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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will he come to a party if he knows the girl he stares at is going too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Simple question: would a boy come to a party if he knew that a girl he stares at went too?... (20 words)

If we get into a long distance relationship, how can we spice it up so we both stay interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know if one should go for a long distance relationship..people say it never works..is it true..we live in the same country but different cities..so even if we get into a long distance relationship..how can we spice it up..so that both remain interested..i am 19 years ... (52 words)

I've been having problems with sex and masturbation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Ive been having a few problems with sex and masturbation all my life. When having sex with my long term boyfriend i never seem to have any sexual response at all except for getting wet, If i told him this id completely kill him as he suffers from depression, so have... (133 words)

Is it possible that I could make this a good relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that i have been talking to and i can tell that he is falling for me and, in a way, i am falling for him as well. He's your average guy and he's just sweet, but there is one problem: I have feelings for my teacher. I have liked this teacher since i was abou... (199 words)

Bad relationship, violence included - I'm left feeling unwanted and with no self-confidence. I want to feel happy with myself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 next month, and will be single for a year, I was in a relationship for 2 years in which i was badly treated that included violence from my ex partner. I still think about this alot and feel that my self confidence has gone down alot because of what has happened to me. I ... (182 words)

Never met, long distance relationship, soulmates, strong feelings. Anyone else in the same boat?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 22 female and im seeing this guy who is 23. Long story short...... About a month ago i was on myspace and i was looking around tryin to get add more people to my list of friends. I came across this guy. I requested him as a friend and never thought anything of it. ... (677 words)

Is he gay? Am I wasting my time by marrying him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my fiance' for 2 years now. We got engaged this past November. When we met, we lived about 3 hours apart. We did the long distance relationship for 1 year, and then I moved in with him. We got engaged a few months later. Recently, he left his phone at home ... (353 words)

My boyfriend has trouble with ejaculating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend has touble with ejeculating, sometimes he comes literally after 2 minutes of sex, but quite often it takes him a stranely long time to come, and sometimes no matter what i do he cannot come, he can't even make himself come! He is worried, and so am I, he gets erect ... (66 words)

Children too soon or too late?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have only been married since March, and already he wants to have children, it is all he talks about. I realize that since there is such a huge age difference between us (he's 34, I'm 42), the biological clock is ticking and I need to do this now or never. I ... (171 words)

What can I do if I have lost that love and feeling for my wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What can I do if I have lost that love and feeling for my wife. I feel I am not in love anymore. We have done the getaway trips, I have done everything to please her in anyway and she's done the same but I just don't feel it but I don't want to give up prematurely on us and our ... (191 words)

Does this girl want to be with two guys at once?!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So, one of my friend's girlfriends bugs me all day over and over again to tell her who I like, and I finally tell her that it's her and she flips out and says she likes me too. Then after about a week or 2 of flirting to each other behind my friends back, he finds out and just ... (183 words)

Question for people who have broken up and then gotten back together with their significant others...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for those that have broken up and gotten back together with their significant others: How long after the breakup did either you or your partner try to get back together with you? Or even if you didnt get back together, but either one of you tried, how long did the... (59 words)

What should I do if my teacher finds out I have a crush on him??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a long one... theres this teacher i have a bit of a crush on at school,hes in his late 20s early 30s. when my cat got run over he was trying to cheer me up and said he would hate it if i cried, so hes really caring, my other friend fancies him as well and she will tal... (189 words)

Can going on the pill control periods?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I maybe sound dumb by saying this, But can the pill control periods ? Mine seem to be rather heavy and i am very self contious about them :( .x... (34 words)

Age gaps, can they work??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i think some people have already asked this question but i can't find them at the mo so i'll ask it my self... Basically do people think that an age diffrence of 20 years is to much. I'm 18 and the guy i like is 37/38. We get on really well, he's really flirty with me ... (128 words)

Lets talk about sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Heya! Just curious about the female experience with sex; what gets you off, what do you do, what you enjoy, what you dislike, what works, what doesn't work. Obviously there are a lot of different kinks (nothing too out there, ok? lol) Usually I find a lot of women wh... (115 words)

Are we both gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Um...I have a question. I'm 13 and my friend [who is also a guy] and I have been doing some stuff. We got pretty close last time. We gave each other blow jobs and he licked my ass. Is this normal, or are we gay?... (45 words)

Long distance relationship ends in silence...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve been in a long-distance relationship for the past 5 months with a guy I consider to be the perfect match for me. We have 3 hour phone conversations a few times a week and almost daily emails. We’ve gotten together in person as often as possible. He suffers from anx... (516 words)

I need some amazing sex tips.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is probably going to attract a lot of answers but I just wanted to throw this question out there and get some info. Guys and girls, what are your best sex tips for a wwoman who wants to give her boyfriend an amazing birthday night in?... (49 words)

I'm female and I watch lesbian porn. does this mean I'm bi?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a straight female and I watch lesbian porn, it turns me on and I of course when I first started doing it I wondered why I did. I've been dating this guy for 4 years and everything was perfect up until 3 months ago. My brother told me he was gay because my mom caught him ... (119 words)

I love my mate. how can I tell her and not ruin out friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up with my boyfriend of 6 months last week because I have strong feelings for one of my closest friends, and I felt that all he wanted was sex after I regretably lost my virginity to him in May. She is also a girl, and is only 2 months younger than me. I know that i'm... (194 words)

I need advice on oral sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay ... I need tips. I am a complete novice at oral sex. I've decided that I want to start doing it to my b/f, but I don't know how. I know that his ex used to do it on him, and I feel terrible that I just can't. I started by tasting his pre-cum to get used to it - and I ve... (128 words)

Am I coming on too strong if I write a letter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This will sound like such a silly question..but I'd appreciate some advice incase I'm doing something stupid. I've known a guy for ages as a friend, he has always liked me but I have been in a relationship. I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and am now ready to... (270 words)

My sister gets me into trouble all the time. what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help on this.... Family problem really. Well im 13 and my sister is 9 and we have to share a room. I hate her. Soon as i tidy our room she trashes it or Soon as i tidy the room my mum looks at it then tells me its still a mess. Im always getting in to... (301 words)

Do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My current bf smokes pot three times a day,but he seems like a nice guy, my ex wants me back (he does not smoke weed),do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok? Help... (39 words)

Advice and hints and tips to get his attention are seriously needed ASAP!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hi aunts! ok too cut a complicated story short i basically like this lad and at first we were jus gud mates but now i like him more and more and its soo unfair becoz he has a girlfriend its just my luck to pick the akward lads lol! anyways advice and hints and tips to get his ... (66 words)

I'm unsure if he really wants a kid or if its just baby fever... What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year and Ive known him for 6 years. We have a wonderful relationship and we have a lot of friends but we mostly hang out with a couple that has a kid. Lately my boyfriend has been making comments about having kids and marriage possibly ... (164 words)

Do men in generally like women tiny skinny, or somewhere in between?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering, guys help me out and women too. What type of body to men like in women? Are there any men out there that are actually chub chasers and they like there women big? Or do men in generally like women tiny skinny, or somewhere in between? I would really like a man's ... (120 words)

Please help me talk to him more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i basically need tips on how to get talking to this person more. he's a lad that i'm seriously in love with and he knwos i like him but says he doesn't feel the same although many people thought he did and he used to show it ALOT that he liked me. Well he's a very nice and ... (368 words)

Is he my boyfriend yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been casually dating this guy since December, seeing him when both of our sched.s allowed, but we were never exclusive. We talked briefly about having a relationship in February and decided to keep progressing as we were by taking things slow and seeing where the... (132 words)

I think my sisters boyfriend is hitting her!!!! What should I do?!?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone Im asking this for my sister, because i believe that her boyfriend is hitting her, but she won't leave him, even though she admitted that he has hit her in the past, but stopped after she walked out, since then she went back and moved away with him,whenever i s... (125 words)

How do we 'play' a guy who's a real player??!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okayy. Me and my friend have a problem; this guy keeps trying to get in every girls pants he approaches, tries to kiss EVERYONE, and he is just being a plain player. We need revenge. How do we play the player? Loveee, Project Hairspray [PS. Project Hairspray is like ... (68 words)

Should I cut him out of my life or not!! I need lots of advice!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi...i'm looking for advice on sort of a relationship. I dated a close friend for some time and things didnt work out due to previous baggage on his part. We broke this off and didnt talk for some time. Recently he came ack into my life and we hung out. That night I tried ... (205 words)

Why do women give a man a second look when they find out the man is involved in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently found out the man I have been seeing for the past 4 years has been talking to a married woman with 2 children the entire time. He met her right after we met. I talked to her and she said she would ask questions about me but he would never give her a complete answe... (170 words)

A question about trust in a relationship....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my question is about trust.If you get cheated on, is that it, has your trust gone forever. Are all future relationships reduced to phone and email checking. What of the cheater do they retain their ability to trust? ... (39 words)

Question about the pill..I'm taking Microgynon 30

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Seeing my boyfriend on Monday evening and have got a bit of a question. I'm currently on the pill Microgynon 30. Just by chance every other time we've had sex it's been on a day when I was taking my pill. I take this packs last pill on Sunday evening before taking my 7 day ... (112 words)

My husband told me he wants my breast to be bigger!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband once said to me he loves my breasts to be a little bigger. I want bigger breasts too coz when my period is over I have much smaller breasts. *tears* Any help?... (34 words)

I can't perform in the bedroom (I'm disabled) but its too embarrassing to tell her that I can't make love to her...what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend's fallen out with me and won't talk to me properly and I was wondering if anybody could offer me some advice. I'm disabled and really can't perform in the bedroom... my ex-girlfriend saw other guys on the side for that so there was no problem there. But I can... (213 words)

I love him - but I want him to move out!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months, he was living with an aunt since he moved to the city, he started having issues with her son, and was asked to move out. He would stay in my place once in a while, but ever since he was asked to move out of his old place, h... (159 words)

Can he really change after sleeping with an escort in our marital home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I've been married for 15 years, my husband never showered me with the love and affection I craved for. We have 3 beautiful children. I went away with the children and found out that he had an Escort in our house two days in a row. When I confronted him, he said that our ... (244 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend?! I need my freedom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok i have been going out with thi boy for 2 months now, hes quite cool and i nearly said no. when we started going out i had regrets, but then later i got into it, ive recently went to germany with some cool guys from my school, they were so funny and i was attracted to most of ... (104 words)

How should I handle this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age - We have demonstrated our interest in each other. A jealous girl came along and distracted him briefly. I played it cool and stayed out of the picture. Seems he's back to being interested in me again, so I'm showing my interest in him. I wonder - should I wait for him to ... (80 words)

Guys, how can I boost a potential boyfriend's confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i met this guy a while back and we speak all the time and he is fine but he gets shy and embaressed very easily his confidence is very low and doesnt have a good opinion of himself. we are now contemplating being a couple.i tell him all the time that he is handsome smart and ... (107 words)

I am not talking to my ex because he started going out with my cousin. Am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend is going out with my cousin and when i found out i got really upset and started crying. All my girl mates and close friends think that he is totally out of order and that its just wrong but other people said that it was me who broke up with him so why am i so ... (88 words)

Is there anybody out there who feels as though being a wife and motherhood has enriched their lives rather than detracted from it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 23 years old. i live with flatmates, the same age as me, i have for 2 years. i have a university degree, a challenging, satisfying and well paying job. the majority of my friends are single, love to party and are out socializing at every opportunity - as am i al... (323 words)

I'd love to have any advice about how I should approach the whole situation and what maybe I should do!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi this is a follow up to a question I wrote on the 8th of May. Entitled I Know We Have A Future Together But she Says Just As Friends. About a week after I wrote this I started not contacting her and letting her get in touch with me which she did. Things felt like they w... (911 words)

Even though I know all he wants is sex, I still feel there's a reason to talk to him and try and become closer to him!! Any advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Early last year I met an eighteen year-old boy. It was amazing. He was gorgeous, absolutely adorable and just the nicest person I had ever known. It was amazing. We really hit it off from the start, and I just loved every minute of it. We were never officially "dating," but we ... (191 words)

I love that little girl, but I absolutely hate the mother... help please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am engaged to a wonderful man who i cant wait to spend the rest of my life with. There is one problem and it has been here since the beginning of this relationship. His ex girlfriend and him have a daughter together, and i love that little girl, but i absolutely hate the ... (232 words)

Does semen leak out straight after intercourse-or worse still the next day!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm ready to start having full sex with my boyfriend.We're both very sensible and have been talking about contraception before we start. It's a toss up between the pill or a condom. I fancy the pill because condoms might reduce sensation but does semen leak out straight after ... (56 words)

I am looking into bugging his briefcase when he travels and puting a GPS devise on his car. What else should I be doing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband travels for business (first class air and hotels) and he has started drinking in the hotel bars and also when he entertains clients. He does not drink at home and he's home every night after work. He was not a drinker before nor did he travel much before his ... (305 words)

Our mothers are always there!! How can we spend some time alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey me and my chick wanna be alown together but we cant no matter where we are our mothers are there!! any advice of where we can be alown. so far we only get to kiss at school but we cant be together after school becouse of our mothers!!... (54 words)

I still love him but I think I am wasting both mine and his time. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my partner for 4 years now and we were due to get married next year. i have moved from my home to live in his country with him and we have a house together. I have lived with him for nearly 2 years now and for the past 1 and half years we havent been getting ... (260 words)

Should I give my friend some space for a few days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question for the ladies out there. I know that some women like to have conversations most days with their "guy" friends and some would rather they only spoke maybe once a week or so. Well my dilema goes like this. My best friend and I talk to each other every d... (127 words)

I didn’t intend to have an affair with this girl, was I leading her on unintentionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m confused. There is a girl at work who is really shy and quiet. She doesn’t mix well with others and is quite hard work to get to know. At the Christmas party last year I was placed next to her at the table. After a few drinks we got on really well. Then co-incident... (310 words)

She has changed so much since she became pregnant. How do I get it to go back to how it was?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend about six months ago. I am a very successful professional and she is a single mother with two small children. We come from very different backgrounds, but still, after the first date we were hooked on each other. She would call me and text me so much during ... (627 words)

I have strong feelings for a married woman and her marriage is a shambles. Please advise me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am involved with a married woman,not sexualy but intimantly.We have known each other for about a year. During which time I never shared my feelings until I couldn't resist letting her know. We both knew our feelings were strong for each other. We also knew her marriage has ... (77 words)

He thinks of me as a friend. My best friend likes him. How do I get him to go out with ME?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really used to like this guy in my school,but one day he had a sleepover with one of my guy freinds and another one of my ex freinds. I called my freind and i heard my crush saying "omg doesnt jennifer hav the cutest smile?" and my ex freind said "i know right" and my frein... (210 words)

How can I stop punishing him for my mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with a boyfried over two years now and love him more than anything. However, near the begining of the relationship i messed up and kissed another boy. I regret every minute and would definetly never do it again. The problem is now i have no trust atal for him i ... (140 words)

My ex boyfriend won't talk to me. DON'T tell me to move on!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i split up with my ex 8 months ago now and went through a faze for the first few months after breakup where i didnt talk to him. recently iv decided i really want him as part of my life again just as friends cos i miss his company. its not that i want to get back with him i ... (104 words)

Have nightmares all the time because I was sexually abused by my second BF, my first relation was also a failure so now I am hopeless and don't know how to work this out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

- Someone please help me. I feel so messed up. Early 2007 marked the time when my life begun to turn upside down. I went from being a innocent 17 year old who hadnt even kissed a guy or had a bf, to being a 18 year old in an emotionally, mentally, and sometimes sexually abusive ... (386 words)

Should he be friends with his sex buddy from school now that we're back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My current boyfriend and I have been together on and off for 4 years as of yesterday. I broke up with him a few months ago because we were in college and I wanted to pursue other things. School finished and summer started. One day he called out of the blue and we've been ... (316 words)

My older BF lately does not satisfy me in bed. I cheated on him once and I feel I may stray again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Im 29 years old. My partner of 7 years is 45. Our sex was great at the beginning but as we got older it started to stop he wouldn't even do foreplay. I cheated on him once and told him i was pregnant with another man's baby. I only did it because i wanted someone to p... (130 words)

Do you think I should speak to my boyfriend about my lesbian fantasy? He has suggested a FMF before...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to have a lesbian experience just to see if I am bi or not At the moment I'm with a wonderful guy but feel myself fantasising about women more and more. I've always felt this way really, when I was about 12 or 13 I used to play a game with my neighbour who wa... (316 words)

Symptoms of pregnancy? Can anyone advise me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need Advice!! After my period last month, i got bleeding again which lasted 2days and then went away. It was light and not painful. I was 12 days late for my next period. I normally get my period on the 29th of every month, i currently have my period which i got on the 10th ... (157 words)

My BF is a very abusive person, swears at me and even tried to strangle me. Is he iterating his father's violent behaviour?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have always had a great relationship but recently he's started to sort of bully me..ie pushing me pull my hair etc, nothing to serious. However, the violence seemed to escalate further just last week as we had been out at a party and I had went to talk to ... (231 words)

She begged me to forgive her and clarified he had only been a friend... now I act as normally but in reality I am very concerned!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help, I have been seeing someone now since around Jan '08, she is currently going through a divorce and has an 8 year old son who I get on with very well. I have never had any doubt that things were going well between us. In fact things had gone quite quick, we are no... (605 words)

I'm not very good at dealing with rejection and don't really know what to think at the moment...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just split up with my girlfriend and could do with some perspective. She told me she only loves me as a friend and that her feelings for me have changed [over the course of our 2 month relationship]. For a while now she hasn't wanted to have sex with me, I have a 6 i... (105 words)

I like my work colleague but I hear rumours that he is interested in someone else! Can I take a risk and tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I work very close with a guy at work and have found myself falling for him over the past year. We get on very well and have even had a drunk kiss on my birthday, however nothing else was said about it. I dont know if I should say that I like him and risk our relationship both ... (88 words)

She accepted my invitation to dinner but mentioned it will not be a date, as she's already committed. How can I win her over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

11 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My problem is that I am completely in love with this girl who I've known from the beginning of this semester. I asked her out to dinner a couple of days ago and she said she can't as a date but as maybe as mates, because she already has a boyfriend (which I didn't know about). ... (81 words)

I want him to be my boyfriend, not someone I sleep with - but how do I calm down my worries before I lose whatever we have?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have recently started seeing an ex boyfriend again, we have been going out, talking and sleeping together, like old times, but are currently not boyfriend and girlfriend, this is his choice rather than mine, as he feels we should take it slow. Although in my head I agree-... (310 words)

I was unfaithful - should I tell?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - been dating my boyfriend for a long while now. i love him very much and a loves me too.a believe hes been faithful these past years and he means the world to me. problem is i havent been so faithful. he thinks im a saint but ive had a few flings and i regret it so badly. i ... (108 words)

After 8 years he still hasn't proposed. What do I do?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - help. ive been dating my man for 8yrs.1n currently26 and he loves me. i know that. problem is he is taking too long to propose marriage. all my friends are married with kids and i started dating this guy way before they met their husbands. my boyfriend is 28. another issue is ... (102 words)

Sex Burgers - or people?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

11 June 2008 (F)

- Which of you out there feel the same as me. In an ideal world which would make me so happy it would be like this: Women would be celebrated for who they are in equal measure, whether it be because they were clever, great Mums, leaders, sportswomen, politicians, just p... (368 words)

How do I find a girl I can connect with?

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11 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - greetings anonymous collective, er, hehe, well... i'm going to have a bit of trouble forming my question, because it's not really a question. i am 18 years old and i am... dateless. i always have been. i was a bit late to get into the whole desire to date, but when i was 1... (863 words)

My friend would like to know about the signs of loving someone, so as to avoid misunderstanding her feelings again!

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my friends with her second boyfriend now and she is wondering whether she loves him or not coz when she was with her first boyfriend she thought she loved him but then realised she didnt. her boyfriend told her he loves her but she needs help in knowing the signs when u love... (65 words)

We're on a temporary break but he thinks we are drifting apart for good, how can I reassure him?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,me and my other half have been together for a year and a half now and although i love him we recently had a argument,i told him i was going to lay off for a while give each other a break coz i was not in a good mood. we hardly get to see each other although we call each othe... (86 words)

I had my copper coil misfitted and did have unprotected sex before my first check up - your advice, please!

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, 6 weeks ago, i got the copper coil, which was painful to have put in, (im 17 and never had a child) and then at my check up yesterday they found it actualy was half way out meaning i wasnt protected at all. I have been having a lot of unprotected sex, including on satur... (235 words)

Is it wrong for me to completely give up on my career and move back to a state that has no opportunities for me, in order to work on our relationship?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a widower (a former ex-boyfriend who got a stripper pregnant and married her while we were taking a break from dating)now for two years. It has been a long-distance thing. I am an actor who needs to be either in LA or NYC to make a decent living in this profession. ... (301 words)

Is he a cheater?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Why does my husband keep a secret code in his cell phone and doesnt let me know the code? He cheated me before. Does this mean he still cheats? [Added] People tease me about my husband's sex video.I was really feeling sick of this incident which I never expected from him.He ... (106 words)

His father won't let him use the phone to talk to me. What can I do?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been in a long distance relationship for about a year.Just recently his father decided he doesn't like me and punished my boyfriend off the phone with ME for 2 YEARS. This made me so mad. My boyfriend still sneaks and calls only like 4 times a week and it ... (129 words)

Risks while being on the contraceptive pills?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my question is, is there any type of risks you can have while being on a pill that is supposed to keep you from getting pregnant? please let me know of all the risks you know of.... (37 words)

Since it seems like my husband isn't going to step in, what am I supposed to do about his friend who is becoming scary and weird?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm going through a lot lately, but the easiest thing to write about is this really close friend of mine. I have this guy friend, who has had this crush on me since forever. I never really thought about it much, but he is starting to get scary and weird. I guess he just gets ... (354 words)

I finally can love again but I'm confused by this guy's mood changed - he's nice to me every now and then but usually acts like he doesn't care!

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay my ex boyfriend passed away sometime back and after a long time I've found myself actually feeling something for someone else.. This guy is 5 years younger than me.. He's really nice to me every now and then but most often he behaves like he doesn't really give a damn.. We... (93 words)

I'm scared he's going to be cheating on me again...

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I was goin out with this guy we will call him chris and he start persueing this girl and I found out and I dumped him.But my feelings never went away for him. So now we are goin back out and I'm scared he's cheating on me again. What do I do? ... (54 words)

I used to be madly in love with him but now I realise we have differences and find that sometimes what he does annoys me and frustrates me, why?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ive been thinking about this for ages and i have on days and off days..about equal amount of time each. ive been with my b4 for just under 2 years and i do love him soo much. But sometimes i feel that we dont completely suit each other, like we have very different friend... (185 words)

Gallbladder problem. Will I regain weight?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I have gallbladder issues and since I've been having gallbladder issues I've lost weight.When they remove my gallbladder will I gain my weight back?... (26 words)

Did I do the right thing?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok heres the story.had a guy i was dating,only to find out he is married 6 months later.stuck around for another two years,thought it might change and plus by the time i had found out i was already in love with the guy.which im aware was very wrong on my part.i ended it and we ... (188 words)

How I found my true love

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the story of how i met the love of my life February 3rd my boyfriend soon to be husband the next year left the province to look for work to support us after a month we were ready for me to follow him out to where he was residing March fourth i set out to the a... (509 words)

My date may want to return to my best friend who is her ex, this situation is so confusing!

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11 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Heres the deal ive been goin out with this chick for a couple months and her and my bestfriend used to hate each other because they had gone out and it didnt work but now there hangin out again and now she's talking about how maybe we should break up and he's avoiding me and it ... (94 words)

How do I put all this behind me and have a good life again? If she truly loves me how should she be handling this?

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11 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years and just found out she was cheating on me for over a month. I always wanted to travel, and wanted a girl to go with. I had the time but my girlfriend can only get a week off a year. It was always a life long goal to ... (773 words)

How do I get them to break up?

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11 June 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex 10 years ago. he said he felt that we're better of "just friends". we stayed friends, emailed each other, chat sometimes or hang out when he's in town. i never got over him, and even though we're friends, i always knew he'd love me one day. recently,... (368 words)

Is it wrong for me to have a crush on someone when I have a boyfriend?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and we've been together for 3 years; I love him more than I've ever loved anyone. But there's a guy who I've been friends with for just over 3 years who I had a crush on before I met my current boyfriend. We hung out for a couple months and it was obvious to ... (173 words)

Is it possible to live alone for the rest of my life and be happy?

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11 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, I broke up with my first boyfriend yesterday, and now I never wanna fall in love again. He was my first love. But he hurt me because he was so judgemental of my past. I posted earlier about how he thinks I'm a slut. For the record, I was a virgin until I dated him, it'... (304 words)

I am very young and want to have sex with my boyfriend but I hear is nasty and painful the first time... what to do?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am young and i want to have sex with my boyfriends because i want to and he really wants to. Only i hear it is really painful and nasty the first time. I really need helpon what to do... (42 words)

Falling for the wrong one!! What do I do?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I love a guy and hes with a good friend I practically hooked them up but the more time I spent hooking them up the more I fell in love with him. What do I do?... (36 words)

Should I reach out and call him even though he's clearly ignored my last attempt to communicate with each other?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone think that I should reach out to him? So I posted my story on here a few days ago - and have gotten great responses! But...still confused what I should do next. Here's the post for background: So...long story short, I was dating this guy (Y) since end of Jan... (1121 words)

Forbidden love with my best friend! Any advise?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and Ive had a boyfriend for 5 months now.I dont believe i understand the full meaning of love at this young age so i think its fair to say im not 'in love' but i do have alot of feelings for him.he is always on my mind and he makes me tingle when i see him. he's great he ... (208 words)

Are there any good methods I can use to be better aroused?

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11 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am finding it difficult to come when having sex with my 52 year old female partner. Is there any good methods I can use to be better sexually aroused? ... (42 words)

My online guy wants to marry me even though we've never met!

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I may seem insane to you guys after asking this question.... I've been talking to this guy online for about 3 1/2 years. We've become good friends and both have been wanting to date for quite some time..but he lives in TN. Last year he joined the Army and was deployed to ... (154 words)

So much guy drama... I need help!

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im a girl who needs some answers asap!! (okay 3 guys named zach, sean, and justin all ex's) k justin who was my last bf broke up cuz he cheated on me but i still love him so im gettin over that but my other ex zach wants 2 go back out and says he loves me and we r friend... (324 words)

What are the chances of me ending up pregnant?

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11 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I have a question for everyone. Let me give you guys some details first... My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex a couple days ago (I know its a little irresponsible or maybe a lot). now for months now we've used condomns because I'm not on birth control. But thi... (127 words)

My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex, what should I do?

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11 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and I have been with my girlfriend for nearly three years. In the last 12 months we have only had about sex three times. Each of those times she has only made love to me as a chore. I have brought up my concerns with her. However, she always blames me or says she... (95 words)