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*abewithbrains
writes:Hi, Guys.I generally don't bother myself with boys but yesterday this boy aked me to the cinema and I said i'd go. So, missing my ballet lesson and a rounders tournement, showed up no more than 3 minutes late. He didn't turn up. I don't know what to say, because I'm seeing him next tuesday, at fencing, were I met him, if he turns up, and I've never been in this situation and I don't know how to deal with it. Should I be angry or should i just not say anything? I will go to fencing because I like going and I want to talk to him, it's just should I talk to him or should he talk to me. I don't even have his number and it could all be a mistake and his mum wouldn't let him go I'm just so confused and I don't even really fancy him but I like him enough not to want to hurt his feelings.Thanks for reading,Love JellyxxxPS. This was sposed to be my first date, ever. Doesn't my future in love look brill. Reply to this Question
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (19 June 2008):
babewithbrains is verified as being by the original poster of the question I think I'll let him do the talking...
I'm still kinda anoyed though because I missed a rounders tournement and I wouldn't blame my teacher if i was kicked off the team.
Oh well. I spose he has a reason, as i know it wasn't a date, because there were only the two of us (There were around 20 at the club ranging from 50-5) teenage people there on tuesday.
However, if he asks me again, I think I'll say know. I don't fancy him really, so i don't think it'll work.
Jelly
xx
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (18 June 2008):
 Firstly: Don't be a pessimist about dates. We all have crap dates because people have blown us off, lied or just run off with no explanation. You have many years ahead of you which means many dates ahead of you so don't quit early.
Secondly: If this boy really does 'care' and wasn't doing it from a dare by his friends then HE will approach YOU at fencing. Otherwise I think you should just not go to him. Let the boy make the 1st move, the way it's meant to be.
Good luck and happy future dating.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (18 June 2008):
Well you've found out just how unreliable he can be. He might have a genuine reason for not going. Its better to get it out in the open and ask him why he didnt turn up. If he doesnt have a real reason then dont bother with him, he isn't worth it.
xxx
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