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I don't understand the difference?

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Question - (18 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

He LOVES me but is NOT IN LOVE with me. what does that mean? i'm confused.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntHe loves(cares about you, like a close person in his life) you BUT isnt in love with you (as in a romantic , having a future together with kids)

There are different types of love

Love for your Friends

Love for your family

Love for your Loved One (wife, Husband)

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (18 June 2008):

Tremor agony auntTo understand this you have to realize that there's different kinds of love. There's the love you feel for family, or there's platonic love, like you have for friends, and then there's romantic love, which is the 'in love' kind.

When he says he loves you but is not in love with you, he means that he cares for you a lot, but doesn't think of you in a romantic, love-and-kisses-lets-get-married way.

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A female reader, ariad Panama +, writes (18 June 2008):

ariad agony auntMy ex said the same, and I still do not know waht he meant.

Maybe he means he cares about what may happen to you, but he is not ready to be with you.

I hope you can work this out!

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