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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does my mother have a right to be mad at me for losing my virginity? I'm 20!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This will be long so i apologise in advance. I will start at the beginning. I have a boyfriend since february and am crazy about him. I am 20 and after a few weeks we slept together. It was my first time but it wasnt his. I was not pressurised into it by anyone, it felt so ... (409 words)

Do you think the fact that this guy knew all this means my ex still has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this has been playing on my mind and I could do with a bit of insight. Last weekend I went out in group which included my ex (we split up year and half but stayed friends) Some of the people we went out with were my ex's workmates that I had not met before, but the guy who ... (447 words)

Is it true that this guy comes on strong in the beginning only to cool off later like people say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Iv just met this man, he's 35 and he's very nice. We clicked straight away and he's very keen on me. He emails me and phones me everyday and always wanting to seeing me....i like his interest in me but im a bit wary on how keen he is because iv heard that a guy who is all over ... (95 words)

I think I might be gay - or psychologically disturbed

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I think i may be gay. Gay porn really turns me on but I feel so gross. Its not because I'm gay, its because I fantasize about my highschool mates raping me. Is that wrong or are there others like me. And another question: how do I know if a guy in my class is gay too? ... (113 words)

No period yet. What can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 14 and i havent stared my perid yet what should i do ... (14 words)

Should I see if we can become more than friends or do I just not pursue her at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a friend I knew from a year ago but never really kept in contact with until a week ago when we met up to go to a convention and now I find that I am taking an interest in her. When I asked her if she wanted to do something sometime she said yes, when I asked her (to cl... (96 words)

He's cheated on all his girlfriends and now I find condoms! I'm pregnant with his child so will things just sort themselves out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with the guy Im seeing for 7 months,I am also 5 months pregnant which caused tons of probs but seem to be sorting themselves out now. So after an awful few months of finding out we'd be parents we have recently started getting on. I've always been suspecious of him ... (259 words)

Why did my ex contact me for no reason? Was she thinking of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so i live in the states for univeristy, and on the last day of exams my ex decided to text me for no reason other than to ask me how i was, and how the semester ended. i replied with a cold good and im getting ready to go back home, and then she asked me if i missed my family, ... (191 words)

Do these things mean he is losing interest in me and wants to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 1/2 everything seemed to be doing great, until recently. It seems that he is losing interest in me.. and getting to the point to were he cant stand me. He points out to me, what wrong with what i do or say. He tells me ... (149 words)

What can I do about my suicidal ex boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What can I do about my suicidal ex boyfriend? We broke up on Wednesday after a year and as a result he took an overdose and has been in hospital since. I've visited him every day because I feel responsible, he says he's going to change for me so that we can get back together ... (170 words)

Sex statistics on fellatio and anal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - what percent of single women have performed fellatio and what same for having anal intercourse.... (15 words)

She was my rock, she meant everything to me, but I cheated. What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to go out with this girl who was my rock. She meant everything to me and still does to this day. The problem was, i cheated on her with this other girl that we will cal sophie for arguements sake. I cheated at the beginning of the relationship and lied to her about it ... (197 words)

Sometimes I feel as though my feelings for him aren't real, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I like this guy and he likes me back. I'm 15 and he is 16. We told each other that we like each other 1 month back. We are not going out just yet, we're on the verge of going out. We are getting to know each other more in that way. I met him in January, so we are re... (374 words)

One of my mates has been acting weirdly, does that mean something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my guy mates has been acting wierdly does this mean anything? ....... When ever he see's me he makes an effort to come over and talk to me, He notices any small chnges in my appearance, he will look at me all teh time, and watches me across the room. when he's talkin... (150 words)

Why did he stop speaking to me all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I just got out of a bad relationship. It's been hard for me, but I overcame it finally and my life is being put back together. I still think about my ex, but I don't care for how he did me. I datd him for a year and some months, everything was going well in the beginning. We ... (827 words)

Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

27 June 2008 (?) age - Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this dude to stop and let me show him ... (80 words)

Wife had affair I cant get over it and move on, I want to though...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How do you put your wifes affair in the past and move forward in the relationship. She has told me everything and I know I neglected her infact I had two affairs on her and she knew about one. We have both cut off all ties to the affair poeple and were in couseling but she says ... (170 words)

What should I do to spark up a conversation at the Prom tomorrow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My prom is tomorrow and I have no idea what to do?! I never really spoke to my class because I never got along with them, and I don't want to seem like an outcast. I do have friends, obviously, and I do chat to my class, just I run out of things to say. I am never good with ... (82 words)

Please help me I really need advice on whether I should stick around for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Right the problem is my best mate told me she loves me and I feel the same way, I have done for a long time. I really opened up to her and told her how I felt. But she has moved now and is three hours away, she says she feels the same but the other day she told me she also ... (145 words)

Should I keep in touch with this older guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i went on holiday about 4 weeks ago and met a guy there who was on the entertainment team, i really liked him and he was such a nice person, about a week after i had come back off holiday he text me and told me he liked me and that he didn't tell me then because i was staying ... (210 words)

I'm having problems with him chatting to other girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and he is 8 years older than me (imonly 18). I find myself feeling jealous when he goes out, as i dont go out hardly ever, and i also get jealous because he talks to quite a few old friends- of which are girls. He always ... (230 words)

Need help in coping with my boyfriends past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my bf for 5 months. we are in love. before me he did drugs and had alot of one night stands. he says he is done with all that now and has vowed never to touch drugs again. altho he has promised me before and has done them twice within the 5 months. however, he ... (141 words)

Does it sound like he is cheating? How do I get a straight answer? Or should I just walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is kind of long, but please read and please respond. Thank you! I’ve been in a turbulent relationship with my children’s father for the almost 13 years now. I chose to stay with him despite everything we have been through (job loss, unemployment, drug usage, d... (435 words)

I'm really confused, because I don't know if my feelings for him are true,! How do I figure this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

I emotionally cheated on him 3 years ago and he can't get over it! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend of nine years are in a huge fight. It's to the point where we haven't lived together in over a month. I take complete responsibility. Three years ago I had a emotional affair with someone, no sex. Well three years later he can't get over it. Me and my BF ... (113 words)

Are there any faithful women out there ,...or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age - All the women i have ever dated cheated on me one way or another i looked at my self more closely i didnt see anything seriously wrong with me and how i treat these women is it ok to think that there are no faithful women out there no more ?... (51 words)

Any advice on how to play this situation??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Any advice for how to play this - I haven't seen my boyfriend for 8 months. I am due to fly out to him in 3 weeks and we have had an argument (not the first time as the distance has taken its toll) but he has said not to bother coming he is not sure if it will work - I think ... (167 words)

I have a serious problem with a group of friends...what should I do about it all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, briefly this is the situation, Theres this girl a year younger than me, she has no friends, everybody hates her, But She is really nice to me. And here is the problem........ Recently I seem to be getting on well with my friend(X)'s friend (Y) and today we (X, Y and M... (819 words)

My boyfriends family keep picking on me and my bf...what should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have a dillema that I'm having trouble on how to handle. I've been with my boyfriend for going on nine months now. The issue isn't with my boyfriend its with his family. He has cousins all younger than we are and for some reason they find it necessary to disrespect ... (212 words)

I have a problem staying hard after foreplay....help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i'm 16 years old, and i've been dating this girl for about a month... We started staying over each others house's, and we gradually got further (sexually) each time, untill the first night when we both decided we wanted sex... So, after having a semi/full ere... (263 words)

I've been married for 6 weeks and its the biggest mistake I've ever made...how quickly can I get a divorce??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi am only married 6 weeks and its the biggest mistake i have ever made want to know how quick i can get a divorce since am only married a short time?... (32 words)

She likes me but doesn't love me...how can I make her love me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - 40 and i love lady how is 24yers old but she send me email taling me {that you know that i like you, but i dont love you}. so pls how cain i make hemer loves me... (38 words)

Does anybody believe that these bad signs mean that I shouldn't move??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am due to move in with my boyfriend of 1 year in the next few weeks. I have been really excited up until about 3 weeks ago and now I am petrified!!! So many things have gone wrong which are making me worried that they are signs that moving is a bad idea. Two different ... (212 words)

I'm in a really confusing situation..why won't he talk to me or sit next to me?? I just don't get him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a bit weird but can you tell me what you think of this. Right theres i lad ive been in love with for about 7 months, we're on the same course and everything. He showed signs he liked me ranging from staring to the softness in his voice when he talks to me and things ... (757 words)

I have a huge jealousy issue, how do I overcome this? Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex with one of my best friends, but he doesn't want a relationship. We see each other every few days, and pretty much act like a couple. My concern is, I have a huge jealousy issue, and it's always in the back of my mind that he can be with someone else, and ... (110 words)

She led me on and then completely broke my heart, and It still hurts like hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm hoping someone can help me to get a better understanding of what's happened to me recently. I was seeing a lovely girl for three weeks. It was only a short fling, but she was very keen and things got quite intense quickly, mainly because she was pushing it and I just went... (512 words)

I'm in a very critical situation! Please help me to solve this problem.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 22 years old girl and i need your help and suggestion regarding the relationship between my real brother (27 years) and me. Actually my brother has very good personality (i also) and many girls like him. my brother has sexual relationship with many girls and i know, i ha... (461 words)

He tells me he loves me, is he leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey :) What are the signs that a boy likes you ? because i dont really know if im recieving mixed messages :S i mean the boy i like has an on off girlfriend , and then flirts with me most of the time and tells me he loves me, is he leading me on ? help ! x... (63 words)

I don't know what to do? I am not ready to be a father, I need your guidance.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Need advice, I recieved an email from a girl I slept with about 6 weeks ago, saying she is now pregant, wants to keep the baby and wants nothing from me and is willing to cut off all commuication. I don't know what to do? I am not ready to be a father, I haven't spoken to anyo... (78 words)

Group sex may be fun, but at the same time, I feel it's cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have a great sex life (when we find time lol) well we are planning a camping trip with another couple (who are married) for next weekend. my boyfriend mentioned to me that they may ask us to join them for group sex, because they tried to get him and a prev... (170 words)

Help! I have IBS and want to keep my new boyfriend happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've recently got a new boyfriend we've been together about a month and I've recently found out I've got IBS, and it's really bad. I think my boyfriend's getting annoyed as a lot of the time we make plans and I end up being too ill to go. Or he wants me to go out to dinne... (87 words)

What shall I say to him, if anything? Shall I flirt? What shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6020 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I did ask about what i should do about a lad that i like. Anyway, a few weeks ago i went to his 18th with my family (he is the coach of my brothers football team). I made him a birthday card, his one was extra special, lol. After about five miuiits he kisses me on the cheek, i... (184 words)

Relationship over and need to find a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just come out of a breakup and feel really lonely as my boyfriend was my best friend too. I don't feel like I will meet anyone ever again as I live in a big city and it's hard to make new friends. I also don't go out drinking regularly, which is where most people s... (61 words)

How can transfer personal files from computer to laptop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this isn't a relationship question, but i would appreciate any answers. There are some files on my computer of which i need to transfer to my laptop (don't ask for the reason lol) but i'm not sure how to transfer them. I've considered emailing it (from the email accoun... (118 words)

Help! I might want to break up and still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We have lived together (rented) for two years and have two cats together. We have the same friends and our families love us. I have been feeling uncertain about us for about 5 months and now it's getting worse. I hate any kind... (239 words)

Marriage laws between countries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age - My friend has been separated for eight years. Her husband left for France. My friend says her husband married a french woman. (They are separated not divorced.) Can some one who is still married in his own country, marry another one in a different country. Now my friend h... (73 words)

How can I make sex last longer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, ive been married for 11yrs, i have very normal sex life, but somtimes i enjoy cum on porn movies? i feel it is different, another kind of sence or sexual pleasure, even i can control my cum as i wish. i need to know why when i have sex with my wife i cant make the period ... (95 words)

What does an investor do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please - This question might sound boring but I need to know. What's the work of an investor? How many hours a day do they work? Do they work on bank holidays? Is their income high or low?... (43 words)

My new online dating guy is ignoring me--what should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age - I met this guy through an internet dating site, and we've seen each other 3 times... and had sex. I last saw him last week, and he said he didn't need to go on the site anymore, which I took to mean because he liked me. He said he'd call on Sunday, and rang after he'd left ... (161 words)

Her 7 year old daughter asks for money from me! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts and Uncles! i have known my friend for almost 8 years now and am godmother to her eldest daughter who is 7.Her daughter is very spoilt.My friend is quite soft with her -she tells her off but its not convincing. My godaughter when through a phase taht everytime i w... (186 words)

My free-loading bf left me and our daughter! Should I ask for money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a relationship problem that I would like advice with. My boyfriend and the father of my child has left me. We had a disagreement about money. The way things are is that I pay all the bills, rent, food, childcare costs (we both work), heating, council tax etc.. and buy ... (382 words)

Will my 'bad looking' intimate area be a turn off for a guy??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a physical problem with my intimate area,, I have a bit of an excess of skin. Not a skin disease or anything, just skin. But it does look ugly (as in not pinkish and rather dark). It was caused by me, masturbating as a kid, not knowing what I was doing. I'm now 18, and ... (151 words)

I feel I am probably losing her - what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met my girlfriend in high school. We went to college in the same city. After college I bought an apartment and we moved together. We have been together for 10 years. I am her only serious boyfriend. We are the best friend of each other and we know as very well. In... (815 words)

I've been dating this guy a week and he wants to get serious...but I've never had a serious relationship before!! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I've been dating this guy for like a week now, He wants to get serious but I've never had a relationship before, so I'm scared of going wrong. We get on really well and I really like his company. But my worry is that if I get into a serious relationship then he's ... (150 words)

I love my gf to pieces...but she's going away with her mates...and I'm worried that they will influence her actions!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my girlfriend to pieces and i know she loves me. I trust her so much but her mates are all man eaters and i know what they are like when it comes to men. She is going away with her mates and although she may not be the same as her mates, i still worry about her doing ... (199 words)

Is it wrong for me to mastubate to my crush??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i have a problem...i tend to masterbate when i think about him, because i dont want to have sex before i am married i cant have intercourse with him... and i lack attention, and romance since i havent had a bf, and he just came and filled the emptyness, i have a feeling ... (79 words)

How can I leave this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im pregnant,and the father asked me to have an abortion. I considered this, but unable to go through with it. I have told him that I have chosen to follow throught with the pregnancy. He has stated that he would stay by me. But when I bring up the fact we cant be on holiday ... (125 words)

My friend has biopolar disease...what shoud I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my former best friend has the bipolar disease and it really affects her becuz one min. she's happy then next thing u kno shes going crazy we both want to be best friends again but i cant because i dont know wats gonna happen this time. wat should i do?... (50 words)

He has never tried anything with me...but whenever I see him there are lovebites on his neck...whats going on!??!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello there, I have a really puzzling situation atm, ive been sort of seeing this lad hes 19 gorgeous has his own place and is really nice to me. when we first met i thought id start off our friendship or relationship with being honest and i told him all the bad stuff th... (211 words)

We really lash out at each other when we argue...but the table always gets turned on me!! How do I deal with this??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I'm hoping to get a lil advice cuz I've run out of ideas. I've been dating this wonderful woman for 6 months now. We get along great, talk everyday, understand each other, see a future together. I truly do love her and I know she loves me. She's leaving Mich. to... (531 words)

I made a joke and he has taken it seriously. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - last night i was chatting with my boyfriend on msn and while we were talking about sex I was kidding when I said to him that I just act like I'm pleased after sex with him and I do it just not to make him feel bad. Surely I was just kiding and it was just a joke, but he didn't ... (211 words)

I'm nearly 16 and never had a boyfriend. I am also shy. Any suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im nearly 16, and have never had a boyfriend. Is that strange? I'm really sick of waiting for someone to come along! Im good looking and have a nice personality, and people are always asking me "Why dont you have a boyfriend?" which makes me feel even worse! I dont really kn... (83 words)

Think I made a mistake getting married? Good advice needed please..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, I am worry about my marriage. We got on great prior to marriage, when my husband propose to me i was in shock to be honest as i did not expect this, I had my doubts prior to marriage but put it down to nerves. I had strong feelings for another man but jus... (409 words)

We are both in relationships but I like him. Does he really care about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age - just wanted some advice. I have been working with J for two years. I love him. We both have partners but have said we are unhappy. We have always been there for each other etc.... I am leaving soon ( in three months) and i love him so much I wanted to test him by putting a ... (161 words)

We have a second child on the way but he prefers to live like a single man. Any advice please. Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband never has time for me but always for his friends, going out, drinking, weekends away with friends etc. We have been together for 3.5 years, have been married nearly a year, have a 2 yo and next baby on the way. I feel he still has his "single" life (which he ... (988 words)

My ex is now dating my friend! I'm angry that he used me as a friend after. Can we not trust anyone???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

- Hey...im sooooooo stressed. I spilt up with my boyfriend of three years at the end of last year. We decided to be friends, in fact i did near enough everything for him. I kind of hoped we wud get back together. I found out last week he has slept with my best friend and they ... (252 words)

My fiance of 9 yrs has split with me and I don't really know why! He has cut all contact with me. Whats going on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i need some advice, i was with my ex partner nearly 9 years, and we got engaged at xmas (he did this, it was not planned)... i was so happy and wanted to arrange a marriage, this is when things turned horrible - he said he didnt consider getting married even though he ... (144 words)

Diminishing relationship..How can I spruce it up? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I spice up my relationship? Ive been with this guy for just over a year now but he seems to have lost interest. Its like hes too tired and pre-occupied to show me any attention. Im only young, in my early 20's...and feel i deserve to be happy and have fun. Hes in his ... (88 words)

I need some cheating boyfriend advice about catching them in the act. Can anyone help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My Story: Ive been with this guy now for well over a year, I gave up everything for him to move interstate so he could be round his family and friends and Ive given my absolute all to the relationship. About 6 months ago I checked his email to find he was speaking to some chick ... (172 words)

My pregnant fiance says she doesn't know if she loves me anymore! How can I sort this out without pushing us further apart???

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27 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend is hving my baby, she is 12wks along. We had numerous conversations about starting a family, getting married etc before we got pregnant. We went and looked at rings, tux's etc. We do not live together. Since becoming pregnant she has totally changed her tune. Now ... (221 words)

I love my husband, but I'm attracted to another man, help!

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for over 10 years to my highschool sweetheart. We have two children. He's a good dad and husband. Neither of us have other sexual partners. I am attracted to another man. No lines have been crossed, and I doubt this guy even knows. I am struggling with my ... (77 words)

When I walk away from my friends when I'm upset, not a single one comes to talk to me, why?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that I'm bipolar and depressed. It explains a lot but what I don't understand is when i walk away from my friends because I'm upset, not a single one comes over to talk to me. Some of them know about the disorder, but they seem to not care. I'm usually a ... (101 words)

I feel it is nearly impossible for people to mutually like each other...

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel that love has always been this way, at least for me. There are people that I like, and would very much like to get together with, but they don't like me. And then there are people who like me, but I don't like them. It gets so hopeless sometimes, because all I ca... (89 words)

After 10 years, it's starting to bother me she's the only sexual partner I have had. Is this a mid-life crisis??

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27 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner is 6 years older than me and we have been together for the last 10 years. She is the only g/f I've ever had but she has had sex with at least 25 boyfriends prior to our relationship. After 10 years, it is only just starting to bother me now that I'll never experience ... (71 words)

Does age matter when you're young? I'm worried it does...

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - In 2 days it'll be my boyfriends and my 3 month anniversary. We've spent almost every single day together since then and all of my friends adore him. He respects me, and he, himself, isn't even thinking about sex, neither am i. Hes perfect in every way, except for the fact ... (217 words)

I'm the one with the problem... Hes perfect.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My Boyfriend is a senior in HS, while i'm only a sophomore. We're both virgins and kinda prude, which isn't a bad thing at all. He respects me so much and hes so comfortable with moving very very slow... he says he will never break up with me, but recently i haven't just had ... (281 words)

He coming along way to visit me..should I 'put out" for him? I feel obligated..

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on 3 dates with this a guy who lives 2hrs away from me. He's coming to visit me this weekend and staying over for a night. We get along really well and communicate via e-mail a lot. Am I expected to put out, since he's coming all the way here to visit me? I know I'm ... (75 words)

Five months without a period, and I'm a virgin - What's going on?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't think anything is severely wrong, but i am a virgin and I got my first period when i was 11. I am 15 now, and Its been almost 5 months since my last one, and when i get it it last 4 days at most and is very very light. My mood swings are all over the place now though... ... (119 words)

He was my friend with benefits, but now he has a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known this guy that i really like for 8 years and we have been kinda freinds with benifits, now he has a gf and he says he loves me and doesnt really like her. a couple of dayz ago we had an amazing nite together where we were cuddling and kissing on the check and what... (116 words)

How do you spot an abuser? What are the signs?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know a lot about abusive guys and how to spot one. I'm wondering if cussing at a girl is a sign of an abuser? Like have any guys out there called your girlfriend a "f***ing bitch"? But would never ever hit her? My boyfriend and I had a fight tonight and granted I did say some... (185 words)

He says he loves me, but then kicks up a massive fuss over small mistakes! What do I do?

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27 June 2008 (?) age 36-40 - How can I stop missing him? Long story short: early in the relationship he asked about my past, I lied, came clean, he judged me and called me names (for my past) and became a bit controlling (I eventually stopped seeing my friends because he always gave me a hard time over i... (649 words)

I need opinions on this letter I've written the boy I like!

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question. I was wondering if anyone could give me their thoughts on this letter I was going to mail to the boy I like telling him about an idea I had. Please give me ur honest opinon. Here it is: Hey (Anonymous) I want u 2 know that for me, this is taking a LO... (386 words)

He's moving away, should I trust him?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who live in the same state as me but different city. He use to live near me, and we been together for 3 months, and then he moved. i want to know if i should stay with him even those he is known for cheating on his girlfriends. he's done it twice before and i ... (78 words)

Is it just me, or was this counsellor messed up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering if my ex manipulated our counselor that we went to only once. I said I felt like I could never be enough or make my ex happy-because that's exactly how he expressed it 95% of the time. I also said how my ex had inappropriately asked if he could violate me (when ... (238 words)

My ex's new girlfriend is giving me grief, what do I do?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK I wan to know how to deal with my ex and his new evil jealous girfriend. This girl have been writing blogs and say real rude thing to me.I at frist like ok i dont care i aint go say noting, but (this is was on myspace) i did put up on my headline,(Girl be think u care wat... (284 words)

I'm a virgin and I want to have sex with my boyfriend. How can I relax?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old and still a virgin. I have recently decided that i am ready to have sex with my long time boyfriend. We have tried once and I freaked out. I couldn't relax and kept moving my legs and hips! I am just so scared that it is going to hurt really bad, but I ... (74 words)

I don't hear from her now we've broken up, and it's bothering me.

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27 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this may seem like a weird thing to say but...I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago...and about a week ago...I haven't heard anything from her (by that I mean she hasn't been on my messenger) I don't want to sound worried but it's just bothering me, any advice?... (53 words)

Will he come home or should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend left me almost 2 weeks ago. He moved out a lot of his stuff but left a lot too . He called me while I was out with a friend like crazy because one of his friends saw me out and told him he talked me into driving home. We talked briefly he said he couldn't come home ... (145 words)

He has a busy scedule, and I feel like there's no time for me!

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with someone for 5 months, and we have already dropped the "I love yous" and met the parents. Now we have come across some rocky times due to his busy non-work related schedule. He seems not to make time for us or want to bend any plans he has made with ... (82 words)

Should I just leave him be, or try and work things out?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in need of words of wisdom and encouragement from an aunt or uncle. I'm sorry, but I'm kind of a longwinded typer.. My long distance boyfriend (he's in school, only 4 hours away, not a problem and its only for a year) and I broke up b/c basically he was very stressed wi... (489 words)

Me and my girlfriend want to have sex, but we're unsure about some things.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

27 June 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 12 and me and my girlfriend want to have sex but we don't know were or when.... (19 words)

How can I help our relationship through these tough times?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age - I've been married to my husband (age 48)for 26 years and he has recently informed me that he "loves" me, but is "no longer in love" with me. (He actually said that he couldn't believe I didn't know that was how he felt. I told him I didn't get that memo.) I knew he was going ... (326 words)

Why do I suddenly miss this abusive ex?

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I left my ex fiance 8 months ago, and found a new love 3 months ago. I have been ok and over my ex for awhile, but yesterday i had a urge to look at his myspace. sure enough there is a new girl as his number 2 friend and she left pre-made comments on his page about missing him ... (320 words)

What counts when it comes to losing your virginity?

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27 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a bit unsure about other peoples opinion and the cold hard fact about virginity. Right then, i want to start by saying that i believe myself not to be a virgin but i would just like to clear up a few things. My idea of losing your virginity is when the penis pene... (269 words)

He dumped me via email! How can I move on and regain trust in men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

27 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I just got dumped today by my boyfriend (now ex, I suppose) of 4 months by email today. He sent it to me in response to my calls yesterday when I had a horrible feeling that he was avoiding my calls. In the email he said that he will still stuck on his ex-girlfriend an... (241 words)

I want to use tampons for the first time and need some advice

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I really want to try using tampons. I've had my period for 1 year and a half and I'm ready to switch to tampons now. I find pads annoying. I'm going on a camping trip soon and by then it'll be my time of the month! I don't want to use pads in the forest without ... (96 words)

I am obsessed with the girl my ex fiancee cheating on me with

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27 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out my ex-fiance had slept with a co-worker behind my back. i posted a distressing agony on here. but the thing is i am obsessed with this girl. and i say girl becuase she was only 17. I just cant explain it, but im obsessed. i hate her and im not the hating person. i ... (86 words)