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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I wrong for thinking about her this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't tell what is wrong with me! I can't stop thinking about this girl yet it's not her body or something like that that i'm thinking about. i just wonder every second what she is doing and how she feels and i feel like i want to make her better somehow. I tohugt i was in... (124 words)

How can I show him I'm trustworthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - so i was in a marriage of 12 years to a man in the USA. it was really rough. constant physical and mental abuse and i was pretty much trapped in a hole with this man as i basically needed him around just to survive. i was not allowed any friends or allowed a real job. i had ... (766 words)

Do I make a move or let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm in grade seven, and my crush is in grade eight, even though we're the same age. he's graduating but goin to another high school.(theres two high schools where i live) he lives pretty far away so i'm never goin to see him again. what should i do. he possibly likes me but ... (68 words)

What should I do? I've spent weeks thinking but haven't come up with a solution...all advice really appreciated!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, My husaband recently got back from a business trip in china. I know it sounds untrusting but I checked his phone and to my horror there was text to one of his sports friends it went something like this, Hi mate, can't play squash, still in the land of the yellow ... (238 words)

We were having a great time...but I have discovered that he was cheating and lying to me...he hurt me, but I just can't seem to stop caring about him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently found out that the guy who I was seeing is actually married and has been seeing a whole host of other girls as well as myself. I'm finding it really hard to cope with. I haven't exactly told him I've found out, but have cut all contact with him and am ignoring ... (439 words)

The thought of my ex having sex with her new BF is awful, how can I get over it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

- Hi The thought of my ex having sex with her new B\F is killing me. Is this normal? How do i get this out of my head? thanks... (30 words)

I fell in love with a teacher...but he's leaving at the end of the year!! What should I do??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi!! I fell in love with my teacher 9 or 10 months ago and it's been really hard for me to get through the year with such strong feelings for him. But it's the second last week of the year and i recently found out my teacher was leaving and i'm completely heartbroken to t... (169 words)

I have a small lump on my penis - what should I do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a small lump on my penis but I amafriad that if I go to the doctor that my penis could go hard. What should I do?... (28 words)

Her mum is my dad's cousin, is it ok to date her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i met a girl in a pub, and went out with her a few times, i'v now found out that her mum, is my dads cousin, is it ok to carry on seeing her... (34 words)

My boyfriend and I are complete opposites and he says he has "reached his limit" whereas in the beginning this was not an inconvenient, why?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, my bf and I are complete opposites my likes are his dislikes and his dislikes are my likes!!! were completely different i've never had a problem with this ever "opposites attract" but i have realised that now its realli buggin him and he says that it has "reach... (85 words)

I love him but I don't know what to do!! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriends for 4 years now like every relationship we have had up and downs we have gotten into fight where he tells me he donest wnat to be with me and all this crap but then things get better and we get over it. i know how he is allready and he loves to ... (147 words)

Should I shave my dick??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I am 14 and wondering if i should shave my dick what do you girls pefer most?... (17 words)

Sex with a new man went completely wrong!! Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm 26 and have been with my husband since I was 16. We split up a few months ago and he was the only person I have ever slept with. Last week I met a great guy and I ended up spending Friday and Sunday night round his (I knew of him from school so he wasnt a total ... (289 words)

If a guy lasts about thirty minutes, doesn't he get... bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a question about me particularly, I'm just really curious... Guys always say they need to 'take' ages before they come and they longer they take the better it is for the girl. But, as a girl, I would get so bored if I didn't come every ten minutes or so. If a guy ... (66 words)

My boyfriend keeps lying!! I don't think I can trust him in any situation anymore....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend keeps telling lies. Firstly I didnt want him going to a lap dancing club with the boys as you always hear about what goes on in the back room.which he lied to me about going and came home 600 pound short. He used to do coke and lie about that to me too. he has ... (123 words)

How can I get over someone I love to death who is getting married in two days!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The man I truly love is getting married in two days. I don't know what to do. I am going to it, and I know both him and her. I am fairly good friends with the both of them, him especially... I don't know how I'm going to be able to hold myself up during the wedding... This has ... (147 words)

Got dumped by my bf. Should I move on? It will be hard to find someone like him in the gay scene!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been 3 months my ex broke up with me. I still think about him EVERY day, i miss him a lot. We were a gay couple. Together for 10 months. Right after we broke up, i tried talking to him about we being a great couple, that we couldnt finish something so great. We ar... (412 words)

Why am I addicted to the crushes that I get??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i've currently got an overwhelming crush on a man at work, to the point where i arrange my working day around him, and start giggling whenever hes around. this man is in his late 40s, and is in no way appropriate for me. this i know, and i'd never go out with him anyway. but ... (600 words)

I've loved him for 3 years!! Does he like me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i've been in love with a guy for 3 years and last year we got together when we were alone i asked him if he did like me and he said yeah when we got back to school everyone was saying we had sex and everything and i was so upset i broke up with him after 3 days. this year ... (237 words)

It really hurts my gf whenever we try to have sex...any ideas on why it could hurt so much??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My question is this, I am not a virgin but my current Girlfriend is. We are both 20 years old, now we have tried having sex but we stop because it becomes to painful for her. Now I have been with a virgin befor, and I know it hurts and what not but a little KY and going slow ... (196 words)

She told me that she hates me...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago but still talked, emailed back and forth, and hung out occasionaly. The breakup seemed more like a break as noone cheated or ripped anyones heart out and we just needed some space. I then told her that I was in love with her ... (76 words)

When you have sex do you have to shave your pubic hairs or not?? Answers wanted ASAP!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - um....i really dnt know how to saii this but...when havin sex, must you shave the area by your vagina or is this a major turnoff, or do guys like it when you have shaved there??? ... (35 words)

What am I doing to attract these men to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I'm a 53 year old widow. Beloved husband I was happily married to for more than two decades was killed by a drunk driver in November, 2003. I started trying to date again a few years ago. I have attracted two men to me that I developed totally incompatible... (657 words)

Help, I don't know what to do with my crush and my boyfriend...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - k, well, i hav this boyfrend rite?and im onlii 12 but were pretty serious as ive already met his mom and dad and sister but the thing is, wayyyyy b4 that, i had this crush on a boy thats still in my class but i never thought he liked me, so anywayz, for the first month me and m ... (234 words)

What constitutes cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi to all you advisors out there on this site. I don't have a problem, but here's the story. A few weeks ago we had friends over and somehow the subject of my 'former best friend' came up. He is only a 'former best friend' because of his divorce, he moved almost 1/2 the country ... (466 words)

Why wouldn't he come back to get his things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - he went to his exwife of 2 yrs when i kicked him out we were fighting and i told him to go, he was living with me, the next day i was not angry anymore and sorry, i called him he cried and said he wanted to come back that night but then his cell phone went out of range. he ... (123 words)

Is this a good sign or is it even a sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - its been a little over a month since my g/f broke up with me. at first i admit that i did the worst thing that many guys do; i continued to call and text her throughout the day to try and get her back. the first week she would always ans. my calls r text, but then she stopped ... (221 words)

Ladies, when is a good age to start to douche?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, okay so I'm just curious, this is a question that i want to ask the ladies. when is it a good age to start to douche?... (27 words)

After my husband cheated I don't believe men are nice... can I really trust someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Since my husband cheated me, I am unable to trust any other men. I see all men in the same eye.Everyone is same. They all are shits! But I want to live a happy life. How can I see others in a different way? Or are there anyone who is good? Can I get someone who is good and whom ... (65 words)

I had been playing online with this girl that I really like and now she is with someone else... how can I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone.Here i go.18 months ago i started to play an online game and a year ago i met a girl there.We were just friends but after a while we started to do everything together.We were spending whole day together.When i logon in the morning she was saying gmorning what do ... (311 words)

Move in or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to move in with him at the end of the summer.. I really want too but I know my family would absolutely hate the idea and would disown me if I did. I truely do love him and would do anything for him, and I know he feels the same about me. What do I do?!?... (60 words)

I am married and started seing someone else very frequently... we have now broken up... how do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Yes I know it was and is wrong and I know many people will deserve the pain I am in. I am married for almost 7 years...my husband is great and all that normal stuff no abuse etc. Just no affection. 8 months ago I met someone due to interests we share. We hit it of... (250 words)

What can I text my boyfriend to keep him with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just really starting dating, you know as a teenager, so i just got this boyfriend and i really like him but im still afraid that he will break up with me since young love never last. i text him alot, so is there any things i can say that isnt to personal or lovey dovey but ... (70 words)

Is it normal to black out during an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to black out during sex? If it's really amazing and intense I find that I don't remember it. I don't even know if I've ever had an orgasm during sex coz I don't remember!... (37 words)

Can men tell me how does it feel inside the vagina?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I keep asking my husband, after sex, how it feels, inside me... I'm curious. He chuckles and says something like "whew" or "like home". Really, men, can someone spare more than a word and a smile?... (38 words)

I met a great guy but he's not my type... can I change that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month and a half ago I met this really great guy. I mean, he's nice, sweet, funny and great to hang out with. The only problem is...I'm not really too attracted to him physically. He's not ugly by any means but I suppose he's just not my type? I don't really kno... (340 words)

What can I do to make him treat me better?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i want it" i told him i didnt ... (474 words)

Am I infertile or is it just luck?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for the past six months and we have sex quite often. We've never once used protection and don't get me wrong I'm glad I'm not pregnant! But I just don't understand why that's the case. Does that mean I'm infertile or is it just luck?? ... (51 words)

I started seeing my ex and I still love her... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl who i used to go out with for 2 years and 4 months and it ended a while ago. We started doing stuff again and I still love her. Anyone got any advice on what i should do?... (41 words)

Any woman had a hysterectomy due to cervical cancer? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Any woman diagnosed with HPV and had a hysterectomy due to Cervical Cancer as a result of HPV ??? I need some answers or advice? Thanx a billion.... (28 words)

My boyfriend acusses me of cheating all the time and I don't know what else to do, help please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, i'm really confused :( i've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and everything is just going wrong :( i love him so much but at the moment he's really hurting me, he makes me sound like an awful person who only cares for myself and that really isn't true. He's my first ... (239 words)

Should I wait for him to give us a chance? His ex is obsessed and deluded and has just had a baby - that might be his.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I got talking to this guy online, and we quickly started getting on really well. He got attached to me and wanted me to visit - we'd already planned a joint birthday party - so I did. The first few days were great. He said he was the happiest he'd been in over a year (he's cu... (296 words)

I have been with my fiance for 7 years and she is not interested in having sex... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 26 yr old male and i have been with my fiance for 7yrs and she as 26 as well we have one child together and I have done everything and tried everything but she is not interested in having sex with me what can i do?... (49 words)

How to suggest rough sex? How to make him propose even though his divorce is not final?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have posted here before and I got really good answers so Im going to try it again... How do I get my boyfriend to propose or even give me a promise ring even though his divorce isnt final? How do I get my boyfriend to be rough during sex? He isnt that big and it fee... (81 words)

I really like him, how do I know if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i used to go out with this guy for about 2 years in jouniour school.i move to high school and and we didnt see much of each other but i thought we could still work something out and then he got my best mate to dump me for him.i have fallen out with her i still think there is ... (181 words)

I've been engaged for 4 years and just started wedding plans... but... I don't want to marry him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I am 21 years old and I have been engaged to the same guy for 4 years now. We are finally starting to make wedding plans, but for about the last six months I have been absolutely miserable. I've put on a good face and told myself that everything will work out, but I just ... (148 words)

I think our relationship is over but I just don't know what to do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i posted a problem a while ago about how my husband had been contacting his ex partner via facebook. I decided to try again and i really have been trying and so has he to the point where we are both trying to hard!!!!. we have just spent a week together in italy, the w... (286 words)

What can I do to see my school hall monitors again during summer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a problem and that would be that school is over. Trust me i hate school but i'm going to miss the two hall monitors. i know it sounds wierd but i have developed feelings for them and i think they have to for me. i won't see them until september but it really sucks. ... (173 words)

Why does he continue to stare and talk to me when he was the one who broke it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with my ex for a year before he broke it off with me. It was hard for me because he didn't tell me the reason why. We had a good relationship and there was no cheating and I did not mistreat or use him. I just didn't know what happened. We had little problems like ... (299 words)

My friend is flirting with everyones boyfriend... what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend is flirting with peoples boyfriend and really, lots of boys but the thing is i dont know if she knows shes flirting or just doing it deliberatly. Shes getting on our nerves and she keeps saying that she doen't like them but she always talks and laugh at them though. ... (67 words)

Should I talk to him? Does he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey, i have a question about what i should do about my ex bf....ok last night i had this weird random urge to talk to my ex, so i was goin to text him but then i chickend out and just saved the message....i gess it was just cuz im afraid to show my fellings but he isnt, ac... (224 words)

Should I stay with my boyfriend and hope that my feelings develop a bit more or go back to my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half months now and he told me he's getting condoms and I'm in the runnings for birth control and neither of us have any problems with this. The issue IS: I just got out of another relationship just a few months ago that lasted a ... (228 words)

He told me he could not see me any longer as he would hurt my feelings due to his depression. This is hurting my feelings...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Been seeing a bloke from work and he has told me he suffers from depression he told me he really liked me but could not see me anymore as he would let me down cause of his depression and wanted to protect..we have stopped seeing each other as i can't force anyone to be with ... (258 words)

He played a prank on me, now says he cannot trust me. Must I carry on with this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age - My bfriend and I have been going out for almost 6 months and last month he sms me from a different number and pretended that he was someone else and ask if I had a boyf. I said yes. Then he asked if I would go out with him at the weekend if my boyf was not around. I hesi... (125 words)

Precocious ejaculation damaging our sex life - I've tried talking to him, screaming at him, crying... I've lost control.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years now and the sex totally sucks. He comes in a minute or less. I've tried talking to him, screaming at him, crying to him...i've totally lost control. Of course all the talking and complaining has gotten to him and made the ... (97 words)

First date with a woman... how is it different than a date with a man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) age - m going on a fisrt date with awoman and is also my first ime ever... is it just the same as being in a date with a man... or is just like going out with your own friends... ... (38 words)

I don't want to lose my potential life time partner because of the baby issue...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Im in an eleven months relationship with a guy who truly loves me and the marriage issue has always popped up. He recently got a job away from home. Im at university, just completed my diploma and willing to start with my degree. He has met my mom and i have not met his ... (228 words)

I don't know whether to stay in this relationship after I found out about his attempt at cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and half years. But im starting to think am i paranoid. To cut a long story short we have a bit of an up/down relationship but what ever happens we battle through. Reasently i have be come supicious of him. He keeps buying me gifts... (337 words)

Why would he change so quickly?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

- ok sorry for the long message but this guy confusing me and it best if i explain what we did for dates then u can see why he suddenly gone off me day1 meet in town walked around went to his watched film had sex (weak moment from me)then he walked me home day 2 meet in t... (449 words)

I'm confused after three years of marriage and still cannot get through to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age - I have know him for five years. Been married to him for three and I love him lots. He does not show any feelings unless I pull it out of him and that is once in a while. He does not like to talk about us or sex. What do I do. I feel I can help him but put me on the right ... (96 words)

I'm not sure how to deal with hearing the news about my abusive ex and his new girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

- My ex bf would sexually abuse me all the time and sometimes emotionally abuse me. While we were going out, his best friend would talk to me often and say things that portrayed him as being a guy who sleeps around alot and just generally not a good guy. I didnt believe him ... (348 words)

Any phone conversation tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some good topics to talk about over the phone with your lover?... (14 words)

Is this abusive behavior. I feel useless !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

- After a wonderful one year relationship i moved in with my girlfriend. Now it seems i can't do anything right. She criticizes me for the littlest things like how i fold the bathroom towels, the way i wash up and dry, how i make the bed, where i leave bathroom rug, how to... (216 words)

My wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married, my wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman, and she has been sexually active with her. We have a very honest marriage and I appreciate this. I said I don’t mind and still don’t the, hole thing turns me on and my wife knows this.My wife ... (138 words)

Was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) age - This question may sound really stupid and weird, but I was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before? I am 22 and my boyfriend and I are doing a post- april fools sort of sex surprise thing, we are meeting up together at my place with a surprise... (146 words)

I don't want to be the office whore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) age - so i was in a porn movie about 5 years ago when i was 20, (i was in a very dire and bad situation in my life) but i have grown and learnt from that experience and i have gone to school and got myself a job on a magazine. I am very happy with how I have recovered my life. but my ... (163 words)

Any help or tips about oral from experience would be very helpful

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) age - Okay, so i have a question asbout oral sex. i am 22 and i have never given it before, and i have had sex with my boyfriend who i love. He has gone down on me and I love it, and I want to return the favour. I have tried to practise on a banana or cucumber before but I feel like ... (127 words)

Was this long distance relationship a fantasy and a farce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

- I am gutted as my long ditance g\f broke with me but friends say it was a farce. What do you guys think? * In jan 2007 I had 10 days with a girl in NZ, full of passion and affection. I am from UK * Between Jan 07 and April 07 we email and phone constantly between NZ a... (197 words)

How do I solve the problem I have with my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I m in love with my tution teacher who teaches me Chemistry. she is 39yrs of age and i m only 18.I love her but i affraid of telling her that she could even tell this to my parents.i think i m the best and most liked student of her.but she dont know about my Selfless Love ... (117 words)

Both he and I are in serious relationships already..so what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay - There's a guy that I've known throughout this whole year. And we've gotten on really good terms. Both he and I are in serious relationships already. But I've gotten pretty acquainted with him, I've sent him a couple of emails with a bunch of videos and some... (248 words)

I am turned on my others looking at my wife is it normal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

19 June 2008 (M)

age - Hi we have been invited to a friends house for dinner this next week with another couple. the last time we stayed over,we all ended up in the spa and things became steamy, we were all nude. I enjoyed the attention my wife got and at the time she did but she is still a ... (92 words)

I don't want my husband to leave me

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married now 16 years, in the last 3 years its been going down hill.my husband dont show any love towards me any more, no kiss, hug, not even a smile,sex is maybe every 2 months, i found out he has been talking to a female employee of ours for years, iv been told ... (171 words)

A a fresh start no lying or cheating. how can we make this work?

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19 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been with my g/f for about 8 months and i have cheated on her 3 times. i dont know why i did it but i do know that i love her. i have been used to having more than one girl in the past but never been in a relationship, apart from my daughters mother of corse, that was ... (132 words)

We are in love, but her mother won't allow it. help me out please!

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and i'v fallen in love with my best friend. She loves me too, and we've been going out for 2 months now, but the problem is, when her mother found out, she freaked. My girlfriend isn't allowed to see me, but we go to the same school, so we get to spend time together. ... (78 words)

Why can't I enjoy sex with my boyfriend, I'm bi-sexual

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - well i'm a bisexual girl very much in love with my boyfriend but i'm having severe sexual problems. we been together for over 2 years and only had sex about 5 times. he is frustrated, i am frustrated. i only had sex with one other guy before my boyfriend and it was only once ... (324 words)

He prefers his work buddies , some are girls, over me, is something up?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a small issue. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. A short time compared to other people. Almost six months into our relationship i pretty much moved into his townhouse with him. Then in may his lease was up and had to move back to his parents ... (420 words)

Question about how straight guys act...

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19 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey, Got a question about how str8 guys act. i`m a gay man , i`ve written before about this guy, but theres more unsure things about him , or maybe i`m just confused about how the str8 mind works lol this guy makes it clear that his girlfriend isn`t that special to... (243 words)

I feel such a loser, why did I have to take the bitterest end of this?

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19 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I'm breaking apart. I'm such a loser. My bf broke up with me on tuesday, because he said that he was fed up with the relationship not working, that he loved me but this was just too much. What happened? A long time ago he asked about my past, I lied, and then told the tr... (287 words)

I thought love was supposed to be easy, is it really worth all the trying and pain?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost eight months and i'm ready to call it quits. theres too much that makes me unhappy. we started dating by him cheating on his ex with me. that led to our relationship being just physical. i made him promise that he wouldnt ... (331 words)

My friend found out her boyfriend has an STD, and she was ready for sex with him. What should she do?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend has this major problem. She has not being dating for five years until last summer, with this guys she met at the lake. They are very happy together. It is seriously true love. But she found out that he has an STD. She has never had sex with anyone before and was ... (102 words)

She's 21 and wants to party alone before the ring...

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19 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I was 21 she was 17, everything was happy. Fast foward 4 years and some and now I'm 25 and she's 21 we've been living together for 2 years and she's just perfect for me. I tell her I want to get engaged just a week or two after her 21st birthday but she tells me she nee... (261 words)

I'm confused that he likes to kiss me and touch me like he is my boyfriend? Can this FWB relationship actually be something else?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this guy for about 3 months. We saw each other mostly in our university class, and then decided to hang out, which by the way only happened twice.The 1st day, we hung for a long time,then at the end of the day, he wanted to do it to me, and preferred a FWB status. We are ... (189 words)

Is it okay to date your sister's boyfriend's sister?

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19 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it okay to date your sisters boyfriends sister... (9 words)

My husband left and got another girl pregnant, how to deal with all this?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A month a go my husband left our home. He said he didnt know what he wanted. We have been married one and a half years and togther 2 and a half. He was going to come home and then met a young 18 yr old girl. He is 24 I am 26. He came back come leaving her a week ago but only... (116 words)

Talking to him is like talking to a wall... and these bitter feelings burst out every other month.

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having more bumps in this relationship. Every other month all these bitter feelings burst out. Again I'm telling him that I want romanticism. I had to beg him today to cuddle with me. He knows i'm jealous of his female friends so he sneaks out of the house and stays out all ... (106 words)

I have to look at theground when speaking to women in public, as my girlfriend is so jealous...

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19 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my fiance. but she's so jealous, she drives me crazy. She checkes my cell phone, emails, laptop, called me all day, evry 30 mins, showed up at my office, throws a tantrum if i come home even 5 mins late frm work late. she said i cant watch tv, cos there would be b... (250 words)

Has the way your orgams felt ever changed?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'd always had short and intense orgams, well the last 3 orgasm I've had changed, like the way an orgasm feels changed, i dont like them as much, now they are longer... it use to go up up up and then all the pleasure gets realised... well now its like up up up up up up and so I ... (123 words)

Does this make me a bad person?

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19 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey, this is kinda an oqurid topic for me. ok here it goes... i have alot of guy friends and we all hang out alot, well one day we were hangin out and i said "im really bored" and being my guy friends they all said something dirty....but one or them happend to say "then wh... (304 words)

Why don't I ever get asked out?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im very attractive and i have only been asked out once (im 19) I get whistled at by guys a lot and lots of them say im hot and try to use me for sex but never want a relationship with me. I dont get it, Im tall, athletic, smart, funny and ive even heard people tell me im one of ... (90 words)

Extreme Mode Swings - save my relationship, please!

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Guys I need help with something very important to me! I have a horrible mode swings for about half a year now. NO, I AM NOT PREGNANT. I didn't change my birhtcontrol pill ( I have the same one for about 5 yers now)and no big changes happened in my life latel... (386 words)

Should I forgive her or stay mad at her for kissing my boyfriend while we were drunk?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my friend and i were at this party, with my boyfriend( but he wasnt my boyfriend at the time) and we all ended up getting really drunk with this other guy. and we all ended up making out with eachother. my friend had a boyfriend at the time, and i was starting to date the guy ... (128 words)

I have been dreaming I have sex, what do they mean?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help! i have been having dreams where i am accually haveing sex, and i dunno what they mean. i have had 2 dreams like that, the first one made me not want to ever have sex but the second one made me feel different can someone help me?... (58 words)

My boyfriend says my vagina is loose and that he does not feel a thing... what can I do? How do I fix it?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have not cheated why does my vagina feel loose... my boyfriend thinks that I've cheated... before he even mentioned it, I have been noticing a diffrence with our sex life... when we have sex my vagina has no tightness to it.. I try and tightened my muscles during ... (166 words)

Is this his problem or my problem?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age - I am 58 and a female. I dated a gentleman for a year and ask him for a little more time along and more efection.we always had to have friends around.I own my home, he rents. He would never spent the night, but I would stay at his home on Fri.and Sat.evenings. So I broke up ... (322 words)

Why can't I just tell him I love him?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why is it so hard for me to tell the guy i love how i feel about him, like discuss my feeling for him instead of beating around the bush... (30 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to have sex with me!?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have sex very often. but lately he doesnt seem as though he wants too. he even told me he didnt care if i had sex with someone else. that was really hurtful, and i know he has mood swings and says things out of anger, but could this mean hes not attracted to ... (82 words)

How do I get through to him? Or should I just let him be?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy for a short time several months ago. We've known eachother for three years or so, but were never very close. However, while we dated we grew very close and told eachother everything. I found out he is very depressed. He's a freshman in college and still lives with ... (283 words)

Why is he trying to hide the fact that he is with a new girl even though he knows I know!?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I have an ex-boyfriend that is really confusing me. We broke up about 2 years ago because he didn't want to do a long distance relationship. He recently moved back but he brought a girlfriend! About a month before he moved back he told me that he wanted to get ... (163 words)

How can I gently break up with my boyfriend?

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19 June 2008 (F)

- me and my older bf (im 16 hes 22) have ben together for nearly a yr and everythings been fantastic but just lately ive started to want to go out more and meet more new ppl and maybe new lads i wann hav fun and go on dates while im young but he wants to settle down soon. How can ... (91 words)

Am I nuts for staying with this little boy for security?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. Here is my deal now. I have a 12 year old and her father and me usto fight like crazy when she was little so we broke up. I didn't date seriously for 7 seven years. I finally let someone love me and this kid is a bastard. My daughter has already seen him go nuts on me. H... (544 words)

Can't cope with his colourful ex girl/boyfriend!

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a new relationship.my dude and i have been together for 2 months and he just revealed to me that he was with a transexual. im so very disgusted and i cant even look at him in the face anymore. should i try to get pass it becus it was in his past,or should i dump him ... (62 words)

Is he too young for me do you think?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder if anyone can advise me on a startling new problem that's come up. Im 35 and single, never been married or had kids, and a few years ago got to know a lovely guy through some friends, who was 19. i found him really attractive and I remember having a big girly chat... (319 words)

I need help with a family / wedding problem.

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i wonder if anyone can give me some advice on how to deal with this.. Were getting married in september and my mum,brother and two sisters aren't talkin to my older brother. I've asked him loads of times for his address as he's recently moved and he hasn't given it... (130 words)

When I go down on my girl she gets all wet and sticky!

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19 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is quite disgusting, but however much I love my girlfriend very much - and so on and so forth, but everytime I go down on her this sticky foul stuff just comes out and it's eugh. I looked it up and I think it's discharge by why is there so much of it!? It can be foul s... (126 words)

How do I aproach girls?

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19 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so im not the most confident of guys which ultimatly is why i cant find a partner, the other day i was standing outside a bookshop before it was about to open and there was a girl there that seemed quite cool. i couldnt help but notice we were both looking each other up yet ... (106 words)

It's been 3 years and I'm still not over it. What should I do?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Me and my first love have been broken up for about 3 years now, but i still havent been able to completely get over him. He has been in a relationship for the past 3 years and it does "look" serious?! Mr and him dated for about 3 years and it was the single most powerful ... (599 words)

Was I being selfless or stupid??

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Back in November, my ex was given an opportunity to get a great job cross-country. He asked me to go with him and I said I could not at the time because of my work commitment. I told him that I needed some time to have my work experience and that I would come back to him. He ... (342 words)

My wife's paranoia is driving me mad!

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19 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for three years and dated my wife for 10 years before that. I have never cheated on her or even come close. Even when we did the long distance relationship thing for several years, I never so much as talked to another woman as a potential girlfriend. ... (221 words)

Will he learn or should I jump ship?

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19 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know previous questions like this have been asked before, but I haven't found a satisfactory response. I live with my boyfriend and we only maintain a joint checking account. Even then, I also have my own personal checking account and only put money in the joint for shared... (175 words)