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26-29,
*inabobina
writes:Me and my boyfriend jj have been dating for a little over 6 months now. School is over, so he went to live with his dad in Baraboo. He said he would talk to me every night online. He told me a couldn't call. But his girlfriend last summer was able to call him. Then he promised me he wouldn't talk to the 17 year old girl that he went to 3rd base last summer. Well about a week ago he told me he took his brothers to the park and he saw the girl there, well who takes there brothers to the park at 9:30 at night?I think he is cheating on me. How should I ask him with out him getting mad. He gets mad easily.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 There's an old saying that goes "if you don't want to know the answer, don't ask the question."
What are you going to do differently once you ask that question and get an answer? Assume he says 'no', because unless he's ready to dump you I doubt he'll admit to cheating. Will you be any closer to a solution than you are now? And if he says 'yes', are you ready to push him into making the break now when he seems to be willing to keep things together at least for the time being?
Somehow from your description I don't get the picture of this guy as somebody with whom you can have a deep discussion about your fears and his actions. That would be the best course of action right now. But unless you really think that can happen, that the two of you can communicate openly and honestly about your needs and wants in this relationship, I'd advise you to let sleeping dogs lie and see where things stand when he comes home at the end of the summer.
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