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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When is the best time to ask someone out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I met this girl at work today. She was pretty, she was really nice, and she had an easy sense of humor (that is, I made her laugh quite a bit with minimal effort). You know, all of the good signs pretty much. But just as I was ready to ask her to come grab a bite with... (393 words)

I want what's best for my son. Is he too young to choose who he wants to live with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey family! My issue is concerning my son and his father (who I am no longer with because of abusive behavior). For the first 4 years of my son's life, I raised him by myself, emotionally and financially. His father did nothing to show effort in being a part of his life. ... (272 words)

Am I destined to a life of sexual frustration?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all i am 34 years old and i am so sexually frustrated alot as to be honest, my husband does not satisfy me sexually (we rarely have sex) but i cant help but think, is this the way i am going to feel for the rest of my life, being sexual frustrated. I tell him what i ... (153 words)

Am I an odd girl for not trying girl on girl sex at least once?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I odd? I`m a 28 year old girl and never experimented with girls. 80% of the straight girls I grew up with and girls in school and even married girls I know tried this at least once. I mean more than just kissing. Is this common for girls to try this and then only be with ... (78 words)

Why can't I stop thinking about this man I had a thing with??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts while i was going through my marriage separation, i met and had sex with a man who i had known for 2 years, i had worked with him, there was always something between us, he declared he love me and we are ment to be together and the only thing that would make him h... (234 words)

I told her that anything could happen with me giving her a lift! Silence from her. I need feedback!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) age - I asked your opinion before on this subject.. I thought I did well but guess what happen.Im in love w my best friend and we had kissed we spoke a bit about it and whe i asked if she was ok with it she hessitated and then said no...After that happened a few wks ago and still I ... (157 words)

2 Questions, What do you think's going on, one minute he says he doesn't have feelings for me but other things suggest otherwise and do you think any feelings he has for me will go away over the summer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i have 2 questions here so sorry if this drags on abit!! Ok first one: Im seriously in love with someone who im at college with, over these past months he;s shown signs her likes me to. These were mainly deep eye contact when looking at me in general and he used ... (617 words)

Can I win him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and we lost are virginity together and because the relationship was becoming a bit mediocre we decided to be just friends. but ever since that, i think that im in love with him and i just cant forget about him: to ... (170 words)

I have some doubt about whether he fancies me or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a 15 year old student. i fancy a boy from my school. he keeps on staring at me in my lessons but he hasn't asked me out yet. he very rarely speaks to me, don't know why. i don't talk to boys much. have you got any idea whether he fancies me. i think he knows that i ... (72 words)

What should I do? Is she a true friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend only just meet this boy on Saturday who I've known for quite long because his in my and i told my friend i fancy him and she said ooh. then a day after she said she fancied him too. then tonight she asked him out for her self when she knew i was gonna ask him out for ... (75 words)

My insecurities are interfering with sexual things with my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this is a pretty embarrasin' question, but i really need advice. The thing is, i'm 15 nearly 16, but i'm really not comfortable with my body in any shape or form. When i say things to people, i'm really genuine and don't do it for attention, and people know this... (295 words)

Broken up 2 nights ago. Is it too soon to text her friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my girlfriend about 2 nights ago. Would it be bad form to start texting her friend and meet up with her?... (26 words)

My 'best friend' keeps flirting with my boyfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i have a big problem with my bestfriend! Recentley ive started dating this guy that i REALLY like and he really likes me. Well Today at break my boyfriend came to meet me like he usually does, and we were in the middle of a conversation and my best mate just came over and... (173 words)

STD question! Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been wondering this probably for about a few weeks now. I had anal sex with my boyfriend and I know for a fact he's clean. He's shown me papers. I know I'm clean because I too have also had a test. If both of us are clean is it still possible to transmitt any std's through ... (66 words)

Someone who works at our school wrote 'u r sexy' in my friend's facebook account! How should I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help!!!!! yesterday i was on facebook looking at my frinds account and i saw someone who works at our school commenting her "u r sexy" i was shocked when i read this. and told my close freinds one of my freinds messaged him calling him a pedo which i got really upset... (164 words)

I've lost 6 lbs so far in the past year, is that something to be worried about or proud of?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so this question is about losing weight. i've always wanted to lose weight because i look at myself and i think i'm not good enough for my own self. i stress on my body and i'm very self conscious about it, even though people say i have a nice body. but anyways, i went to ... (218 words)

I know I hurt him, I know I lied over and over, but now I want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for nine years. We have lived togehter for eight of those years. I love him. The beginning of our relationship was great we had so much fun together got along great. He was my best friend. At my job about three years ago I meant a guy. We talked a... (481 words)

Should I get involved with this woman with two kids? Can I express to her how mad I am for her past mistakes? Please guide me through this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Woman with 2 kids, what should I do? We're both 23 years old I'm single and not involved in any relationship yet She's got two kids, one from a relationship from highschool and the other just recent from a three year long relationship. This beautiful chick(mom) has been a ... (264 words)

How do I get him in the mood... dressing sexy doesn't work, dirty talk doesn't work, nothing works!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend says he hasn't been in the mood for sex lately and that the last few times we did it he didn't really want to. He says it isn't me and I believe him. I can easily get him hard, but he just never wants sex anymore. This has been going on for about a month now. I ... (164 words)

Recently my mate's been flirting with me, how do I find out if he really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've known this guy for three years and we're really good mates,and i'm in love with him, lately he's been flirting with me or so my friends say, but i don't know, and i really want him to see me in that way. How do i find out if he does love me? please help i want to know if i ... (72 words)

I went out to his friend's because I was drunk. To make it even, he asked a girl out and they had sex. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been close with a man I met for a couple of months and we've slept together 6 times or so now. Last week i was really drunk and ended up speding the night with one of his non-close friends (we didnt sleep together) anyway he found out and he didnt ask me about it. ... (158 words)

We agreed to take it slow, I want to think of a possible relationship in the future, but I can't seem to tell if he wants to be with me or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a guy for 2 months. Prior to him I had been on several bad dates and wasn't looking for anything serious, but felt different with him. He on the other hand went through a break-up 7 months before we meet and later after we were dating he told he was not over ... (499 words)

Should I isolate myself in order to make a decision about who I want to be with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For the last 4 months or so I have been dating a guy. its been a really cool relationship, completely laid back and just fun really and also hes helped me through a lot and been completely supportive without putting pressure on me. However, i dont really see it going any furt... (204 words)

Can anyone help me with a confidence problem? Any websites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - CoNFIDANCE 1 thing i really dont have and i ned help fast i feel drained i give up on everything because it dont work out the first time for me.. My heart wants 2 stand out and be different than every body and i really want to acheive the things i start but agen the ... (234 words)

I am moving and leaving a great girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are having a good relationship, minimal fights, general fun, and happieness, I couldn't ask for more. The only problem is, I'm moving to Iowa at the end of august (we live in WI). Any advice? I'm at a loss.... (43 words)

My boyfriend wants me to have public sex with him and others at parties!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf wants me to have public sex with him and others at parties. I've seen others do it and I am somewhat turned on by the idea. Should I consent to his wishes?... (36 words)

I just kissed my best friend, who is also a girl! I'm really worried right now...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a little problem... I just kissed my best friend, who is a girl... and I'm really confused because i thought i liked boys but i'm not sure, and i know no one else saw, but i love my best friend like a sister but i don't know what to do now becuase i no kids in my cl... (97 words)

I really don't know if we're still together or not! And I fancy someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi There, I have a bit of boyfriend bother... Here's the story; I know this boy at my fencing club, he is in Yr 9 and I'm in yr7. I look old for my age, he is quite normal. So, last week he asked me out to the cinema, but he didn't show up, or I missed him or something.... (184 words)

Are there exercises I can do to make my penis larger?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why Is My Penis So Small At Age 13 is this normal . if any suggestions please tell how to get or make it bigger by just exercises... (29 words)

What should I do about having found naked pictures of her ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What should I do about naked photos of her ex-boyfriend? Here is some background information: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1.5 years and are getting ready to move-in together. We "joke around" about getting married and it doesn't scare either of us. It gives us... (526 words)

Has anyone let love go due to fear of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone ever let a love go because they were afraid to commit and then after realized they made a mistake? Or did it mean he was not the one for me and I was right in doing what I did?... (44 words)

Is sex in a commitment better than one night stands?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i want to no if being in a committed relationship make sex more pleasurable to women than casual sex... (20 words)

He acts like I'm going to be available for him whenever he's ready. How can I set things straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy and I like each other, and I recently told him I want to have sex with him. Since then he's been acting like I'll be available whenever he's ready leaving me wonder if it will ever happen. Now, suddenly and for the next several weeks I will totally be unavailable ... (87 words)

I love my teacher madly but now she's pregnant! All I can do is cry...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... I am a fifteen year old female student at a secondary school in essex. I've always been academic and decided not to get involved in relationships to focus on my school work. But then in September '07 I fell in love with my new science teacher... and she's female. I ... (168 words)

Is it safe to be with a girl who cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - is it safe to be with a girl who cheated me? i wish to be with her, but i hav lost the trust. i wish to regain it by time. she gal says that i will never gain the trust again, and its better to stop.... she is also not suer that she wont repeat the mistake.. i know that fo... (81 words)

Some ideas for making conversation, please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this isn't really a big question, but it would be nice to have some advice. I'm going to hang out with this girl I like, and hopefully ask her out, and I was just wondering, if you were/are a 13 year old girl, what would you want to talk about? I'm not the best ... (75 words)

How best to break up with the guy I'm with now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i like this guy and he likes me ,but im in an relationship with another guy.how do i break up with one im with now?... (26 words)

How can I get on birth control without going to my mother's doctor?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well the thing is i want to be put on birth control and i have been haveing sex for about 3 weeks now and and we been using a condom but how does a 17 year old girl get birth control with out going to my mothers doctor and she nows i want birth control but doesn't know me and ... (90 words)

How can I know if someone I know from the Internet likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i know if this guy likes me?? when we are both online we always talk together....is there like something i can do to know if he likes me in that way or he thinks of me as just a friend....we actaully know a lot about each other! soo can u help! i know i havent given u ... (76 words)

I have a phobia about tattoos on women. How do I get rid of it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Help i have a phobia about tattoos on women. I don't no where it comes from but if i see a tatoo on a woman i feel repulsion. I'm not a sexist i embrace the modern woman, its just this one thing that bugs me. Why do i feel this? Do other people feel this? How can i rid myself o... (63 words)

I hadn't had a period in a long time and now I got these clots and cramps... is there something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im really really worried but i dont know why, is this a normal thing to happen? i am 16 and i started my period when i was 14, they have been regular, come on every month on the 22nd or 23rd without fail, i didnt get my period in april, i thought it might be late but it didnt ... (177 words)

I'm 6 mths pregnant and I hate what's inside of me, what do I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and 6 month pregnant i dont feel i love this child i hate whats inside of me what do i do ... (25 words)

How do I get my ex to see the light again? He's being so foolish!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having major anxiety---I love my ex so, so, so much and I think I made a mistake in giving him too much space. I knew we were close to getting married and wanted some time to myself to think about my career, next steps, etc. During this time, he started dating someone else ... (123 words)

I'm distressed about losing my viginity, what comes next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been a virgin al my life nt until i met this guy who has been asking me out for 2 years now and i got to fall in luv with him so i accepted just recently and he like sex and romance a lot. and i had to succumb and now i have been disvirgined and i feel pains in my priva... (82 words)

What can I do to make her realize she could really hurt herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, one of my friends recently lost her virginity, and she has done it again with a different guy about two weeks afterwards. Neither of them wore condoms, and she's only 13! She said that she wanted to have sex with me next. I declined the offer, but I began to worry about ... (102 words)

Is it healthy to masterbate every day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong if i masterbate everyday?? my friends say it is wierd for girls to masterbate...but i dont see why guys can and not girls?? so is it healthy if i masterbate everyday??... (34 words)

I'm beginning to find my girlfriend less attractive. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm 19 and I've been in a relationship for the past 2 years. To start with I loved being with this girl, however now that we've been together for so long I'm starting to feel like it's not going anywhere. Embarrising as it is to say she is my first "real" girlfrien... (89 words)

Although I can get really hot guys, I am attrackted to nerds... what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey the problem with me is very weird..i am in the first year of college and i am having an awsome year i was recently voted as the fresh face of the year and the best model in the whole college,i have guys after me,the hot ones,that includes the college president and sports ... (182 words)

She couldn't carry on the way things were...but how do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel as though i really want to be back with my ex girlfriend, we have been split up for about a month and a half now. I feel that she is going through a busy time in her life with uni etc but she told me that she couldnt carry on like we were ( because we kept arguing) and ... (500 words)

She has not been interested in sex since our child was born four years ago!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 26 yr old male and i have been with my fiance for 7yrs and she as 26 as well we have one child together and he was born in 04 and I have done everything and tried everything but she is not interested in having sex with me,she hasnt really been interested in havin sex ... (152 words)

My penis and scrotum are 'shedding'! What is this and can I treat it at home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is a bit emberassing, but my penis and (for lack of a better term) 'ball sack," are both having the same problem:they're "shedding." They're covered in dry skin, and some of it keeps coming off. what could this mean? Is it serious, or just a domestic problem... (70 words)

How should I handle this without scaring him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been taking penicilin and it has effected my contraceptive pill, i wasn't told that this would be the case by the doctor i saw. Ive now had to take the emergancy contraceptive pill and have told my boyfriend. He was really understanding when i told him, but now 1 day ... (100 words)

How can I trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just had twin girls and found out that my husbund has been cheating on me for the last 2 months. I dont know what to do. he says he is sorry he bashed the door down to speak to me how can i trust him again? xx thanks... (50 words)

After we had sex he said he'd call... it's been three days and I am going coo coo!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There has always been a chemisty between me and one of my best friends roommates. We ended up making out drunk at a party a couple months ago. We saw each other through our mutual friend we flirt, but nothing ever happened. Recently we ended up making out again and I went home ... (197 words)

Any help on making my Curriculum Vitae?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i know this isnt to do with relationships but ive seen that this site is just soo helpful!! i really need a bit of help with writing a CV ive just left school and am looking round for jobs as im bored stupid and also need a litle cash before going back to school for 6th f... (103 words)

My wife keeps asking me to leave and then to comeback... I don't know what else to do!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there Help needed!!!....3 weeks ago me and my wife split up which was very hard to get my head around...we have been married for nearly 5 years and have 2 beautiful girls. Our realtionship has never been brilliant due to my wife's paranonia and depression, I have tried to be ... (333 words)

My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world for a few months... Any suggestions on how to make this time go a bit faster and better for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

- Hi, My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world to work for a few months. Where he is gone is pretty remote so he will only be able to ring me maybe once a week. I'm feeling very down about this, he only left yesterday..I am desperatley worried he will meet someone ... (109 words)

Anyone have any tips on how to lessen the nerves for when we meet cause I think its gonna happen quite soon!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey, im jordan female and im 16 i met this guy called liam around three years ago on the internet, ive never met him in person although ive seen him twice, we have talked for around thre years and over the past sort of year we have both started to tell each other how we feel. ... (270 words)

I just don't know what my heart wants! And I don't want to hurt her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - argh help! i dont know what i'm doing! i broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago after a 2 year long relationship, the breakup wasn't brilliantly handled on my part in the sense that i'd never broken up with someone before and I broke up with her but was so overwhelmed at ... (533 words)

She's starting to act interested and almost jealous now, after rejecting me! What to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've liked this girl for a LONG time and pursued and let her know many times, only to be rejected.. we are still friends but now.. when eventually I've just given up and started getting on with someone else really well she is starting to act interested and almost jealous. Is ... (68 words)

I like my wife to be an exhibitionist! Is there anything wrong with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I like my wife to exhibit her boobs and butt to a stranger, infront of me. I have even got her sexy lingerie and asking her to show off her sexy body to others like milkman, paper man, neighbour etc. Anything wrong with me?... (46 words)

Should I proceed with making this fantasy real?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have the fantasy of seeing my wife getting fucked by another male, particular our neighbour, who is showing a sort of interest in her. She also likes him and she is ready to have sex with atleast Once. By this thought only, I get excited and perform well on her. Shall I p... (62 words)

Should I just leave him alone? I feel he's being rude...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy who i think may have depression we have ended things as he cant cope with a relationship...i have left him alone for a few days and texted him last night just asking if ok as i do worry about you and if you need anything etc etc, he replied with not been to ... (220 words)

Are there any steps I can take to prevent me ending up with no life other than him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There has been a similar question on here today but my situation has some suitble differences. I have been with my boyfriend 4 years, through that period I had had strong friends, but through changing jobs, leaving school/ uni. I have generally lost them. Now often my life re... (277 words)

What do you do when you dry hump?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this may seem strange to ask but, wat is dry humping? i dont want wat it is, like wat do u actualy do wen u dry hump?... (29 words)

Am I wrong to be feeling like this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - do you think im out of order to be unhappy and upset over this? well basicly im 16 and i live in the uk, ive just left school and at the moment ive just finished my exams and am looking for a job like most others my age. ive been goin out with my boyfriend aged 18 now for 18 ... (907 words)

I feel like I'm too small to have sex doggy style!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - OK well im new to this and my question is: is my penis to small for "doggy style" my penis is 5.5 and my gf butt is pretty big. we havent had sex yet since we just got together but when we talk about it she talks about "doggy style" but im scared to do it because i feel ... (90 words)

I still love her. Could it be different if we got back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I would appreciate some advice. My girlfriend ended our 1 1/2 year relationship about 6 weeks ago. We broke up, i feel, because of me constantly arguing with her, my trust issues with her (which i had no reason to not trust her)i suppose i took her for granted, about a month ... (499 words)

Do you always bleed after the morning-after pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If you take the emergancy contraceptive pill do you always bleed? - because i havent.... (15 words)

Is it unreasonable to ask for stop the contact with her friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I want a little advice. Last year my partner had an emotional affair with an old friend she had been mailing for years. She ended up going to Sweden to meet her and told me soon after that she thought she was in love with her. We have sought counselling and it appears t... (467 words)

How can I tell if I am attractive to him?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy on the internet and was not immediately attracted to him, but he was persistant and I agreed to meet him. We got on well and since I was previously married for many years and so was he we had mutual interest. We started a relationship and he seems to have many ... (421 words)

How do I ejaculate quicker?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - how do i ejaculate quicker? it always takes a very long time and i was wondering does anyone know how i could ejkaculate quicker?... (24 words)

I'm really nervous about my date and need some advice

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25 June 2008 (F)

- Hello aunts. Its a long story so hold tight. Well first things first. I split up from my Ex of 3 years in August. Well he split up with me. Ever since then we were seeing eachother day and i had hope for us getting back together. That was untill he slept with my best ... (292 words)

Is our relationship fading out?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - good morning. ok so ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years, recently we split up and got bck together and said we would start a fresh. ive only been with him since the split for about 2-3 weeks. every weekend i dont see him he has had good reasons for it tho- 1st week ... (170 words)

How can a man manage to keep his virginity?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how can a male manage to keep his virginity through the post-GCSE summer when most of his female friends are losing theirs?... (23 words)

Was I sexually assaulted?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Was I sexually assaulted? Long story short 2 years ago at uni a couple of years ago I fell out with someone I was in halls with. (We're both male). He had previously told me he fancied me.One night I tried to make up with him by having a mate organise a night out and br... (203 words)

My bf gets anoyed, angry and upset with me because when I'm around his friends I am quiet and shy.

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25 June 2008 (F)

- My bf gets anoyed, angry and upset with me because when I'm around his friends I am quiet and shy. I find this to be really unfair because I do make an effort and he knows that Im shy so its really hard for me to talk to people who I havent seen much before. He knows that it ... (134 words)

Do you think he likes me more than a friend or as just a friend?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have this guy friend that ive known since January. He told my best friend ,that he had a crush on all year, that he loved her but she rejected him so he started hanging around me more. And a few days after that he asked me out. I rejected him because I just figured that ... (213 words)

Could she love me like I love her?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - **please excuse my lack of the use of punctuation** i have a problem. My name's not important and i'm 17. I started working at this ice cream shop the summer before my senior year of highschool. i liked it a lot and met this girl named something irrelevant. she's 20 now... (631 words)

I saw my ex forcing my friend to have sex, but she doesn't want me to tell anyone!

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend got raped by my ex. I am 16 and so is my friend. My ex, he is 19 in a few days. Just yesturday my friend and I had a party because we had just graduated from school. yea we r young don't ask. Ok so we threw a party and I invited my ex because we said we cou... (222 words)

I love him, but I'm sure I've lost him. how can I cope?

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25 June 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I have problems with my bf. Or maybe soon to be ex. Probably soon to be ex. See, we have a long history of issues because in my past I was with some guys he knew. This was way before I met him, but when we started dating I never told him, even though I was still friends wi... (851 words)

I date my cousin somtimes but also cheat on him, but can't stand seeing him with anyone else!

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had this huge crush on him ever since i could remember, he always makes me happy. we have kissed before and dated but sometimes i cheat on him with someone else, i hate seeing him with another person. are my feelings only like a cousin or more?... (48 words)

Should I back off and until everything is sorted out with his wife?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - A friend of mine called sometime ago thinking something was wrong in his marriage, thinking I could heip since I spent time with his wife. I've known them for years, so I tried helping. then he went home early on night to spend time with her, and found her with his close ... (243 words)

How to I make my daughter a lady and not a tramp?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age - Help please!! I am a single dad and live with my daughters. (4 of them. I love them all very much and until last week it was not a problem. My oldest daughter is 18 years old and is a very strong minded thing. Anyway last week I finished up work and came home early.I walked i... (367 words)

I would really like to know what attracts guys?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just wondering, what attracts a guy? I really dont want to come off as conceited, because I have as many problems as the next person. But I think im quite good looking, or so i've been told, and i have a good personality. But I dont have a boyfriend. Please dont say "... (108 words)

What do you do when your girlfriend still has strong feelings for her ex?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - what do u do when ur girlfriend still has strong feelings 4 her ex?... (14 words)

I've just told him a few minutes ago I wont be calling him again.Should I try calling him again or what?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well I've been talking to this guy since March we talked everyday over the phone.but lately the conversations were starting to get boring after an hour and before we used to talk all night..well he hasn't called me or anything for the past 2 days...I tried calling him and ... (120 words)

I fear even talking to other girls because if my friend finds out she will treat me really badly

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25 June 2008 (F)

- Ive had this friend since we were 6 years old, we are now both 19 years old and ever since we were little kids shes tried to destroy any other friendships ive had with other people. And she still does this. When we were 6 she told another girl who I was close with that I hated ... (309 words)

Am I just being used?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - MY ex is giving me mixed messages. He tells me he just wants to be friends but then he calls me at night to talk about everything going on in his life, invites me out to see him (he moved to another state), and still wants to sleep together. Should I just completely cut i... (89 words)

Should I worry about my bf chatting to other females online?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend goes online to chat wit other females. is that cheating? I argue with him about it all the time and he says that im over reacting.Am i over reacting or is this the beginnning to something that can escalate into big problems?... (44 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant and our relationship is troubled, what can I do?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend is hving my baby, she is 12wks along. We had numerous conversations about starting a family, getting married etc before we got pregnant. We went and looked at rings, tux's etc. We do not live together. Since becoming pregnant she has totally changed her tune. Now ... (219 words)

How important are looks?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering some people's opinions... Well, one of my friends is extremely obsessed with the way she looks. She claims that if she were to ever let herself go after marriage and kids, then her husband would no longer find her physically attractive. She says that though... (200 words)

I'm almost 21 and a virgin. I need advice

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm almost 21 years old and have not had sex yet. my longest relationship was about 3 months back in high school when i was 16. i really dont know what the hell i'm doing. i'm not gay lets get that out of the way. I just feel sometimes too nervous at times. i do smoke pot may... (213 words)

I'm sore after having sex, what could be the problem?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having a problem lately with my sex life. both my boyfriend and i love making love to each other but the problem is that I'm always sore afterwards and i don't know why. when we first started having sex it didn't hurt as much but thats probably because i had... (163 words)

Do girls frequently come to this site for advice?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - why did you come up with this webiste? if you dont want to answer this but do girls come to you for advice alot? because i have questions of my own i need answered!... (34 words)

I've got a crush on a girl, what should I do?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - well what do i do if i've got a crush on this girl and if i've seen her undress and she caught me and i want to do her while she sleeping.... (32 words)

My period is 2 days late, pregnancy test is negative, am I pregnant?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I may be pegnant. the last time I had my period was may 23-28. i should have gotten my period on June 22 or somewhere around that.I'm really not 100% sure because my cycle is kinda irregular. me and my bf did have unprotected sex once a few weeks ago(which is the stu... (171 words)

I depend too much on my boyfriend, how can I change this?

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25 June 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I have a problem regarding my social life. Seems like my only social life is my bf. I have no friends, because 1) Most of them moved away for college 2) The ones that stayed and I have grown apart, and got into different interests. 3) My bf dislikes my old friends becau... (471 words)

I'm having doubts about marriage, should I call it off?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am supposed to get married in less than 3 months. I have to move to his city which is 4-5 hours away and relocate to another office for work where I don't know anyone. I am really scared about this and he doesn't seem to think this is a big deal - he says everything will be ... (369 words)

Husband cheated and other woman got pregnant, what should I do?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A year and a half ago, my husband had an affair. The OW got pregnant. We decided to separate because of this and I moved away. My husband's reasons for starting the affair are many, but one of them being that I didn't want children yet and he did. In my defense, I didn't ... (401 words)

Should I sleep with this older man?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i've never done anything like this before so go easy on me lol. OK im 20, soon to be 21 year old female and have been chatting with a 39 year old male via the internet. Our chat often gets explicit and i am more than happy to go along with it as I have a fantasy about sl... (153 words)

Troubled relationship. What should I do?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know why but I feel lost without her. Things have been at a stale mate for me. Our relationship was a roller coaster most of the time. She didn't like my family for her own reasons and I dealt with it. It seemed that all our problems were external or so it seems, I ... (366 words)

When should I have my first pap smear?

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25 June 2008 (F)

- I just need some clarification about when you should have your first pap smear. I found on a web site that it says: "All women who have ever had sexual contact should commence having Pap smears between the ages of 18 - 20, or within two years after first sexual contact, wh... (100 words)

Sex causes pain for my wife. What should I do?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age - A few years ago my wife had a vaginal hysterectomy. We have not had intercouse since as it causes her so much pain. I have tried discussing this with her but she pretty much refuses. This has destroyed the intimacy that we once shared. I get the impression that I just need to ... (72 words)

I need some advice on age gap relationships

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met a guy whom I click with quite well. The feeling is apparently requited or this post would be moot. He lives about two hours away, which is something I've dealt with in relationships before (I live in the middle of nowhere). However, he's also 11 years my senior ... (262 words)

I'm confused about my girlfriend. What should I do?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been with my gf for 5 years i am 21 she is 19 she has always told lots of lies she told me she was older and already had a kid when we started going out i have never been with another girl just her but she doesn't believe me she always says that i have sex while im at ... (129 words)

Is getting him some baseball tickets a good way to get him to talk to me?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I had an idea but I wasn't sure if it was the best or not. So i wanted some opinions. There's a boy I really like, but I've never really been with him or been able to talk to him. My idea was that where my dad works, they give out TWINS tickets in name drawings. And the ... (159 words)

What do I say to this guy? We're both very shy!

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i really need advice. I just met this guy over myspace IM and we started talking. i don't no him and i am a very shy person. we both don't know what to say to each other, b/c weve never met. His mom wanted him to meet me and it was my sisters friend. they want us to get ... (107 words)

He didn't call me back, should I take this personally?

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25 June 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Ok..i've been talking to an old classmate of mine online for months now..We really like getting to know each other..He recently sent me a message saying he was in town to see his family and friends and wanted to meet up with me for coffee..So he asked for my phone #,and he ... (263 words)

He doesn't know what he wants, will he ever grow up?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been seeing this guy for over 2 months now and it's been pretty intense. We have fantastic times together. We've had our ups and downs lately because of his actions. He says: he says he wants to be with me and we are in a "relationship" but it really doe... (317 words)

I'm stuck between two lads - What can I do?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i just wanted to see if any 1 cud help me? well the thing is there is these 2 lads i av likd 1 for 17 months and the other for bout 10 months. well i went out with the 1 i have 4 17 months for about 5 weeks then i finished with him and now i am with the 1 i have liked fo... (149 words)

Would girls date a guy that looks way younger than his age?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm almost 24, and I've never been in a relationship, nor have I ever been approached by women. Part of this is because I've never tried flirting with girls due to my inability to keep conversations going, but I believe the big reason is because I don't look my age; I mean, I ... (151 words)

Why can't I seem to get pregnant?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i tired gettin pregnant for 7 months. my period is off and on. does this mean i cant get pregnant or can i?... (23 words)

My wedding wasn't how I wanted it, and I can't stop thinking about it!

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Readers, I just got married and I feel very depressed that my wedding turned out to be very different than i excpected. I had a contract with a famous designer in Kuwait and she totally screwed up, its my fault i didnt check with the design. I should have took oponio... (208 words)

I'm suddenly shy around the boyfriend!

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i've been with my boyfriend since june 11, 2008, and we've been friends for 10 years. i'm 13 now. the thing is i was fine talking to him before we started dating, but now i'm all shy around him! i don't know what to do. people say that we were better off as friends, but ... (75 words)

He has informed me that his birthday is also National Sex Day!

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old girl, and my boyfriend is turning 16 in August. By August we will have been dating 5 months. I am a virgin, he has told me that he isn't. His parents are going away the week of his birthday, and he has also informed me that his birthday is "National Sex Day". ... (92 words)

Am I insecure or was my girl cheating?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well it all started when my girlfriend told me she went to the mall with a male friend who I had heard of before, but I never knew they went on what I consider a date. So we get pass that, then I notice that whenever she goes out it was almost impossible to get in contact with ... (382 words)

What is he thinking? what does he feel?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm 22, i broke up with my first boyfriend almost five months ago. We both study medicine and work together in a hospital. My ex and i were extremely different; we had nothing in common. Still, for some reason, we managed to stay together six months. At the beginning it... (501 words)

A friend and I were discussing how long it can take a committed relationship to start

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - In my experience (I've had 5 serious girlfriends and I'm 29 yrs old), if a guy approaches a girl, asks her out, she agrees and they start seeing each other, within 1-2 months either a committed relationship starts or they decide to be friends. How likely is it that a committed ... (61 words)

I'm embarassed by my lack of experience. What should I tell him?

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25 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I would like to ask a question, I am 28 years old and whilst I have had boyfriends I have never been in a 'serious'relationship or had sex. I have always been waiting for that one special person - I have just started dating a guy who has had a couple of serious ... (105 words)

It seems like she doesn't have time for me! What should I do?

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25 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I'm seeing this girl right now and I really like her but lately it seems like she doesnt have time for me, before we used to talk all the time, whenever we werent working, now we only talk if I make first contact and she still sometimes doesnt talk. shes acting ... (225 words)