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I've tried everything but can't find my pc muscle!

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6 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm a guy and I've tried everything but can't find my pc muscle :( I dunno what to do :( I mean i've tried locating the muscle when i stop my urine but can't feel a thing Are there any exercises i can do that doesn't involve actually finding the muscle before you ca... (129 words

Asked him how he feels, but he won't reply...will it be bad news??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I told this guy that I've been knowing for 8 years and talking to for 3 That I'm in love with him for the first time and I told him that I wanted to know how he felt about me honestly and he said he'll call me so we can talk about it but he hasn't called yet does it sound like ... (95 words

Missing Tampon??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, pretty embarassing question here. I'm not sure whether ot not I have a tampon inside of me still or not. Yesterday, I used one and I'm not sure if I took it out or not. I've looked with the use of a mirror and cant seem to see anything. I'm not sure if I can feel it or if... (107 words

I lost my virginity to him--and he doesn't care. How do I get back at him?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to this guy, that I knew from school. he already graduated and I was still at the school, however we hooked up again off the internet and I told him I wanted him to be my first, but we were talking about having sex and few weeks later we had sex. I found out ... (158 words

Probably nothing but...is she flirting??

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6 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok so as i said it is probably nothing but my gf's friend called me young johnny boy and i was wondering if she was flirting or am i just being stupid. This person has also called me great friend before and my gf and her mother seen this as flirting. Im probably just being ... (90 words

Texting tips needed!

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6 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have a simple question. What's the easiest and least obvious way to start a texting conversation with a teenage girl?... (22 words

What's the probability that my husband has had sex with this waitress??

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi, My husband went to the Cabaret. The waitress that served him there got in touch with him thru mail saying that it'll be nice to know him and his friends and that he should contact her and they'll have a great time. I want to know if she has sex on her mind when she say... (94 words

Why is it that guys I met never ever wanted to wear condoms?

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6 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Why is it that guys never ever want to use condoms? I mean when you first meet someone, everyone goes on about how you should have safe sex, but when it comes down to it guys do not want to wear them? Don't guys who get them stop unwanted pregnancies and that is the reas... (66 words

We care about each other so much but we are not in love! What do you think we should do?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi im 17 me an my boyfiend have been together 4 a year an a half. the problem is, we aren't inlove. we care about eachother so much! but we just aren't inlove. we both want to be! y aren't we? we talked about it the other day but we both broke down in tears an were both sobbing ... (100 words

How to make her love me again? We are still living under the same roof but she's looking for employment in another state.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

6 June 2008 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 1/2 years. We had a great life but things started to go down hill after her father died last year in April. In August of last year she told me she wanted it over but then changed things and said we would try again. I thought things ... (172 words

What are the first signs of pregnancy - in the first days / weeks?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - what are the first signs of being pregnant? an i mean literally in the first few days or weeks!!... (19 words

Is it possible to fall pregnant in this situation?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, is it possible for a girl to get pregnant if a boy an a girl have just there underwear on while kissing on the bed on top of eachother an the boy has a boner?... (36 words

Did not accept to accompany him to another state for his new job - so he thought I was breaking! He refuses to talk and I'm devastated!

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been seriously dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He got a job offer out of state and originally when he asked me to go---I said no. I thought it best for him to venture out first and make sure he really likes it there. I needed some time to make sure this was the right ... (221 words

He hates my whole past...so why does he say he loves me?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend dislikes my past... actually hates it. He just hates every aspect of it, he hates every guy I kissed, every guy I liked, every guy who liked me... he even dislikes some of my classmates just because we were good friends and used to hug. He just hates my past. He ... (372 words

Should I give up on her? Or try to work it out?

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6 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend of the past 8 months recently broke up with me because she "doesn't want her decisions to impact anyone but herself." While this is the reason she offered me as to why she no longer wants to be in a relationship the truth of matter is (which she has admitted to ... (470 words

It was casual but now he's hurt me and I don't understand, I thought we were going somewhere

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi im bit upset, i started being with this guy such kissing him and stuff casually but not arranging to meet up or anything. I got a bit annoyed with him the last time i saw him and we hadnt talked since. Anyway i saw him last weekend i was hoping we could work things out but ... (186 words

I feel really abnormal because I have never been kissed! I'm 15.

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6 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - Ok, so Im 15 - 16 in a few months time - and Ive only ever had 1 boyfriend and never been kissed. All my friends have got boyfriends or have had them in the last year and all of them, with the exception of 1, have been kissed, so I feel really abnormal. In fact, most of the ... (175 words

I've great friends and am an honour student... but I'm also onely and in need of a relationship...

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6 June 2008 (? age 26-29 - I think I have a great life.I've got a loving family, great friends,and I'm an honors student.Even with all this love around me,I still feel lonely.I want a boy- friend,but no one will go out with me.I've only had 1 boyfriend and that was in the 1st grade.Nobody likes me a... (85 words

My BF who recently expiated his penalty says I am hiding him! I am only afraid of my family's reaction! Any ideas?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi im dating this guy who came who came out of prison a few months ago, i love hm dearly bt i am so afraid dat my family wont accept hm nd that is causing problems for us at the moment cause hes feeling im hiding him and say if i really love him i wouldnt care what my family ... (73 words

He likes me.. he likes me not.. what do you think?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Need both a girl's view and a boy's view on this. I've known this boy for about 9 years and we were friends for about 8. Im 14 and he is 15. For the last 2 years i've fancied him. He found out last year (about September) and after that he stopped talking to me. Even a he... (496 words

Are these signs of pregnancy by any chance?

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6 June 2008 (F - My last period was on 15 may and lasted for 5 days. I had unprotected sex on 27 May. Yesterday I noticed spotting of blood in my knickers, and slight spotting today as well. My left breast is very sore. I am not due on for another 9 days, but could I be pregnant? I also had sex ... (71 words

Could he be he is scared of commitment because he was a virgin?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - i was my my best friends first. he was a virgin. i am in love with him but he dosent want to be in a committed relationship right now..... but yet we continue to fool around. does he love me? could he be scared of commit ? or is he just in it for the sex?... (56 words

I have the perfect boyfriend and an older man wants to seduce me... I'm 15. He keeps messing with my head!

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey, so i can't get over someone... i have like the perfect boyfriend and all and i like him a lot. but this guy.. he's 7 yrs older than me, and im 15. he keeps messign with my head and i really thought i loved him at one point but i know i need to get him out because all he ... (98 words

Is he into me? Should I go for it?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok, so there is this guy that works at my favorite store ever. mills fleet farm. i kinda know him and kinda don't. like i know he works there, but i don't know his name or anythng about him. anyway,here is what went on, my mom and i were walking down the isle and he was going ... (178 words

Attracted to the girl who looks like a guy! I really want to get to know her

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - theres this chic that i really adore. like she's amazing. i have never talked to her before but she just seems to be so cool. i thought she was a guy before and i was like " hes cute" but then i found out shes really a dyke. i want to talk to her so bad. like she dresses like a ... (127 words

Is it over? What should I do?

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6 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey, Im 16 and ive been in love with this girl for almost 2 years now. She gives me so many signs that she loves me and then so many that she doesnt. Well last night I told her everything and she didnt really care at all but I was so sure that she was in love with me too but ... (144 words

Are the things my boyfriend has done serious enough to finish the relationship?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - This is a one sided view - i.e. mine about my relationship with my boyfriend but I need help to work out whether to stay in the relationship or whether the things I mention are serious enough to end it. The reason I am unsure is that I love my boyfriend been together 2 years ... (562 words

We both really like each other but are in different 'groups' at school...what should we do?

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6 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I really like this girl and she feels the same way, but at school we are in totally different groups and we never get the chance to really socialise. What should we do?... (33 words

Is it selfish of me to try to get him to change his job?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi. my boyfriend works offshore 5 weeks on and 5 weeks off.I moved in with him last year away from my parent.i rearly see them.Im finding it more difficult to deal with every time he leaves.i cry every day and just sleep all day to pass the time.I just cant live like this any... (79 words

We were supposed to go out on the weekend but now he says he is going to see his friends... any advice!?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out now for 9 months. We have recently had 'relatioship' problems and he said i could see him this weekend but insted he has decided to go out with his friends, where i have only seen him once this week. He has done this quite alot and i have ... (100 words

Are we liying to cover up something bigger?

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6 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - Do our lies covering up something bigger? I have lived with a women for about a year. Over the duration of this period, we have both either stayed in contact with or made new acquaintences of the opposite sex. We both reassure one another that there is nothing going on... (86 words

There are some things not letting me and my boyfriend get close, please help!

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6 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I love my bf very much and he loves me too its just a couple of things keep us from getting really close to each other. Number one) my parents are extreamly over protective of me. they hardly let me go out to the shops by myself never mind go on a date. they also don... (221 words

I need both guys and girls points of view!

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need both guys and girls points of view! Basically,I am 14 and have given and recieved oral and today at school i stupidley let it slip. None of my friends have even given a hand job. i am very old in my year (year 9)as my b'day is in sep and will be 15 in 3 months. i defi... (117 words

Uncaring husband who might also still love another woman....please help!!

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - At first when we met, my husband was a little romantic, would say some nice things, and we had at least a little physical romance. It was good in the beginning and it still is, but he just doesn't care about what I feel when we (now) rarely do anything at all. I've never had an ... (1062 words

I'm having sex with my best friend but he doesn't want a relationship. Should I end the friendship?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - im in love with my guy best friend, we have a sex relationship, i dont want just that, he dosent want to be in a relationship right now. should i end our friendship for good?... (35 words

Should I just move on and let her go?

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6 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - i had this beautiful girlfriend. we were deeply in love. we went through really bad times and really good times. we've been together on and off for 4-5 years. we barely talk because we seperated, but my feelings for her were still strong. when we do talk now it usually... (140 words

Any particular sexual positions that might help?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were both virgins when we started having sex-we fumbled a lot at first but now we've really settled down and I'm finding the sensations during intercourse very pleasurable.I'd like to experience an orgasm and have read lots of advice on these pages.I ... (79 words

I have some spots 'down below', what could this be?

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6 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - I don't really know how to put this nicely but ive got spots 'down below' and i donn't have a clue what it could be - maybe something to do with the heat ???... (34 words

Tie him or down or am I a trip?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a young woman, very independent, truly attractive, no children, no husband, 27 years old, college degree and makes a ton of money! Why wouldn't someone want this? I am getting to a point where I want to have a consistent relationship. So... I met this guy. He's so sweet, ... (118 words

Since about christmas every now and then I've got these strange hallucinations/dreams!!

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6 June 2008 (M - Hello this isnt a relationship question but i use this site so somebody may be able to help! not been able to find anything on the internet about it. Basicly since about christmas every now and then ive got these strange hallucinations/dreams, they are definately not normal ... (137 words

But how do I know he doesn't want her and I'm just a step in for the time being?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been married for almost a year now, in fact in just a few days. My husband knew someone before he met me, he loved her, but she wouldn't let him be with her. I found out that he's still talking to her, telling her a few times that he loves her and that he still wants her. ... (230 words

Advice on anal sex, please.

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6 June 2008 (F - Please help!!! My partner and I have recently been talking about having anal sex, which is something we both want. We went and brought some anal beads and lube...all was going well until it was time to pull the beads out which were..how do i say this delicately...a l... (135 words

What's with his disappearing act?!?!?!

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - So...long story short, I was dating this guy (Y) since end of Jan. We had been friends first for a couple years, but we met through my ex (they are friends). My ex started dating a girl that I thought was a friend of mine (note: I don't care they date, but apparently she has no ... (964 words

I have never been given an orgasm by my boyfriend. what do I do about it?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - my bf and i have been together for 1 1/2 now n we love each other alot. we have a great relationship inside and outside of the bedroom but the only problem is in all that time i have never gotten an orgasm. he's my first and i knowi'm not hhis but he always said that he got ... (102 words

Is there any treatment for a person who is gay?

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6 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - hi is there any treatment for a person who is gay??????... (12 words

Do people who cheat change?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

6 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, my question is basically this, do people ever change ? for example if they have cheated on you, what is the likelyhood of them doing it again ? and are they really genuine when they cry and cry, and tell you how sorry they are ? thanks :)... (52 words

How important is being true to yourself when it means loving someone who says they don't want you?

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6 June 2008 (M - How important is being true to yourself when it brings you pain, for example when it means being in love with someone who says they don't want you? Is it fair to be with someone, knowing that you love another? I split up with a girlfriend of five and a half years and sta... (245 words

Is 5 years a big age gap?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 25 years of age..so do u think 5 years of age gap between us makes a difference..do u think he is too old for me????... (34 words

I'm 7 stone but I want to lose more weight. how do I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys - I just really needed advice about how I've been trying to deal with my weight for like a year now. I'm 17 and I weigh 7 stone, i fit into size 6 and 8 but sometimes wear 10's and 12's because i like baggy clothes. I know it may seem I am being petty but I genu... (227 words

I am confused as to why my bf broke up with me...

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6 June 2008 (F - I am confused as to why my bf broke up with me. He didn't give me a real reason, just a text messaging saying its over. My ex bf's friend (who I met him through) told me that the reason he ended it was becaused he wanted to go clubbing and partying and but I woudlnt allow hi... (220 words

Every time we see he blames me for the break up and he still wants to be with me despite thinking that I'm useless!!

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - what to do with an emotional abusive ex-boyfriend? We have been together for 2 1/2 years, before I decided to end the relationship. He has been cheating on me several times, lied about money and his intention towards having a family with me were lies, which I just found out r... (157 words

Need the toilet regularly and have a lot of vaginal discharge. What could this be?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi aunts. i am losing ALOT of vaginal fluid - i need to go to the toilet about 2-4times a day to let it out. Will this cause problems for me in the future - will i dry up inside. please help. all advice will be much appreciated. ... (53 words

They make fun of me because I don't share their vice... is this not childish?

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6 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - everyone makes fun of me because i dont smoke weed,do you think thats childish?... (14 words

In a relationship with my first cousin, now she wants to marry.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

6 June 2008 (M age 51-59 - me and my cousin she is my first cousin,iwas attracted to her since childhood.she is atleast 7 years younger to me .now we had almost 10 years of relationship.we love each other and often had sex.now problem is we cant marry and she says that she wants to marry me and otherwise ... (70 words

Had an abortion three years ago. Did this affect my chances of conceiving now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had an abortion 3 years ago when I was 16. I was too young to be a mum and knew I couldn't look after a child so that's why I went through with it. That was with my ex boyfriend. Now at 19 and with a new man I want to try for a baby. However, when I had that aborti... (183 words

My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

6 June 2008 (F age - My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not respond unless it is through a ... (127 words

Erectile Dysfunction is ruining my relationship

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6 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I suffer with Erectile Dysfunction and I have all sorts of problems when trying to put on a condom. Its tearing my relationship apart, as my girlfriend and I find it frustrating and it seems to spoil her feelings for me. When we first got together she was really keen... (125 words

I'm 10. How can I impress my girlfriend?

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6 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - im 10 and i have a gf, she likes me as well, but the thing is that i think i need to impress her more, how can i impress her? please help! ... (34 words

He told me he wanted to be with me, and hasn't spoke to me since!

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi all this is quite a long story but ill cut it short. theres this lad who i was texting about a year ago, we were going to go out for drink and get together basically. but then people (both his friends and mine) starting talkin and stirring, so we drifted. We sort of stayed ... (235 words

Our marriage is having problems. Can I alone put it right?

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6 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Our marriage with two kids is having alot of problems which I am unable to sort out.I understand spending some quality times together would make our marriage go well but he doesnt know the importance of it.Can I alone make our marriage work good? How can I help this out?... (51 words

He says the warts come from him suffering from diabetes, now I'm having them too! Is he being honest with me, or what is going on?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and everything was going really well. Just after Christmas he noticed warts on the end of his penis, which he said were most probably linked to his diabetes. (this had been making the skin quite tight and it was tearing during ... (216 words

I have troubles coming to terms with that my boyfriend will always love his child more than me. I don't understand the concept of he loves his child in a very different way - to all parents out there - how different does it feel?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm really struggling with something at the moment which i am reluctant to admit to anyone. My boyfriend has a child and i am struggling to come to terms with "The child must come first". Obviously i understand that a man/woman should love their child and look after them as ... (225 words

How can someone commit to FWB without 'catching' feelings?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - i want to know more about the meaning friends with benefits? how could someone commit to that? without catching initail feelings. i guess im overly sensitive and wouldnt want to just be an "item" to a person... but can someone please explain this to me........ (45 words

My long distance girlfriend broke up with me, it's so hard and I've nobody to talk to as I would only confide personal details to her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

6 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I meet a girl a long time ago on the internet and we started to like each other. I live in the mid west and she lives on the west coast. We started going out becuase we discovered we were almost perfect for each other. We started to fly back and forth meeting each other and ... (468 words

I know him for a week and fell madly in love with him. Should I give it a try?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have met someone on holiday and fell madly in love with him and he has fell in love with me too.....i havnet seen him for a week but i am sleeping round his house on saturday....we live 2 hours away from eachother....i really want it to work beacuse i have never flet like ... (95 words

Is he in it for the sex or does he also have feelings for me?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi im writing for some desperate advice..im 25 years old and me and my guy friend have been best friends for 5 years now... im deeply in love with him and i have indeed revealed this to him already but he claimed he didnt want to break up the friendship... however, we just ... (78 words

Am I seeing something I want to see? Is my friend gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

6 June 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hi, Heres my problem, sorry if this is very long , its my first time posting..... A friend of mine who i work with and also see outside of work alot, seems like he could be gay, but i think alot of it is the sterotype stuff. he was married for close to 10 yrs , and is curre... (487 words

In love with my boyfriend's friend...

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i think im love with my boyfreind's best freind. and i know this is bad. he says that hes in love with me but i only like him but a whole lot.. what should i do. i want to forget about my bf's friend and move on but i cant. HELP!... (51 words

How can I have feelings for a stranger? Is it even feelings or just curiousity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6043 days ago

6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well I dont know quite how to start out with my question. I guess I just need some advice. Well, I guess you could say I kinda have feelings for a guy I dont know at all. See, I work at a pharmacy and there is this guy who came into my work about a month ago. He isnt normally ... (279 words

I am getting back together with my boyfriend of 8 years, do you think he will change?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and have a child with him. Last December, I broke it off with him because we never spend time together. We had time to spend together but it's more like we were roomates. For example, he would be in the living room watching TV with his ... (163 words

My marriage has quickly become angry and bitter over my husbands job opportunity in another country... how should I handle this?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - My marriage has quickly become angry and bitter over my husbands job 'opportunity'. He works for a finance company who wants to set up offices in Australia (either Sydney or Melbourne they are not sure which at the moment) and they have asked him to manage the set up. It... (615 words

I might be having a baby, but the "dad" is mean to me, should I tell the other guy who is nice to me that the baby is his?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i had sex about 2 weeks ago and i think i missed my period... the dad treats me bad and only calls for sex. he knows i mite be having a baby but i know another guy who is better to me and i know he would make a good dad. should i just say its his and forget about the real dad?... (63 words

What can I do to make me want me again and know I'm not going to leave him?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am a several years longer than my husband and we have been married for almost a year. it will will be a year the 23rd of June. He seems to have lost intrest to me though. I do have everything he has said he likes, and we don't have any kids. I've tried virtually everything. ... (113 words

My parents like him, but I'm worried in case they press charges against him when they find out I'm pregnant!

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - A month or so ago me and my bf had sex for the first time, we used a condom, but it broke, and now i am pregnant. I am 17 and he is 26 and I have talked to him about it and he is very supportive. We were planning to get pregnant after i turned 18 and we got married, so we are ... (140 words

How can I stop feeling so depressed about the guy I like getting a girlfrined?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ive bin frends with this guy for almost a yr now and at 1st tht was only how I thought of him, but a few mnths ago I started getting feelings for him. I would tease him and stuff, being flirty but never actually say it, so I think he probably didn know how I felt. Now he has a ... (124 words

How do I talk to my boyfriend about sex?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi..am going to meet my boyfriend with a surprise visit in coming few days...and the guy i'll be dating is very busy these dayz...and don't even have time to sit and rest even...however..i know once i reach him....he won't deny for a date with me.atleast for few hours Bu... (236 words

Not enough time in the day for each other!

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating now for a year. Recently I got a job (I never had one before so it was sorta new) I also go to dancing school 4 days a week (Tuesday wednesday and thursday at night (typically 7-10) and on saturdays in the morning. He also works all day. My ... (148 words

Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?

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6 June 2008 (F age - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told him how much it bothers me. ... (152 words

Could I be pregnant?

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6 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - does anyone know about pregnancy? i been feeling light headed and nauseas, boobs are getting big and they hurt. and i been having cramps for a few days now like im going to get my period but i dont. by the way i dont get my period monthly so i dont know when to expected it. i ... (127 words

Is he just using me to experiment with things he's always wanted to do?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy and things are beginning to get serious. The other night he told me that his ultimate fantasy is "dp" which I just recently learned means double penetration. Where there's 2 guys on one girl. I would neverrr do that.. like not for anyone. I just think ... (158 words

My parents will never accept my boyfriend, its a cultural thing, how can I solve this?

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6 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - i dont know where to begin. i know im tired and exhausted and on the verge of a nervous breakdown. my parents are from india. very traditional. my boyfriend is american which to them is bad and he has a child from a previous marrige which is the icing on the cake for my ... (202 words

I don't want to have to make the first move I'm scared of rejection!

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok, so I've got it bad. I've liked him since sept. '07, We're friends and go to church together. We usually hang out in groups after church and stuff and he's not really shy but when it comes to girls...He is! His sister told me he's never dated a girl and this complicates ... (192 words

How do I ask if he is seeing other women?

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6 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am dating someone, the first guy I've been serious with since my ex. It is my experience now that a lot of people date a few people at the same time. Is it stupid to ask him if I'm the only one? He does not seem to be hiding anything, but I've been out of the dating game for... (83 words

Am I no longer in love with him?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 8 months with a guy that I have known for almost 5 years. We used to be best friend and we had a little fling the summer after high school but then we went to college and we separated. We still talked every once in a while. Now I am a senior in ... (216 words

Why does he act like he doesn't care about me?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfreind have been going out for almost two months now. but sometimes he will act like he REALLY likes me for example hell be like oh i love you and actually be nice and stuff but on other days he will act like he hates me like for instance today, he didnt talk to me ... (94 words

I still love my girlfriend but I like guys too!

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok. so I dont know if im bi or what. I started dating this girl a little over a year ago and then she moved but we are still going out and im very much in love with her..but in december i slept with this guy four times. i only told her about the one time because i dint want to ... (178 words

Will I ever find that special girl, who's never had sex with anyone before me??

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6 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Why does it seem like the whole world is having sex, when I've lived for 19 years and am still a virgin? My friends that I've known for many years are all in these serious relationships with girls that they liked for so long, and are now constantly getting laid. All my life ... (341 words

I have trouble with new relationships after my ex and I broke up!

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - After my ex ended the relationship with me even though I was deeply in love with him, I can't have a normal relationship with any guy. Now it has been almost a year since I broke up with him and all the relationships I have ended very quickly. In the begining i like the gay i ... (141 words

Want relationship with childhood friend!

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok so my best guy friend I knew him since kindergarten. We were always close we both moved to different states and went to different schools after 4th grade. Now I'm moving back to NYC where he is. And he is dropping little hints that maybe he likes me and wants to be in a ... (94 words

Been together for 4 months..is it too soon for a baby?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby. Is it to soon? Am I too young? I've known my partner for 4 years because he used to work at the stables I used to go to. I love babies so much i've always have ever since i can remember and I've wanted 1 ... (149 words

We stayed virgins, and now the relationship is going nowhere!

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6 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Me and my gf have been together for over 4 years. She wanted to wait till we got married before having sex which is fine with me, thus we are both still virgins. The problem I'm having is that the relationship isn't going anywhere. She so afraid of going too far that she wont... (83 words

My husband is making me have too many children!

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I need some advice. I am 8 months pregnant with my 5th child. my other children are 7, 5, 4 and 18 months old. My husband works extremely long hours and spends every second week working in another state. I was done having children after our third child, but my husband has ... (383 words

My man is perfect and I still have doubts!

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6 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - A man who promise to marry me and did it. A man who help me in everything, a man who support me emotionally and physically a man who always say he love me, a man that is my husband now who is always there for me to cry on. Why I have a doubt inside of me? Why sometimes I feel t... (95 words

Is it normal for a girl to not like oral sex on her?

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6 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend doesn't like me giving her oral sex and is really squeamish about it. I feel as if its because she has a problem with me. I've only gone down town once and that was for about a minute. I've never heard of a girl who didn't like oral sex. Is this normal?!!?... (58 words

My boyfriend will not get a divorce!

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6 June 2008 (F age - Hi, I'm 43 and my boyfriend is making me crazy!!! We have a two year old daughter and we've been living together for 3 years. My problem is my boyfriend has yet to get a divorce from his wife and he pays her half of his paycheck every week(not because he has to because ... (164 words

I want to try anal with my girlfriend!

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6 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, My problem is that I want to try anal sex with my girlfriend. But she doesn't want to do it. I said i wanted to try it because I haven't ever done it before. She has done it a 'few times' before with her ex boyfriend but she didn't like it. I don't want to pressure ... (87 words

My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?

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6 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she has exams for the next two ... (77 words

Can I date my parents doctor?

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6 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Is it permissable to date my parents' doctor?... (8 words

We've been together 4 months, is it too early to think about babies?

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6 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby is it to soon and am i too young ... (24 words

Help - Trying to work things out with my ex!

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6 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - How hard is it to try to work things out with an ex? I love my ex a lot, but it seems every time we talk the past is always brought up, I flirted and lied about it thats the reason she left me, but were taking things slow again, and we both want to work things out but she's ... (155 words

Should I stay with this guy?

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6 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have a boyfriend for 2 years now and boy is it a roller coaster. we have our good times then our really really bad times. it seems as if the only thing we do is fight. then after we fight we break up then get back together because we both end up realizing that we dont wanna ... (319 words

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