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writes:3 months ago i broke up with my GF of 2 and half years because although i know its wrong to do so, i read her messages due to someone we both knows telling me that she has been txting some other guy and not just as friends, so i read these messages of "i want you so bad" an the like...the trouble is this has all happened before, and she has begged me to take her back telling me that shes sorry and wont do it again...a coule of years ago she split up with me for no eason at all and started seeing my "friend" who i had knows for around 8 years, then a month later she dumps him and wants me back. But now we are not together, i dont know what to do, I have tried to talk to her and explain that i do wan to be with her and give her a last chance but she says she doesnt want to be with me and says itsa ll my fault and nothing else..end of conversation, so what should i do? do i keep trying to get back wih this girl who i will do anything for and love or do i leave her to it and see what happens?
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reader, youwillhateme +, writes (18 June 2008):
ok, i'm in exactly this position too :( it sucks doesn't it. i have decided that the relationship was actually really bad for me, and messed my head up really badly. at the end of the day, i decided that my partner, who i thought i loved, was not who i thought they were. i was in love with how our relationship had been, and that isn't what it is anymore. and it hurts like hell, cos of what i lost, but its for the best, it really is. because in time i will move on, and find someone who loves me as much as i love them. it won't be until then that i realise how terrible my relationship actually was.
good luck :) i hope we make it through this :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): Okay, bare with me.
Do you love yourself?
Do you feel good about yourself?
This girl is walking over you, she is using you.
She has no respect for you or your feelings.
That is a reality, face it!
Now what?
MOve on with your life, ignore her, cut all contact with her....but I mean all!
She does not even deserve your friendship.
On the bright side:
Starting going out wit your friends, get to know some decent girls that will value you, love you and respect you.
Untill you have meet that "right" girl, keep busy, but avoid the ex, consider her "dead".
You have a future ahead of you, you don't want this forever, so get out there....Go MINGLE!
Good luck!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (18 June 2008):
 Im not sure of the right way to say this so im just going to say it.
YOUR BEING USED WAKE UP!
he wants her cake and to eat and your letting her get away with it. She is using you then when she gets bored she gets rid of you and gets with someone else till she gets bored again and goes back to you because she knows you will take her back.
Stop letting her use you, you deserve better and there is better out there, you might love her but she doesnt love you, so break all contact before she breaks your heart i know it will be hard but i got to be honest its easier to get rid of her now then after you take her back again and again till you never trust or love again.
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