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writes:My Ex of 3 months has a new b\f and i,m gutted but she hasn't told me yet. We email now and again and talk sometimesShall i email her and congratulate her, acting all happy or do i say nothing. I have a feeling she thinks I will be devastated when she tells me ( i will be inside)and is therefore not telling me. I would like to surprise her and be all happy. Maybe i should say nothing and get on with my life.Any help appreciated Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): Good idea to probably move on.. I know how it must feel. If I was in your place, I would be devastated.
But, to me, it looks like it would be probably best to not say anything. And I also think you should slowly stop all contact with her. Atleast until the time you are able to not have any feelings for her.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): I suggest you say nothing.
Should you mention it, she might think you are jealous or being sarcastic.
Good, idea to Move On.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPerhaps i was just thinking of some reverse psycology by acting happy. Would this look transparent? Would i look weak?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): Get on with your life - say nothing unless you meet her in person.
Do you think if it was the other way round she would be rushing around to congratulate you???
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