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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He asked for pictures of me in my underware, does he really like me or is he just trying to use me for my body?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. This guy i really like has started to ask me to send pictures of me in my underwear! I was really shocked as he claims he is still a virgin so i didnt think he would be into that sort of thing and when i ask him why he wants them he says its because im gorgeous and he r... (91 words)

I really love my best friend but she is going out with one of my best friends... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my best friend but she is going out with one of my good m8's for the past year and a half ,and i have loved her for 4 years now! And i can't tell her how i feel or it could ruin our friendship. He has lost intrest in her and she kinda knows it but is so in love with him ... (95 words)

After loosing my mom I was very hard on him and pushed him away... how do I get him back? Please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy back in September and hit off pretty good. He helped me get back on my feet, encouraged me to go back to college for better employment. I moved away and ended up living with him to save money on rent n all. back in October, my mom and I were getting pretty s... (331 words)

How can I tell if this guy who is already my friend likes me?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey just want to know what are the signs a guy likes you, around the age 17-19. But not just any guy, a guy thats not exactlly shy but quiet in general, gets a bit embarrassed, ok maybe a bit shy, someone who isn't flirty or loud or anything, not used to having gf's because ... (203 words)

Does anyone know why I get this "vinegar" smell after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hi im jade, ive got kind of a weird question tohave and its rather embarrasing but i really want to know why i smell when ive had sex. is this a weird thing? its a distinctive smell and even though i wash aterwards and have a bath etc i can still smell it :S it smells like ... (71 words)

How do I get over my ex? It's been a year and I still compare everyone else to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i really need some advice on how to get over my ex i was with him for four years and been apart for a year im ready to be with some one else but i keep comparing everyone to him im really stuck in a rut !... (58 words)

I am a 14 y/o dating a 27 y/o and my friends say it is wrong... should I leave him or just ignore what they are saying?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 years old and i am dating a 27 year old,who was my brothers friend and he watched me grow up.My friends think hes a paedophile and hate him but i do like him and they know im interested in older guys.Also my friends sister has been threating to beat him because of our ... (70 words)

Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm in a big big quandry I posted sunday about splitting up with my boyfriend of 10/11 months. He lied to me when i first went out with him as he was living with someone else and only split up from them after we'd been seeing each other for 6 weeks. I only found out when h... (502 words)

Do I tell my dad I have been seeing this guy who is 7 years older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old and am in love with this guy who is 23 years old. We are kind of together but he wont let me tell our families he says he affraid he will loose me if my dad finds out. My dad is protective of me and does know the guy quite well, i dont know what to do. Help! Do ... (93 words)

Is she just toying with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6024 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a pretty confident guy and normally feel fine around women.This girl i met a while back has confused me like never before though.At first we didn't get on at all,she even said she thought i was arrogant (to my face) on our 2nd meeting!She told her mates she thought i hated ... (203 words)

I need to find a birthday present. He loves God, music, lSU, the Dallas Cowboys and Jessica Simpson...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My crush/best guy friend has a birthday coming up, and I need some ideas as to what I should get him. He's turning eighteen, if that helps any. As for his likes, he's VERY into music (he sings and plays the guitar), and God is absolutely Number One in his life.... (129 words)

I'm completely dependent on my boyfriend. How do I get out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get out of a long-term love/hate relationship when I feel that I've become completely dependent on my boyfriend? How do I manage to live without him? I have pretty much no life of my own and no friends. Without him I'd feel so alone and miserable, but with him I feel ... (68 words)

Might I be gay? AND my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a normal 15 year old boy , i am thinking that am gay but i dont know... i still like woman and everything but , the other day i was in my neighbor's house and i dont know how to tell.. but i think i like him, i was in his room playing wii when he took he's dick out and sta... (152 words)

She's dating my friend, so... I'm stuck?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, there's this girl. Smart, funny, beautiful, etc etc. And I'm crazy about her. I've asked her out once, but she said no because she was already dating someone, and I didnt know. A few weeks later, she split up with him, and I began to work up the courage to ask her a second ... (225 words)

I'm a bit shy and I get walked all over. Advice please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 year's old and i my whole life I've only had one girlfriends, and it was not very serious. Over the past year i have been able to talk to girls a lot better but i still struggle with talking altogether because I'm a bit shy and what you would call a 'nice' guy so i get ... (171 words)

I have strong feelings and she admits to feeling the same way. So why the mixed messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so I have these strong feelings for my friend. Shes amazing and even though I'm only 15 I've never met anyone like her. The thing is she has a tangled relationship with someone she's not happy with but doesn't want to hurt. Well she feels the same way I do but all she does ... (226 words)

Will my soul mate commit to our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I fell in love with this guy @ 20 years ago. We dated on and off for many of those years. He always told me that he loved me and cared about me. After a became fed up with the fact he would not commit I ended the relationship and got married to someone else. I have found ... (123 words)

All he could say was the relationship was damaged. Why won't he have a conversation with me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated my ex for a year. He didn't really tell me why he left and he didn't tell me that he didn't want to be in the relationship anymore. The only thing he could tell me was that the relationship was damaged. I felt that if a man really cares about you, he won't be that ... (464 words)

Hey guys! Would you mind a girl who just cant get enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in need of advice here, I've been in a relationship with a guy that thinks im a freak for wanting to experience all kind of sex. At first he didn't mind it, but now it seems like he gets angry everytime I ask for sex.. just this morning I woke him up by giving him oral and ... (97 words)

Do these opposites attract? Or am I just dreaming?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - its my birthday in 1 week and 6 days and i invited th guy im in love with. i still duno if he loves me back he doesent tell me fa!! he told his friend he likes me sometimes just not all the time part of me understands this because im the only one who has actually truly hurt him ... (214 words)

Is he ignoring me? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

- dear cupids i need some help, i've just letely started seeing a guy, he's really nice, very sweet and treats me really well, but since about 3 in the afternoon yesterday he aint been in contact at all, iv've txt him and stuff but he aint txting back, his phone is on so i... (90 words)

I have a boyfriend, but still really like this guy from my childhood

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I currently have a boyfriend but I am still in love with a childhood friend ( my brothers good friend)who i liked since i was 11.I am now 25 years old. he confessed that he shares the same feelings for me, since we were in highschool 2 years ago when I was single. He was ... (506 words)

The girl my mate likes likes me. And I like her too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have some problems and i dont no what to do. You see my bestfriend kept talking about this girl he likes so one day he took me to met her and she was nice. We all had a laugh so we decided to carry on going out as a kind of group. The problem is the more i got to know her the ... (128 words)

Is he going to cheat and will it stop??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about six years. Last March we decided we really loved eachother and were trying to make it work this time. He grew up where his mom had a different man about everynight and had a very ruff childhood and wasnt taught anything ... (194 words)

We had dry sex and I'm on my period...is there any chance I could be pregnant?? I'm really worried...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok...im very afraid... me and my boyfriend had drysex(humping) while i was having my 3rd day of period and we were on our piyamas(my piyamas are really thin). is there any possible way of me getting pregnant? even though I'm on my period?... (50 words)

I've got feelings for my girlfriend's friend....more so than for my gf!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How can i find out how my girlfriend's friend truly likes me without her telling my girlfriend?? I think she has a thing for me but keeps her mouth shut because of my current status with her friend.... (41 words)

What do I do about this situation?? Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with the same woman for almost 3 years now. She is a very good person and only had 4 boyfriends. I've been with maybe like 80 girls. I'm not proud of my past with women but I've cheated on her before and she is aware of my infidelity. I have attempted t... (195 words)

How do I get the confidence to talk to the guy that I really like...??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need help. There's a boy that I really like, but I just can't seem to talk to him. I heard from a friend, that he found out I liked him. Ever since, I haven't gotten anything back from him. Once during a class at school, we were parternered up for a project, and I ... (152 words)

Should I listen to her explanation of why she dissed me when she was talking to her friends...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a white male who has been dating a black woman for about 2 years. i thought we had an excellent relationship until i over heard a conversation she was having with a group of black women at a party. they were asking her why she was with "that" white guy and they were ... (474 words)

Four weeks pregnant and nauseated. What can I do to alleviate it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im 4 weeks prego. and im feeling very nauseated but not vomiting is there anything i can do to help take the horible feeling away?... (26 words)

I feel like his ex gf will never go away...will I ever be able to trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts, I have a sort of strange dilemma. You see, my boyfriend and I have been together for a 1 1/2 and its been tough, but very wonderful. When we first got together, I was jealous that he would still sometimes, email his ex. Even though he said it really ... (404 words)

I'm totally confused. I don't know what to think - my heart say take her back. My head says to give her another chance, but it also says to end it before she does it again! Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem that I need advice on. Sorry if it's a bit long... My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 years, but in the last 2 years things have been going wrong and we have come to an impasse. About 2 years ago, my girlfriend went back to university. I was ... (980 words)

I can't let go! How do I get over "the one"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This has gone on for 3 long years. i was with a guy for a year,and i am absolutley, without a doubt, convinced that it was that once in a lifetime love. But we were to young, things messed up, i messed up - thought the the grass was greener but it wasn't. For 2 years we kept ... (218 words)

He used to like me then it all stopped. He's now dating someone else...can I do anything to get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. i like this guy Tom. and we used to like each other alot. HE was going to ask me out but something happened we just stopped talking, and he started going out with another girl. and i think im in love with him. Everytime im with him i get all these butterflies and i think ... (95 words)

I've tried so hard to get him to like me but he doesn't seem interested!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love this kid in my class. He's just so wonderful. I've tried so hard to get him to like me, but he just doesn't seem interested. Some of my friends think he does actually like me and that he's just shy...but I don't even know anymore. It's so frustrating. He's sending ... (150 words)

What does she mean when she says she'll text me when she's ready?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am feelin very down right now,this has been goin on for 5 months now,my girlfriend wanted a break from me in febuary as she was feelin down and confused by bein stuck in the house all the time with no money and no job,we have sort of stayed in touch through txt,i saw her in ... (230 words)

I'm I going to be pressured to have sex from all these boys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am nearly 14 and i am underpresser about having sex! there are soo many sexy lads that i know, and most of them have asked me out, i have only went out with 1 of them, and there is 9 more lads that have asked me out. the one i went out with said he'd already had sex millions ... (136 words)

Should I stop seeing him because he is moving or is he just trying to see how I react?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

- ive recently started seeing an ex again. Its nothing serious, we are sleeping together and see each other occasionally. This has been going on for about a month. A couple of days ago he said he was thinking about moving to australia. I didnt think much of it but ever since, he ... (142 words)

Do I tell my friend I caught her daughter having sex while I was walking the dog?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok bit of a strange question for you. Well recently I was walking my dog when I came upon my best friends daughter and her boyfriend (well I presume) having sex. Dont get me wrong, it wasnt like an open field, in all fairness it seemed quite a romantic place but anyway I am ... (178 words)

I pray that he will call because I know we can both learn from this and be happy. Will he change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi People... I really need advice on my current situation, my story is quite long but il write this as quick as i can! I was with my ex for 9 year (we got engaged at xmas), we split 2 month ago. We have been living together for the past 2 year 3 month, and have b... (391 words)

I don't think I love him any more but he begs me to work it out. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...Where to start! I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, we are both 16. We haven't had sex, and he really respects me, he is really good looking and in all aspects he is perfect. We used to have such a laugh together but recently my feelings... (198 words)

Can anyone help with a dream about a number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M) age 51-59 - It is a bit different, but, I was wondering if someone could help me? I had a dream about a number. The number was , 17.... It was very significant, and at the I got a strong message,to not forget it.. I tried to find out things ,but I have luck of finding any answers. Usually ... (77 words)

I don't love him anymore...how do I get this through to him without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

I have an extravagent crush on my teacher! Is he just playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, you must get MANY of these but please just listen and help. I'm 17 and have the most extravagent crush on my teacher ever imaginable. I can't go a day without thinking about him and I genuinely believe this is way past infatuation. If you had him as a teacher I don't... (245 words)

I love her but she's annoying....any ideas on how to get her to stop being so persistent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

- Hi I've been with my Girlfriend for 4 years. She has started to really grind on me. *She rings me 5 times a day to talk rubbish (e.g a person in the supermarket just annoyed her).If she rings and i dont answer she'll ring back straight away and carry on ring me untill i an... (327 words)

Stuck in "friend zone" with this girl I like! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a girl who has a boyfriend. I know a lot of people are in my situation but I have been stuck in the 'just friend' zone with this girl for the past year. She likes talking to me and admits it, because her boyfriend doesn't listen to her. She rants about her ... (200 words)

Can you tell me how to squirt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always wanted to act sexy and one of the only things that all the men that i know say is sexy is to squirt when i'm having an orgasm! can you tell me how to squirt please! my boyfriend does not mind me not squirting but i would love to. and also i dont get many orgasms and ... (82 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant, we already have 4 kids and I can't handle any more! She won't agree to abortion, any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriends pregnant again... We already have 4 kids, she popped the first sprog out when she was 15, had to stay with her ever since, i dont wanna leave her but i cant handle any more kids! Its doin my nut in! She wont get rid of it either., we've never got any money, no ... (71 words)

My question is does he like her or me?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend comes up to the job on her day off wearing tight or revealing clothes when my ex crush works,she even walks around until another male employee sees her body and tells everyone else.So my ex crush sees her and says WOW and then looks at me.I walk past him and he grabs ... (102 words)

Does he really like me or is this a game for boys?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He use to argue with me,he stares at me even when im looking at him.he tries to make me laugh and he sometimes puts his arm around me and plays too much.He even tries to make me jealous by bringing up another girl...Does he really like me or is this a game for boys?... (54 words)

My dream is to become a runway model...should I give up school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My dream is to become a runway model,and i dont know what to do.Im in school but my finaid isnt enough to go and ive been praying and this lady wants me to be a housemodel at her salon and take photos and build my portfolio.This will be my 3rd year n school and my grades arent ... (76 words)

Is she for real or is she just playing with my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am going out with this girl for the second time. The first time we dated for a Month and things did not go to well but we kept in touch. Now we are seeing each other again, but she is telling me that we need to take it slow and that that was why things did not work out the ... (128 words)

If we don't like each other then what is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy i work with liked me since i began working with him at [...],and he told me when i first started,but we never hooked up.I have feelings for him because we spent a lot of time off work together,it felt like a relationship.Now we argue sometimes and we both get mad when ... (81 words)

I want to ask her out but I don't know how

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone!! I (re)met this girl a few days back (I knew her from a convention I went to last year but we didn't really keep in contact) and I wanted to ask her out but I don't know how! I suggested hanging out with her but I don't know if I should offer to go somewhere or ... (65 words)

I want to make us work but I'm not sure how to move on and forget what has happened before!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend split up at the start of the year after being together on and off for 16 months, we have a little boy who was a couple of months old back then and is now 6 months old, at first I didn’t feel we would last if we got back together as she had split up with me ... (839 words)

Let the sleeping dog lay and see where things end up.........what does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay there was this guy I was pursuing and i found out that he was not interested in me. He gave me mixed signals so I continued to pursue him until I just told him how I felt. He said he just wanted to be friends. Although Im really "pretty and sweet he doesnt feel that way ... (146 words)

He's back, he wants us to commit and have a baby, should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this guy I met in tertiary, we met when I was stranded one night, because I wouldnt sleep with his friend. He took me home we kissed and the rest is history. We have been dating on and off for 2yrs now. He cheated last year Oct for the 3rd time, the relationship carried ... (194 words)

Has he broke up with me for good or just on a bender?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - its been a week since my boyfriend left he said that we were over and that he wasnt coming back. i went away this weekend and came back to find that he had come in and taken some things. but left others.. he still is saying hes not coming back but when i call he answers.... i ... (113 words)

Why do nice guys finish last?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I would say I fall into the 'nice guy' catagory and yet everytime I ask a girl out (and I've done this many times) they say no and end up with some jerk who just wants to use them. I don't even think there is anyone even remotley interested in me. How come girls say they're ... (76 words)

I can't get over my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been single for 4 months, I broke up with my boyfriend after 2 and a half years together. About a month ago I started seeing someone else, we aren't together and i have no intention of getting with him because I still love my ex. I do like the guy I'm seeing, he's a ... (254 words)

Everyone is better than me? How do I change this mindset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a very low self esteem! I am very insecure of myself. I am very pessimistic. I slightly paranoid. I always think that I am always at the bottom apex; that everyone is better than me. I know I'm not good-looking. Maybe it's because of my size (I am 6" 190 lbs) that makes ... (173 words)

She's really confusing me! Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - uhm.. Hey to all. I need some advice. Please! Well here is my story... Im dating this other girl... For a month and two weeks now already. But i dont know what to do. during the week everything is fine and we talk through text messages and voice calls. When i call her like in ... (271 words)

My sex life lacks passion, should I stay with my BF that I DO love or keep in contact with the other man who made me feel so special...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I went away for the weekend with a group of friends to Ireland. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, who I love very much. Our sex life hasn't been very good for the last 1.5 years, he doesn't initiate things very often and only makes an effort when i speak to him about ... (318 words)

He left me for this woman a while ago, now we are back together and I don't know how to deal with their friendship!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I do not know how to deal or if I can deal with my boyfriend's frienship with an ex. I left my husband for him 4 years ago as we had an affair and I really do love him otherwise I wouldn't have gotten divorced. I feel that he is my soulmate. We were together for 3 years after ... (277 words)

My body wants him but my mind doesn't. I don't know if it is the instinct to protect myself that's holding me back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met up with an ex this weekend that I hadn't seen for six years. It was always going to be a bit awkward at first and I expected that. What I didn't expect was this weird feeling in my head. My immediate feeling was that I wasn't attracted to him anymore but.... my body ... (135 words)

He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn't in the mood, I was...he... (319 words)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

23 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like opinions!)... (47 words)

Help me understand what he means by all this!

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I like this guy but I am not shore how he feels about me. Wean we talk he poets he's hands an his waist and he leans little for word. Wean I see him at church he always says "Hi" or even sometimes he says "Hi sunshine" or "hi sweet hart". We always teases each other it's ... (131 words)

Why doesn't my mother want to meet my boyfriend?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating three months, and it's got more serious in that time. I've met his mum, now I want him to meet mine. Problem is, that Mum doesn't want to meet him. When I suggested it, she went on about how she doesn't want men in the house, and b... (135 words)

Why won't he let me have my own cell phone? I don't see the big deal.

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He doesnt let me use my own phone but he has his own cell. Also he keeps the secret passcode as a secret and secured one for me too.As being a teacher there comes times when i really get troubled when i dont have a cell.For example: in need to give a message to my sister about ... (101 words)

Do guys really prefer virgins?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. ok i went on holiday a few weeks ago and went on a date with this boy who was a year older than me. within 1 hour it was clear all he wanted was sex.(i didnt give him it!) i told him i was a virgin but he was still eager saying stuff like i'll teach you. so one ... (83 words)

I don't understand what he wants....help!!

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I made out with a friend of mine and now I don't know where we stand. To give a clear picture, I am a 29-year-old woman who mostly has male friends. I always prefer men's company and my four best friends are all men. I am actually going on holiday with the four of them in about ... (492 words)

I need a way to find closure...help!!

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23 June 2008 (F)

- My ex bf was controlling and sexually abusive to me. Then one day he dumped me out of the blue and moved on so quickly, like as if I never meant anything to him. I never got to tell him what I thought of him, I never got to actually stand up for myself and not be manipula... (138 words)

Her behaviour has really changed...and I can't take it!

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23 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a girl from the past 7 years....a year ago she herself proposed to me and we entered into a relationship...it went on well but we had some major misunderstandings between us...she then took up a reason and said lets break up and remain friends...it was time ... (228 words)

Help I'm confused and worrying about this guy....all advice really appreciated!

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23 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - hi im a girl who lives in a conservative country... okay, there's this foreigner ive been going out with and we are so hot when we're together.he says he respects my being a virgin and he just wants to be with me even without penetration.but i just cant give him a chance to be ... (175 words)

I like to experiment with everything sex wise whereas he doesn't. Is it wrong to want sex all the time?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello- Sorry if this is a bit inappropriate but I would like to get some feedback. I have been in a relationship for about a year now, my boyfriend and I have always had a healthy and very active sex life, but now it seems like I am a bit much for him. I like to experiment wi... (131 words)

What should I do about my fear of kissing without having had consumed alcohol? How can I accept my sister's love life without having experienced romance myself?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 19 year-old girl who has never had a romantic kiss. I have madeout with my share of boys in college, although I was drunk everytime and never saw any of the boys again. I never drank in high school and had never kissed anyone until I went to college...so it was all very ... (213 words)

We split after 4½ years. Is there a chance we could get back together?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My girl friend and I split after 4 half yrs because she says that we just can't live together anymore, because there are issues that need to be fixed. She wants to stay friends and adds that once we both fix our issues we can see what happens, she still loves me, wants to be ... (80 words)

It's like we're dating but at the same time it's like we're not!! Help!!

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I Met This Guy And Knew Right Than I Liked Him We Hooked Up And Have Been Hanging Out Ever Since He Claims He Likes Me But Says He's Emotionally Unavailable Because He Has A Kid With His Ex. His Friends Call Me His Old Lady And He Doesn't Say Anything About It But Yet We're Not ... (121 words)

Will he dump me for her even though he says he loves me?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey Ive been with my bf for over 3 months now but i allways feel he deserves better. Im nothing but a nightmare. And when he told me he fancies this girl i know, its made me feel so awkward because i know shes alot more worthwhile than me. I just feel like hes going to dump me ... (132 words)

Do I like him because he reminds me of someone famous?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Its this guy i know who looks like chris brown and when i hear his songs i think about the guy that ive known 11months now and i wanna be with him but i cant because he likes intercourse and im a virgin.my question is am i falling 4 him becuz of chris brown? Also, does a thin... (73 words)

Do all men manipulate you when you are vulnerable?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found in two long term relationships with men that as I get to know them and I start to talk more openly about my feelings and vulnerable aspects of my thoughts or personality they use those very things to either undermine me in an argument or try to play mind games or ... (221 words)

We have never dated but we argue! Do I get on his nerves or does he like me?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this guy i work with name dante and me and dante liked each other but now i dont know.we argued alot at a period of time for no reason and i get mad when he talks about another female and vice versus.So we never dated we just liked each other and hung out,and he says i ... (83 words)

He doesn't want to commit due to emotional issues...how do I know if he's seeing someone else?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been kinda seeing this guy. We're not serious or anything because we live far away from each other but we constantly e-mail each other and when we do see each other (maybe once or twice a month) we have a really great time together. He said that due to his place in his ... (167 words)

Does he like me and how do I get rid of him?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i enjoy going out clubbing but guys always flirt and try to pick me up and i have a bf of almost 2 years. i was very dunk 1 night and met a really nice guy who i explained that i had a bf but he just kept me company while my friends were dancing. I ended up getting his ... (216 words)

How can I control myself when it comes to guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How the hell do I controll myself? If a man comes onto me I cannot help but go along with it! Im not a tart by the way! But i'm starting to get a reputation of being easy. I just cannot say no to a fit lad! Once when I was at a party, I wasn't even that drunk, but I snogged on ... (197 words)

Am I pregnant or just sick?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old, and i don't know if im pregnet or not. Today is the 23 and i have my period sometime between the 1st and the 15th. Its been almost 2 weeks, and im having stomach pains,i feel like im always hot, i feel sick, and my chest has gotten bigger. Do you think im ... (61 words)

Should I forgive him after he punched a wall during an argument?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months he is very passionate and lovey dovey. I like it I'm that way too. But one night he was over and we got into an arguement about him going to a party without me. I told him if he goes without me than i'll go to another party ... (165 words)

We broke up but how can I get him to stop blaming himself?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i split up with my ex not long ago, due to the differences in our lives and what we want to do with them, and cos i felt like we were more best friends than lovers. We had been together for a year and a half, long distance mostly. We agreed to stay wicked friends and its ... (212 words)

Can men tell if a woman has low self confidence?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can men tell if a women has low self confidance? I have low self confidance and it seems all the guys I go out with ethier dump me in a few weeks {the normal ones} Or I end up with some jerk that hits me and takes advantage of me. How can I let men know i'm not a doormat? What ... (172 words)

Why is it that gay men love me?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why Is it that gay men love me? I'm a women and my whole life it seems that gay men want to hang out with me. That does not bother me. I have nothing against them. It's just that sometimes I think they like me for a girlfriend but I know they are gay. Are all gay men bi's. My ... (125 words)

I'm 15 and want a normal teenage life! Will a girl want to have sex with me?

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23 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well I'm 15 and basically I have no life:( I don't really have friends and i just want to live the normal teenage life. Everyone i no has the normal life. They go to parties they hook up with other people they drink. I want to be like that and have friends and go out. every ... (183 words)

Did the older man that took my virginity just want me for sex?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am from a religious culture. Half a year ago, I lost my virginity to a man much older than me. I knew it was wrong but I couldn't resist the temptation. I loved him and I am still in love with him. I told him several times I was not ready and virginity is something I really ... (239 words)

Why is it I freeze when it comes to being open with a guy I like?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a very very open person with my friends (guys and girls) yet when it comes to a guy that I like, I freeze. I give guys the wrong impression - this one guy told me he thought I wasn't interested, when in reality, I really was. I don't show my feelings, I can't seem to open... (110 words)

I want to send her a sweet message about how I feel about her, but I don't want to appear too obsessive.

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23 June 2008 (M) - Ok, so here's my situation. Dated a girl long distance. She seemed totally into me at first, was asking me to come visit her at school even though she knew I couldn't, sending me suggestive texts. We had a few dates over the period of a couple months, fooled around a little ... (282 words)

I love boys, so why can't I get my best friend out of my system?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i'm a girl and i have a serious problem... I think i may be in love with my best friend who is also a girl. I'm not attracted to girls in general just her...after two drunken kisses on two different occassions i can't get her out of my head! On the second kiss we fing... (124 words)

My only problem here is that I cannot orgasm during sex, and it's causing a lot of stress and guilt for both of us.

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old woman and have been married for 4 years. My husband and I don't have any children. We are very happy together and don't really have any complaints about our relationship. My only problem is that I cannot orgasm during sex. My husband has severe TMJ whic... (137 words)

I don't think he's cheating on me, I just don't think he's being honest. What do you think?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately my relationship with my boyfriend has been awful. I'm always a bitch to him for no reason, and we always fight about stupid things. Today I was at his house and I saw some a text message on his phone from a girl named Sarah that said "call me when you get this" and an... (221 words)

Does he have anger issues, or do most guys act like that?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for a 21 year old guy who is a total video game freak, to get really - and I mean really upset when he is losing in a game? He starts cursing so bad, over and over and then punches the couch if he loses. When I say "that sucks I'm sorry the game killed you" he does... (94 words)

I recently broke up with the man I love and I really need your help.

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am writing this because i need advice, from either people who have been there or for people who think that they may be able to offer me support. I have just recently broken up with my boyfriend and we were together for almost 2 years. I love him so much but a few months a... (982 words)

Are these fortune tellers giving me false hopes?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I broke up with my b/f, I felt depressed so went to see several fortune tellers. They were pretty accurate about some stuff...and 2 of them said that my ex likes me a lot and he would come back next year. I dunno if this is giving me false hope. I wonder if any of you had ... (61 words)

I'm just WAY too nervous to talk to him. What should I do?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 13 (14 in August) and I like this boy at my school. For valentine's Day, we had the choice to send out a rose to someone. I sent one to him that said from "your secret admirer" and it's already June 22nd 2008, and I haven't gotten any replys or signs that he likes me ... (73 words)

How can I get closure? I still love him.

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm still in love with my ex, we broke up almost three months ago. He is dating, and i am too. I think he is really into this girl, as for me - i still miss him and love him. He still has some items in my home, and i have to stay in contact with him due to those items. Ever... (123 words)

I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?... (46 words)

Am I pregnant, or just gaining weight?

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23 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused to whether i may be pregnant. I have had stomach aches like i'm hungry, but i'm nauseous at the same time...but that went away after a couple of days. Now i have had gas for about a week, and wow is it embarrassing...i think i may be pregnant, or maybe i'm j... (87 words)