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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I slept with my husbands friend! What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So yeah last night i went out with a mutal friend for mine and my husband. Granted there has always been some sexual tention there, never intented to act on it but did entertain the idea on occastion . We go to the bar and have a good time just some friendly joking flirting. We ... (333 words)

How can I reassure her that she's not a "Rebound" girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Before this current relationships i was in a long standing relationship of over a year and we were engaged but things didn't work out. Now about a year after that relationship i met an AMAZING girl that i'm crazy about ,but one problem is that. Well it seems like i might hav... (97 words)

Do you think an Anime Convention would be a good place to meet girls with similar interests?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have somewhat of a strange question but hopefully someone can answer. In a few weeks I will be attending an Anime Convention for 2 days, does anyone know if this would be a good place to find a girl due to similar interests in anime? I've found I can relate a lot bet... (73 words)

Can a man please explain whats going through his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Insight on men needed (sorry, this is kind of long-winded): My boyfriend and I are..were in a ldr [long distance relationship](only 4 hours), but it was okay b/c we saw each other often and he was VERY into me, almost obsessive at time. Then, he got into some stress/business ... (424 words)

What can I do to make my pubic area smooth when shaving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question about shaving. I shave evrey where including down there and I am allergic to every womans razor out there, but I did find a mans razor that only makes my under arms and my pubic area break out a little but my arms and legs are fine. My question is that ... (131 words)

I need help, I have two guys and I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help, I have two guys and I'm too sure what to do. Guy number 1 has been one of my great friends since I started uni, I'd always thought we'd get together someday. One day I decided I'd had enough and told him I like him. He gave me butterflies for a few weeks. He's won... (168 words)

He is younger thus I was reluctant about dating him, suddenly he stopped talking to me, how do I get him interested again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A boy who is a few years younger than me gave me his number at a lacrosse game. We started texting and he asked me right away if i would go out with him. I told him that the age difference was pretty extreme (4 years) but i also said that i would think about it. I never gave ... (94 words)

We joked about my friend engaging in sexual activity with his cousin. Now I wonder, is this legal in our state?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well one day me and a few friends were hanging out and talking about the usual : Drugs,fighting and sex. Well one of the guys is going to visit some family in Alabama which includes one Hot cousin of his.We joked around about how he would "do her" and try s and m and all ot... (110 words)

We flirted and kissed, then texted a week later, now I'm afraid to contact him in case he's busy or not interested...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well last Saturday week I was out in town with my friend and I meet this fella and we were flirting away, anyway we kissed and he also gave me a nick name which was a compliment. So he text me this saturday night to see where I was and why wasnt I out so we were texting for ... (114 words)

Sick and scared! What kind of operation will I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I'm a 14 year old female and I've been having problems with my stomach so I went to the hospital and they said that my gallbladder is only workin 42 percent. So my doctor said they would have to surgry. I was wondering what kind of surgry they will do?... (52 words)

Whats wrong with me, why do I still love my ex after everything that he did to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up about a month and half ago. I still hurt and miss him, i cry alot, and im trying to meet other guys but i find it hard. My ex raised his hand at me on one ocassion, he said he didnt mean and it was sorry. I forgave him! He was controlling and s... (171 words)

Two ex'es have disappointed me, how do I assure that my third lover will not leave me too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i will start that i loved twice in my whole life i am 18 years and i get dumped by the 2 guys i loved in my life the first one left me cuz he dont want me to speak to anyone except him and he dosent want me to have friends ... the second one left cuz he says that i am tryin ... (161 words)

How do I fix our friendship, even though I'm in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody i am a 16 year old male teenager. I seem to have a problem that occurs alot. I like this girl, shes 14 years old so a little younger, and shes my friend. In the past we have been together but broke up and forgotten about it. We broke up without even telling each ... (139 words)

Do I end it or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so im dating(1.5 years) a guy 4 years older than me. lately ive been feeling a little disconnected and its starting to really bother me. the romance is dying, he's always busy, and he recently told me he was applying to a job which was on the other side of the country and he ... (165 words)

Please help me find the strength to bin my cheating boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help. I've been in a relationship for almost 3yrs on and off. We live together and have a 16 month old daughter. During the course of our time together he has been bouncing back and forth between myself and his ex gf. He has also cheated on me with her and 2 other ... (190 words)

He's back in my life and so are all my feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need some helpful advice. I am in love with a friend and want to tell him how i feel but don't know how to tell him. I'll try to keep this short- we met 5 years ago through mutual friends and as soon as we meet i knew i liked him and we got on really well but... (263 words)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is trying to cut me out of his life!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - (I NEED MENS ADVICE mostly) i am 3 months pregnant. abortion is not a option and my bf is at uni he hasnt spoken to me since i told him which was 2 weeks ago he has deleted me of myspace, facebook and wont talk to me he puts his phone voicemail wont reply to any of my texts i ... (203 words)

Has any one got back with an Ex? Did it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently got back in touch with the guy I dated when I was in school and he seems interested again, but even though he's the only guy I ever truly loved, something is holding me back from getting back with him. Has anyone else ever got back with an ex from years ago and ... (66 words)

Need help with feeling more connected with people in my life. Any good book recommendations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age - My relationship is great, but sometimes we fight about stupid things. Anyone know any good books to help me feel more connected with the people in my life?... (28 words)

Finally met up with my online friend, and now he's grown distant. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Almost 10-12 years back i started internet chatting. I started talking to this guy( the first guy i ever spoke to online) We made good friends and chatted everyday for an hour or two. \a year passed then two...he was from another country. We got really close online... 2 years ... (362 words)

It's been over a year since I found a tape of my boyfriend and his ex having sex! How do I get over it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About one year ago, i found a tape of my boyfriend and his ex having sex. I threw it away and he rerecorded it over one of my tapes. I still can't get over it but he tells me that we need to move on. It's been over a year since it happened. It still hurts me everyday. How am I ... (70 words)

Problem maintaining an erection...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age - I have trouble maintaining an erection but in my case I put it down to the drugs that I have to take to control my epilepsy. Is there anything I can do to help myself?... (35 words)

How do I get back the physical spark with my boyfriend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I go out with a boy.hes 15 nd im 14 and i love him alot but i feel that im getting bored with our relationship physically..not because we dont have sex but because i feel we see each other too much and have sex too much but every time i mention a little break or not seeing each ... (185 words)

Why do I get scared when I have the chance to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im always horny, but when i get the chance to have sex i get scared, why do i get scared?... (21 words)

How can I keep up my courage and not get emotional when arguing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ello, ok so i got some bad things going on and they are really annoying me. I broke up with all my mates the ones i hang around with and they are saying alot of bad things and crap basiclally not gonna go in detail take too long. But tomorrow they want me 2 cum 2 da skool ... (135 words)

Should've my friend "remove" me from this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need to know if anyone out here "has" had an internet trist with someone you now? Meaning sending "naughty pictures and steamy latters". When I was away on a little trip I met some people that I partied with, got so drunk when we were out, my "friend" whom I wrent to see did ... (275 words)

Man advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i,ve been seeing a guy of 43 for 14mths, i,ve never met his family tho they know of me. were quite close an he,ll spend most of his time with me, then he,ll back off an not contact me for few days.this has carried on all through the relationship.i,ve had lots problems with my ... (211 words)

I have an ectopic pregnancy and don't want to get admitted to the hospital as I am 17 and my boyfriend (35) doesn't know!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need help about a month ago i was told i had pid pelvic inflammatory disease, which i was given to by my boyfriend he says he didnt give it to me but i know that is a lie he did i didnt sleep with anyone eles well in say of this i got pregnant after treatment to ... (183 words)

Could this be his baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a while now, however i found out that before he got with me he slept with another girl - who is now around 27 weeks pregnant. He doesn't believe it is his baby as he claims he can't have kids because he believes there is something wrong ... (198 words)

How can I ask my husband for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I feel too shy though I need sex. How can I ask my husband for sex? ... (18 words)

How do I get him to realize that sex can be fun, and exciting!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of 4 years is 13 years younger than me. He is totally committed to me, or appears to be, but he is very naive sexually and emotionally. He refuses to talk about anything to do with either subjects and is very much a 'lights out, under the duvet' man. I am not that ... (109 words)

Am I having feelings for my teacher because he looks like my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - To start with i'm 16. The thing is I have a student teacher in my math class and i'm guessing hes about 25 at the most. Anyway i broke up with my boyfriend at christmas and my teacher looks the spits of him, like he has the same hair and facial features they also have a similar ... (269 words)

I want to call her and get her back really bad, but I can not bring myself to doing so!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up about 7 months ago, We were frinds at the begining. And we said that we would get back together. (I was the one who iniciated the break up) After about 3 months she found someone else. I was very upset and after an emotional conversation we decided tha... (283 words)

Does he like her or not? How would his actions change if he found out she liked him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok just a question, i'll try and make i short. If a guy who was sorta shy and everything had feelings for one of his girl mates who he was on a course with, so he would see her a lot and he showed lots of signs of liking her and stared at her a lot. But then got asked just wha... (290 words)

How do I walk out with my dignity intact? I am not a slut!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf last night. He kept bothering me about my past. In my past I made out with two strangers (older than me) when I was drunk. I also had a friend with benefits. I remained a virgin though. So I got fed up and broke up with him Help, he thinks I'm a slu... (133 words)

I need your opinions on staying in my ex's flat for a weekend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay- I need advise. Might sound trivial but it would be good for me to hear other people's opinions. I was supposed to visit my old city this weekend for a Summerfest. Planned on staying with a friend who told me today he would be out till saturday evening/sunday morning. ... (327 words)

Has my boyfriend gone off me? And what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 2 months and lately he has been acting differently. We go to the same school but barely talk anymore, he would always spend his break and lunch with me now it's football i don't mind but we barely see each other outside of school ... (187 words)

I need ideas for hand-made gifts for an ill friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my friend is very ill. i want to make her something meaningful as a get well present or something. i'v already made her a hand made card in the past. and a tape. what other ideas could u giv me? any hand made gift ideas would be much appreciated. thanks.... (56 words)

Should I be patient with him?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - QUESTION: Should I be patient with him? I'm a 'single' 30 year old female (with 2 sons ages 8 and 9 - different fathers) and have dated men older than myself (e.g.45yrs) in the past. Been out of a relationship for 2 yrs...was not 'looking' for anyone until... 23 year... (273 words)

What is your opinion on a non-sexual relationship between a 14 and a 17 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - As a general question - what are people's opinions on a relationship between two teenagers with a three year age gap (not sexual)? e.g a 14 year old and a 17 year old? ... (38 words)

Do you get in the middle? Boyfriend's parents are cruel to him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 years- we get along very well and each of us has gotten "family approval," haha. One thing has been bugging me though- they treat him so poorly. He's the middle child- has a brother 5 years younger than him and another one ... (290 words)

I'm distraught, help is seriously needed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. 4 days ago my boyfriend of just over a year broke up with me over the phone, since then, he has deleted me from online (msn etc) and has bought a new phone, so i dont call him. after thinking about it, ive realised that i was completely selfish and insecure ... (260 words)

I really don't want to move on!! Any advice on how to meet with her just on a friendly basis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M) - Hi guys. I broke up with my ex seven months ago. My ex tells me that it was due to "circumstances" and "things changing". Whilst things did change (her going to uni) I know that she must've lost attraction for me too. I know that towards the end of our relationship I pu... (680 words)

My girlfriend can't have kids and wants me to leave her!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys its me again I'm a 20 yaer old in a long distance relationship with a 27 year old girl,today she foen out tha she won't be able to have kids and wants me to leabe her and move on,but I love her unconditionally no matter what I can't leave her because she won't be able ... (163 words)

How do I get over a miscarriage and an abortion? Therapy isn't helping!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - maybe a few people can help me once again!! i had an abortion about 7 months ago and i cant let it go a lot of people were very influencial and it happend so fast that i dident even have time to think about it i was still in shock my mom said keep it ( but she ... (267 words)

Should I feel insecure for my boyfriend going to meet an ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Would you feel insecure if your boyfriend went out to meet his ex girlfriend of 6 years with plausable reason? he says he had the intention of you going with him....he is still friends with her and all of his friends are her friends....what advice does anyone have for me?... (50 words)

I love someone else and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am already in a relationship from past 2 years. but i started loving someone else as my boyfriend did not have time for me and someone else entered my life.I am very happy with my new love and my boyfriend came to know about this.he is very hurt but he was also flirting with ... (74 words)

What shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I stared relationship four motnhs before.But I had a boyfriend who wait for me in other place.and the new boy friend of mine has a baby from another girl. but we both are in love and we are living today's happness. forgeting tomorrow. but these days I m not happy.beacuse he... (104 words)

Can you love more than one person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! can somebody loves more than more than one person? thank you for answering my question! Cathy... (20 words)

I like this guy who keeps asking me for sex and I don't trust him. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - thre is this guy that i met and he is 17 and i'm 15.he is really cute and i like him. we went out for 2 days and then i broke up with him cause he kept ansking me to hve sex with him and i do not feel like doing that right now and when i tell him that if he really wants to do ... (136 words)

Three's a crowd

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been 'shacking up' with my boyfriend for the past 6 months and for the most part things have been going well. Except one major thing. He loves to have his friends over, and it has gotten worse since they have all now recently graduated. One in particular who h... (349 words)

Should my fiance's fantasy become reality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age - I have a wonderful fiance and we've been together for 8 months. He is HOT in every way, personality, looks and lovemaking. Once I mentioned that I wonder what it would be like to be w/a woman, and now, several times he has mentioned that it would be so HOT to watch me with ... (126 words)

We split up for a month and are trying again. Problem is he slept with another girl during the split!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya, ive been with danny for over 2 years, we have had a real bad time but always comme through. the last couple of months we were arguing alot and then we split up for a month. last week we bumped into each other and on a good note decided to give it another go- putting the ... (129 words)

Help me get over him, he said that he wants to be single!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently got in a relationship with a boy, i am 18 he is 24. We started meeting for abot 8 weeks then he asked me out. We have been together for 4 days an now all of a sudden he wnats to be single, but i am in love with him, i feel depressed now that i no i wont b abe to ... (120 words)

I'm confused by this break up, all he said is he doesn't deserve me and that I can do better!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice please, i am a 27 yr old female and have just broken up with my boyfriend of 3 years a week ago. We were living together for 2 years. I happilly gave up my job and former life to make a life with him. I am at a job i enjoy, i passed my driving test, gave up ... (191 words)

I have never 'cum' before!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been participating in sexual activities for a couple of years, on and off. But I have never 'cum' before! I know not every girl cums, but I don't even get aroused. I am excited for about the first 30 seconds and then nothing. It's not painful, annoying, tingling, exciting, ... (88 words)

It's that time of year when the girls start exposing more flesh... Do they mind it when the boys start looking?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

- It's that time of year in the northern hemisphere when girls' tops get a bit more revealing and boys start looking a bit more. So, sticking to the topic of hemispheres, how do girls feel when boys check out their boobs? Is it fun? Is more than one glance too many? What goes ... (71 words)

I want to lose my virginity. I'm ready...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old teen who lives in London, I am actually from India and I am not used to talk to girls that much I am finding hard to talk to a girl, but I really want to have sex with a girl, I watch too much porn and ready for everything. I can't find a girl to have sex ... (64 words)

How can I get the attention of a lovely guy I see at my church?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may appear to be strange, but isn't it amazing the effect one can have on you when you hardly know them? There's this guy, he comes to my church, he knows my mum very well they get along, he's a family friend really, i hardly speak to him though, he's absoloutely... (190 words)

Spotted Dick. Has he got his just desserts for cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit and we always had a great sex life until he started a new job as a labourer. Since then we've had sex about 10 times in the last 7months!! He says he doesn't want to have sex because he keeps getting spots on his cock. I have... (219 words)

Might my son's father snatch him from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a 14 month old son by a turkish man and he wants me to take him to see him im being warned he might snatch him any views on this ... (32 words)

Does he like me more than a mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - heya peeps does this guy like me more than a friend should do? theres this guy i know and hes really shy but he speaks to me loads when i see him.His dad kept teasing him coz we spent an hour on the phone and he doesnt apparently spend that long on the phone to any... (141 words)

My friend loves him like crazy. I need to get sure he really loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i 'm a 19 year old lady in college and i love my repeater in section, and i'm sure he loves me too from his looks to me and his dealing with me, as i entered his heart at a time he was broken by another harsh female who left him depressed and sad, and i felt that thing and ... (192 words)

Should I just go full out and ask ex how she feels about me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay this is to do with my ex, we weren't together an incredibly long time, 5 months. We used to get on so well, same interests etc (music likes, tv shows, film genres), then she became confused about what she wanted. I was kinda expecting it by the way she had been acting ... (479 words)

Does this guy like me more than a mate??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - heya peeps does this guy like me more than a pal? theres this guy i know and hes really shy but he speaks to me loads when i see him.His dad kept teasing him coz we spent an hour on the phone and he doesnt apparently spend that long on the phone to anyone. We sometimes have t... (129 words)

Four guys dumped me and it looks like number five is heading the same way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help me friends! i have been in four relationships within two years. in all, i tend to be so faithful and the guys tend to take me for granted. they all left without a good reason. the last lied that his parents had made a wife provision for him. i left him in pain and started ... (159 words)

Am I being just another married man who wants to have his cake & eat it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age - I should start by saying that this is going to sound very stupid coming from a 57 year old man, but it is honestly causing me a great dilemma. Over the last 6 years we have spent many fantastic holidays in Phuket, staying in the same resort and hotel each time. On... (727 words)

She only sees me as a friend, how do I deal with that now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

10 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There was this girl I really liked for about 2 years or so. I could never get up the courage to tell her I liked her, so instead got her friend to call her and tell her. I waited for 2 days, then got a text message from her friend saying that she only saw me as a friend. I've ... (86 words)

Is it ever a good idea to get back in touch with an ex after a bad breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just opened a door that I'm not entirely sure I want to step through. To fully explain, it requires a bit of a back story, so... please bare with me. About a year ago, I dated a guy that I truly believed was "the one." We had so much in common, same goals, interests... (599 words)

Can someone give me some ideas on how to tell him I fancy him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody. So heres the deal, Im in love with a guy 15 years my senior...yes I know everyone thinks he's too old but I dont and im planning on waiting till Im 18 to make any kind of move, my dad and grandma already know how I feel about him and theyre fine with it. I know ... (180 words)

I need good advice on how to cope alone with 3 kids after my husband left me.

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 11years and now my husband left me for another woman. we have 3 children. we put in the divorce papers. I haven't worked for like 9 years. I have no income i have no job no one that can baby sit my kids for me to work he works with this girl he is now ... (294 words)

Torn between a jailbird husband and my more stable lover. I need advice!

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10 June 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid I am a hard working 50 years old young women, lol. I am searching for some good advice . I have been married 10 years, but has been in and out of prison the majority of those. When he did time I did time with him.All that I have been through with him I have sta... (248 words)

I feel I'm too young to be tied down to this fading relationship,but I'm worried he could talk me out of breaking up with him..

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear agony aunt, i am 18, and i have been in a relationship with a 21 year old guy for the past year and a half. he's a really nice guy, but we have issues and small fights on a regular basis. not over anything really serious, just trivial things. since he's older than me, ive ... (195 words)

My ex says he will marry me now but only if I let him have anal sex!

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex bf wants me back now that I have a new bf, he is a good guy and while we lived together I had everything, except marriage and kids, he wants to give that now, but wants me to have anal sex with him, he says if I do not do it he won`t be able to marry because he needs me. ... (115 words)

My boyfriend of 11 months is becoming a little controlling about me seeing my friends

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 11 months is becoming a little controlling; I can’t leave him because I really do love him. I’ve made some mistakes in the past involving 2 guys. (At different times). Ever since then he doesn’t trust me even talking to them anymore. Although those 2 guys have ... (116 words)

A little bit old for a long distance relationship. What should I do? Advice please!

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am little bit old to ask question about my long distance relationship with an American guy he lives in Michigan and I live here in Aberta I am Asian. We meet on line and he visited me after a month, he stayed in hotel and he visits me like a suitor and we get to know more ... (426 words)

How can I tell him who is girlfriend really is and how to make him realize she needs to go?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and approaching my senior year of college. This past year, I went through a bad break up and only got through it because of the support from friends. One friend in particular, my best friend, Mr. X. Mr. X saw me through everything. I even helped him throu... (198 words)

I cant tell if he likes me. what do I do?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have a neighbor... he knows i like him and when i ask him if he likes me he doesnt tell me... he just says idk. [i dont know] and like he flirts with me and hangs out with me all the time.. even my friends say that we would make a good couple.. but you see... like a ... (135 words)

Have you any advice as to how I approach finding a compatible long-term partner?

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I did not lose my virginity til I was 32 - less than a year ago. I am quite attractive, funny, intelligent and love women although they never seem to give me a chance. I have had short sexual relations with two women - both of whom I unashamedly used to get over the virginity ... (160 words)

Should I believe that there is someone else because of the way I feel neglected?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I really need some advice. I'm married just under a year with my husband. We have been together for 5 years. Like any relationships, we had our bumps but stuck through with each other. Recently, when he was away on business for 2 weeks and started to act differently.... (498 words)

One minute he's fine and the next its a whole different person,what am I doing wrong?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my boyfriend of one year and I recently split up for about a week then got back together.we live together so he disappeard for 5 days then came back. We were going fine for about a week then the fighting and him picking fights with me started again. Always putting me down. ... (153 words)

How to get a childhood friend to "like" you back?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 17 years old. There's this boy I've known since I was 8 years old, grew up next door to him, he was my first kiss and little "boyfriend". We go through periods of not talking just because he's older than me (19 right now) and we have different things going on in our ... (295 words)

I was horrible to a relative when I was young, how can I convince him I'm much nicer?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was very young i wasn't so nice to one of my family members because i was afraid of him. Since i'm older i am actually a kinder person. Now i've been really nice to him, but he is not being nice to me.I don't know why? He's been giving me evil looks and stares. When i ... (158 words)

He got upset when I told the truth about my past, not so much because of the lying, but because he hated the truth.

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10 June 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I have this problem where I just don't know how to react or cope when something is wrong and my boyfriend can tell. We've been together for almost 2 years, and we love each other deeply despite our obvious problems. He has issues regarding my past, which isn't wild at al... (530 words)

Spelling and kissing at the same time?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, okay so I was talking to some friends today, and they were saying that when they kiss a guy, they spell their name or word with their tongue, while kissing. i found it a bit strange. has anyone ever done that?... (42 words)

Help me pick a reading for my favorite cousins wedding please.

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was asked to do a reading for my cousins wedding. I want something less common, but not totally untraditional. We were raised Catholic, but her fiance was not, so religious is ok, but not necessary. She is moving away to a new country and I will miss her terribly. I want ... (87 words)

Is it his dancing with other girls that makes me jealous, or just the fact he lied about it?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - here goes, im dating a 26 yr old im 36, im not jealous well just a little. HE lives an hour away and some fridays we cant see each other cause of work. He likes to dance so he went dancing this friday to a spanish music club. I dont mind him going without me, however i dont ... (121 words)

It started out as a silly dare, but then I got hooked should I seek counselling?

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i think theres a problem. well, see it started out as a dare, but then i got hooked. ive never really had a girlfriend, well, ive had one, but it was only for three months so it doesnt really count. and my birthday is coming up soon, and i think its because of the way i am ... (342 words)

Where can a teenage girl who likes porn get it for free?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know that im gonna get alot of smart answers to this.. But im a 16 year old girl, and i'd like to try masturbating to porn.. are there any good free sites? apart from redtube?... (39 words)

We split three months ago I cant forget about her, what should I do?

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex-girlfriend for nearly a year and a half.. We lived together for 12 months, and were head over heels In Love.. we had a relationship that everyone envied and everyone enjoyed seeing.. just watching us two together would put a smile on peoples faces, we were just ... (722 words)

I never orgasm during sexual intercourse, but when I masturbate I do... why is that so?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a very sexually active 25 year old female. I have been having sex on and off for about 7 years. I have noticed that i NEVER orgasm with sexual intercourse, but when i masturbate manually with my own fingers inside, i can orgasm in less than 10 mins. Why is that so? SO ... (55 words)

Is his mom being selfish or am I?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - now i have a problem i come on this site to help other people and i seem to have found myself in a horrible situation ever since i started dating my current boyfriend we have been together for a year things have just been messed in my opinion i dont know if im being self... (315 words)

What should I do to get my relationship back to normal?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 15 months, I really love him, but it seems like lately we fight a lot and its mostly about sex, it is my fault though i don't really want to do it, not because im not attracted to him but becuase once we are doing it, i don't ... (145 words)

I am tired of him and want out of this relationship!!

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 and a half years. we get into arguments about three times a week. its not just a regular little argument he gets to throwning stuff around breaking my stuff to make me mad. punching wholes in the television throwning food out the ... (117 words)

How do we fix something that apparently isn't broken?

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - right, so my boyfriend has told me that he isn't sure if he loves me anymore. he says that i am the perfect boyfriend, and i have done nothing wrong, and that i do everything right. but still he says that there is a problem, but he says he doesn't know what it is. what the hell... (176 words)

I want to ask a girl out again, but I'm not sure how long I should wait!?!?

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hello, since me and my g/f broke up a few weeks ago, the other day me and another girl i met started talkin to each other. i asked her if she would let me take her out on a date one nite and she well no im really not lookin to go on dates rite now, she said its nothin at all ... (190 words)

I my love only worth 11 thousand euros?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi cupid, me and my husband just got married and he said he love me, he wanted to buy a house and lot for me, cost 11thousand euro" is that all he can give to me? is that all how much he love me? shall i not complain and accept what he can give, even thought i know he can give... (126 words)

His actions don't agree with his words... is he playing me? can he really be in love with me?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years , my boyfriend is 25 years old. we have been together for about 6 months. This is the longest relationship i have been in. in the first month and a half that we had been together i lost my virginity to him and then three months into the relationship i found out ... (182 words)

Should I put the baby my last name or his?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well im in love with this guy who lives in a different state and he loves me we started going back out yesterday and hes coming to see me in two weeks hes gonna get me pregnant so i can have his baby when he is in iraq but i dont know if i put his last name on the babys birth ... (67 words)

I've tried everything to get rid of the acne! Any useful advice?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so fed up of suffering with acne since my early teenage life....over the years I have tried so much-just about everything to get rid of it but nothing ever works! Firstly I am NOT stressed, I am a happy person and enjoy life. I do alot of meditation, yoga, pilates et... (445 words)

My friend is coughing up blood. What should I do?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this isnt relationship wise.....but my friend is coughing up blood and REFUSES to go to hospital. i have tried everything and been told it can be quite serious. what should i do ?... (37 words)

I feel hopeless right now, I want to split up but the dogs are keeping me with him!

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and living together for 6 years. We have 3 beautiful dogs together. He has made it clear recently that he does not want to get married or have children even though he knows I want children more than anything in the world. I ... (154 words)

How can I finalize a divorce without an attorney?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been desperately trying to get a divorce from my husband whom I haven't been with for 18 yrs now. At first I tried to have him served with the papers, but was unseccessful when he moved. He eventually had me served at my job. I thought that in 6mos. or so we would have ... (159 words)

Should we spend some time (maybe a month or two) apart in the next couple of years just to enjoy being single before we commit to living together?

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10 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years, and everything's great. We're thinking we want to start living together in a couple of years when we're done with school, and maybe get married in three or four (because we don't want to get married too young). My ... (124 words)

How do you loosen up?

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so im a very serious guy. very often i think and act too serious and shy to others espically in school. Im 17 by the way. People my whole life have been commenting on it friends, family teachers and such "your great fun here but really shy in school". there not insults ... (246 words)

How can I be her friend again?

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I wrote on here a little while ago but to re-cap the situation there is a girl that I've had a HUGE crush on for a really long time (about 8 years now) and recently she started to be friendly to me so like a fool I asked her to go to a dance with me, she said she was busy so ... (228 words)

My girlfriend snogged another guy and she doesn't know that I know!

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10 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of almost 16 months is just back from holiday and she snogged another guy while very drunk and she doesn't know i know. I found out thru reading one of her emails she sent to a friend where she stated she wouldnt tell me because she thinks i would split up with ... (486 words)