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writes:im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck? Reply to this Question
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 Duskyrowe, ok thats fine.It just seemed like in your first answer that you were saying men only like curvy women. But your right, everyone has their own ideal partner.xx
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Yes Lady of Sorrows, I agree some guys like skinny,blonde beautiful women. I wasnt being arrogant at all, the point I am putting across was that men ALSO go for women that are brunette,redheads,mousy coloured hair thin women curvy women fat women short women average height women tall women, women who are ugly, women who are average looking and beautiful women.
So you see my dear, everybody has their ideal partner.
Mine is tall, average build, fairly goodlooking, knows how to have a conversation, respects me, loves me for who I am and makes me laugh. BTW I used to be blonde and skinny in my younger days, now I am 40 brunette and weigh 135 pounds.
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows +, writes (20 June 2008):
To duskyrowe:
Some guys do find slim girls more attractive, as everyone has different tastes, and opinions.
Im guessing your brunette and curvy, So its very arrogant of you to say men only like curvy women, and that red heads and brunettes are the new blondes! I would expect that answer from someone my age, definately not a mature adult.
Anyway, Just keep going out, meeting new people. Your young, and will meet someone in time.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 What is a great guy to you?
Pretend to be a fisher, if you want to catch a certain type of fish you would need to learn about that type of fish. Is it a fresh-water fish does it only life in the ocean. Is it active at night or during the day. What depth does it swim?
Same with guys. What are the habits of "the great guy", where does he feed, what rivers does he mate in, what lure is best to hook him, drag him on land and smash his brains in with a ring... mmm getting my metaphors a bit mixed up here.
Just standing around looking pretty might not be the right method to catch whatever you define as a great guy.
Also remember that while you are busy reeling in a "not so great guy" the "great guy" might be spooked and swim away to another lure further down stream (okay I will stop now).
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (19 June 2008):
1. Not all men are attracted to blonde women, red heads and brunettes are the new blonde
2. Men find curvy women are more attractive than their skinny counterparts and want something they can cuddle up to.
3. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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reader, Sophia_Sweetheart +, writes (19 June 2008):
 It's not always about looks, personality (as pointed out) is a big factor and if you don't seem like an interesting person, then a lot of men wouldn't take a second glace sweetie. Maybe you're looking in the wrong place? Go more places, meet more people, start more conversations. This way, people will get to know YOU and not just judge from what they see on the outside.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 You sound like a woman that would attract every man. All right, some would say they don't like blondes, just to play "better" than the rest. Your being pretty, however, is no guarantee that you will attract good men. You will attract everybody, dear. You need to be smart and a little picky, and go only for the guys who have something for you. Don't worry, you're young and pretty, and you have all of your life ahead of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): hiya
its not all about loooks!
i have a male mates
and when they go out with girls-i know what type theyre going for.
yes obviously looks does play a role in it-but after that one obvious point-personality has to come into play.
guys love girls who have intrests and hobbies of their own.
guys love independant head strong women
girls who can uphold a conversation
girls who are girly but can act abit boyish (e.g show intrest in sports or gadgets, or at least pretend you do lol),
personality is a majorrrrrr factor
but youre still young and beautiful like you have said-
go out there and take up some courses-intrests-hobbies
stop looking for mr right-mr right will come to you when you least expect it!
love and god bless
friend x
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reader, lexilou +, writes (19 June 2008):
 We rarely find love when we look and also guys are sometimes intimidated by young attractive girls. When I left my first hubbie everyone said I wouldnt be on the shelf long, i wasnt that young (32) but looked around 25 mostly cos I was so skinny, with long blonde hair and not too unattractive but I was on my own for ages!!!! When I gained weight from skinny to still slim but curves in the right places I had a lot more offers. Maybe some guys are a little scared of rejection or feel girls are out of their league.
Dress down a little and dont act like you know youre young skinny blonde and beautiful and find new places to hang out and meet new guys x
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reader, dormatron +, writes (19 June 2008):
Not all men are attracted to skinny blondes, first off.
Men also look for women with good personality too, not just good looks. I'm not saying you don't have a good personality but I am pointing out that men aren't as shallow as you may think they are.
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reader, BloodlustBakura +, writes (18 June 2008):
Well you never mentioned what your personality is like, believe it or not guys like girls with a great personality
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): Alot of the time people look for good people in the wrong places, where have you met some of the guys? other times you need to wait for the best person, to be in love with someone you need to find someone who will make you feel the greatest about yourself. I have alot of insight into this, i could talk forever about it, if you want to be more specific i think i could really help you out.
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