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36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend use to be in a relationship with this girl from him home country. She talks to him all the time, even when i tell him it bothers me that they still talk. He told me before he use to be in love with this girl, and that they did EVERYTHING together. I have been asking him to open up to me more recently but he refuses because he said he did that with her and it took him a while for him to get over her, and he doesn't want to go through that again. This actually hurts me alot, and my friends tell me not to be with him because he is still dating her (in their opinion). He has told me time and time again that they are not dating, but if they weren't, wouldnt he be able to tell me everything? I dont know what to believe?
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (9 August 2008):
 i think they still have feelings for each other. whether or not they are dating, i am not sure.
but the fact is he is unable to commit to a relationship with you fully because there are still some things that need to be resolved in his arena. i agree with your friends that it is probably in your best interest to let him figure out what he wants first.
if he wants you, he needs to back off of the ex and open up to you. period.
good luck.
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