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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it true love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. well i am 16 and my girlfriend is 15(almost 16) We have been going out for 4month. We have not once argued at all. We have spoke about adding sex and had sexual intercourse. We are still fine together. We are always together almost, as soon as she is home from school w... (116 words)

Do you think our age difference will interfere in our relationship in the future?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We were engaged two years ago, but we split up. I am almost 28, he is 56. Do you think age difference will interfere in our relationship in the future? HELP PLEASE... (33 words)

My older sister did not end her cyber relation since she started seeing her present BF. I've always admired her and now this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I'm very, very dissapointed. My sister is 21. I'm 19. I've always kinda looked up to her, because she's much more mature than me and she's very respected, you know, she really has it going on. I've always admired her relationships too, because she has never lacked male atte... (403 words)

We used to have great sex but lately he has trouble in getting an erection. I'm worried, what can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year.We are young, I'm 19 he's 21. We are deeply in love. We don't fight about much except one thing. sex. We used to have great sex. The sex was always so great for the both of us...but lately something is wrong. Neither of us are ... (151 words)

I've gotten involved with a co-worker, but she is married. I've fallen for her but this is getting nowhere!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got into a really difficult situation. I've got involved with a woman I work with, but she's married. She says that she feels she's found someone she can spend the rest of her life with and I feel the same about her. But she's said she won't leave her husband, and I'm... (109 words)

I revealed to my closest friend that I am bisexual and she said I should tell this to other people soon...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here it goes... I have been thinking for a long time about this and i'm still not entirely sure but i think i migth be bisexual... and i know there is nothing wrong with it... Just yesterday i had a chat with my closest friend and told her that i thought i might ... (248 words)

How do I know when it is OK to be sexually active? I'm 15.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im only 15 yrs old how do i know when im sexualy active because i want to have sex but then i dont want to but i really do want to have sex badly with my bf and how do i tell my bf im ready to have sex with him?... (53 words)

Our kids live with me, can she force me to do a DNA test to prove they're not all mine and take them away?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Split up with my long term girlfriend last year and she's been trying to make life difficult for me since. Our kids live with me and that's where they want to be. Now she wants a DNA test to prove they're not all mine. I'm not going to willingly do a DNA test but I was ... (89 words)

I like this guy and suddenly all my ex's are getting in touch... what is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - what is going on, i really like this guy im seeing- we r taking it slowly and all of the sudden a couple of my exs have been in touch wanting to see me. why now? I don't get it.... (40 words)

I suspect I have been dumped because of her friends. Would it be wrong and stalkerish to message one of her friends about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (M) - I need someone to smack some sense into me. I get the feeling that part of the reason this one girl dumped me (dated 2 months, long distance, she's 20 in college, I'm 23 out of college) was because of her friends. I never met them and I probably should have and I wouldn't ... (131 words)

I love him too much to let him go but I'm tired of his mood swings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm sick of my boyfriend always being in a mood over something, he's been like this ever sinse i've known him, but its gotten' worse sinse we've been going out. all my life people have always put me down, and when he's in that mood, he's exactly the same. he's never hurt me or ... (187 words)

I have not been asked out and I don't believe in this idea that women should take the initiative! Thus?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I seem to be having a very strange time finding a man. Well, obviously you are everywhere, but its one that is attracted to me. I'm a pretty, confident girl, yet no man has ever looked twice at me. If they are they don't approach me. I don't believe in this idea that women ... (108 words)

I'm having a hard time getting over this girl....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (M) - So I dated this girl long distance for two months, went and visited her a few times, fooled around a little bit. It was her who expressed interest in me initially and then I took the step of asking her out. Anyways, before she comes home from school for the summer she dumps ... (255 words)

What is the likelyhood of me being pregnant from this??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ... my b/f and I were naked, and he was on top of me - he pre-cummed, but it was on my mons pubis, a good 3 inches away from my vagina. I cleaned it up without letting it drip any further ... what is the likelihood of me getting pregnant from this?... (54 words)

I pursued my career rather than love...so haven't had many relationships...what are the signs that he likes me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I usually a loud, confident person but because I chose to persue my career instead of love I have not had many relationships, this has left me unconfident in this area. Other the past few months I have started to fall for this guy. What is the best way to ask him out and what ... (63 words)

Which guy is the father?!??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well basically i split up with my boyfriend christmas just gone and started to have another sexual relationship with someone else. I slept with him once (few times that night) january 8th den got bk with my original boyfriend febuary 14th. I then found out on 31st march i was ... (105 words)

Help!!! I feel like I'm losing the plot!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very unhappy at the moment, I am6months pregnant by a man who doesnt love me at all, i love him 2 bits but there are things about him that are beginning to get too much for me 2 take. We met in Jan 08', and i found out I was pregnant in March, he wanted me to have an ... (176 words)

Do you think when he comes back from Europe we have room to negotiate??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were together for 8 months. He pursued me in the beginning and convinced me to give him a chance. We both fell really hard really fast. At the end of May he told me that he felt he was under too much pressure (his exams were approaching) and that our ... (193 words)

Fallen for a man aged 50...should I trust my judgement and leave it alone...or should I go for it??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 yrs old - been single for about a year after a serious relationship with someone my own age (this ended amicably) now ive fallen for a man thats a lot older than me (50) althogh he doesnt know how i feel about him. when we are together he flirts with me and jokes abo... (203 words)

How can I get out of this situation??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - It started months back really were some one in my school gave me a msn addy to this girl on the other side of the country. It started like just hey and stuff but even though I wasnt willingly at first trying to make it more because I had problems with the "online dating" thing ... (221 words)

My bf seems to want to spend more time with his parents than with me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months. Everything seems to be good, except when it comes to the weekend. He spends EVERY weekend with his parents, without exception. He drives home from the city where we both live (separately, of course) to stay at his parents house. I ... (191 words)

Advice on looking after children under 5!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship, sex or dating question but I've got a new sunday job working with little children, just to get me some money. The only thing, they are exhausting and I can't seem to connect with them. It's not like I'm a naturally scary person but I don't even kno... (109 words)

My boyfriends ex gf is always around!! Should I ask him to cut ties with her or tell her to back off??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help!! please! my bf's ex gf is constantly in my life. we tried to be friends but she then decided twice to go after him. she always talks about him telling everyone she loves him and soon he will be back with her. we have mutual friends who tells me everything she says ... (150 words)

Am I beign unreasonable??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been happily married for a decade. My husband has always had lots of female friends, who I get along with usually. Recently, my husband met a single mum of one and I did not really mind. I went to meet her but she ignored me most of the time and they talked about people ... (194 words)

Should I move and or should I get in touch with him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i contact my ex boyfriend? I miss him terribly. It has been 1 week since we saw eachother. I hadnt seen my ex boyfriend for almost 2 months. he called me and asked me to go out with him friday night. we went out dancing. he tried to kiss me a few times but i pushed awa... (254 words)

She doesn't believe in sex before marrige, how can I bring her around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 and from the UK. I've been living in Banff, Canada for the summer and have met a girl that I really like who's a similar age. We've got with each other a few times and I've slept round her house after nights out and what have you....but no sex. Now, at first I ... (271 words)

Does this mean that he likes me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i went to this 15 [[ quience]] with my family and i saw my cuz adrian and thier is this weird situation between me and him cuz he use to like me and i did to but then i found out he was my cousin so stopped cuz it was wrong but evertime i see him i get that feeling so i ... (330 words)

My bf is really down at the moment...what can I do to help him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hii x i am having problems ! my boyfriend is soo cute n phitt but at the moment he has been really down ! he wodnt tell me what wa wrong and every tym i asked him he luked lyk he is gonna cry ! i asked is best m8 n he told me dat he has been havin family issues ! ( his m... (148 words)

My gf's sexual past is causing problems....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now, and she's the first girl i've ever had sex with. I can't say the same for her by any means. She told me about all the things in her past before we were dating, because we were friends for a while before, and i di... (276 words)

What are the odds of being father to your own children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - What are the odds of being father of your own children?. I've often been in amongst groups of men where the most handsome guy is constantly having sex with a steady stream of women, one night stands were often the women are married. Like many of my friends i would consider ... (105 words)

He seems perfect. Why do I feel so insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend has never cheated on me, doesn't flirt or look at other girls, tells me i've been better to him than any past girlfriends and makes it clear how picky he is in meeting people. he's not a party guy, very level headed, turning 29, can read people very well. he says ... (148 words)

When do I tell my ex about my new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I recently split up with my boyfriend of 4 years because things hadnt been working out for me for a while and I'de actually met someone else. It came as a complete shock to him though and he was absolutely devestated and heart broken. I didn't tell him about the other guy when ... (259 words)

What is this man thinking?!? I really don't understand the guy!! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I would really appreciate your perspective on this. I was with my boyfriend for two and a half years, we lived together for one and a half. Broke up in October 2007 after which I found out that the whole first year he lied and cheated on me many times. I still do like h... (178 words)

Why did he feel the need to bring everything back up...when I was doing so well in getting over him?? I hadn't seen him for months before this!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

- Hoping for some help here and would appreciate any help I can get. I was with a guy for five years. We broke up in January. It was his decision and I was hearbroken but decided to lay low and have no contact with him. He did not contact me either. Typical breakup and parting of ... (197 words)

A friend shows us up at a club on my graduation night...am I right to be unhappy at her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok guys.. need advice. last night my friends and i went out to celebrate my graduation, there was 6 of us. 2 of the 6 had just finished a relationship of 1 year about a month ago... anyway... towards the end of the night we went into a great club and were dancing away when the ... (325 words)

I don't know what to expect from him, what do you think??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyy.. Well around 18 months ago me and this guy dated, and we had sex. I loved him then and i still do now, i no he use to love me but he has currently got a girlfriend. We have always remained close since the breakup, but today we met up and we gave eachother oral sex. He ... (134 words)

Should I ask her out? My confidence with women is low at the moment...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have played golf regularly for the last 2-3 months with a couple of friends. On a couple of times one of my friends sister's has turned up. We seem to get on and she is single and about the same age. I would love to ask her out but on both times have felt shy because... (207 words)

Recently broke up with my bf, but he still flirts with me!! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend we had been seeing each other for a year or so.Although it has been 3 weeks since we broke up and it was him that broke up with me i really miss him and matters arent being helped by the fact that he still talks to me and flirts with me.He ... (115 words)

My ex is single again and said he loves me, I am committed but want him back, your advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out my ex and his girlfriend broke up. I really want him back and it was because of her that we broke up. I still love him and he said he loves me but I'm in a relationship. What do I do?... (45 words)

I like my trainer, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel stupid for even saying this... I really like my trainer. I felt a really strong connection with him since I first met him, he really gets me. I'm obviously not going to make a move because it could turn extremely ugly, but there are definitely signs there. He'll reme... (101 words)

I feel undermined in my marriage and get no joy from it, how can I... take action?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 15 years. I have been unhappy and unfulfilled. I have not had any / hardly any sex for at least half that time with my husband. The reasons are many and varied on my part. I no longer find my husband emotionally attractive although I have tried and so ... (727 words)

My BF is a Christian and wants to abstain from penetrative sex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend of 5 years, a christian and a deacon at our church, decided to abstain from sex about 4 years ago (within our relationship), but believes that oral sex is perfectly ok because there's no penetration. what do you think?... (42 words)

How to get a shy guy to understand how much I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with a really great man and over the last few months I've fallen in love with him. There's no question that there is a chemistry between us but he's very shy and lacks self-confidence so nothing has actually happened other than lingering looks and deep conversations. I'm ... (141 words)

I don't know whether I like him! Is this unusual??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy Ok, i know this guy who i've met a few times and i know he is into me. The problem is, i still don't know whether im into him and don't know what to do about it because when we first started talking all i wanted was for him to like me but now i honestly don't know wheth... (84 words)

How close can a best friend get? I feel threatened by her friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has always had close male friends, she is a very independent person and I've had to deal with that. We have both finished our first year at University and have been together for about five months now. We have both said we love each other, however over the... (251 words)

Changes after the first sexual contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - After you have sex for the first time, do you keep wanting it more afterwords? I don't want it to affect my decisions, and I don't want to hurt anyone by doing it with them too early. So, how does doing it once change you? Sorry if I wasn't clear enough.... (52 words)

Complicated friends problem!!! Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6024 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is a friend realated matter. I have ( had) 5 friends who ment a lot to me.( Hannah, Lori, Emma A, Emma L, Emma T) Me and Hannah have had our faire share of fall outs but were still friends, through her i met Emma T and were close friends aswell. After Hannah ... (360 words)

Our wedding was planned for next year but he avoids talking about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for 7 years we have lived together for 1 years with my 3kids one of which are his.. Every time I mention our wedding which is suppose to be next year he laughs or smerks. He never gives me a definite answer on if he really plans getting married to ... (65 words)

He makes un-PC jokes. Do I have to feel uncomfortable all the time, or can I make him censor himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm pretty stressed out about my situation. I'm a very P.C. person, I always think about the bigger picture of what people say, and every once in a while my bf says things or makes jokes that make me really uncomfortable and I think are not okay to say. WHen I say some... (499 words)

I like a girl at school!! What can I do to get her to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 12 and I have a crush on a girl in my school. The girl I like is also twelve and school just ended and I don't know how to get her to like me. Her name is [...] and she is very atractive. What should I do. ... (55 words)

I realise I am too controlling and am scared this will push him away. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi~ my boyfriend and i hav been dating for about 20months. i found out a while ago that i am too controlling. it upsets me because i dont know why i am like that. i freak out when he talks to other girls, spends too much time with his friends and little stuff like that. i ... (208 words)

Is female squirting abnormal? Is there anything I can do to lessen the amount of liquid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is a lot of "come" unusual. I met my boyfriend almost two years ago. He was my first sexual partner and before I met him I could not orgasm. It took 6 months before I could finally climax. Since then my sex life has been quite good. But I have one worry. When I orgasm an ... (230 words)

Will there be someone for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Will there be someone for me? I'm 27, have a successful career and am smarter than most peers my age. I've dated a couple of times but things did not work out. As I read the questions on this site...seems like there's a lot of bad guys out there - not committed, controlling, ... (80 words)

I tried to apologise but he said it's over. How can I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend fell out 3 weeks ago and after 1 week of not speaking I rang him to apologise but he didn't answer so i left a message. 2 weeks later I had heard nothing back so I rang him to try and sort things out and he told me he thought I was a great person but he ... (153 words)

My best friend is dating my ex. Should I be mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend is now dating my ex who broke my heart 3 about a month ago , how should i feel and should i be mad at her?... (29 words)

How do I become confident with kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers i am almost 15 and have boy troubles. i have never had my first kiss as i am always scared on my inexperience and his experience as this happens i always end up chickening out and honestly i dont know anyone who hasnt had there 1st kiss but me, and my last bf t... (168 words)

My boyfriend's best friend is trying to put my boyfriend off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

- Im seeing a guy who I really like. The only problem is his best friend. We really dont get on and never have. I knew him before I met my boyfriend we have know each other for years. I could quite happily be civil to him but he has to badmouth me to my boyfriend all the time, ... (207 words)

My ex and I are getting on well again, and we made it clear it was AS FRIENDS until he's over his ex fully! Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my love life is very complicated. One of my friends had this ex boyfriend, but they had broken up for a good 6 months, then I met him and we just clicked even though when i met him I was actually seeing some other guy. Anyway we got talking and met up and got on re... (652 words)

Help me! I can't deal with all his drama.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone, im a 40 yr old woman, who is married to a 43 yr old man, at this time we are seperated, and hes moved out, and i have filed for a divorce, which will be final in another month. i have took a dvepo out on my husband the day he and i seperated because he is abusive ... (492 words)

A close friend is doing drugs. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - okay. so here latley i found out that somebody im really close to is doing drugs. and i dont no what to do. cause i hate it and i want to tell them how i feel but im scared to cause i dont no what there reaction is going to be. should i tell them. or what should i do cause im ... (69 words)

Is holding hands just friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Was wondering what do you all think about holding hands, when someone does this is it just them being friendly or does it usually mean something more. Be good to get all your opinions on this!... (37 words)

My BF makes it sound that every problem we have is my fault. How to make him understand how I am feeling without him threatening to break up or blaming me?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this may be a long post but I need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and have put so much into our relationship and trying to make things work here lately but I feel like its a waste of emotion and time. My boyfriend constantly downs on me. Calling ... (494 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I'm in love with a married man... I know it's wrong, how do I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi. i have multiple questions that may not make sense for me to ask but please i prefered answered by you. i am in a relationship with this single guy for almost two years now. he says he loves me but i just dont feel it in his words nor action.Now i have a guy friend i... (372 words)

I have never been one for casual sex so I dismissed his innuendos. Would he have liked me more if I slept with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age - I am middle aged and recently returned from a cruise I met a man and spent a lot fo time with him as friends. He did put innuendoes about having sex and I did want to but I have never been one for casual sex and when we went on the landing he was trying to suggest it and I di... (174 words)

He's moving away, how will I manage without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i and my bf be together just for few months...i met him in college he was my classmate. actually that time i already has bf but that time my relationship not good anymore and i decide to break up with my ex bf. now i have relationship with that guy but he need to go back to h... (206 words)

Any suggestions of how I can find an appropriate hairstyle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I Want to change my hairstyle, and have been growing my hair for quite sometime now. im not sure that i want long hair anymore and i want it changed but i dont no what to. does anyone know any good webites that i can look at of can you tell me any good hairstyles? ... (68 words)

I kissed my best friend. Should I leave my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a relationship with a man who I like greatly.However on a recent night out with work, I got really close with my best friend from work and ended up kissing him. Although I did not plan this, we were both sober and I have been secretly lusting after him for a ... (84 words)

So confused! Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - its my birthday in 1 week and 6 days and i invited th guy im in love with. i still duno if he loves me back he doesent tell me fa!! he told his friend he likes me sometimes just not all the time part of me understands this because im the only one who has actually truly hurt him ... (175 words)

As we started seeing each other again, I see he has not changed at all hsi unreasonable jealousy - yet I want to get him back and earn his trust?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a bit of a long one..I hope you take the time to read bc I am in need of some advice My ex and I were in a relationship for 3 years..we had our fair share of ups and downs due to his jealous nature..he would always accuse me of cheating or talking to other men (which... (386 words)

He's made the decision to move on without me. I don't know if I need any closure... or I just want to tell him I miss him.

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, those who have followed me will know. So what happens is, I had a bf of 9 months. We were happy together. However, he decided to move to another city without really considering me. After some discussion, we realized that I want to get married (some day) while he doesn't see ... (449 words)

I really love this man, but I don't trust him. Am I right to finish with him?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in real devestation. I have been with my man for 10-11 months. During that time a lot has happened that has made me not trust him. First off, i found out he was with someone else for the first 6 weeks of our relationship, living with them. i gave him a chance as he ended ... (509 words)

My love life is complicated. I don't want to be second best

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my love life is very complicated. One of my friends had this ex boyfriend, but they had broken up for a good 6months, then I met him and we just clicked even though when i met him I was actually seeing some other guy. Anyway we got talking and met up and got on really ... (627 words)

My best friends brother.

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend has the hottest brother that i know he is so my type he is like my dream boy that all girls dream of when there little. my friend knows that i like him and she is fine with it. but the problem is i dont know how to tell him that i really like him. he lives very ... (81 words)

Have recently found out my husband is doing drugs is our marriage ending anyway?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 2 years and have recently found out my husband is doing drugs. I argue with him all the time and feel he is not listening to my feelings or thoughts. We have one child and I feel this marriage is going nowhere and am thinking of divorce. What should I do? ... (67 words)

I'm taken but I like another guy but I don't know if he is trustworthy.

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i like my b/f but i also like this other guy that is related to him and i dont know if he is trustworthy. i really like my b/f and the other guy alot but i dont know if i can trust him. becuase he has a g/f and he said he will break up with her for me but how do i know that he ... (79 words)

Does he like me now or was it just in the past?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have this friend and he is like my best friend and i know for a fact he liked me in the past. i think i like him more then a friend now but see i dont want to mess up are friendship. he is a wonderful friend and i dont want to lose him over something silly. i am single and i ... (87 words)

Do I inititate contact, or do I wait for her?

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i've been in a very confusing on and off relationship for almost a year now. It's been pretty complicated. In a nutshell, i messed up and lost her trust; not because of cheating but because i kept some things from her. She forgave me for what I've done, but she needs time alone ... (223 words)

Could I be pregnant? Or am I one of those people who can't?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am fifteen years old, and my ex boyfriend and I we're dating for around seven months. October 12 07 - May 9th 08. We had alot of unprotected sex, and it started in febuary and ended early June. I never have got pregnant but I've had alot of pregnancy scares. I was just ... (176 words)

Why won't he let me do this one thing?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are very comfortable with each other. We've been together for 4 years. We have a healthy sex life. I have one question though, he's seen every part of me, we've experimented with different things and positions... and yet he still won't let me lick his anus. ... (105 words)

Should I be suspicious?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My man said he had to work this evening. When he returned home he acted strange, ran into the shower and then I was in his car, I found an empty box of 3 condoms. He said that they were not his and it must be the guy he gave a ride from work. I do not know what to think. He ... (80 words)

My dance teacher and I were a couple for about a month, next week I will see him again, should I talk to him or ignore him?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone...well i liked this guy who was my dance teacher..he liked me too and he asked me out...we were together for a month and i fell inlove with him.. we were together everyday and on the fone everyday....then he called later then usual to where he didnt call anymore n ... (88 words)

Should I continue to love him unconditionally so that realises what we have together or should I... tell him to call when he wants me?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend going on 4 years. When we met it hadn't even been a year since his wife passed. She was in a car accident. We were pretty self destructive back then, we grew up a lot. We helped each other and loved each other. We both admit we're like home for one ... (163 words)

Every time I meet someone I like, it never goes anywhere! I feel as if I'm going to be alone forever!

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel as if i'm going to be alone forever. I am 20 years old and all I do is school and work. I have only ever been in one relationship and that ended terribly with no closure for me (just dumped and no reason). I've had crushes on girls here and there but none of them ever ... (319 words)

How can she relax so I can give her oral sex?

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22 June 2008 (M)

age - Okay so my Lady is great and she does it all for me. What I really want is to do it for her. I want to give her great Oral sex but she is to tickleish down there. When I try and go down on her she squeezes her thighs on my head and screams due to it tickekling. She always ... (88 words)

Lack of sexual desire the only criteria to be asexual? Many questions inside.

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Given that I can't agree(sometimes even argue) with most asexuals, I wanted to ask some questions. It doesn't seem that asexuals differ much from hetero/bi/homosexuals. Some of them do remain virgins, but others are sexually active and may even have had several partners in the ... (586 words)

Is it possible to have an orgasm before ever having a period?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for a girl to have an orgasm before she's ever had a period?... (16 words)

Should I continue to be his girlfriend or should I move on?

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22 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Should I stay or should I go? And if I go, how can I cope with the pain and find new love, good love? I've been with this man for almost 2 years. He's been amazing most of the time. Except lately. Long story short, we have issues, I've written before, he can't deal wi... (733 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I like someone else. What do I do?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i am dating this really awesome guy, i have been dating this guy for 2 months. i really do like him but.... i dont know how to break up with him. See i like this other guy and this guy happens to be his cousin and his cousin is also taken. but his cousin said he would ... (78 words)

How can he treat me like this after three years?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry to bother everyone again. I was dating a guy for over 3 years and we broke up. Recently, we have just been like seeing each other to see how things go. But when he is drunk, he turns ugly, and speaks to me like crap! I fell out with him, but he refused to properly admit ... (261 words)

Recurring yeast infection is affecting my relationship! Help!

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK,,,for the past 3-4 years I have been suffering from reoccurring yeast infection..everytime more and more often. It will go away for a month and then be back the next month. sometimes its light, but other times it will make it really uncomfortable for having sex. I have tried ... (102 words)

We have very little sex life - How can I improve it?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age - Dear everyone, I have a problem would like to solve for a long time. Wish you all give me command and suggestion to solve my problem. :) I have such a hard time having sex with my husband. I feel really bad about it. I don't know what to do. I have been with him... (416 words)

I've just started having 'night terrors' again, how do I stop these horrible dreams?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I don't really know how to say this, so I'll just come out with it. When I was a little girl, I had terrible dreams, of extreme pain and bad things happening, and would wake up with scratches and cuts all over my body. Sometimes I'd even cough up blood, etc. I thin... (175 words)

How do I deal with a crush that's wrong?

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I hope someone can advise what to do for the best. I`ve just recently found out a younger female cousin of mine has got a very big crush on me and its left me stunned. She was having a meal with my mum and two of my aunties (one of them is her mum) and she`d had a few ... (248 words)

She told me she was raped by an ex when she was drunk. What should I do or believe?

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - the mother of my child told me after 2 and a half years of seeing each other she was raped by an ex when she was drunk. she dosent really know excactly what happened but it has left her in a bad way what sould i do or belive?... (49 words)

A thing inside, called a heart, won't let me get over her!

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like my friend, she rejected me nicely and said she doesn't feel the same. 3 months later i'm still crazy. I cant help it. I wish she liked me. My other friend liked this girl for ages, she hated him, but she gave him a try and they are goin out. Mines exactly the same ... (128 words)

Should I wait around for him to break up with her like he told me he would?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my ex boyfriend just recently broke up, and right after; he got back with a girlfriend he's been on and off with for about a year. it killed me, but i told him i was fine. after about 2 months of them being together; i finally started talking to him again; and we both ... (242 words)

Was I molested? What should I do?

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in my early 20s (male) and this happened 7 years ago: so, in case you did not know, in middle east classrooms (which are of same sex), students who reach sexual maturity faster will molest others by force, I was the victim of this, i had no idea what was happening to me. A... (148 words)

What's a good movie genre for a date? I want one that will make it easy to touch her hand or kiss!

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm due to go on date to cinema with my friend. I want to kiss her, but problem is there's no romantic film out to watch, in fact there's so many horror movies. Is horror movie good to watch? Any genre film which will make her or make it easy for me to touch her hand, make a ... (63 words)

Should I ignore her at this party? I finally told her I liked her and she rejected me nicely...

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - basically i liked this girl for 2years and i finally told her, she rejected me nicely. We were really good friends but afterwards she's been ignoring me. i'm attendin a party next week, i don't know how to dance, i'm friends with few girls so how do i show that girl i don't ... (80 words)

How can I make him realize he should apologize and quit being so immature and stupid?

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22 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I'm upset. My bf had broken up with me and on Thursday beged me to come back. that day he treated me like a queen. He said we'd most likely see each other on friday and today. He had broken up with me because he has issues with my past. And because I lied about it. And because ... (556 words)

Is my boyfriend gay and in denial?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age - Is my boyfriend gay and in denial ? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In the early days, he was somewhat distant.. I thought it was his personality. He was also sexual but not passionate with me. I felt it was because he had been alone for 10 years and not at ease ... (392 words)

Is life kinder to the beautiful people?

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there really something extra, something good and wholesome and beyond the shallow things in this world? I don't think so anymore. For the last few years, I've been wondering why I've felt so down. I think I might have figured it out, so I will try to explain as best ... (642 words)

He kissed me on the mouth, but I don't know how to read that! Does he like me?

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22 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I've been on-and-off chatting online with this guy I met at a concert a month or so ago. A few days ago I saw him again at another show. He was with friends but left them to take a walk with me. While we were out walking around he'd offer me his arm or take my hand. When the ... (209 words)

Do I act on these feelings for a male friend?

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22 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend (wanting to rub cocks/jack him off). Could this be just because of a dry spell rela... (70 words)

I cut myself after experimenting with anal play - What do I do?

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22 June 2008 (F)

- hi im really worried im 15 and experienced in some anal play with toys. I always had like a small skin lump around my anal hole which didnt really bother me.. But after this it felt sore so i examined myself and I have a cut and this lump has gone bigger. I dont know if the ... (78 words)

How can I date this boy without my parents knowing?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well my problem is that i was going out with this boy but i dont want my mum knowing. i get driven evrywhere and havnt started using buses and i dont go out much with out my parent wich i should cause everyone else does in my yr and they are 1 yr younger than me.partly i... (154 words)

Is there any other treatment besides antibiotics to treat UTI?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recentely had UTI for 2 weeks now. This wasn't my first time. No stinging sensation or bloody urine extra but, just a strong odor first thing in the morning when I go to the loo. I'm doing a natural remedy which is cranberry juice no added sugar just pure which seemed to ... (143 words)

Do you think I still have my hymen?

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22 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i felt a tingling sensation and a small pain 'down there' earlier today but no blood but does this mean my hymen is broken? i found a few web sites that had a couple pictures but they were mostly drawings and i couldnt really make out anything....i found one real picture of a ... (159 words)

Am I right at being upset because he told me 'he comes on to other girls'?

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22 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it acceptable for my boyfriend in the car home after a night out (where I have made a massive effort to look good for him) to tell me that the reason he knows that I am the right girl for him is that and I quote 'no matter if I (meaning him) am coming on to other girls or ... (125 words)