I cant get over the fact I'm not going to be her first kiss!
Q. I've never been kissed. My girlfriend has. We met in person, now long distance, it has been almost a year. She was kissed years ago, and it still makes her feel used to me. It hurts so bad, and I am so depressed. I've waited my whole life for h...
A. 18 August 2011: What the hell does "My whole family is vomit inducingly slutty, and some of my friends are too." mean? Is English a second language for you? Are you using some kind of speak and type application?... (read in full...)
In love with guy who doesn't like me, or even respect me. What can I do?
Q. The guy I like was telling me and another girl who likes him about a girl that he really likes and she likes him back and they have history together or something because they were together for 3 days lol but she is proper stunning and I am seriously ...
A. 17 August 2011: Whoa, whatever you do, do not tell him how you feel about him. Instead put him on the back burner and start working on you. Your self-esteem is in the toilet, sweetheart. I'm sure you are being way too hard on yourself. Google "self-esteem", there ... (read in full...)
I'm prepared to face the consequences of dating a married man, so how do I approach him?
Q. It’s been two years now that I feel attracted to a man at my workplace. The problem is that he’s married. Yeah, I already know what you’ll tell me: Stay away from him. I’ve done so for the past two years but I still feel the same attraction. I know ...
A. 17 August 2011: I'm glad you didn't "succomb to(your)my desires" and succombed to your common sense instead.... (read in full...)
I cant get over the fact I'm not going to be her first kiss!
Q. I've never been kissed. My girlfriend has. We met in person, now long distance, it has been almost a year. She was kissed years ago, and it still makes her feel used to me. It hurts so bad, and I am so depressed. I've waited my whole life for h...
A. 17 August 2011: Like k-c said...More Info is needed. You cry every night over this??? Wow... (read in full...)
They have children, I'm still at College. Are my friends jealous of me or are we growing apart?
Q. I've known my best friends since high school and we have always been there for each other, through thick and thin. Even in high school my friends would act funny towards me, sometimes. I am the skinnest out of my friends and unlike them, I have alwa...
A. 17 August 2011: You are growing apart because your interests have changed. But it really doesn't sound like they were all that great of friends to begin with, I mean trying to make you look dumb or leaving you out, real friends don't do stuff like that to each ... (read in full...)
She asked me out for coffee, but is she wanting sex?
Q. Can everyone tell me why a MARRIED woman has just asked me out for coffee??? I am married, too. Is she looking to start an affair with me or could she just like me as a friend only? Is there something wrong with two married people going out for ...
A. 17 August 2011: I like the idea that you bring your wife with you if you decide to go.... (read in full...)
My wife thinks she's a failure and "broken" and "invalid" because she can't have children
Q. My wife and I have been together since we were 20, married since we were 23 and trying for a baby since we were 24. We're now 29 and recently (two months ago) found out that she is infertile. When we got the news, we were both devastated but my wife ...
A. 17 August 2011: Any goofball can get knocked up or knock someone up, but it takes true character to be a wonderful Mom or Dad. Adopt a child.... (read in full...)
What do girls think of guys who offer to buy them drinks?
Q. Ok this isnt really a relationship question but it is related to boy-girl stuff. A friend of mine told me the other night that he has never bought a girl a drink--he says that its basically like prostitution, paying a girl to like you. This struck ...
A. 17 August 2011: I think it's just the polite thing to do or at least offer.... (read in full...)
He spent more money on his ex than he does with me, did he love her more?
Q. did my partner spend more money on his ex because he loved her more? He was with her for a short time but furnished her house and paid her rent, got her a car and paid for her boob job. With me, he is not like that. ...
A. 17 August 2011: I think he must of learned his lesson that's all.... (read in full...)
Do you think my Mom doesn't like my friends?
Q. Do you think my mom doesn't like my friends? I just get this feelin that she doesn't like them. She'll say something out of nowhere about them, for example: Me and my friends were trying to make plans and i asked my mom if she could drive. She said ...
A. 15 August 2011: Well ask her why she doesn't like someone and see what she says.... (read in full...)
I'm 33. Should I be worked up about being single with no children and never married?
Q. Being a 33 year old single male I had the get married bug hit me hard like a baseball bat. I went through 4 relationships in 3 years. Always the same problem. I didn't pay too much attention to her issues which is what usually was the problem. So ...
A. 15 August 2011: I have no idea why you worked yourself up. Just think of it this way: you could have rushed into a marriage, had a couple of kids and ended up divorced with child support payments...at the age of 33. ... (read in full...)
Are people who look at porn more likely to cheat?
Q. Hey, I'm interested to know-do you think people who look at porn are more likely to actually cheat on their partner? I'm asking because I know my bf of 1 yr watches porn videos online every 3-4 days. It used to get me down, but so many people have ...
A. 14 August 2011: "yawn"... (read in full...)
Do you think my Mom doesn't like my friends?
Q. Do you think my mom doesn't like my friends? I just get this feelin that she doesn't like them. She'll say something out of nowhere about them, for example: Me and my friends were trying to make plans and i asked my mom if she could drive. She said ...
A. 14 August 2011: Listen to your mom she always knows best.... (read in full...)
He only had one large testicle. Should I be worried?
Q. Hello my lovely agony aunts and uncles.. So I recently visited an old friend and we hooked up, the strange thing was that he only had one testicle (and it was very large). Before visiting him I had not seen him for over a year, and before this time...
A. 14 August 2011: My brother-in-law was born with one testicle and my sister had three children and my brother-in-law had to have vasectomy when they decided three was enough.... (read in full...)
Why do people cheat? why be unfaithful? what's the payoff to be the "other woman"?
Q. I have a question for all the unfaithful and the homewreckers. Why did you cheat!?!? Or help someone cheat!?!? I see so many questions about cheating..and they're the cheaters!! Doesn't anyone know cheating is wrong? And the only acceptab...
A. 14 August 2011: People in Hell would a drink of water.... (read in full...)
Shouldn't I be able to get pregnant? I have a period every month
Q. I have my periods every month. My fiance and i are trying for a baby, but i don't fall preg. I'm starting to think that maybe i have a problem coz he has a child from previous relationship. Doesn't having your periods regularly guarantees that you ...
A. 14 August 2011: Why don't you wait until your fiance becomes your husband? No offense, but why put the cart before the horse?... (read in full...)
I told my friend she should end her affair...but she cant seem to make a start!
Q. ** For a Friend ** I have a friend who has been divorced for 5 years and is single. A year and a half back, she fell in love with a married man. She started to have an affair only after he was able to convince that his marriage was already brok...
A. 10 August 2011: Yeah it looks like this arrangement is working for every body but your friend that is. If she stupid enough to allow herself to be the other woman, sloppy seconds, then there really nothing to be done. And as Red said, It really isn't any of your ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship, but still wants to see me and have sex. Am I wasting my time with his guy?
Q. Any advice would be much appreciate. I am a single mum of one. I've been seeing a guy nearly a year now, in the begining everything was fine between us, had an amazing time and connected very well - physically and mentally. He lives a 1 hour f...
A. 10 August 2011: Good for you, in the long run you'll be very pleased you dumped him. Good luck Sister.... (read in full...)
Despite his toxic actions? Why does he hate me after I ended our friendship ? Or does he want to be friends? Despite his toxic actions?
Q. I could use some advice please. About 7 months ago i fell out with all my friends (except one) one boy in particular I'll call him X. Out of all my friends X was the hardest to drop because he did have a really good sense of humour. he was very ...
A. 10 August 2011: Well since you don't want to be friends with the guy anyway, all this wondering about his motivation is just a waste of time. Enjoy your memories, ignore him and his rude behavior, and move on.... (read in full...)
He wouldn't give me his phone number when I asked for it. Is he not interested in me?
Q. so I've been going to this bar for 2 months now and I've made really good friends with pretty much every single guy that works there. the bartender might have a small crush on me but I'm interested in one of the security guards. we joke around a lot ...
A. 10 August 2011: Okay, I've the DC Manual out with pen poised..."snowball"?... (read in full...)
Husband has been impotent for 5 years with no reason!
Q. Would you believe in your husband if he would say, he does not know, why he has no sexual desire, and why he can't get up for 5 years? We have been married for 25 years, and had great sex. But sex suddenly stopped 5 years ago. He is impotent, ...
A. 9 August 2011: Go to another doctor. Make sure they test his testoserone level and, no matter what that outcome is, still get a prescription for Viagra or Cialis.... (read in full...)
Very much in Love but cannot leave the family
Q. Hi I am married with an 8 years old. I ma very much in love with another woman, she is my sweetheart from 25 years ago. She lives in ITaly and has a doughter of 8 years old. We met again and fell in love again... I left 25 years ago to come to E...
A. 9 August 2011: Oh that's nice, sting your wife along for 10 more years then dump her when she's moving into her elderly years. So thoughtful of you. ... (read in full...)
How can I feel homesick about my parents home when everyone there treated me badly?
Q. I'm in my late twenties and I was well overdue to leave home. I lived in the top half of my parents place. I paid my rent, cooked my food, did most of the household chores for everyone. I was living at home till my partner and I felt ready to ...
A. 9 August 2011: This is a very sad posting. I feel so sorry for you and your horrible family life. As much as they tormented you, they were all the family you knew and so of course you miss them. Your homesickness will lessen in time. Perhaps also with time they ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to let my boyfriend touch my boobs?
Q. 16 yrs of age. My bf and I are dating for almost 2 yrs. We are in a long distance relationship. We opened a topic via texting about anything no malice no green mindedness,we talked about our pleasures. We're both virgins, and he ended up with a ...
A. 9 August 2011: If this is a LDR he must have really, really long arms!... (read in full...)
Mama's boy won't commit. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I started off casual 3 1/2 years ago. 6 months after he dropped a bomb and told me he had a gf overseas in his home country. Initially I was shocked but we continued to see one another. Another 6 months went by we were both hooked, ...
A. 9 August 2011: Sorry but I have to advise you get a new boyfriend, this one sounds like a pain in the ass. Once a momma's boy, always a momma's boy.... (read in full...)
I can't end my affair........
Q. My story is a long one. I have been having an affair with a man for almost two years. Its the usual story. When the affair began,I was married. I left my husband, which was difficult, but I left not for the other man because the marriage was ...
A. 9 August 2011: Of course you can't trust him, he's a cheater but then so are you. His girlfriend has moved in with him and they are now a family (she has a son)and trust me, they are enjoying a sexual relationship as well. You are his bit on the side and nothing ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him it's over now? Or explain it to him in person when he returns?
Q. i have 4 kids from the same man. And i fell in love with him fast, we were happy for a long time, but i'm not feeling that same love towards him anymore Sure i love him because he gave me 4 kids but, catch myself talking, looking and wanting to do mo...
A. 8 August 2011: What's he in the slammer for?... (read in full...)
I want to leave him but so much is at stake!
Q. Hi everyone just want some advice. I've been with this guy for 3yrs now. We live together but there is alot of problems. I have notice that he doesn't treat me as nice as he treats others around him. He is always grumpy with me. Never smiles or says ...
A. 8 August 2011: I agree, what's at stake? Well certainly your happiness IF YOU STAY. Looks to me that it's time to move out and up.... (read in full...)
Is there anything that could justify what he did to me? Or should I leave after his Domestic Abuse?
Q. I have a question..my boyfriend and I got in a heated arguement and I threatened to kick him out. He got irate and pulled me out of my chair and threw me on the floor. I have threatened this before and he got upset before but then we made up and ...
A. 8 August 2011: If he received no negative repercussions for throwing you on the floor, he'll do it again. Your call.... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels in love with my Best Friend's Brother.
Q. I've liked my best friend's brother is 3 years older than me and I've been madly in love with him for 4 years. During these 4 years I've been trying to convince myself that I'm too young to be in love, theres no way he'd ever like me, there are ...
A. 8 August 2011: I'd keep my feelings to myself. I think you'll just embarrass both of you, or maybe worse, if you speak up . If he was interested in you romantically I think he would have shown it by now. He's off to college and will be very busy, and that's ... (read in full...)
Why would a guy ask if she's a good kisser?
Q. Hey there. Why would a guy ask a girl if sht thinks she's a good kisser??...
A. 8 August 2011: Maybe he's lazy? Most guys would try to find out the hard way.... (read in full...)
Headaches and mood changes - do I have a reason to worry?
Q. I'm a 19 years old girl and I feel a bit strange in the last time. The main thing is my head. I have headaches almost every morning after I wake up. My head hurts in different places - sometimes somewhere in forehead, sometimes in one or other side ...
A. 8 August 2011: First thing to do is to get checked out by your doctor. Tell him/her what you just told us.... (read in full...)
My ex won't respond to my calls or meet up with me. I need to tell him... I'm pregnant
Q. I have a crazy situation. If you read my back questions. I met a guy and we were crazy for each other. Spent all I time together and everything. I am still in love with him. One day he decided he needed some alone time. So he asked me said he wasn't ...
A. 8 August 2011: Were involved with him before his marriage ended?... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my step brother. Might he feel the same?
Q. I am 14 and like my stepbrother who is 16. I've known him for a year and has begun to have feelings for him now. I do not live together with him but on holidays I go to my dad and I live in the same apartment as he. I also have a big sister who is ...
A. 8 August 2011: Sounds like he likes you as a brother and you should just leave it at that.... (read in full...)
I don't understand his text message
Q. I received this text off a guy. But this was part of the text. It said "I feel bad coz I enjoyed the flirting with you and that's why I haven't been talking to you..." What did he mean??...
A. 8 August 2011: Probably has a girlfriend.... (read in full...)
I want to bed my boyfriend's friend! What should I do?
Q. i love my boyfriend soooo much i have been with him for 6yrs. And he is the sweetest guy u will ever meet he does everything for i mean everything. But his friend is sooooo hotttttt i wanna have sex with him. what do i do?...
A. 8 August 2011: Time to switch boyfriends I guess. At your age it happens all the time and it's a good thing.... (read in full...)
Are girls jealous that I hook up with guys that they can't get with?
Q. im single and when i get drunk i like to have fun every now and then ive hooked up with a few guys that i know and like from school. are these girls jealous of me for hooking up with a few guys from school that they couldnt get with?...
A. 8 August 2011: By "hook up" do you mean you have sex with these guys?... (read in full...)
Husband's old female friend is now my FRENEMY
Q. Husband's old female friend now my frenemy. How do I distance her without distancing my husband? We are attending a function next week where I will have to be in her presence. I would like to broadcast her misdeeds to everyone, however that can ...
A. 5 August 2011: I'm using my lame laptop and I can't type anyway so let's try this again.
Whoa...you are putting yourself in a bad light here. You sound like a jealous shrew. When you attend this function be on your very best manners and show how classy you can ... (read in full...)
Husband's old female friend is now my FRENEMY
Q. Husband's old female friend now my frenemy. How do I distance her without distancing my husband? We are attending a function next week where I will have to be in her presence. I would like to broadcast her misdeeds to everyone, however that can ...
A. 5 August 2011: Whoa...you are putting yourself in a bad light here. You sound like a jealous shrew. When you attend this function be on your very best manners and show how much classy you can be. If people see how jealous you are...she wins you lose.
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My wife dresses like a teen and wants me to fantasize about teens!
Q. my wife dresses as a teen girl during sex and wants me to fantasize about teen girls is this normal as it doesnt feel right ?? ...
A. 5 August 2011: Do you mean she likes to dress like a school girl? If you don't like it tell her you need her to wear another costume. Besides that issue,how the heck can she tell what you are fantasizing about anyway? ... (read in full...)
I want to draw a nude woman (not for sexual reasons), but I'm afraid to ask
Q. I am an 18 year old art student, and far from sad or weird. What I have always wanted to do is draw an undressed girl live, preferably someone I know, but have never had chance to do it. I want to ask someone, but am afraid of sounding creepy. Would ...
A. 4 August 2011: If it's nothing sexual why do you prefer it to be someone you know?... (read in full...)
Can't stop having sex with this ugly girl. HELP!!!
Q. Right now I am currently married. The relationship has fizzled out the last few years. For the past 2 and a half years I have been having sex with this girl Jamie. Shes my age and has a daughter. The problem is that she is got a nice body but she is ...
A. 4 August 2011: Three Billy Goats Gruff ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship, but still wants to see me and have sex. Am I wasting my time with his guy?
Q. Any advice would be much appreciate. I am a single mum of one. I've been seeing a guy nearly a year now, in the begining everything was fine between us, had an amazing time and connected very well - physically and mentally. He lives a 1 hour f...
A. 4 August 2011: Cut ties, he's just using for sex. You can do much better.... (read in full...)
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