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writes:well i was in a relationship for about 4 years going on to 5 this year, we met when we were in high school i was a junior and he was a senior. we dated for about 5 motnhs when i came out preagnant. we decided to keep the baby and u know i thought he was going to b a good guy and father but as the months went by i was startiing to see the real him. i started to hear rumors of him hooking up with other girls going out on the weekends but i never confronted him after my son was born we moved in togehter he became very abusive and cheated on me occasionally i stayed wiht him because i didnt want ot be a young single mother and up until now he hasnt changed at the beginning of this year in feb. he cheated on me and i caught him he kicked me and my son out and got with a 16 year old whom has a lil girl of her own, i moved in with my parents and started to date this wonderful guy in april and up until now i hve fallen for him as he has for me but now my ex boyfriend has decided that he wants me back, since he found out i was dating another guy, and that he wants to start all over again but he is still with that one girl, i guess my question is what should i do should i give him another chance or should i just let him go completely and stay with this guy that im with?
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 Hun why do you want to get back with him yuo deserve so much better, dont even think about getting back with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): no! no! no no no no ! you deserve better! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): I think you do realize what you should do. There is no reason why you shlould even consider going back to your cheating, abusive ex. You have a loving person in your life and value and appreciate this new opportunity to share a good relationship with him. Do not even give your ex any further thought.He is past tense and a bad expereince. He might be the biological father of your child, but is not worth called a father. You will discover, that if your new boyfriend loves you enough he will accept your child too. Enjoy your new boyfriend and hope you are very happy together.
Good luck!
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 He abused you, he cheated on you, he kicked you out of your house.... now why would you want to leave a loving relationship with your current man to go back to your ex? It is guaranteed that he will have not changed and will continue to abuse and cheat on you. Your ex does not deserve a second chance, you must move on with your life and forget about him. Dont feel guilty, he didnt!!
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