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reader, bunnyblueeyes  +, writes (5 August 2011):
 Fantasy is a fun and fulfilling way to enjoy sex. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. But if you srent comfortable then speak to your wife.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 August 2011):
 Do you mean she likes to dress like a school girl? If you don't like it tell her you need her to wear another costume. Besides that issue,how the heck can she tell what you are fantasizing about anyway?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2011): If it doesn't feel right then don't do it. You don't mention how long she has been doing this during sex. Is it a new development? It might be something she has seen in pornography and she finds it sexually stimulating. Or maybe she was abused as a teenager and she is 'acting out'. You need to talk to her and tell her you feel uncomfortable with her request. If you are not sexually interested in teenage kids, give yourself a Brownie Point! And explain to your wife that her dressing up as one, is not something you are comfortable with. As for telling you what you must fantasize about. That is rather unreasonable of her in my opinion. You need to have a good talk to her and find out whats going on there!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2011): do not do this if you are not comfortable with it
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (5 August 2011):
 Then tell her it doesn't feel right to you. It shouldn't feel right anyways, so tell her that. Don't fantasize about something you're not comfortable fantasizing about. Fantasize about something that suits you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2011): If it makes you feel uncomfortable you need to tell her that. It might be one of her fantasies... maybe like the first time she has sex. But you both need to enjoy it to make it work.
Just explain that you are attracted to her, not a teenager, and that you find it much more of a turn on when she's herself. She is all you want
Good luck!
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