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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When I asked if she'd mind if I kissed her, she said that there was no harm in experimenting! What do you make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really good friends with this girl. We talk alot. Everyday. One day I asked if she wud ever go out with me, and she said no she doesnt like me more than a friend. Than I get messages from her like couples how much I mean to her n she luvs me alot. She's been helping me get ... (175 words)

I need help finding a fancy dress costume!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a fancy dress party coming up in a month, what are your opinions on these costumes: gold digger (sexy gold dress, gold helmet and a spade) nun (sexy black number and head scarf thing)p.s i am not worried about offending anyone as none of my friends are religious, o... (104 words)

Is his behaviour inappropriate - or even illegal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a daughter. My boyfriend is really comfortable with his body. He walks around naked in front of anyone in his family. His little brother is 11 years old and he has a little cousin who has just turned 7. He thinks because they are all boys that it is ... (218 words)

Should I believe what she tells me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - this is for girls,my girlfriend said she wanted a break from me in january cuz she was feeling down with being stuck in the house with no job or money and confused in her head and needed some space,she didnt say it was over and i asked her if it was the end of me and her and ... (213 words)

My marriage has gone stale. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age - I am married but have been emailing a girl for quite some time. She is a stripper and probably only wants money but I enjoy the fantasy even though I know the age difference is probably 18 years with me being 54. It is torture when she won't see me even to talk outside of work.... (119 words)

Where can I communicate with lonely females without paying a fee or getting hooked up with the spam message?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age - Does anyone know where you can communicate with lonely females without paying a fee or getting hooked up with the spam mess? I like to email back and forth about whatever, maybe adult content sometimes maybe other stuff. thanks... (39 words)

All my mates have done things with boys but I'm really scared to do things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello well im a girl at the age of 15 and all my mates have done things with boys but im really scared to do things what could i do about it?? i wouldnt mind doing things with boys but not sex at the age please help me write back please x ... (56 words)

Do people lie about hooking up with people to make their partners think more highly of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - do people lie about hooking up with people to make their partner think more highly of them?... (17 words)

How do I initiate foreplay? Also how do I give a blowjob?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont kno how to start the fore play,, actually i do how do i start the giving a blow job since i never gave one before how do i mak ethe first move with that?... (36 words)

What do I say when he talks dirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont kno what to say when he talks dirty, i guess my question is what do you say back when he says how do you want it or how bad do you want it and i say really f**king bad and he says prove it how do i prove it?... (51 words)

I lost my virginity just recently and my inner thighs hurt very much. Any way to stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

- I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend, and although (after the initial pain went) it felt good, my inner thighs hurt like hell. Sorry if this sounds crude, but every time I have a guy between my legs it kills! Will this go after we've had sex a bit more, or is it ... (86 words)

I'm worried I am hurting her during our love making, am I too big for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i made love to my girlfriend a few days ago and I made her bleed a little inside. she says it's because i'm well endowed and it went right up her. I'm now worried that when we do it again that i might hurt her again. she's very experienced but it was my first time. she says ... (71 words)

How can I get my boobs to grow?? and when do boobs stop growing??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, tall, got curves! But little boobs, I have to wear these breat enhancers, which you insert into your bra. They give me great results but I want to feel natural! All my family have fairly large breasts (apart from the men obviously lol) And I thought mine would turn out ... (82 words)

We had sex and I made her bleed, am I a normal size for my age??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i made love to my girlfriend a few days ago and I made her bleed a little inside. she says it's because i'm well endowed and it went right up her. I'm now worried that when we do it again that i might hurt her again. she says that i'm 9" when erect. am i normal for a 5'5" 20 ... (62 words)

Could you help me get over the fear my ferry will sink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I know this is a little off-topic, but please could someone help me? I'm going on holiday with my family and my boyfriend in a couple of weeks, which involves getting the ferry from Dover to Calais. I have a huuge fear of going over the sea, as I keep thinking it will sink. I ... (92 words)

Do I have an anxiety problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i have an anxiety problem, but im not sure how i can tell forsure I always expect the worse to happen and my stomach will feel like its in knots and my heart will beat faster if something doesnt seem right to me. Like if my bf dosent say a certain thing to me I get scar... (187 words)

Does anyone here have any experience dating law enforcement officers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone here have any experience dating law enforcement officers? I have met and become attracted to one, but my female friends tell me to stay away. They say all cops are "problem dates" no matter how wonderful as individuals. They say it's just a matter of the mindset of ... (107 words)

I like the guy, he's sending mixed signals, is it me he likes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy that I really like. I go to ice skating with my friends and we usually skate in two's, the first time I was skating with someone I'll call Leah and I noticed his attention coming our way. The second time I was skating with someone I'll call Kelly and again ... (134 words)

I feel guilty about the intimate moments as he is one of my best friends and has a girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently,i went to this party...a lad was there who i have liked for a very long time.He is 17 and im 14.A few things happend between us on this night and and although it was nothing serious i feel guilty as he is one of my best friends and has a girlfriend. He said he feels... (111 words)

I'm studying abroad. I like a girl here but I have only two months left here. Should I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been studying abroad for about 9 months and have almost 2 months exactly left. I am 22 years old, will be 23 in a few months and haven't had experience with dating for the last few years. The last "girlfriend" I had was in High School. Since I entered Universi... (376 words)

I want to talk to my ex but I'm terrified of upsetting his new girlfriend. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, i'm not sure where to start, and i'm sure you've heard it a thousand times. The ex (we'll call him D) was my ex about 3 years ago. Dated for year and a half, thought about the marriage thing, didnt work out. He tried to come back into my life about a year later and ... (242 words)

I've been getting really weird prank calls....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since the beginning of 8th grade, ive been getting these weird prank calls on my cell phone. A few weeks ago, i recieved these messages from ppl who knew my name but i didnt know who they were cuz they blocked the number. They started talkin abt how i looked so ugly 1 ... (378 words)

On deployment with the marines but cheated on my fiancee before I left... now I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

9 June 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I am on deployment with the Marines right now and right before i left to go on deployment i cheated on my fiancee, i feel terrible and have done everything i can think of her to let her know that i will never do that again, i lied to her during our relationship and she feels as ... (430 words)

Is he only with me because I'm curvey? I'm insecure about his porn watching, should I give him a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over three years and throughout the relationship I've made it clear that I'm a bit insecure about my body and that if I found out he'd been looking at other women it would crush my confidence. I recently discovered a porn mag in h... (316 words)

I constantly feel he doesn't like having sex and I feel rejected.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 28yrs old and I have been going out with a 32 yr old man for about a year now. The problem is I constantly get the feeling he doesn't like having sex. when the relationship first began I felt a problem. where we were seeing each other for a while and whilst it ... (443 words)

Jealous and possessive husband - how do I make him stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is extremely jealous and possessive. We've been married about 3 months, and he has accused me of an affair with an older man, who is my friend and who I bought my car from, it got really ugly and he roughed me up a bit. I denied upon a stack of bibles that I did ... (250 words)

What should my next move be to obtain the maximum out of this situation? She is ignoring my calls for now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a girl on the internet and got on well on a 1st date on a Thursday. Lots in common, held hands, smiled a lot. I phoned her on the sunday, asked whether she wanted to go out on tuesday which she couldn't do. She then offered up friday but said admittedly not definite ... (139 words)

I still miss him, want to speak to him and get some answers and explanations! I feel such a fool but cannot let go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated a guy for 10months, we split up 4 months ago and i know i need to move on but need advice how to do this. I still think about him daily and sometimes still get that sickly pining feeling and all i want to do is contact him. It was a real whirlwind relationship, wi... (703 words)

What should I do? Leave him in the dust, or keep trying? Can anyone point me in the right direction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just recently started spending more and more time with a certain somebody. He a guy, and I am a girl (duh). He is a few years older than me and has an adorable son. The thing is, I'm not sure if either of us cares enough about the other to build a relationship. And I'd rather ... (297 words)

Should I tell her I've been recording our conversations?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - recently ive been recording me and my girls conversations without her knowing. i do this so i can play them back later and analyze what she said. should i tell her about this or would that seem sketchy?... (38 words)

My periods were like clockwork, now this bleeding! What could it be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

- Im worried im having a miscarriage. My last period was on 15 May. I had unprotected sex on 27 May and I noticed very slight spotting of blood afterwards. Then last week I noticed my breasts had become very sore and on thursday I noticed blood in my knickers when I went to the ... (105 words)

Does it mean anything if he tells you he wants to remain single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi just a quick question. Ok if a guy decides he wants to stay single, through choice do you think that if he met someone he really liked and had feelings for that he may change his mind and give it a go? Like if he knew that the person he liked had feelings for him. I don't ... (216 words)

Is he messing with me or just scared?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - been flirting with a guy at work for a few weeks and last week we went out on a date and it was really nice. we had a laugh and had enjoyed eachothers company. we kissed and hugged and we decided that we wud take things slowly and we wudnt pull ne1 else- stay faithful to one ... (122 words)

This guy won't leave me alone!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My problem is that there is a guy who won't stop texting me, when I don't reply, he emails me. He changes his MSN names and facebook statuses to the EXACT same as mine for instance I had a quote from my favourite TV show - Black Books, and he put the exact sa... (163 words)

What's wrong with me?? I keep going back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need help with my confusing situation! Long story short, I've been seeing a guy 6 years older than I am (I'm 18) for the past year. I've cried over him too much and promised myself I'd get over him and see other guys,thing is, I never really did. So as soon as I start ... (215 words)

I freak-out over everything in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my girlfriend have been going out for around nine months now and i am so paranoid at just about everything that happens concerning us. I let her know about a few things i get paranoid about and she never really takes it seriously. She says she is in love with me ... (114 words)

I've threatened to shop him for benefit fraud if he doesn't pay back money he owes me. Have I done the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex still owes me 2500 pounds from december. We split at the begining of the year. He owed me a lot more but has paid some back a few months ago. Pressumably when he thought i might take him back. Anyway, he says i will get it as soon as he has sold his house. Ive been ... (486 words)

I'm worried about the way I look!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm really worried about the way i look. people at school are always laughing about people who have cameltoe... the only problem is .. that i have camel toe... is it really that bad? how do you get rid of it? am i the only one? please help ... (56 words)

My GF says I'm hurting her when I penetrate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I just need some advice or guidence on a issue,my gf has been complaining often when we have sex after a long period of time usually months coz we having a long distance relationship,she's telling me that I'm huting her when I penetrate her vagina coz I feel that its ... (119 words)

Advice on anal sex please!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I'ma keep it short and sweet my gf and I have been thinking alot about anal sex but neither of us have done it before,she wanted to if its painfull or how does the penis go into her anus,should you use any lubricants and if what should you use what position is the best ... (88 words)

Should I be up-front about my conception issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out a few years ago that it will be very difficult for me to conceive naturally. At what point do I tell a man I am considering dating/having a relationship with that I am infertile. Is that a right point to do this? On initial meeting? Once we've established we like ... (143 words)

Can intense eye contact signal something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I was just wondering if you could help me with something I,ve noticed for a while now. In school there is this guy who makes a LOT of eye contact with me and I cant help but make eye contact myself until one of us gets embarassed and looks away. Even in the class we ... (156 words)

I have a major crush on my teacher and he shows me extra attention, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently doing my A levels at my school, and are being taught by a teacher whom i've had for 3-4 years now. I have THE biggest crush on him, but to be honest, i'm not going to make a move or anything because i think everyone knows what will happen after that etc. He... (174 words)

Why hasn't he called me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, two years ago I met a really nice guy and we went out on a few dates. I ended things before they got serious because I was still in love with my ex boyfriend and was finding it hard to move on. This guy was really upset, but we stayed in touch and texted each other every 6 ... (316 words)

Any tips on disguising or ignoring the taste of cum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

- hi i just need some general advice.. well me and my bf have just started doing sexual stuff and when i gave him a bj i found out i really do not like the taste of cum! can anyone give me any tips on what to do to disguise the taste or not be able to taste it? thanks!... (65 words)

Is It The Teachers fault that Students are attracted to them or falling in love with them??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is It The Teachers fault that Students are attracted to them or falling in love with them?? As many people may have read or heard about students falling in love with their teachers then coming on websites like this to see what to do about it... We all know that teachers... (138 words)

I'm separated but still have feelings for my ex husband but I still love my boyfriend...who do I choose?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently seperated but still have feelings for my ex husband and still love my boyfriend? How do I know who to choose?... (24 words)

I'm really nervous about my first time, please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya everyone. I'm 16 and I really have very strong feelings towards my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 years now and I see him near enough every day. We were planning on having sex for our first time, and this is reeally embarrasing, but i don't know what to do. If ... (86 words)

I'm 16 and attracted to my dad's best friend who is 37!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16, and ever since i was 14 i have been attracted to my dads best friend. He is 37 years old right now, and i have never persued him, he doesnt know i have feelings for him. sometimes i wish he did so i can be with him. we talk and have conversations and he is the only man ... (155 words)

I need tips for dealing with my partner's daughter, they've just been in contact after 3 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

- Hi there, I need some tips. I have my partners daughter (20) coming over to visit for the first time. They have not spoken in three years but since her Mum got a new man she has decided her Dad may be a better option. I want to be positive but I also know she is a dreadful ... (130 words)

What goes on in guys' heads? And keep in mind we've broken up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf and i have been broken up for about 3 weeks now. Very stupid reason why, but anyways, we broke up before and maybe shouldn't even be together( i don't want advice on that I KNOW LET IT GO!!) Anyways i just want a guys input. He left me because of my actions (NOT ... (293 words)

What do I do about this guy and my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months and i love her with all my heart. I trust her entirely and know she would never stray. A few days ago, she was contacted by a male friend she used to work with and she arranged to meet him at her old place of work, which we did ... (195 words)

Should I tell her that I have a crush on her or just enjoy the time I have with her as a friend? Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in need of a quick spot of advice on how to proceed here. The girl in question and I have known each other for a few years, through a mutual friend. Until recently we had just remained casual acquaintances, talking really only if we were at the same place at the same time... (285 words)

How should I deal with this very puzzling girl who has stood me up again and again? I think I'll be seeing her soon as she's on an event list for the company I work for!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK I really really need advice on how to deal with a tricky situation!!! There is a girl who knew friends of mine and saw me out, she found me on myspace and started emailing me. Apparently I have been told I look like Anjelina Jolie (supposedly!) and she kept going on an... (873 words)

I'm not sure if he stringing me along, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i like this guy, weve kissed, had sex, blah, blah... well i really like him, and hes told me he likes me, he asked me if im looking for a relationship and i said i dont know, and he said that he likes me but at the moment hes just looking for fun, and that he wants too ... (104 words)

Can you get back together with someone after you have broken up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend said he wanted a break which he told me a week ago and now over that short period he has broken up with me. It is really hard aas he was my first boyfriend. Can u still get back together after someone breaks up with u. ... (48 words)

Guys say that I'm not good in bed!! What should I do?!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have fell in love with so many guys. but it does not last because they leave me at the end saying that am not good in bed. what do i do?... (33 words)

My wife doesn't want to have sex anymore...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My Wife doesn't get into our sex. She only prefers quickies and anything that goes beyond 10-15 minutes is already to much and I can see she looses interest. Oral sex is a problem, she only wants it for a few minutes and will rarely give me any. The desire is not there ph... (92 words)

How should I advise my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got a friend, who shall remail nameless, who I've spoken to at least twice a week over the past year. Recently she has kept rining me, but lately she hasn't. Last Thursday I rang her, I said to her 'you've been quiet recently' and she said sorry, family problems, I cant ... (92 words)

Is this love or just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love this girl so much!!!!!! Ive had a crush on her for over a year now, and i think its real love. Im pretty sure she like me too cuz i always catch her starring at me and turns away quickly when i catch her with a smile on her face. I was wondering if this is just a ... (145 words)

Am I on the rebound, heading for a possessive relationship or should I give this guy a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I need some advice. Ive been on 3 dates with a guy and he is quite cute but i dont feel that spark when we kiss. We have only had a peck but i didnt feel anything. We get on great, he makes me laugh, we have loads in common and he seems to be a right charmer.... (177 words)

Should I tell him about the abuse or not??? Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been going out for 9 months were both 17 and boths virgins! but when i was like 7 or 8 i was sexually abused like i was never made have sex just made do other things with this guy who was 20ish i never ever told anybody and im over it now but i dont know ... (94 words)

Late period, then extended period. What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I slept with this boy over a month ago and we didn't use protection (i know it was stupid and don't really need a lecture), i was over two weeks late on my period which never happens and now i've been on for two weeks! I'm never late and i'm never on for more than 5days, what's ... (59 words)

Am I right to be upset at the way he's getting treated by his ex, the mother of his baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with this amazing guy and he had a kid in April. His ex gf cheated on him three times 2 times before she was pregnant and once when she was and treated him like crap. She walks all over him all the time wont let him take his baby on weekends, takes off with the ... (128 words)

Flirty emails from my husband to my best friend have me asking, should I just carry on as normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 16 years and we have been married for 6 years, we have 2 children. Last week I was looking on his e-mail and found e-mails from him to my best friend. These went on for an afternoon and were very flirty. I have spoken to my husband about them, he... (165 words)

Dad vs. Boyfriend! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just had a big row with my Dad. He has a habit of over dramatising things and going into long sulks. He said he had eaten too late in the day yesterday, although my Dad claims it was much later than it was, and he had a dreadful nights sleep. In a nutshell, he was ... (755 words)

Can someone love more than one person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Actually, I'm in a wonderfull relationship with a guy. At least I thought so... But a week ago, my boyfriend told me that he has cheated on me, that he was still in love with me but that he was also falling in love with this other girl. Can someone really love more than one... (68 words)

Do you think she thinks she's made a mistake, or is she just trying to get back in my good books so we both get asked out with friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - [Moderator note: I think that the age range of this poster does not fall within 10-12 years of age, so let's give the benefit of the doubt here] My gf of 7 years left me just after new year. It was totally out of the blue. She woke up one morning and said she didn't love me ... (332 words)

How do you fall out of love with someone who is your best friend? I'm really hurting at the moment...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i really cant go on like this anymore...how do u fall out of love with someone who is your best friend. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-meet-up-with-him-even-though.html this is the link to my last Q! since i last sent you a question...we spoke on the fone an... (162 words)

My friends haven't spoken to my since our sons fought. Should I go round to them?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - have two friends Mother and Daughter that I have had disagreement with and we have not spoken since. It all started with our sons hitting one another. The daughter decided that her son and my son were not allowed to play with eachother for awhile. She also told my son that he ... (211 words)

Separated, but my husband is flipping with jealousy. I'm worried about my new love and the effect it might have on my boys.

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9 June 2008 (F)

age - I have been separated from my husband for over 2 years now though its years more that our marriage was over because of his infidelity (he gave me an std) I was severely depressed and tried to make it work but couldn't and it took a long time, years, before i was brave enough to ... (422 words)

He told me he loves me. Does he?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfrriend for over a year and a half,weve been through a lot and we get on really well although we are very different .he told me loves me but how do i know whether he really loves me or not.please help!... (45 words)

I'm doing all the work in this relationship. I need some advice.

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a bloke and i seem to be doing alot of the work...he says he is depressed at the moment so i have been putting it down to that..but i also think he has become more distant... Anyway i just could not take it anymore and yesterday i asked if it was me him or... (221 words)

We wake at the same time although we live apart. Is it a coincidence?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - for the past two weeks myself and lover have been waking at the same time everyday, we have a child together but don't live together as he is now married, could the waking at the same time be coincidence or a sign that we should be together, we have been on and off the the last ... (58 words)

I just broke up with my boyfriend. He wants to be friends, but should I distance myself from him?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just split up with my boyfriend of 4 years. We had a very close relationship and although he thought everything was fine, I wasn't happy. This was yesterday. As he was my first proper boyfriend, I don't really know how I am supposed to handle this situation. He is sti... (157 words)

I think my boyfriend wants to break up with me. I'm worried about getting hurt.

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend wants to break up with me, but he's worried he'll hurt me by doing so. Whilst he has not mentioned breaking up, he moved interstate a few months ago and from there things have been down hill. Even though I don't want to should I break up with him first to ... (64 words)

Do you think I have done anything to make him like this?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems like my boyfriend of over a year has changed and doesn't want to be with me anymore. I've confronted him and he tells me he does but we've not kissed in weeks, he seems short tempered with me and we've not had sex in months! Do you think I have done anything to ma... (69 words)

What should I do that won't tempt me into falling for her again.

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex split a few months back, we was at war for that time since last night when we actually started talking again. I Don't want her back but I don't wanna get close to her again, last time I got close to her and got back with her which was a bad thing to do. ... (123 words)

How can I make sure I keep things on an even keel?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing someone for 4 years, we have had our problems and split up more than once, after a recent rekindling of our relationship, we discussed where we went wrong. there is a lot of love in our relationship, but we often end up fighting. We discussed the fact tha... (227 words)

She has stopped talking to me but I don't why?

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all. A few months ago my best friend met this girl and they started goin out. I got to know her and we became pretty good friends. She used to come around my place and was real fun to hang out with. I felt bad for myself for not meeting her first. Time went by and we became ... (157 words)

I am in a relationship with a man who hates arguing and is one the verge of finishing with me because of my angry moods...

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please, please someone help me on what to do before I destroy my relationship. I'll start by saying I've always been an angry person and in previous relationships we used to get into physical fights with each other but then make up afterwards. However, now I am in a relation... (407 words)

General tips about traveling alone and exploring inexpensively?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm travelling on a budget - first stop in America. What things are there to do in Los Angeles and how can I travel around and explore cheaply. Please can anyone give any tips. Or just any general tips for travelling alone and things to look out for.... (51 words)

I love two boys!

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can I love more than one person? There is a sweet boy in my school and anothere I met on a party! Both are so sweet and I want to have they! Is that o.k.? Can I do this?... (39 words)

How do I break up with her without completely crushing her?

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and my girlfriend of 10 months have been having numerous problems ranging from you basic arguements to trust issues and to be honest im not all that happy with the relationship. My girlfriend is currently away at summercamp for the next week and she gave me a "week ... (253 words)

My husband is never affectionate, I try to discuss it with him but he says I have no say as I do not work...

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my husband have been together on and off for about 4 years~we have always had our ups and downs but he always would rather go hunting or spend time with his friends than me and our child he tells me that because i dont work i dont really have no say so in what goes on~ he... (175 words)

I don't think he loves me any longer and I also can't move out because I can't work due to my health problem - what to do?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having problems in my relationship and I dont know what to do. I got in a car accident six weeks ago and my back got messed up so I have trouble sitting standing and making myself something to eat which is progress from not being able to dress myself and not being able to ... (436 words)

I'm 12 years old and depressed!

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im depressed.im 12 years old.i've already wrote a poem that said i would run away and never come back.i dont know what to do.my dad can die any time now.my family treats like im a nobody.i dont have much friends.the ones i have never thinks of me.im always left out.i want to ... (64 words)

Can you please explain this quote!

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello:] just wondering,will someone please explain what this quote means.. Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love. thanks.:)... (28 words)

Should I break up with him due to his age?!? Or stay with him? He's everything I could ask for!!

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - not to long ago i met a guy and he was everything i wanted,we really understood each other.up until last week i never asked him about his age but i recently did and he told me he was 16 thing is im 20 so i said i needed time to think about us and i really don't know what to ... (90 words)

I need help to make my choice between these two women!

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My dear Friend who come out here to chare your opinon to star let me tell you will apreciate every comment that will establish my decisin. I been married with my wife for almost 12 year and in those 12 year we have been trough hard ship, accident, being trow out of our house... (1051 words)

My friend is concerned about "acting married" when he is not...

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend has asked for some advice about his girlfriend. They are in a serious relationship. He cares for her deeply and is considering proposing. He is building his first home and living with his parents. He is 30 and she is 22. The problem: when it comes time for her to leav... (180 words)

Worried that my bf and I will drift apart..due to all his out of town meetings!!!

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My b/f of 3 yrs and I have a problem. During our first 3 years together, I worked at a place that gave me alot of flexibility in my hours, so I was able to travel with him when he attended out-of-town meetings and I got used to being with him and enjoying these little ... (464 words)

Boyfriend of over 2 years never wants to make out with me... WHY?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of over 2 years and I recently broke up. One thing that really bothers me about our relationship is that he never wanted to kiss or make out with me. I find this so embarrassing and it makes me feel horrible. When we first started going out with me, he lo... (204 words)

Met this guy at a hotel, and now I'm in love with him

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Okay, i met this guy at a hotel last week and i really like him! his friends told me he liked me and then he told he he was gay. when i asked him to dance the first day he wouldn't. the next day he wouldn't stop staring at me, and he was always around me! that night he ... (131 words)

I'm Lonely--where are all the down to earth, fun people at??

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so lonely after my husband had died, he was my best friend know he is gone. And do not have anyone to chat with at all. How can I make new friends or just have somebody close to talk with. I am fun person but people are so shallow and stupid. Give me were to go I have ... (77 words)

He wants me back but isnt sure what to do with the girl he is dating now? Help!

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I recently posted up stuff about my x and i... WELLLL... We ended up sort of working things out and now out of random we got into one little fight and now he is dating some 16 year old? OUT OF RANDOM!!!! That day he asked her out he was texting me saying he loves me and ... (200 words)

How can I get my family to speak to me?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like some of my family members don't like to speak to me, and don't like me very much. I guess when I was younger I wasn't as nice to them. Now I changed, and i'm much nicer now. However, when I try to speak with them now, they don't feel like they want to talk to me. ... (70 words)

He suddenly says he doesn't know what he wants, and now I'm left hanging

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 4 months. Because of distance and schedules, we don't spend all that much time together. But today, we had the rare treat of spending the whole day together. However, I kept getting this weird vibe from him the entire day. I asked if ... (323 words)

How do I get back at him for using me?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this guy who i lost my virginity to. im 18 and hes 23 and it turns out that he only used me for sex. now i really want to end it completely with him. i know this sounds bad but i want to hurt him just as bad as he hurt me. so how should i do it? should i ignore ... (94 words)

Mixed feelings about my best friends love life

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm so confused. I met my best friend nearly 15 years ago when we were at college together. We dated for a few months but we realised we were better at being friends than lovers. We both live in the same town so we have shared each others ups and downs and remain very close to... (294 words)

Gave her a gift and she didn't even say Thanks!

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - on a friend she's a girl I been kinds moving apart coz she said she dont like me, I spent over £30 on a gift n put it in her locker because I do not see her often but its been 2 weeks and she hasnt even said thanks in anyway! She knows how much effort I put in why? Its ripping ... (66 words)

How do I get the message across that I like Zach?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Let say his name was Zach and he has been my crush for nearly two years now. His friend one wednesday decides to ask me whether I like him. Here how it went: Friend: hey do you like Zach? Me: No Friend:oh( goes back to tell him my answer) Friend: Are you stalking him? ... (126 words)

Relationship problem's--he hit's me sometimes! Is he fixable?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age - Hey i have a question, now i'm sure you've heard this god knows how many time's. But Let's start out short. I have a boyfriend and i'v been dating him for the pass 7 month's ( NOT THAT LONG ) And i really super love him, i feel that there is no man in the world for me th... (208 words)

Embarrassing skin rash that won't stop itching! Help

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Can somebody help me? For the past two weeks or so now, I have felt this horrible itching downstairs. As a result, this has developed into some sort of skin rash. This isn't the sort of thing I want to seek help about from a doctor, so does anybody have any advice on how I ... (83 words)

Trying to save my marriage but my husband doesn't want me for anything but sex...help!

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9 June 2008 (F)

age - I am a 51 year old married woman who has desperately been trying to save my marriage recently my husband told me he doesn't want me anymore except for sex. The reason he gave me was because I won't give him a massage when he ask me, and I won't give him a foot massage when he ... (194 words)

What do 23 yr old guys want? Just sex or a relationship?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - At 23 years old do guys just want sex or are they ready for a relationship?... (16 words)

Dumped him and now I apologized..so why is it so hard for him to forgive me?

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9 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dating a guy for two months. He was totally into me at the beginning, but I wanted to go slow. He said all the right things and I fell, hard, for him.. All of the sudden he needed time alone and space, it really freaked me out.. I thought I was giving him space and time, but I ... (130 words)

I have a crush on my friend's sister..should I tell him so I stand a better chance?

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9 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a crush on a girl who's brother i happen to be friends with. i'm kind of afraid to talk to her although i pretty much know she knows about my crush on her, her friends are really snoopy. so should i tell her brother that i like her and if i do you think it can improve ... (62 words)