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writes:I have been with a guy for 3 months now. I am gay and open, he is not. He is VERY straight and i'm the first guy he'd even kissed, let along slept with. He is 26 and i'm 23. He says that the way he feels at the moment he won't be telling anyone, he's very clear that he has no idea if that will change in the future, but he ain't coming out any time soon. He is not leading me on as we're both very honest with each other. The question is, i know the more i'm with him the more i feel for him, but it may all end up being a waste of time as he won't end up telling anyone - so is it all worth it? Reply to this Question
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 First off, you need to tell him that he is GAY and or BI secondly you need to let him know there is nothing wrong with that. and if he still refuses he's gay you ask him why he kissed you and is open about how you feel to you but not anyone else and try to work him through being open about it.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (18 June 2008):
 "he is not. He is VERY straight and i'm the first guy he'd even kissed"So.. um.yeah.you've been with a STRAIGHT guy... for 3 months.you've kissed/made out ( assuming )And "he ain't coming out any time soon."ok i'm confused. explain to me in Grand detail how he's straight." i enjoy mens company. i've kissed a man with tongues. i screwed a man and sucked a few off but its not gay if you wear socks while doing it."Denial.he's probably one of those homophobic gay guys you hear about..thats like saying graham norton is straight.
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