper and works hard as he says. I dnt know what he has to do in the ofis but might be quiet bz. He comes home ofcz to eat, bath and to sleep. Usually he comes home late around 2:00am. I am working as a teache... (496 words)

MY BF told me the other night he's starting to hate me because everything I do annoys him. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started doing Ann Summers parties as a way to get extra money and ofcourse discount from the products!! I thought my boyfriend would like me doing this as we've always had quite a sexual relationship and have used toys etc before, and I went to a party before with my f... (278 words)

How should I approach girls on the street?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i see a lot of pretty girls everyday just walking in town and stuff and alot of them i wish i could ask out but like i said it's just on the sreet so i don't know any of them.got any advice on how to approach girls on the street?... (50 words)

I want my online guy back, will it help if I surprise him with a visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

- I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I really do believe in the lifestyle ... (187 words)

Nipple stimulation produces very intense sensations... is this odd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - just a quick question about pleasure. when my nipples are stimulated i get an odd sensation like a craving but i dont know what for or how to get rid of it. im not a virgin...far from it but for example when im in the shower and the showerhead is on massage if i stand so it hi... (91 words)

Trouble finding someone that likes me...

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just wondering where are the best places to find a guy im having trouble finding someone that i fancy and that likes me i want to look for someone i dont know to build up on a relationship with but dont really no where to look any ideas? thnx... (53 words)

I'm worried about why I'm not getting pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and I know I am completely in love with him!! The thing is I kept getting little scares where I thought I was pregnant and then it turned out my period was just late, this happened for a couple of months but there back to normal ... (320 words)

When I ask him about us, he always says he wants things to stay as they already are - but I'm not happy with the little time we spend together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - im a 41 yr old woman, whose been in a 2 yr relationship with my bf, hes 60, we both been married and divorced with children from our marrages, his children are grown, but his younger son is still living with him, hes 18 and 2 of my children are grown but i have a 7 yr old that ... (491 words)

He says he will not forgive my having cheated unless I do something amazingly big??!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well,im only 14 but me and my bf where going out for nearly 7 months, at the begining of the relation ship wasnt very faithful to him, he found out about a few of the times that i cheated on him soon after it happened. and then for the next few months everything was fine, ... (172 words)

Can he go to jail for being with a 13 year old girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Yes, I am 13 years old and I have a boyfriend and he is 17 years old, can he go to jail for being with a 13 year old girl?... (30 words)

How do I show my boyfriend I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i show my boyfriend that i love him? we are dating for 2 years and 3 months. i do tell him that i love him but i feel that it is not enough. ... (35 words)

I want to leave my partner, and this country, but our children complicate things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to leave my partner , but what makes it so difficult is that I’m from a different country and we also have two young children with a third on the way. When I leave my partner I don’t wish to stay in Australia. I have no social network here and no income but what can I ... (97 words)

When I ask for sex, he says no, but what should I do when he asks for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i live with my boyfriend for the past two years but any time i ask for sex he says no with the reason that he is either sick or tied but if he ask i dont dont hesisted to give it out because i luv and dont wat him to go out and have sex with someone else.so please advice me on ... (82 words)

I'm wondering if I'm doing the right thing by being with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've recently got involved with a guy I know. I knew he had a girlfriend of 3 years, but we couldn't stop flirting with each other. His girlfriend was never around as she was always working, and we grew closer. He said he was going to finish with her which believed.... (178 words)

I happened to see my son masturbating and don't quite know what to do about it!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a mother of 2 kids, 11 year old boy and 8 year old girl. My husband is on a business tour and will be back only after two months. Couple of days back I happened to see my son doing masterbation in his bedroom. He does not know that I have seen it. He has not even reached ... (142 words)

How to set up a watching game?

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3 June 2008 (M)

age - Can those who have watched their wives doing it with other men, give me some advise on how best to set about arranging such action?... (25 words)

I just can't shake the feeling that she cheated on me!

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I recently posted about my girlfriend cheating on me, full details here - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/did-she-sleep-with-him.html I still have this feeling that she did have sex with him the two times that he told me about and i feel she would lie to me about i... (377 words)

Took the emergency contraception, but I'm unfamiliar with it and my cycle! Advice please!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been making love but he has never cum inside me. well he did it just the other day but i took the EC on time so my worry was can i get pregnant since i dont know how my cycle goes and i dont use the regular birth control. help am still a new comer on ... (63 words)

I want to have sex with a girl just once, but I'm on the verge of dating this hot new guy!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i had boyfriends plus crushes but now i am beginning to want something more..i want to have sex with a girl just once and experience how it feels..but i am on the verge of dating this new hot guy who is totally crazy about me..he would freak out if he gets to know about me..so ... (59 words)

Should I break up with my husband?

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3 June 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am thinking of leaving my husband, he is an only child and of course which is natural, his mother thinks the world of him. We got married less that 2 years ago, dont have sex anymore, he walked out on me before, but we managed to get back together, i ... (400 words)

My bf is worrying me about giving him a child!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, am in a relationship with my bf for about 3 years now but all my bf say is he want a child within the next year but i ask him to see my parents which he say he is not yet ready. so am confuse should give birth before he see my parents or is should wait? please help me.... (61 words)

Missed two periods, body's changing, but four pregnancy tests have been negative!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya im woundering if you could help im in a situation of duno if im pregnant cause i was on the contraception pill, but i stopped taking it and i had unprotected sex when my period was due in about a week and i know missed 2 monthes of my period but when im takin the pregnancy ... (96 words)

I couldn't cancel the bookclub plans in favour of dinner with my husband's family, this created much tension between us. Your opinions?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My Husband asked me if we can go to his brother's who is visiting for four months has invited us to eat dinner, i told him that yes i would love to go, but that the bookclub was that night, so i told him that i may cancel so we can go. i contacted the bookclub and i felt i had ... (193 words)

My wife wants to have a MFM threesome, but I do not want to...

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife of 10 months wants to have mfm threesome but i dont think i want to. what should i do?... (21 words)

How do I break up with a suicidal girl?

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i break up with a girl i've been dating for 10 months when she has a past history of being suicidal and says she couldn't live without me. also she lost her virginity to me to make things that much harder. no matter what i want to stay friends with and i dont want her ... (63 words)

A question about pleasure and pain in sex.

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this may be a weird one just to warn you :] when me and my boyfriend are together he likes me to slap him because it "turns him on" is this okay? I mean I don't want to hurt him if I do...I feel really bad about it. Is this like a pain fetish?? thanks in advance :]... (61 words)

A long and complicated breakup.. desperately need advice and support please

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - being dumped is hard. here goes :( so me and my (ex) bf had been on a rocky road for a long time, ever since i went off to college and we tried the long distance thing. after many arguments, many about him smoking - i have a problem with this (smoking pot, not cigarettes) ... (1092 words)

My girl has suddenly changed, is she going to split up with me?

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok i've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half, And during the past few month she has been increasingly getting annoyed with me at being lazy around the house(she dosnt live with me).For example she works hard, long hours and i sit on my ass playing on the 360, But ... (420 words)

Going by the expiry date, when might this condom have been bought?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship of 3 years, and i found a condom wrapper in the room and im trying to figure out when it might have been bought. The exp. Date on it is october of 2009. It was by some of my boyfriends thing from when he was married. But i cant figure any thing out. Im ... (68 words)

Can you get an STD from sperm on skin?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend had sex with her boyfriend a recently. Not to sound gross but he took off his condom at the last second and his sperm went all over her back. Is there any risk of STD just by it being on bare skin? She freaked out but I told her she was probably safe. Any ideas?... (58 words)

Lots of signs by boyfriend is cheating. What should I do?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old female, my boyfriend of 3 years is 27. I need help figuring out if he has been cheating on me. He a tow truck driver and works all the time, the problam is when i go to my parents he doesn't answer the phone most of the time i call and i have came home a few ... (208 words)

Why does he want to be in a relationship without the 'boyfriend' or 'girlfriend' title?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does this guy im talking to want to be in a relationship without the girlfriend?boyfriend title? He says its just public, but if he did that with his Ex"s why not me?... (33 words)

How often do people see or contact their boyfriends and girlfriends each week on average?

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3 June 2008 (F)

- I'm just curious as to how often people see their bfs/gfs each week on average? And on the days that you do not see your bf/gf do you always contact them by phone/email/text message to see how they are going? Thanks for the replies in advance :) ... (55 words)

Will his mother ever accept me as a person? It would be better to be greeted with hug and smile, rather than 'ugh!'

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 asian woman and dating a european man for over 5 years now. But, through this 5 years, I have had a really hard time talking to his mother. And being around her makes me uncomfortable. Everytime we stopped by at her house, I rather stay in the car and wait. Then my ... (215 words)

I have a problem with my fiancee, please help!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i've been engaged to this guy for a year and a half and we have been living together for 4 months and he hangs out way more with his friends then with me...do i have a right to be upset?... (41 words)

I'm having communication issues. What can I do without being rude or a kill joy?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having communication issues. I am co-chair for a young single adults activity group, known as the young single adult family home evening, in my church. They call me and my male counterpart "Mom" and "Dad". Well, "Dad" isn't communicating with me and I'm having trouble ... (136 words)

Can't Get Over Him after 5 Years Have Passed...

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - We where together from when i had just finished turning 14. He was 19 or had just turned 20. Our Birthdays are on the 1st and 2nd of Same month. Our relationship was wonderful we faught But never anything serious,he would always be mad at me about the dummest little things ... (696 words)

I would just like to know why no guys have asked me out?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't get it alot of guys like me and i mean ALOT but yet no guy has asked me out and I'm thinking that it is me. My mom says that guys are affraid of me saying no if they ask me out. I feel really down about that. I don't know ehat to do about this and I would like to get a ... (96 words)

I think the guy I liked said no to going out because of a friend. Should I give up or hold on?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this one guy and I asked him out but he said no.I think the reason he said no was because his freind likes me and he said something to him about it. Well sould I give up on this guy or sould I hold on? I think and all my freinds think that he likes me, and I really like ... (63 words)

Can you please help me with a birth-control problem?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I had the implanon put in a month about a month ago. My period during that time or the rod insertion was normal, now that it has become that time of month again I'm bleeding less daily but i'm bleeding longer. So it's lighter bleeding but lasting more days that what it ever ... (136 words)

Should I ask her out and hope for a yes?

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 16 finally got the guts to tell a girl (15) ive been in love with for a while how i felt and she didnt give a response, we've always been flirty with eachother since we became friends, should i ask her out and hope for a yes... (48 words)

Should I believe him or go and cut my losses?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted last week about my boyfriend leaving me moving out etc. Well he did come home ramdomly when I was out one night called me at 5 am saying he wanted me back. Were trying to work on our relationship. Currently we live in a small one bedroom that is in my name and I mostly ... (103 words)

Will she ever want a three-some again?

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my wife have been maried for almost 10 years now. Our relationship is great and the sex is wonderful. About 5 years ago we had a threesome with a close friend of ours. It happened twice and was great for all three of us. The problem is I would love to do it again with ... (97 words)

I can't help feeling insecure that some girls may want him!

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3 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I'm feeling insecure. My boyfriend told me that a lot of people tellhim he's good looking mostly female friends or classmates. I know it's silly and that I should be proud to be with him - indeed, I'm porud - however, I can't stop feeling a bit insecure that some girls may w... (243 words)

Memorial Day drinking and violence. I need some advice in the aftermath!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - On Memorial Day (5-26-08) me and my boyfriend hung out with two of his friends (twins) and got some beer and alcohol to have a little party. We have been going out on and off for 4 years...it was meant to be fun but my boyfriend started getting loud and mad at everyone. He ... (319 words)

I want to date her, but I'm worried about the distance and the fact she's just getting over a break up. And she doesn't know I'm bi, but mostly for her....

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend just got out of a three year relationship, she was the dumpee. They broke up because of distance/growing apart, etc. We're all in college and me and her girlfriend go to the same college. I just like her so much. I have for at least a year. She doesn't exactly ... (159 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend with his best friend!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i cheated on my boyfriend with his bestfriend and he found out we broke up and he has a new girl its been about a month now but we still talk like we normally did and he still tells me he loves me and we hook up all the time what should i do..?... (54 words)

My boyfriend is having trouble letting go of the fact I wasn't a virgin!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of six months is having troubles letting go the fact that I wasn't a virgin before we started dating. I was totally honest with him when we first started dating that i wasn't a virgin coming out of a year relationship with someone else. My preasent boyfriend was a ... (113 words)

Cunnilingus blues... this discharge is ruining my sex life!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had thick white-ish discharge when I get wet for as long as I can remember. All my friends told me they got it too sometimes, but when my boyfriend found out, he stopped going down on me. I try to clean it off whenever I can find it, but it's no use because I get wet ... (176 words)

Wondering about his foot fetish, I'm not sure how to take this!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the past couple months I have been hanging out with my brother at our lake house and his friends. Im 29 and they are in their early to mid 40's. I started to fall for "Colin" whom I have hung out w/ 4 times. This past weekend "Colin" invited me up to hang out. With my ... (278 words)

I think my best friend's sister might like me, but I don't want to ruin either friendship!

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, me and my best friend have known each other since we were 8 (im now 20), and he has a sister that is 18 and weve flirted a bunch over the course of 12years but we never acted on them, she always laughs and is more open when im around then any other friends Im not 10... (104 words)

Should I tell him about the annulment now or later, or even never?

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3 June 2008 (F) - Should I tell him now or never? I had a short duration (3 months)of a long-distance marriage. My ex was impotent at the time of marriage so this marriage was never consummated. I moved to a different state, later we both moved to different countries therefore the legal paperw... (349 words)

I seem to be the one putting all the effort in. Should I end the relationship? I need input!

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok everyone this is a big question I have and it might be a decision that I could regret but I wanna know what you all think. I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months and she's a great girl and all...but I have noticed some problems. We get along great but I seem to be... (247 words)

Not sure how he'll react to a pregnancy... what should I do?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a single parent recently come out of the nastiest 5 year relationship of my life. I'm now with a new guy and am so happy. we've been together for about a month and a bit and things are great, he doesn't live locally though and I think i may be pregnant. I have done two ... (260 words)

Should I make a stand that he stop drinking so heavily?

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married 13 years. When dating, we both liked to drink and party quite a bit. Now our children 12 year old twins) are older, and I find that I am not as interested in drinking nearly as much as he. Yes, I have changed, since I have become a mom. But... (204 words)

My gf was molested when she was younger, how do I help her?

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi ive been with my gf for about 10 months...we both liked eachother in highschool and once we graduated. after highschool we got together and within two weeks i asked her out...i fell in love.. the first night we talked was for 6 hours straight...so we both fell deep.as ... (224 words)

What should I do? He's pushing me to do unpleasant things!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 13 years old and I'm dating a 17 year old,but he keeps pushing me to do unpleasant things,what should I do?... (23 words)

This will be my first time, and I don't know where to start!

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3 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know wat to do this will be my first time and i dont know where to start. please please help.... (23 words)

As soon as she told me she loved me, I began to get scared!

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3 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this wonderful girl for almost 4 months now and I'm beginning to get confused. After like a month I told her I loved her, I was pretty sure that I did. She thought it was way too early to talk about love and I agreed, so we continued to date. As the ... (280 words)

We want to go on a cruise, any tips about where and the weather?

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3 June 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend and I decided to take a vacation together. We're not a sun/beach person (since we both get burn in the sun very easily). So we were thinking about a cruise or Mexico/Cuba all inclusive. This way we're indoor if we want to. I'm leaning more on the cruise. We want to ... (108 words)