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writes:Right. Im in a long distance relationship. We only ever talk over msn. I really like him, hes a really nice guy and i met him over facebook.Yeah i know its risky, and hes 3 years older than me. But we get on really well.But Im really scared he'll find someone else, we've discussed marrige plans, kids, etc But i think hes found someone else. Im too scared to ask him is he having an affair.When we are talking, his mate will come round, he doesnt wanna know, Its just this mate and im not sure if its male. I really think he has another woman, but im to scared to confront him.Please Help me, because i dont think id be able to pull myself out of being depressed afterwards. What Do i do??Cheers,Chelsxx
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 Well I met my hubby online and things are great. However, I do suggest you meet in person to see if the "sparks" are still there. If so, you might want to move closer or start something up.
I know most online relationships work, but I do think some do and you should definitely sort out what type of relationship you are really in! If you are not able to confront him, then you definitely know the answer and are unable to move on.
There are a lot of fish in the sea hun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): I agree with the previous two posts, but would like to suggest the following:
Suggest to him that you meet, and then see if you still like him, start getting to know the real "him".
You should get your answer that way very quickly.
Good luck!
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 Sorry Sweetie, you are living in a dreamworld!! The man you are 'in love with' is just having fun with you. I agree with Older Sister and marieclaire. Rather form relationships with real people not over the internet where fantasy takes over! I really dont believe that people who meet on the internet are at all honest, they only tell you what you want to hear...
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