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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why put forth all of the effort to just change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

- About a year ago i dated this boy for about a year, we were both 17 at the time. I broke up with him during the exams because we were both really stressed out and werent getting along. Neither of us got over it for a long time, we havent seen each other since but we talked a ... (374 words)

How can I get him to initiate sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - been with my boyfriend 4 years, and in the last 6 months or so have discovered it is mainly me that initiates sex, as soon as i touch him sexually or kiss him passionately he gets an errection so there is no problem with attraction (i dont think), but he never starts anything. ... (108 words)

What are some techniques for lasting longer in bed? And how can I exercise my PC muscle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to last longer in bed and was wondering if there are any techniques to help me? I've heard of strengthening your PC muscle and Jelqing, do these work? Everytime i try to find my PC muscle i can't seem to find it :S Is there any other way of exercising your PC r... (88 words)

How can I stay strong through these hard times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 16 and i'm having a bit of trouble. Well my best friend(lets call her A) was diagnosed with a brain tumor a few months ago and this news hit me really badly, i stopped eating started failing in some of my subjects at school etc. And i have needed a friend to help me out i... (223 words)

I want my ex back but he won't talk to me! What do people think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is that I would like to get back with my ex but he won't even talk to me. We broke up 9 months ago-he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and broke it off suddenly after getting heavy, making long term plans for us etc. I texted him shortly after because I found ... (393 words)

Did I cheat or did I not cheat? I'm so confused....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so the guy that I am dating (but he claims we are not in a relationship "JUST dating") stopped speaking to me for two weeks. I thought he was not coming back. History: Long story short, (about 3 years ago) I was married for a year and my now EX-husband got up and left ... (323 words)

Dry spot and severe pain is putting me off sex! What's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months now and at first the sex was great and just about every night! Now its hardly ever, which I guess is normal but recently I haven't been enjoying it as much and it has also become painful. I have been to see my GP and asked for ... (136 words)

Could sharp pains in my head be linked to masturbation?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am a 15yr old male incase the above says otherwise. I masturbate frequently but recently have had a problem. I occasionaly get sharp pains in my head for a short while (for about 15-30mins). Also, I don't know if this is relevant but I think I am goign through puberty but ... (113 words)

Everyone is rowing and I'm in the middle. I must be the worst wife and mother in the world. Please give me some advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for 22 years not happy and i have a boyfriend. my husband and i still live together just for financial reasons. I have 2 sons one 16 and another 13. the 13yr old has had severe anxiety problems that has resulted in him being a non attender at school fior ... (230 words)

We need to spice up our marriage. Please tell me what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm married and I have been married for 16 years now.I am trying to figure out what's the best thing to do.My husband comes to bed around 4 in the morning instead of spending time with me.I have told him time and time again to please come to bed.He will do it for the first 2 ... (225 words)

Second cousin has a crush on me. Could it be a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - yeah i have a 2nd cousin thats had a crush on me since we were little. i never really thought much about it but now im starting to get a crush on her... the problem is i dont know if she still likes me or how our friends and family would take it...... (53 words)

My brother and his girlfriend had a baby. I want one so much...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok my brother and his girl just had a baby and i love her dearly and i want one but you see im only 13 and they live far away so i dont get to see her that much and i really want one what should i do ... (48 words)

What are the chances I'm pregnant??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i started my period on june 7 finished on june 11, has sex (unprotected,and he came in me) on june 13 and 18. i should have ovulated somewhere around june 21. we also had sex on june 28 and he came in me then as well. my boobs are a little sore, i feel like i have heartburn... (137 words)

My BF doesn't work and is immature, the new guy is a drug dealer. Who do I choose?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i got a problem...ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year and i love him to death, but he dont work he is kinda immatuire and we fight about stupid things...well i met this other guy he is so sweet to me he is all i think about he does everything he can to make me happy he is ... (104 words)

Is it ever ok to make a move on a best friend's ex, let alone doing it in his own house?? What should I say/do as I am witnessing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just recently moved into a house with a good friend (Steve), and his best friend (Kevin) that I don't really know too well. Before this, Steve was living with his girlfriend of several years. They had a long drawn out break up, and I don't know all the details, but it ... (368 words)

What should I do since my parents don't trust me and my BF sleeping in the same room?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my new bf have been dating for a month and my parents still don't trust him sleeping in the same bed as me even if they are in the same room. what should i do since my parents don't trust me.please help... (44 words)

I used to think I looked ok, now I have major confidence issues and feel ugly.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i am having major security problems or confidence problems, i feel im really ugly and thats why i havent got a boyfriend and i feel everyone is constantly laughing at me like the other day i was walking past a few guys and i was looking at them and they were looking at ... (140 words)

How do I learn to trust and regain my self esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I am seeking some advice on how to get beyond the things that have happened to my marriage and my self esteem. My husband of six years (together for 10) cheated on me with an 18 year old girl. He actually left the kids and I for about three months before coming ... (282 words)

I want to stay with him him so much. Heart or head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm considering ending my relationship of 8 months because I have become so paranoid about my boyfriend cheating. Four months ago he suggested going on a break for a few weeks, and later admitted it was to see another girl who he took on dates and slept with. He apologised and ... (165 words)

Have I started my periods or just broken my hymen??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i am very worried! about a week a go my boyfriend fingered me! everything was ok ... then i started bleeding 4 a short while then it stopped.i have not started my periods yet but now there is this short discharge(marroon colour) and about 1 table spoon of blood comes out... (68 words)

How can I get rid of my emotional attachment to my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for a few months--he is WONDERFUL. I mean I don't even have to ask for anything, he just does it. He's like a prince charming. Everyone in my family loves him and so do my friends. There is only one problem....I don't think I feel the same way!! I ... (169 words)

I'm sleeping 12-16 hours a day, and I have other unpleasant symptoms. Can anyone suggest what's wrong with me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help plz.recently have been sleeping more than usual.i sleep like 12-16hours a day and even at that,i get someone to wake me up not me waking up willingly. i get tired easily and all i wona do is lie down and rest.whenever i stand up to go get something,i become weak and... (222 words)

I need some wisdom about why I keep making bad choices! Now a married man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'am an emotional mess....I dated my first love and everything for almost 5 years...he cheated,lied....you know the deal....i forgave him the 2 times he cheated,,,i always felt resentment but i loved him and decided to continue with him...after all that he dumped me...i was fed ... (274 words)

What's the best contraceptive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help. i'm getting married next month and i want to find the best way to avoid getting pregnant. i heard that the pills sometimes has some side effects is it true? what r they? thanks.... (42 words)

I used to be a strong person but now I feel weak and pathetic! Why can't I stay away from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I used to be such a strong-willed person. Now I feel weak and pathetic. I really feel like such a mess all because of a guy. I have been in a thing ( i call it a thing because I don't know what it is!) with a guy for many many months now and its taking such a toll on me. IT ... (477 words)

I want to know how I should handle myself on the first few dates? I don't want to appear clingy or desperate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

- im in a new relationship after breaking up with my fiancee of a year and a half and i cant remember how i should act for the first few dates like how much is too much or too little texting and how much is too much or too little seeing each other. as i dont want to seem clingy ... (115 words)

I have a mental block that prevents me from having an orgasm during sex! How do I get past it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a mental block that prevents me from coming during sex or fingering, i can come no problem from oral or masturbation...when my bf fingers me it feels amazing and he knows just how to hit my gspot, but when he goes at it for a while i get the sensation that im going to ... (97 words)

Do his actions show that he fancies me? What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he fancy me? I have known this guy for 4 years and over the past couple of years we have become good friends, especially in the last 6 months. He has always had mostly female friends and so is comfortable around us all and the more he seems to know someone the more h... (284 words)

I love two men equally and I know I'm selfish. Which heart do I break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This is my first post. I am in a dilema. I love two men... James and Will (not real names). Dated James for two years when I moved offices and met Will. Me and James were fine until I met Will, me and Will clicked and sparked and everything that should happen. He had 3 ... (564 words)

What should I do about my vile friend? She's getting mean!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello ! i have a freind and shes my best freind and she has started to be mean to me for no apparent reason. she comments on things i say even if they dont involve her she constantly has a little go at me for no reason.today a girl who i am not fond of said something mean a... (117 words)

Do men these days really want LOVE or do they just want pure SEX?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age - I am a woman in her fifties. Do men really want LOVE these days or just pure sex. It seems to be love has flown out of the window. Obviously sex is part of any relationship but it seems the men of today ONLY want sex. Is this true? it would be nice to hear some mens ... (84 words)

This may be stupid...but...what is a multiple orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

30 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - what is a multipul orgasm? :S my boyfriend always talks about it and i dont know what it is, i feel kinda stupid.... (23 words)

Am I wrong not to believe my wife over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age - Years ago and 1 or 2 years after we started dating there was a situation where I have never been able to believe that my girlfriend told me the truth. She was at a last day before Christmas work party at a tavern where there was always action and I have always believed that she ... (407 words)

How concerned should I be about the chances of pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i could be a week pregnant but im not sure. but my question is what is the chance? i have the feeling that my worrying is delaying my periode from the stress so thats why i need an answer soon. me and my bf been having sex this past week and im on pill, used condoms, and he ... (104 words)

Has moving to another country destroyed my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now. I moved to Europe so that we can stay together. But since moving here our relationship has been falling apart. We have spent a lot more time together since moving (Since neither one of us friends out here) and I think for the ... (73 words)

He took a day off to spend with friends, but wouldn't do the same to celebrate my birthday - does he care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me. I have this boyfriend and I love him very much but he doesn't seem to care that much about me. Its my birthday coming up and he said that I shouldn't be surprised if he forgets - which upset me because I made a real fuss over him on his. I asked him to tak... (157 words)

I become petrified at the thought of experimenting more, sexually wise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have kissed three guys. The first was just a kiss at the end of a date but the last two guys I made out with. I am scared though becasue I don't know how to do anything else. Is something wrong with me because I am scared to get undressed in front of a guy and am ... (112 words)

What would I need to do if I was considering a complete change of career plan?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Not really a love question but a career qustion, but thought I would give it a go here anyways. Last year I took a year out - a gap year - before going to university to study for a degree in History, starting in September. I am really excited about university and everything ... (253 words)

He wants a threesome, I said no. Have you tried this and how did it work out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The guy I am seeing has asked me to do a threesome with me. I am not into it and have said no. I mean I know it is suppose to be every guys fantasy, but, I just wondered how many other girls have been asked to do them by guys they are seeing? What did they do? How did it w... (66 words)

What do I do about a guy I met at the pub? I really want him to ask me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone my name is Clare i live in surrey in englnd, i went to a party at a pub the other day and there was this really hot guy who works in there of course being a girl i was wearing a low cut top, anyhow he kept looking at me but i was too embarrased to look at him as im ... (167 words)

How can I catch them if that's the case? I suspect they're cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - we have known each other for 7 years now. I cheated on all my girlfriends with her and allowed her to ruin the relationships. Never made it official with her. I finally have in 2 months ago... About a few weeks ago we've grown distant. We meet up no kiss or hug just arguing. Ke... (165 words)

Is it wrong to date my step sister? Our parents found out and they want to break either their relationship or ours.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2069 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My dad is about to get married and she has a daughter and we really like each other and have been keeping a secret relationship for 2 months. they just found out and they want either their relationship to end or ours. Either way i wont be living in the same house as them. What ... (65 words)

I've been supporting us and my boyfriend feels like I'm "attacking" him when I mention him getting a job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend unofficially for over a year. Our official 1 year anniversary is coming up on July 6th. I'm very happy with him. He is very affectionate, treats me very well, spends lots of time with me and is just all around a good-hearted, sweet guy. We are in ... (725 words)

Met an amazing guy in a foreign country, now I'm depressed that I can't see him again until February. Please advise.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok guys i need help - although i dunno if there is a solution! ok, i was with my boyf for 3 yrs and we broke up - on friendly terms. just before we ended, i was in brazil and met this amazing guy. we were with eachother for only 3 days but swapped details etc. im going back in ... (161 words)

How do I get my boyfriend's dad to move out or make my boyfriend realise it's time for us to find a place of our own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get my boyfriends dad to move out or make my boyfriend realise it's time for us to find a place of our own? I've been going out with my boyfrind for 18 months, and moved in with him and his dad 7 months ago. My boyfriend and his dad have been living together for 9 y... (473 words)

I have confidence issues and don't know what to do. I'm also reluctant to change.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I have serious confidence issues, and today I went to my first day of a new school. Unfortunatley I have been at the same school previously my whole life. Yeah I have mates outside of school and that, but that one day has just altered everything about how I feel. I thought ... (204 words)

Can I find a partner at this age or do all men prefer the company of young(er) ladies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age - I am aged 53 and would love to meet a nice man please tell me it isnt true that all men want young girls. I like to think I am attractive and hopefully nice company but it seems a shame if I have to resign myself to the fact no one is ever going to want me because of my age. ... (102 words)

He saw me naked yet did not step over the limit with me! He says he did not want to rush things but I'm worried he finds me unattractive?!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy i've been seeing occasionally came to visit me this weekend. He drove 1.5-2hrs to get here. This would've been our 4th "date". During our first two we had just cuddled but on our last date we made out a lot. I wasn't sure what was going to happen this time since he'd be ... (428 words)

He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, yet he won't commit to me officially!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with this guy now for over 12months, but we are not a couple, so in other words he wont commit to me and make me his girlfriend, he hasnt met my family and i havent met his, we are both not seeing anyone else and he is very much in love with me, im just not ... (120 words)

She told me she was never in love with me at all. Did I make the right decision to end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 and Ive just broken up with my girlfriend and I'm crushed. We had known each other for bout 9 months but been together six months. In which time she has been telling me that she's so in love with me. However the other day she told me she hasn't been in love with me ... (190 words)

Is a kiss just a kiss? Was THIS kiss just a kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of four years kissed a work colleague. We were going through a rough time and it was during this that the kiss occured. A few weeks before the kiss she had told me she wasnt in love with me anymore......... i had threatened to end it a few times and criticised her ... (229 words)

Two guys, really sweet, tonight is the work party.. give me some advice on what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I just started working at an amusment park a few weeks ago and I've met two guys who work in games, during my breaks. I work in retail. They are both tall and have brown hair..and are sweet. I think I have a type. Tonight is our work party. Some of the rides are open just for... (124 words)

Can anyone understand the relationship I have with a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know nobody would understand the relationship i have.I`m having an affair with a married man.I`ve tried to stop my feelings towards him,but he`s persistent in courting me.He did the best and the sweetest things to win my heart.I know that married men does like this.But i`d ... (150 words)

Does anyone have any hints for shaving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Shaving pube's is a nightmare.. Trying to get into all those little awkward places, anyone got any hints on how to get the best shave, and get to those awkward bits? Lol thanx xox... (34 words)

He won't have sex with me because I had a one night stand. This is breaking my heart.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya well im 17 and my bf is 27 we have been together for 3 years and i love him dearly i want to spend the rest of my life with him and he says that he wants the same. well the problem is about 1 and 1/2 years ago while we was split up i had a one night stand but couldnt go ... (193 words)

He wants me to take control. I want to be controlled. Is there a solution?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend wants me to take control but i want to be controled. how can i fix this problem?... (19 words)

If we are taking a break, can I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been going through the mill for the past year as she had an emotional affair with an old friend of hers. We have been to counselling and talked alot and it appears she has quite a few personal problems and ghosts she wants to sort out. She asked for a pe... (194 words)

Are there many who are "saving themselves for marriage"?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

- How many Christians who go to church on a regular basis do you think are saving themselves for marriage these days?... (21 words)

He use to date my best friend and now he is asking me out. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - there us a guy who use to date my ex-bestfriend know is asking me out. his saying he should have ask me instead of my former bestfriend but i don't want tobenore than a friend to him. what shouldi do i don't want to lose our friendship and i don't want to date him. plus he ... (63 words)

He told me to stop kissing him. I don't understand.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of one year (we have our first aniversary this week) told me last night .. in the middle of kissing, to stop! I didnt understand what he ment .. he said He is tired of kissing me for this long. It was not like we were kissing for no reason, he knew it will go somew... (203 words)

Does my boyfriend really want to be with me at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 ½ years and I love him very much. We have been discussing living together for the past year, but nothing seems to move forward. Whenever I try to discuss the subject he say’s that he really wants to be with me and he w... (282 words)

I want to join a Christian group but I feel ashamed of myself. I feel like an outcast.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

- .I'm 19 years old and I feel like an 'outcast' in society. I feel like everyone wants me to change and be someone who I'm not comfortable with. Most of my values and beleifs are based on Christianity, and although I believe in God, I dont know alot about the bible and so for... (367 words)

I'm prescribed to take antibiotics but, I'm on birth control..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, just to found out I had gum disease I was prescribed to take Amoxycillin. I haven't just yet because, from this 8 months of taking the pill I wasn't prescribed any medicines or antibiotics because, I was in good health now I'm in the edge. My boyfriend is still on vaca... (222 words)

I'm sure he's "at it". I want to catch him. Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - About the beginning of last month my husband started acting different. One morning when I woke up, I decided to go onto his MSN and his facebook to see what I could find. On his MSN hotmail he had an email from an adult sex site. I got the password and logged into his account. ... (245 words)

Is this too much of an age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (?) - Hi everyone... I'm after meeting this guy a few weeks ago and have been out on a few dates and we just get on really well... The thing is the other nite we were talking and I found out he's nearly 24 and I'm 31 next month! I thought he said he was 27/28 when we first ... (117 words)

My partner speaks to her "friend" daily. Then I found sexual text messages...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently got engaged and moved in with my partner. Until last week, everything was perfect and i couldn't imagine anything else i could wish for in life until we were driving home from work, my partner took a phone call from a friend i had never heard of before. She told ... (515 words)

I can't stop thinking of what this woman said, what do I do?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A mysterious woman saw me on the road a week ago and told me that i will be married to an already married man. to my culture, its ok but to me, i hate to share. i was so scared that i went praying heavily. i started working at a company not long ago and a married man called me ... (106 words)

How do I hint to my boyfriend I need more affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

30 June 2008 (F)

- hi all! :) maybe i'm just sounding silly...but how do i hint at my boyfriend that i need more affection.? you see he works a lot and ive gotten the vibe that hes not making an effort to see me...we hardly saw eachother last week only monday and friday and today is now mond... (110 words)

I don't want my ex girlfriend to see my son. What can I do?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - please help with advice i have a 9 yr old son from a previous marriage of which i am divorced i ended a 5 yr relationship with ex girl friend 12 months ago of which we lived together for 4 and a half years also with my son he lived with us sunday morning till wednesday mornin... (151 words)

I haven't had a climax. Is it my fault it's not working?

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30 June 2008 (F)

- ok well...before my boyfriend and i started having sex, i was a virgin. Now we've been doing it for about 6 weeks. During this time, i have not once climaxed! I'm not sure if it's myself or my boyfriends fault but it really puts his confidence down as this has never happened to ... (136 words)

Would it be awkward if I called?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - at this place i work this girl comes and keeps lookin at me. Her friend came up to me and said she likes me. A week later her friend came and gave me her number. I've never spoken to her but she is extremely pretty. Wouldn't it be awkward to call? Any suggestions to get talkin ... (66 words)

I'm finding it hard to look past the sex in a relationship!

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I havent been able to love a woman in the past without sexual gratification i only love women foe sex. but now am a christian and find it hard to go into a relationship because of my past sexual escapades i have had as much as 30 sex paartners in the past advice me... (54 words)

Do you think that he might like me? How shall I act towards him?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - just so you know i am usually negative so dont worry if you write no or anything like it. i like a lad. i know him because he coaches my brothers football. the only thing is, is that he has stopped now. i have been flirting with him a few times. recently i went to his 18... (228 words)

Am I being used, stupid or plainly naive?? Our deal is unofficial and he still has feelings for an ex.

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,im really confused and to avoid getiing hurt again i would like some advice if poss. in about feb i started to date this guy i knew from work, it lasted about two weeks if that. things then became a little akward at work but we still remained good friends. we texted most day... (373 words)

He tried to kiss me but I pulled away as I haven't kissed before, any tips?

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30 June 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Erm, my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now but we're not kissed, he has tried to kiss me, but I'v not had my first kiss yet so I pulled away :/ I am worried about not knowing what to do and need some tips, can anyone help? ... (52 words)

We are ready to work at our relationship. Why then do I keep fantasizing about the guy at work I cheated with?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my bf with a guy from work. We broke up because we had so many problems but then he showed me significant changes that made me want to be with him again. We talked some things over yesterday and I wanted a fresh start so I told him about what happened with the guy ... (156 words)

What might have been wrong with this guy?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age - My wife reports that an ex boy friend when he was age 22, had his penis out his pants while making out with her. She didn't allow sex, but she noticed that it was not properly erect. Later,when he was 37, she had an affair with him,and although he penetrated, it w... (112 words)

My girlfriend's background is trashy, rather slutty and I suffer from it. How can I get past this? How can I regain confidence?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 28 yrs old and I am in love with this 24 yrs old british girl with a pretty filled and trashy sexual background. We have been together for 4 months and connected staright away, we are both crazy and very alert but the first times we tried to have sex were a real nig... (363 words)

Trying to get pregnant after recent miscarriage and menstrual cycle is messed up. Ayone else been through this?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts (and Uncles)! I had a miscarriage in April this year (I was 6 wks along). I didn't require any procedure etc, bled for about 4-5 days, no pain, no other issues. My DR told us there should be nothing to stop us trying to fall pregnant again as soon as we felt rea... (179 words)

Any feedback please from anyone with experience of inter-racial dating?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HI! I was just wondering what your guys' thoughts are about interracial dating. I'm black, and yes I AM attracted to guys within my race, but I'm more into white guys. Sometimes I find it hard, because I don't really know what a guy is thinking or if they would ever be at... (117 words)

Should I go for the one I think I love, or the one who's in a gang?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy, we've been best friends for a while now. We had an amazing time the other night. We stayed up all night talking, kissing, cuddling. I was the happiest I have been in a long time. Though, we are not dating, I think I may be falling for him. I don't know ... (335 words)

I want to accept Mike, but I fear he will reject me once I tell him that a while ago I slept with his brother!

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge crush on this guy Mike that I have been friends with for 16 years and I'm extremely close with his family.Even in high school I had a crush on him. I never once thought he looked at me the same. And a little over a year ago I had gotten involved with the wrong ... (244 words)

Is this normal and if not is there better out there?...

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - In my relationship - i have to ask for affection - hugs and kisses. I have never had a meaningful conversation - we talk about trivial stuff only, We never do anything together or go anywhere together, we have nothing in common and cannot find a hobby we both like together - ... (64 words)

He says I'm the only one he's had sexual feelings over, but in reality he is not gay. I've fallen in love with him, now what?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I'm a 14 year old, gay guy and one of my best friends is 16 and doesnt exactly know his sexuality yet. Me and him have made out a lot and I've given him bj's (sorry 4 the tmi). He's told me that he's straight and that im the only one that he's had sexual feelings over but ... (99 words)

He had his first lap dance and I'm feeling even more insecure now, help me cope, please.

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30 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hello there, I have a problem, which makes me feel bad about myself. I'm insecure, and I'm not sure why, and I wish I could somehow turn off some switch inside me to stop feeling like this. It's about strippers and strip clubs. I wish so much I looked like a stripper - ... (519 words)

Does anyone think that I should remove her as a friend from the social networking website?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I broke up almost an year ago but I'm still having some trouble getting over it. My ex has moved on and has made it clear that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. We're both members of a social networking website and since I have her as a friend, I keep getting alerts ... (111 words)

How do I stop obsessing about someone? He was a teacher at my school.

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I need to know if anyone knows how to stop an obsession with someone. Or at least tone it down. I have this friend and we're both either in love with or obsessed with this 26 year old guy. He's cute, funny, good company, smart, and just so friendly. You never have to worry ... (376 words)

How can I break this off without looking like a jerk?!

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I no longer want to have any contact with a girl who has been interested in me for six months. The girl had been using me as a back up for her rocky relationship with her boyfriend. (She never told me she had a boyfriend. I found out through her friend her real intent with ... (142 words)

Can anyone tell me a good website where I can get videos on how to have sex?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Can anyone tell me a good website where i can get videos on how to have sex?... (17 words)

Could her actions mean she has feelings for me too even though she said otherwise?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on one of my friends and I told her the other day. She told me she didn't return the feelings but I wasn't expecting it because she had a boyfriend. I just wanted to get it off my chest because she's too good of a friend to keep things from. Luckily, it didn't ... (226 words)

My dad would touch me while I was sleeping as a child, I only started remembering this last year. Please help me.

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am 30 years old with 3 beautiful children. I have had horrible relationships in the past, abusive, and now I am a single mother. My dad is an alcoholic, and as a child he was very touchy feely with me all the time. I hated it but didn't stop, I mean I tried and even ... (299 words)

I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad doesn't approve.

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im 15 years old and i have a b/f that is 23 years old. i love him with all my heart. we've only been dating for 4 months and already i love him and wanna spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad dont approve. a lot of people think its weird but i dont..he dont. if your i... (178 words)

How can I gain her trust back and get a second chance with her? Please help I need some good advice....

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help! Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago now after being together for a year. I love her so much and I want us to get back together, but I dont know how to convince her to give me another chance. The reason for us breaking up was that we got in a huge... (495 words)

Can something that just sort of happens be so wrong?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to a married guy for months on the internet, it was always general chit chat nothing flirty or sexy until Friday. I don't know how it happened but we got chatting and then flirting and then pictures were swapped, sexy pictures. It is actually a little weir... (201 words)

I'm 16 and I like a boy who's 13, Is this wrong?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and i like a boy who is 13, i am very immature, and every guy i have liked has been younger than me. I've only been in 1 relationship (if you can really call it that) Is it wrong to like him??? ... (47 words)

Should I feel used? Do you think there is any hope that we'll get back together?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my g/f broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and i'm still depressed. she was my first g/f and i'm 18 and she's 17. i thought everything was going great but i had noticed somethings but ignored them, thinking i was paronoid. after visiting her for a few hours i went home and she ... (168 words)

Please help a guy in love and in need.

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone...help a guy in love and in need. I've been seeing this girl a good few months now, and tonight we argued a lot...I got/get very angry about her past (she used to be a drug addict), I feel like i'll always come second to the need she felt for her 'fix' or what... (122 words)

It's been this 'back and forth' kind of thing. I need a different outlook.

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship off and on for the past two years with a man that I have considered a friend, lover, and family. We have been, so to speak, kindred spirit. I know this sounds silly but it true. The past 6 months we have trid to make our relationship work, but the ... (140 words)

She's showing the same signs of cheating again, what should I do?

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30 June 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hey heres my question... Ok so ive been with my girlfriend for over a year now. we broke up a couple of times because it was obvious that she was cheating on me, so i broke up with her. we got back together about 2 months ago and everything was going great. none of her famil... (188 words)

How do I tell my crush I like him without sounding so desperate?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush called me last night and i want to talk to him again. I want to him to know that i like him, but how do i do that without sounding so desperate?... (34 words)

I have problems making friends and girlfriends, can you help, please?

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I hope im doing this right ! I have problems making friends and girlfriends.(2 questions) 1. Friends: Im 19 turning 20, and by now I figured i'd have a list of friends as long as my arm and a girl in my life. However the complete opposite happened. Once I left school (3 y... (346 words)

When I come close to her I'm reminded of my ex, and become overwhelmed with hatred and destructive thoughts.

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30 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i got a bit of an issue. I've checked google and things but i dont think anything but human experience can help me with this. i broke up with my G/F about 2 months ago, and shes now saying shes pregnant, but the only time we had sex was about 6 months ago, so she woul... (165 words)

He misses the excitement, and wants that 'lifestyle' back. I don't know what to do.

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30 June 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, Where do I start? We have been together for almost 20 years, married for 6 years. We have been together 24/7 for most of those 20 years. We worked together, lived together. When we got together, we did not live together or work together. I just love him to the p... (415 words)

Does he like me, or should I just forget about him and move on?

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30 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy, we've been close friends for a few months now. There's always been this thing going on between us and we flirt a lot. He has recently told me that he likes me, but somehow i feel like he doesn't. We do flirt sometimes but i just feel like he doesn't real... (118 words)

I just want my husband to show some affection, he thinks by cleaning the house it shows he cares...

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30 June 2008 (F)

age - i have been with my husband for 12 yrs. he never show`s me he cares, he says he can`t show his feeling`s. i have tried to except it but i can`t. i don`t feel loved, wanted, i just feel i have no one. he is never there for me. i have to cope with thing`s alone. i just can`t cope... (279 words)