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My ex has a new boyfriend. Should I congratulate her? Ignore her?

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Question - (18 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

My Ex of 3 months has a new b\f and i,m gutted but she hasn't told me yet. We email now and again and talk sometimes

Shall i email her and congratulate her, acting all happy or do i say nothing. I have a feeling she thinks I will be devastated when she tells me ( i will be inside)and is therefore not telling me. I would like to surprise her and be all happy. Maybe i should say nothing and get on with my life.

Any help appreciated

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

Good idea to probably move on.. I know how it must feel. If I was in your place, I would be devastated.

But, to me, it looks like it would be probably best to not say anything. And I also think you should slowly stop all contact with her. Atleast until the time you are able to not have any feelings for her.

Take care.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

I suggest you say nothing.

Should you mention it, she might think you are jealous or being sarcastic.

Good, idea to Move On.

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

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Perhaps i was just thinking of some reverse psycology by acting happy. Would this look transparent? Would i look weak?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

Get on with your life - say nothing unless you meet her in person.

Do you think if it was the other way round she would be rushing around to congratulate you???

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