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I feel he loves me not my friend but she loves him and I don't want to lose either of them.

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Question - (18 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2008)
A female Austria age 36-40, *ooking writes:

i love my repeater in college and so does my friend, but i feel he loves me not her, i don't want to lose my friend or my love what can i do?

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (18 June 2008):

deejuliet agony auntPardon me, but what is a 'repeater'? And are these two people dating at all or are you and your friend just interested in the same guy? And being interested or attracted to someone does not mean he loves you. Do not belittle the concept of love by equating it with initial attraction.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

I suggest you just hang in there and give it time. Things like this have away of sorting themselves out. Do not make an issue of it with either at this stage and just be your normal self with both. GO with the flow for now, and see what happens in the future.

Good luck!

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