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writes:helloI am kind of confuse with this guy i am dating, he does everything to please me, we have never fight, we have develop feelings for eachother, he is always trying to see how am I feeling ( because I have a little bit of bad health), he even told me that he cares a lot about me and that he has never like someone as he likes me, but at the same time he told me once that he doesn't got involved very seriously with someone because of the fears of responsability and the fears of breaking up. The thing is that we are exclusive with eachother, and with out that comment that he told me. He call me very often, and we enjoyed eachother really well. The thing is, so this guy in my opinion is acting like in a boyfriend/girlfriend relashionship, so I don't understrand why he would say that he doen't want anything serious. I am not looking now for a marriage. In this case I also though that if this guy is not inlove with me now, he is in his way too. So what everybody thinks about this? Other detail we have only been dating for around 4 months Reply to this Question
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reader, Artistry +, writes (18 June 2008):
 Hi, It sounds as if the two of you care about each other, love? I would take things slow, he did tell you what he told you, for some reason. It seems to be a sort of protective cover, so that you will be comfortable with the idea, that he does not want a commitment, but wants to be with you. So, I think I would as best you can, keep you emotions kind of under control, if you can. I think he likes you a lot, but is afraid of either being used or hurt. Take it slow, he may be more into the relationship than you are, eventually. But do not reveal your soul to him, if it comes to that, before you find out where he is going, one way or the other, sorry to be so technical, but these days, people are looking out for their own interests. He seems to be a nice person, and it will probably turn out great. I hope so. Enjoy his company, but keep your eyes and ears open, for signals. He may also be a bit insecure. Good luck to you both.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (18 June 2008):
 well i think hes starting to fall in love with you but he wants to be cautiose because hes afraid of getting hurt. it sounds like someones broke his heart befor and he doesnt want that to happen again so dont let things like that freak you out. just continue to be a good girlfriend and eventualy your problem will pass away.
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