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writes:Hey everyone I have a little problem, I have a friend who I have known for 5 years, she's incredible and everything and we're very close but she doesn't want to take our friendship into a relationship...I'm okay with this but I can't get her out of my head! I know nothing will ever happen between us but this is hard! Please help me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (18 June 2008):
 If she really is that important to you, I'd be her very close, very personal friend. Show her that YOU are the one who will take care of her, YOU are the one that listens to her, YOU are the one that is there for her, nomatter what. She might go through some crappy boyfriends, but eventually, she will notice you, in that light. She will wonder what she was doing wasting her time with rediculous boyfriends that treated her badly, when you were there, all along. In the mean time, there is no cure for feeling the way you feel about her. They don't call it a "crush" for nothing, you know what I mean? Be strong, stay distracted, and be that perfect person for her. It wont go ignored. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): Wellz, my advice would be simply use the romantic words guys are most known for. Shock her by telling her how much you care and her best features. don't get way to deep into it though.. don't make it sound completely desperate.. just like a last resort.. now if this doesn't work then jusy wait till she's ready to take it to that next step.
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