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Is this normal playing for a straight girl and her gay friend? I'm annoyed!

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Question - (18 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2008)
A male United States age 51-59, *hef writes:

My gf was a dancer in college. They toured a lot so partied in hotel rooms quite a bit. She has never elaborated on those parties one time in our five years. A few times she has mentioned how close she got with them and how the gay guys loved to flirt and play with the girls. So, I see on one her gay friends' page certain comments that seem off color. Do you think these comments are over the top? Or is this normal playing for a gay guy and a straight girl? The gay bf was dating girls until high school, and my gf met him in junior college. Supposedly then he was gay and only played with my gf's girlfriends' boobs because they were big:

"I'll help you pitch a tent any day! You sure do get your sexy badge! "

"DAMN you make me wish I was a guy! "

UMMMM. . . . sorry I need to pick up my mouth it just hit the floor! You look so sexy Aaron!

"i love this pic, you look soo cute and the hat is tight! "

"I know we have a deep bond my love, I think about you and just can't help but smile"

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (18 June 2008):

jay12toes agony aunti can understand why your annoyed. the big problem is that if you tell her your annoyed she will just say well hes gay so theres nothing going on. your in a tough spot and believe i got annoyed too when my gay friend was "playing" with my girlfriend but it was easier for me because he was my friend so i could tell him to knock it off but for you these are her friends so you cant do that. so the best you can do is either talk to her or him or both and tell them how you feel, but just make sure you dont sound angry, other wise you just seem controling and jealouse.

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